Archives for March 2013

Who do you let into your life?

Who do you let into your space?  Not just your home or physical space, but into your emotional, energetic space?  Do they prop you up, or do they drain you?

If you want to be successful in any aspect of your life, you need to surround yourself with your fans.  This doesn’t mean that everyone in your circle of family or friends needs to worship the ground you walk on, or even agree with everything that you do.

What it does mean is that you need to remove people from your life that are constantly bringing you down.  When you are surrounded by people that say “You can’t do that”, or “You are doing that wrong”, or “what a stupid idea”, or “You need to do this instead of that”; it can suck the inspiration right out of you.

To be successful in anything, you need to have a cheering section, not a jeering section.  Every time someone says something negative about your ideas, or your inspirations, it puts a little thought in your head that maybe you can’t do it, or maybe your idea wasn’t as good as you thought it was.

You need to stop letting people like this into your life.  Take a close look.  If there are people in your life that you simply cannot avoid, (more your perception than fact) that are not helping to make you feel good about you, at the very least, please use a bit of energy work to block their energy.  Best case scenario though is to avoid them altogether.

Are We Meant to Be?

This is probably one of the most common questions I get.  You meet someone and feel a really huge connection.  It’s as if you have known them your whole life.  It feels so comfortable to be around them, you talk for hours, being in their presence feels like ‘coming home’.  There is a sexual attraction too.  You just love the way they look, how you feel when you are around them.  You really think that they are ‘the one’.

Then a short time later, usually it is only weeks or maybe about 3 months max., all of a sudden this person, the person you thought was your Soul Mate, that you felt so comfortable around, starts to change.  They start to take off and pull back from you.  Your relationship may be off and on for quite some time.

They start to accuse you of being controlling.  When you ask them “What happened, I thought you loved me?”  The response you get is usually similar to “Well, this is the real me, get used to it”.

What happened here?  Why can I not let this person go?  I feel as if I am obsessed with them, I cannot stop thinking about them.  I have never felt like this before.

If you find yourself in this situation, there is an explanation.  And here it is:

As Souls we live in many dimensions.  In our lifetime we come across many people (Souls) that we knew before.  Whether in a past life, or just from our existence in another dimension.  Chances are, if you are reading this, you are aware of “the other side”, and know that there is more to our existence here than just this 3D reality.

You are remembering a connection with this person from another dimension.  It does not exist for them in this dimension.  They initially feel the same connection of ‘coming home’ that you felt, but that is not what they are wanting or able to experience in this moment.

On a Soul level, you may have agreed to meet up on Earth at this time so that you could remind him/her of something that he/she does not want to remember right now.  You hold a space for them to remember, and be who you know they are on a Soul Level, but that is not what they are wanting at this point of their journey.

They are vibrating on a completely different frequency than you are.  This is their choice.  You cannot chose it for them.  They are a Soul having a human experience and they are chosing a different experience than you are.  You see their potential, but they don’t.

Just as you have had opportunities for spiritual growth in your life that you were not ready for, they are not ready for the growth and the space that you are offering.

This does not mean that you have failed, or that they have failed, it just means that at this point, in this dimension, you are in different places.  It is important to realize that just because you are connected to someone in a different dimension, it does not mean that you “MUST” be together in this one.

Once you realize what you truly are to each other it can be easier to let go.  You stop questioning what you did wrong.  You stop asking what you can do to make things better.  There is nothing you can do about anyone else’s path or choices.

On a soul level it may feel as if they are breaking a contract with you that you made a long time ago.  It is their path and their journey and their lessons that they are living and learning in their own way, at their own pace, and you cannot do it for them.

You need to release the need to ‘show them who they are’ on a soul level, and move on so that you can attract someone into your life that is vibrating at the same level as you are and that you can grow with more comfortably.

I’m hoping that this explanation will help bring you peace and enable you to release these energy cords more quickly and less painfully.  You do not need to try to keep up your end of the ‘contract’, when they are not able to live up to theirs.

I have had relationships in my life like this too.  I know it can be hard to let them go when you know how beautiful and loving their true soul is.  However, I also know how liberating it can be to realize that they are not where I am, and if we are meant to meet again on the other side we will.  All you can do for anyone is offer them love, and then let them be.  You cannot force love (and light), onto someone who is not ready for it.



Are You Allowing Yourself to Receive?

Why is it so hard for you to receive or accept what is offered?  The Universe is extremely abundant.  There is so much available to you.  Love, money, food, housing, friends, health, the list is endless.  You all have something that you want more of in your life.  Don’t you think its time to actually let it in?

Yes, often when something is offered there needs to be an exchange of energy.  There are many forms of energy.  Emotions are a form of energy, work you might do for someone is a form of energy, money is a form of energy.  I personally exchange my gifts and my knowledge for money.  I prefer it this way, when I do this, I have more freedom to exchange my money for the gifts and knowledge that I wish to receive from someone else.  Sometimes gifts and knowledge can be exchanged for the gifts and knowledge of someone else directly or exchanged for services.

Love and gratitude are also energy.  Sometimes we might do something for someone and the only energy exchanged is love.  Each situation and each person is unique in this regard.  We all have a currency, and our currencies change day-to-day, circumstance to circumstance, moment to moment.

The remainder of this post, is about money and financial abundance.

First off, if you want more money, you need to ask for it.  So many people think that they should not charge for what they do.  I am not saying to never do something just out of the goodness of your heart, but “Ask and ye shall receive”.  No asking, no receiving.

Another point.  Make sure that you are not ONLY placing value on that which you pay for.  I myself, do have somewhat of a belief that “You get what you pay for”, and will often pay more for what I deem to be ‘quality’ rather than cheap out on something.

HOWEVER, I also work with the Law of Attraction, and I often ask for things that I want in my life.  If I ask for something and someone comes along and gives it to me, (even for free), I have NO PROBLEM whatsoever in receiving it with gratitude.

What I am getting at with this post is that sometimes things will just come to you, out of the blue, with no strings, simply because you asked.  You need to get out of your head, stop thinking “Can’t get something for nothing” and let yourself take it!!!

I know it’s a foreign concept for most people because we have been programmed in a very convoluted way, but you CAN get something for nothing.  A lot of the time.  If you get your vibration to a certain point, and start allowing yourself to hold a higher vibration, stuff will be attracted to you like dog hair on black jeans.

If someone offers you something that you want, or would like to try out, take it.  If they later ask for something in return (a further commitment from you to purchase something perhaps), make a conscious decision if you want or like or need what they are offering, and be okay with what you decide.  If you decide that what they are offering is not for you, that’s fine. Say so!  It’s not a big deal.  So you got something for free.  Be happy.  Don’t beat yourself up and think that you have any obligations to anyone.  You don’t.

If you decide that you want what they are offering, then buy it.  Pretty simple.

We have been programmed with such a lack mentality over the years we no longer even receive things without feeling guilty.  It’s like we have this bizarre notion that if we receive abundance then someone else will be going without something.  Oh, if I am rich then my neighbour will be poor.  Are you kidding me?!?

Right now you are both lacking!  What is you attracting abundance going to do to your neighbour?  Absolutely nothing.  Unless of course your neighbour asks how you are doing so well.  In which case you can teach him what you know and then you will BOTH have more abundance in your life.  You teaching him about abundance will no more make you poor, than you being rich will make him poor.

When we are empowered in ourselves, we actually feel good for other people when they are doing well.  At this point in my life, I genuinely care about you and I get really authentically happy when people around me (or even people I see), are happy.  I LOVE IT!

That is why I love my job so much.  I get huge amounts of happiness from seeing you do well!  There will actually be people who read this and think that I am being selfish.  “You are making people happier, helping them have more fulfilling lives, teaching them and helping them to have or be or do whatever they want and you are getting enjoyment from it!”  How dare you love your job!  How dare you charge money for this (reminder yet again, I have to eat, have a family and a mortgage, hello), how dare you be living your dream life while I suffer.  All I have to say to that is.  ALLOW THE ABUNDANCE TO COME, be truly happy for all you have and be truly happy for those people you see who have what you want.  YOu will create such a big ball of high vibrating positive energy it will have a gravitational pull stronger than the one of the earth, and you will pull and attract everything into your life that you could possibly imagine.

If you would like me to teach you more (yes, for a financial exchange of energy), you can see more on this page of my website.  Psychic Mentoring/Coaching

Who Are You?

How do you define yourself?  What is it that makes you you?  Do you even know anymore?  Is your definition of yourself based on what the people around you tell you?  Or based on your health?  Your financial circumstances?  Where you live?  The work you do?

Who are you?  Really.  Think about it.  When you say to yourself “I am”, what follows those words?

Do you say, “I am a mom”,  “I am an executive”,  “I am a healer”, “I am sick”,  “I am struggling”, “I am a construction worker”, “I am busy”.

What are you?  Who are you?

Society tells us that without some clear-cut definition of ourself, a definition that must contain some third dimensional words, we have no purpose.  We are bombarded with messages that tell us we need to be busy.  I can’t even count how many TV commercials, shows, or Newscasts that I see that contain messages that we are busy all the time (think “Programming”).

When we see these messages, we think to ourselves that if we are not busy, or if we allow ourselves to just “be” or have some down-time, then there must be something wrong with us.  Maybe we aren’t working hard enough.  What is wrong with me that I am not all frazzled like everyone else, maybe I need to be doing more.  What can I add to my life that will make me more like everyone else?

What about the “programming” that tells us we are stressed, overworked, broke, stuck in a career and not really getting ahead?  We are told constantly that that is “how we (and things) are these days”.  The messages, and programs that we get bombarded with are there to keep us struggling.  We are told we have no power, no control, no peace, no calm.

Without some awareness that we are being “PROGRAMMED” it is really easy to fall into the trap of feeling completely dis-empowered and out of control of our lives.  We are not at the mercy of all these external circumstances.  WE ARE NOT!

We are only at the mercy of our thoughts, feelings, and vibrations.  What we think about is what we create in our lives.  Everything is energy.  Your thoughts and feelings are energy that cause you to vibrate at a certain level.  You can change your vibration by changing your thoughts.

There are many men and women out there that have no self-worth whatsoever unless they are ‘busy’.  They keep adding more and more and more to their plate in the hopes that someone, anyone, will recognize that they are worthy.  Please, tell me I am appreciated, please tell me that I am doing something right, please acknowledge that I am a someone, that the world would not be the same without me.

The problem with that is that your self-worth cannot ever come from someone else.  It needs to come from within.  No amount of doing, or busy-ness, or running around will get you what you want.  Chances are, the people around you are doing the same thing.  Do you even have time to acknowledge their contribution.  Most of the time, probably not.  Most people are too self-absorbed in playing this game of “busy-ness” to even notice others, never mind acknowledge their contribution.

It is a vicious circle.  The best way to get the recognition you deserve is from yourself.  Take a really good look at yourself and what you do.  Thank yourself for your contribution.  Do not resent the fact that you are busy and no one appreciates you.  Do what makes you feel good, and appreciate yourself.

There are some things that we must do.  Care for our children for example.  Do you care for your children in the hope that you will get some recognition for it, or do you care for your children out of a space of loving them and loving what you do for and with them? (If you do not have children, this could also be your job, your home, your relationships).

You need to treat ALL parts of your life like that.  Do what you enjoy and what fills your heart with love.  When your heart is full of love, recognition does not matter as much.  You end up recognizing yourself as a loving being, and worrying less when those around you are not loving.  You will be able to observe the fact that they are not loving ~ whether they are not loving themselves, or maybe not loving you or other people ~ but it won’t matter so much to you.  You will be operating your life from a place of love rather than judgement ~ of yourself or of them.

Even if you hate your job, there must be something that it is giving you.  If it wasn’t giving you anything at all there would be no point in doing it.  Love what it is giving you.  Even if it is just enough money, or not enough money.  Love and appreciate it for what it is.  The more love you have for anything in your life, the more love your life will give you.  Love will open doors and create more opportunities for you.

There are many people out there that have burned themselves out by trying to be what other people (or society) expect them to be.  If this goes on long enough it blocks the flow of energy and creates health problems in our bodies.  How this manifests is partly dependent on your belief systems and what part of yourself you are denying.  Sometimes the only way we think we can take a moment for ourselves is if we are sick.

This is not a conscious decision.  It’s not like “geeze, I need a rest, I think I’ll make myself sick so my family has to take care of me”.  It is a subconscious decision (yes decision).  “I have done enough, I give and I give and I give and no one appreciates me, I always give more than I get,  I resent the fact that I have to do so much for so little in return!”

After a time, months, perhaps years, finally…BAM!  You just can’t take it anymore!  Your body comes up with fibromyalga, or chronic fatigue syndrome, or cancer, or some other illness that STOPS you in your tracks.  As much as the illness is upsetting to you, it is in and around your body because that is where you were vibrating.  You were resentful, or busy, or under appreciated, or trying to fit into someone elses perception of you, and your Soul just can’t take it anymore.

This is not meant to BLAME you for your illness.  I have been sick myself.  My doctor told me “Sounds like CFS (chronic fatigue syndrome) to me”.  He also said “I won’t give you a prescription for painkillers because I know you don’t like to take them”.

My naturopath said “Well, I won’t tell you you have fibromyalga because you do not belive that it is a proper diagnosis, but doing these things (she gave me a list of things, that people do when they have been diagnosed with fibromyalga) might work for you”.

A lot of people want a “DIAGNOSIS”.  It is easier to get a diagnosis and either give up, or try to “treat an illness” than it is to look inside at what is not working with your energy field.  It gives you a way to define yourself or your life.  It gives you something to focus on that is centred around you and self-care.  Your whole life you have likely been taking care of other people (whether they asked for it or wanted it or not).  Your entire focus was on how to help them, be there for them ~ defining who you were by how they saw you.

Now with an illness its all about you.  Why not practice self-love, self-care, self-esteem, allow yourself to do what makes you truly happy, (no martyrdom), and just skip the piece about getting “sick and tired.”  When you get to a space of being able to say simply “I am”, without any further words, that is when you will truly begin to know, love and appreciate yourself.


Energies, Spring Solstice, March 2013

Super Extreme energies today. Power surges. Can you feel it?

I am more excited about the Spring Solstice than I was about Dec. 21, 2012 (I actually wasn’t excited at all about the end of the Mayan calendar).

I have been channeling information and telling people for months that things are really going to ramp up and start to move in March. Well, we are here, and I can feel it coming. I know I’m not the only one. For me, this information has come from Spirit and channeling. Lately, I have been seeing/hearing/reading things about astrology, other channels etc. that are not my way of receiving information, but that share the same information I have been getting. There are so many ways for us to receive information, and it is always interesting to see how things line up, even from completely different sources.  My husband is in “seeking” and “learning” mode and has been listening to a lot of audio’s online (right beside my desk).

I don’t know exactly what it will manifest as on our earth, but things are moving and shaking for sure.

There are so many aspects of us and our world that are changing. The financial systems, the government systems, the medical systems, the physical earth, the media… so many ‘systems’ and ‘things’ that just are not sustainable.

Change is upon us for sure. I am excited to see how it manifests. Change is always good. Even if there is initial discomfort, change is good.  Especially when you look around and see how unbalanced and bizarre our world has become.

What the changes will manifest as (or into), is partly up to us. So many of you are waking up. Realizing that the way the world has been portrayed to us is an illusion. The more souls on the planet that are AWAKE, the cooler the manifestations will be. Lets all focus on love and light and abundance, and love, and love, and love, and help the new manifestations and the new world arrive as peacefully as possible for as many as we can.

Perhaps, North America will finally get on-board with sharing what they know about and from extra terrestrials. Now that would be neat! There are a lot of countries that openly disclose information about visitations and UFO’s (this I learned from my hubby).  America is one of the holdouts in sharing this (you can check this online, its all over the place).

Or maybe the entire monetary system will collapse… that would be pretty interesting too. Some of you may be thinking “You tell us! You are the psychic!” Well, it comes down to us being creators. I can tell you that change is coming. I can assist you on how to make the best of it once it does. I can tell you what you are in the process of creating (and therefore, where you are going), I can share with you ways in which you can see the advantage in any situation, or sometimes even change it. However, we all have free will and I CANNOT tell you what the ‘masses’ will decide to create.

All I know is I can feel the POWER and the surges and the excitement right now, and I’m excited as heck to see what’s coming up!!!

What is Luck?

For most of my life, I have heard the words, “you are so lucky”.

When I was in my teens and twenties, it used to bother me because I have always worked very hard for what I have, but now I just say “Why yes I am!”

Here is what I want to share with you though.  It’s not just that I am lucky.  I move, I act, I take leaps of faith.  We make our own luck.  Luck is 100% perception.

I have lost jobs and said “I’m lucky I’m not stuck in that dead-end anymore”.

I have left relationships (or worse yet, been dumped) and said “I am lucky I got out of that”.

I have been broke and said “I am lucky I have someone to buy me food”.

What we focus on is what we create.  I focus on love and gratitude, have for most of my life.  No matter what my circumstance are in any given moment, I always try to bring my focus back to what is going right.  I always know and trust that whatever happens, in the end, one day, it will be okay.  I will be in a different place, but I will survive.

I have been through some horrible times in my life, but I still think I am lucky.  I always seem to be able to move to a new energetic space that was better than the one before.

My husband and I are both self employed and have been for 9 years.  We are just now starting to see a light at the end of our financial tunnel.  We have massive amounts of debt from our businesses, but for the past few years we have been unencumbered by the 9-5 and our life is good ~ we are happy (for me personally, happiness trumps everything).  After all this time, we are finally starting to make a little profit.  There have been times over the years when we did not know how we were going to pay the mortgage, but I kept focused on the love and gratitude I had for the roof over my head.  When we did not have money for food, rather than be angry, I was grateful that my mom stepped in and helped.  No matter how bad things got, I was always grateful that I had the fortitude to quit my day job.

Next time you see someone who is doing well, rather than just say “they are lucky”, why not try saying, they worked their asses off for a really long time and went without a lot of the time, took chances, so that “one day”, they could live their dream.  Is this Luck?  Or is it simply a willingness to make changes, take a chance and work hard?  What would you be willing to give up for a little while to get what you want in the end?  Most people, will answer “nothing”, and most will go through their lives feeling like they could have done or been more.

“If you want things in your life to change, you have to change things in your life.”  I can help you with this.

Do you want to be lucky?  Here is what you can do NOW to get started.

  • Be grateful for everything you have at every opportunity
  • Radiate Love for all that is in your life.  People AND things.
  • CHANGE something, anything.  Whether it be a habit, a relationship, a job, an attitude.  CHANGE SOMETHING!
  • Take the words “I can’t” out of your vocabulary.  You can have, be or do, anything you want.  That is a FACT.  (you just need to learn how to focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want).
  • Think about what you might be willing to give up for a time so that you could get everything you want later.

If you are ready to make changes in your life, and feel that you would like some help, I am available for mentoring/coaching.  Just use the form here and let me know.  I can help with all aspects of life, relationships, business, money, love, or developing your psychic abilities.