Archives for September 2013

Success & Life Purpose

Are you searching for what your life purpose might be? I have a secret for you. If you are happy you are living your purpose. If you are unhappy you are not living your purpose. It really is that easy.

You have come to earth to have a loving and joyous experience. If you are not, then you are not living your purpose.

Are you successful? It mostly depends on what success means to you. Some people only define success with money. Success only means monetary gains if that is how you define it.

According to the Dictionary, Success Means:

1.The accomplishment of an aim or purpose.
2.The attainment of popularity or profit.

If you are happy where you are, and with what you have, you are successful.

If you find yourself saying “I am happy, but….”, then chances are that you are not living your purpose, nor are you successful.

You are either happy or you are not. There is nothing wrong with wanting more out of life. More purpose, more success. The problems only show up when you are not happy with what you do have.

Some people think that to have a ‘good purpose’ they must be serving others. This is a fallacy. If you serve others, and are unhappy about it, then you are not living your purpose. If you are happy, and are not serving others, then you are living your purpose.

You cannot be of any service to others if you are unhappy. If you are happy, and joyful, and spreading positive love & light energy, you will be serving everyone you come into contact with anyway.

Don’t mistake service with martyrdom. There is nothing that you must ‘give up’ in order to make the world a better place, NOTHING. Just by being you, and by being happy and loving, you are living your purpose and you are successful.

That’s it.

September 28, 2013

Things continue to shift and change. There are a lot of us who feel as if we are in an in-between place. Intuitively we know that things are changing, but this time trying to see specifically what they are changing into is tricky. Some of you are confused as to what it is you really want in your life. You know you cannot stay the same, but your path doesn’t seem so clear anymore. You are not alone.

There are so many things going on with the collective consciousness: the old systems are in the process of falling, but it is taking a long time. Every week there are “prophecies” or “people from NASA”, or other supposed “Experts”, that are telling us the world is coming to an end. Starting with Armageddon last December, to Solar flares in August, to bombing Syria in September, all these things are “Possibilities”, none of them have happened. If you want proof that the world is ending, you can find it online anywhere.

If you want proof that we are ascending to a higher consciousness you can find that everywhere too.

Which is true? They both are. YOU create your reality. What you focus on expands. If you chose to focus on all the “bad” in the world, you will get more bad in your personal world. If you choose to focus on all the “good” in your world, you will get more good in your world.

The more of us that focus on the Love and Light and positive aspects of our planet, the more positive things will be able to happen.

We can use our vibration to help the planet. Keep your vibration as high as you can. If thinking about the changes you are going through stresses you out, then STOP thinking about them. No amount of thinking, analyzing, or worrying will make the changes easier. I know this first hand. I am a seeker and a quester, I want to know everything I can about everything I see. I love research and I like to know what is going on with the world and the collective. I have been this way my whole life. Numerologically I am a 7 life path, its in my energy to want to know things.

You do have control over some of your circumstances, and you have 100% control over how you react to your circumstances. What you need to know is this:

  • The world is changing
  • You may feel lost because you know your life/world is changing (could be with family, work, finances, or some other subject, but you feel change)
  • You likely feel as if you do not have a lot of control over things right now
  • Everything will work out okay in the end

What to do:

  • Keep your vibration as high as possible
  • Sometimes when you do not know what to do next, the best thing to do is nothing. Live in the moment and allow yourself to feel gratitude for what you have, to feel love for those around you, anything to help you feel the best you can in any given moment.
  • A lot of us in the world (and in other dimensions), are focusing on love and peace and it IS having an impact. Do not let anyone tell you that you and your energy does not matter, it DOES, more than you know, so focus on your heart.

We are on earth at a momentous time of change. Change usually does bring discomfort, however, change is good. We cannot continue on as we have, and most of us are not. The easiest way to get through change is to accept it, feel as good as you can, and carry on.

Creating Your Reality When So Much is Out of Control

Your Soul Knows

I write a lot about creating your own reality, and control; and what we have control over, and what we do not.

It is really easy to get wrapped up in our lives to the point that we end up in a bit of a ‘control spiral’, and we do not even realize we are in it. I meditate or do energy work every day; I practice being very aware of my thoughts and feelings, and do my very best to feel the best that I can in every moment. I don’t always feel terrific, but I always try to feel the best that I possibly can.

Over the years, I have learned to NOT let my thoughts spiral out of control. We do have some control over our thoughts. I am aware of my thoughts and feelings, and when I notice I am having a thought that is on the negative side, I replace it with something more positive. Even if all I can muster is “it will all be okay in the end”, if that is the best feeling thought I can have, I go for it. Sometimes I just go outside into my yard and read, or nap, or do puzzles ~ anything to keep from thinking about stresses. We do create with our thoughts, and thinking about stresses can, and does, create more stressful situations in our lives.

I had what I call an epiphany this morning, Oprah calls them “Light bulb moments”, but really they are usually messages from our Guides or our own higher selves. I have these most mornings. While I am sitting having my coffee, I ask what it is I need to know for the day, and most of the time I get some really good information.

I want to share some personal information with you, and the message I got this morning because I suspect there are a lot of people in this situation and if my personal story can help you or even one person it will be worth it.

Firstly, the world itself is going through massive changes and a lot of people are afraid and worried. Many of us are feeling anxiety out of the blue, for no apparent reason. Sometimes the anxiety is fleeting, and sometimes it hangs around for a while. You may find yourself thinking “Why do I feel so anxious? Everything is fine.” This is part of what the Collective Consciousness is going through right now. There are many people on our planet that are still asleep and are still very attached to the Third Dimensional way of being. If something hits the news or gets ‘out there’ into the Collective Consciousness (the “Ether”), many people get stressed. That can cause many of us empath’s to feel out of balance and like something is wrong, even if we know we are okay.

The second thing is the control/creation aspect of things and this is where my personal life comes into play.

My husband and I have a Concrete Coring & Cutting Company. Business is really good for the company and there is a lot of work at the moment.

I have had a lot of work this year and things have been flowing quite smoothly there. I have had some illness, and some injury, and some stress (partly from the collective anxiety), and I am off work right now (just since this weekend). I had to cancel some appointments this week. I make enough money from my work to pay my bills and travel for training/work; and I love my job. I do not, however, make enough to cover the expenses of the other company. By worrying about our other company, I allowed the stresses from it to interfere with my work. I CREATED more financial stress for myself by focusing on the financial stress of the construction company.

Here is where it gets tricky and where the control comes in. As much as the Construction end of things is doing well, and it has accounts receivable, it is not getting paid in a timely manner. Banks are holding back money from what they used to give developers, so developers are having to pick and choose what bills they are going to pay (and apparently ours is not one of them). We are only getting paid sporadically, so we are having to pick and choose which bills we can pay. Usually we pay our mortgage and expenses so we can do more work.

I found it amusing the other day when my bank called me asking for money and the reason I did not have it is because the same bank was holding back money from the people that owed me. I actually had a good laugh over that. That just seems to be the way things are going these days. This is a good example of something that I cannot control. I cannot control what the bank does, I can only control my thoughts, feelings and vibration around it.

This morning I noticed yet another account for the company was overdrawn because some service charges came out that I forgot came out in September. For a moment I felt horrible. I pride myself on being able to pay my bills and keep on top of everything, even for the construction company and I had forgotten something. How could I do this? What the hell? It’s one thing after another! Is there no end to what “they” are doing to us?!? (the banks/government/economy).

I know we have control over our lives. Why is my life feeling so out of control? Stuff is happening and there’s not much I can do about it. Hmmm. Quite the conundrum. I will tell you what I did and hopefully you can use this in your own life and it will help.

I LET GO!!! For weeks now I have been focusing on the details of who to pay, when to pay, what’s coming in, what is going out, crying out “WHO IS GOING TO PAY THEIR BILL AND WHEN!” This is BS!! All these people owe our company money.

On the one hand, it felt okay because we have money due in. On the other hand it felt awful because I have to keep picking and choosing who is getting paid, and I have to keep phoning people and telling them the money is not here yet.

Another thing I realized this morning, is that I have been trying to micro-manage the details of things. I have been analyzing stuff too much, and trying to figure out “How” to get it done. What I need to do is go back to my “knowing” it WILL be done. There are things I need to manage, after all I am running a company, but there are a lot of things that are simply not manageable. Me trying to manage them is just screwing up my energy.

So this morning, I decided to let go and let God. We are God, we are Creators. By letting go and allowing for the flow it helps me to feel better. No amount of planning, or fretting or worrying will bring me to where I want to be. The only thing that could possibly make me feel better is to let go. To quit thinking, to quit ‘managing’. I will think when it is required, but if there is nothing I can do about a situation except for maybe make a phone call, I will make the call and then I will let it go.

We create through our vibration. Thinking about all these details is lowering my vibration. I have been sick, I have been injured, I have been stressed, I have cancelled appointments with clients. It’s time to leave the details up to God and just do what I can. I CAN, through my thoughts and my intention keep feeling good. If I keep feeling good, I will attract more things into my life that feel good. That’s it. Period.

Things Have Changed – September 2013

I love the times that we are in now. Mother Earth being in 5th Dimensional Energy. I have had many clients lately that are in the middle of BIG transitions. Major changes. These changes can be really scary sometimes. We as humans, wondering how things will work out.

I would like to share with you that I have been through a transition myself. It started happening gradually and I was very open to it, excited at the thought of it. What I did though, and what many of my clients are doing, is I procrastinated with the changes. I felt the changes, I acted on SOME of the changes, but I kept holding onto the old stuff. I have been doing Clairvoyant readings my whole life and I kept trying to hang onto that.

I didn’t start blogging about the changes, I didn’t post the changes on my website. I had considered closing this website and starting another (which I may still do). I did, finally, change some of the text on my home page, and am working on a brand new draft of my “About” page.

I have been working more and more with higher dimensional energies. Energies of Ascended Masters (including Jesus who channels to/through me quite often in my private meditations these days), Arch Angels, Source etc. When I am working at this level, I see less of our 3rd Dimensional world. Because our 3rd Dimensional world is just a reflection of our vibration. At this level, the what is much less important than the feelings and creations we are living.

I am a clairvoyant. Always have been. I often see things very clearly as they are coming up. On occasion, I still work with Guides and Teachers, but less often now. Up until recently, I kept trying to force myself to do more Clairvoyant readings. It is what I had always done. I realize now that trying to hang onto that 3rd Dimensional energy is sucking the energy out of me. Working with 5th dimensional energies is so much easier for me now. Trying to lower my vibration to the how or the what is too draining. I would much rather speak to your soul and provide guidance that way.

Our reason for being on this earth is to live in love and joy and to be happy. That’s it PERIOD. These are the messages I get most often these days. Ways for you to be happy. It is not that I cannot ‘see’ things clairvoyantly. It is that from the Higher Dimensions, it is usually not important.

It can sometimes be helpful to know what to look out for in future events, (whether its something positive or not so positive), but it is not a good idea to live your life though someone else’s clairvoyant images. YOU are creating and re-creating your life in each and every moment, and with every thought you have.

My readings are much more ‘feeling’ focused than ever before. They are all about helping, and healing, and releasing and moving forward and creating the life you want. When you come for a reading with me, expect to hear what you can do to improve your vibration, how you can enhance, or use, or change your energy in order to change the circumstances around you and of your life. DO NOT show up just expecting me to tell you how to live your 3D life. You will be disappointed. There are many other people out there that will do that for you, its just not something you will find here.

Much love and gratitude to all of you.
Tamara