Archives for October 2014

Conciously Create Through Awareness

You are the Creator of your life experiences.  Create Consciously.

You are the Creator of your life experiences. Create Consciously.

Look within to create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction is real.  It isn’t often taught in the right way, but it does exist.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.  What we think about is what we attract and create.  What we focus on we create.  We ARE creators, we are creating our lives every minute of every day.  No exceptions.

The big difference between those of you who get what you want, and those of you that don’t, is all in how conscious you are of your creations.  You can choose to create consciously, or unconsciously.  And YES, it is a choice.

It is actually very simple, but most of you cannot be bothered to consciously create.  You think it is easier to blame fate, or the economy, or any person or circumstance other than yourself.   I am NOT suggesting you blame yourself.  I am suggesting you take responsibility for what you have created thus far.  The minute you take responsibility for your creations is the minute you take back your power.

By blaming you are essentially saying to yourself “I cannot create my life, everything that has happened or is happening, is the result of something outside of me”.

Did you know that over 90% of the thoughts you will have today are the same thoughts you had yesterday, and the same thoughts you will have tomorrow?   That is a LOT of thoughts, and a lot of creation.  The problem occurs when you are thinking these thoughts and going through your day on auto-pilot.  You may wake up to your alarm and think “I don’t feel like getting out of bed, I’m so tired, I wish I could go back to sleep”.  That is a thought that is beginning to create your day for you.

You may start getting ready to go to work and think “I hate my job, my boss is such an ass.  These customers all think that the whole world revolves around them and they can be so unkind”.  More creation on your part.

You are driving along, and traffic is bad, or you see someone speeding or cutting someone off (or you are the one speeding through traffic and are thinking about how slow everyone else is), as you are having those thoughts, you are creating.  Creating more of the same traffic woes.

You get off work, think of the day you had and wonder “Will I ever get rid of this debt that I am working to pay off?  I work and work and still have debt, this is BS, I want to be debt free”.  You think you are focusing on being debt free, but really, you are still focusing on your debt, and, you guessed it, CREATING MORE DEBT!

If you want your life to be different, you have to do something different.  In order to do something different, you have to start thinking something different.

YOUR FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT STEP IN CREATING THE LIFE YOU WANT

Is to start being aware!!!  Get yourself off of Auto Pilot!!
As long as you keep allowing your brain to rehash the same thoughts, to allow your subconscious mind to create for you, your life will just stay the same.  I guarantee it.

You must live in your present moment.  You must become aware of your thoughts.  When you find yourself on auto-pilot, bring your energy back into your body and your present moment.  Remind yourself that you are creating your life with your thoughts.

The first day you try this, you will probably do it for a couple of minutes, then wind up back on auto-pilot.  Then a few hours later, you might remember that you were supposed to be aware and you might be able to live in your moment for a few more minutes.

Here is the good news.  If you can manage to do this even for a part of your day, or for a few minutes a few times a day, you will find that it will get easier as time goes on.  Just as most of the thoughts you have today, you will have tomorrow, as you practice awareness today it will be easier to do tomorrow.  If you are diligent with it, you will find that within a month, you will be much more aware of most of your thoughts.

Then as things happen in your life, you will be able to see exactly how they were created.  How YOU created them.  Take credit for the good you start to see in your life.  As you become more aware, you will find that synchronicities and coincidences happen more and more.  You will find yourself saying “I was just thinking of that, and there it is!”  Good, bad or indifferent, you will see how your present moment was created with a thought.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.

My (Formerly) Haunted House

Haunted House

The “Haunted House”. Prior to us buying it.

I live in a house that was built in around 1896 or so.  The history books state 1896, but I had a woman come by this last summer who grew up here (about 80 years ago), and she said she thought it was even older than that.

I often get asked if my house is haunted.  My answer is “Yes, it WAS, but now it’s not”.  I do my readings in the basement, and surprisingly the basement has NEVER had a ghost (not while I have lived here anyway).  I think it is because the basement is not as old as the rest of the house and no one bothered to be attached there.

I bought my house in the summer of 2007.  I never liked heritage houses much, I preferred the ‘modern amenities’, but there was just something about this place when I walked through the front door and into the kitchen that made me fall in love.  It felt so much like ‘home’, and ‘family’, that I was hooked the moment I came in.

Haunted Ghost House

What my house looked like 111 Years ago.

I have heard so many stories about this place from people I have met.  It has been home to so many families over the years.  I once had a woman and her children come by asking if she could take a picture because her grandma used to live here and she remembered rolling down the hill as a child.  She took some pictures of her children with the house as it is now.  It is one of the oldest houses in Chilliwack.  There is a book that was written about Vedder Crossing where my house is and the woman that stopped by in the summer even knew the people in the picture circa 1906.  The more I hear about this house, the more I like living here.

Now to the ghosts that were here when I moved in – there were a LOT of them!  Some of whom I did not ‘meet’ until after we were all moved in and settled.

~  This post is pretty much just a story of ghosts.

Grandma Ghost

Hard to see this one, but the orb is above the doorway slightly to the left.

Hard to see this one, but the orb is above the doorway slightly to the left.

On the main floor in the kitchen was a grandma/mom energy.  This is the loving energy I felt when I first walked in the door.  I remember getting sick a few months after we had moved in here.  Just a cold, but I was sleeping on the couch.  “Grandma” came in and was doting over me.

Another time, I was at the kitchen sink and was cleaning a really big knife.  My son was at the kitchen table and he says “Oh!  That scared me!”  I thought he was referring to the knife slipping in my hand so I said, “It’s okay, I’ve got it”, and he said, “Not that!, the woman that’s beside you”.
I must note, that he meant ‘startled’ when he said scared, he was pretty accustomed to seeing ghosts by this time ~ he was about 7 or 8.

Ghost orb

Orb in Upper Right of this picture in the main floor bathroom.

The Ghost ‘Family’ 

There was a mother and father and two kids in my house also, a boy and a girl, both under 10 I think.  I only saw the parents once or twice but my son saw them in his bedroom often.  The kids were another story, they were pretty active in the house.  I remember so many times where my son would say “Mom, the kids won’t let me sleep”.  I would actually have to go upstairs and ask them to quieten down please ~ just like any other kid.

The kids were supposed to stay together and usually they did, but there were times where the girl would come downstairs on her own.  They were pretty energetic.  Normally when I talk to ghosts or spirits I hear them telepathically.  I have no desire to hear them out loud or see them like I see ‘live’ people.  When I was about 15 I had ‘put it out there’ energetically, quite clearly that I would not talk to them if they startled me.  Kids being kids though I suppose, they did talk out loud sometimes, and they DID startle me.  I would sometimes hear them laughing upstairs, or one time I was on the couch on the main floor and the little girl came up behind me and said “Hello” quite loudly, and out loud.  Startled the begeebers out of me!

I was very accustomed to seeing the kids peripherally on the stairs while I was in the living room at night (either reading or watching TV).  Of course I would look directly over and they wouldn’t be there.  One night I was sitting there and ‘saw’ something again, I looked over and Jake (my son) was standing there, live and in the flesh.  I almost peed my pants!

Another time my husband was sitting on the couch and I sat down on his right side and said “the girl is beside you on your left” and I proceeded to tell him what she looked like and what she was doing.  Asked him if he felt anything.  He got a little creeped out and said “just yesterday, I was sitting in this same spot, Jake, sat down beside me, told me the girl was beside me and described her exactly as you just did”.

My poor husband, he doesn’t see these things.  Maybe I shouldn’t say ‘my poor husband’, I’m sure most of the time he’s quite content to not be interrupted by these ‘others’.  

It wasn’t until we lived with these very active, verbal ghost kids that my son even knew my husband could not see ghosts/spirits like we could.  I remember driving in the truck, my son in the back seat and we were talking about the kids keeping us up the night before.  My son asked my husband a question about it and Sean says “I don’t see the kids, I have never seen them, I can’t”.

Well Jake didn’t believe him.  He thought he was being joked with, that his dad was pulling his leg.  It took us quite a while before we convinced Jake that he had a gift and that, as obvious as these other people in our house were to us, most people simply did not even know they were there.

My very old house in the snow (with my son sliding down the hill).

My very old house in the snow (with my son sliding down the hill).

The Ghost Husband and Wife

There was a younger woman on the main floor of the house who was usually around my office/front entrance area.  I didn’t see her so much as feel her.  My son would sometimes come in while I was working at my computer and tell me she was here.

Unfortunately, sometimes ghosts can impact our own energy and we don’t even know it.  I did not even know she was impacting me until I had her cleared.    More on that in a sec.

There was a large, dark man in the master bedroom.  I didn’t really care for his energy but it wasn’t overly ‘bad’ or ‘negative’, just not totally comfortable for me.  Turns out he was the husband of the woman on the main floor.

I actually had to have someone else look at this couple for me and clear them.  Theirs was an energy that I did not ‘recognize for what it was’.  I spend a lot of time in my office, writing and doing work online.  I went through a phase while living here when I was very anxious when my husband was not home.  I would find myself almost waiting for him to come home from work.  I would get upset if he was late or if I did not know exactly where he was or if he was okay.  It was as if my whole life revolved around his comings and goings and him being here.  For the record, this is NOT my normal state.

Anyway, I was not feeling myself, and found myself getting upset (for no logical reason) a lot of the time so I enlisted the help of someone to get my energy cleared.  I didn’t know what was wrong exactly, just knew I wasn’t feeling ‘good’ or ‘right’.

I talked to a Shaman and she told me that the husband upstairs and the wife downstairs were together.  They had lost a baby before it turned a year old.  The man was upstairs, waiting for the wife to come home.  The wife was in my office by my front entrance waiting for her husband.

Once I got them both crossed over, my anxiety about my husband not being here, and my constantly ‘waiting for him to come home’, disappeared.   Thank God ~ that was a really uncomfortable time for me.

The Headless Army Ghost

This one is pretty interesting.  This fellow usually stayed in the spare room at the top of our stairs and/or hung out on the landing at the top of the stairs.  He presented with an army uniform on, and never had a head.  He had been in a battle and lost his men and blamed himself.  One of his reasons for not crossing over.  He was nice enough, no negative energy except for his guilt, but a little unnerving at times due to the fact his head was missing.

I remember in 2008 my sister in law coming to visit from Ontario and stay for a few weeks.  It was a nice time of year and we often had morning coffee in the back yard.  Me and my husband were sitting out, and his sister came out with a cup of coffee and said “I had the weirdest dream last night”.  She was staying in the spare room at the top of the stairs.  She starts telling us about this guy in her dream that had an army uniform and no head.  He had some old coins in his hand and held them out to her.  She’s an old coin buff, so recognized them as being from around the 1870’s or 1880’s.

 

Haunted House? Were there ghosts here?

My Un Haunted Ghost House is Listed in this book.

As soon as she told us her ‘dream’ me and my husband both burst out laughing.  We gently told her that it was the ghost.  Think we scared her.  She hasn’t been back for another visit.

 

The Ghost Woman on the Street

There was also a woman who walked back and forth around the bottom of our driveway.  I remember a client coming in one day and saying she knew the house because there was a woman at the end of the driveway pointing to our house and waving at her.  I used to see her a lot when I was out front doing yard work or mowing the lawn.  I suspect she was there because the house I live in had an orchard and the owners would sell fruit and other things from the property.  I think the woman was there to bring in customers.
So, those are all the people I moved in with when I bought this house.  It was pretty crowded.  They have all been crossed over now and are safe and sound on the other side.