Archives for March 2015

Angel Card Reading, Week of March 30-Apr. 5, 2015

“Here is your Angel Card Reading for this week.

For the Beginning of the Week, Your Angel Card is:

Comfort

 

Comfort – Archangel Azreal:  “I am with you in your time of need, helping your heart to heal.”

“Even the strongest person experiences upsetting situations, and there’s no shame in taking time to heal your heart.  This is a good time for quiet reflection upon your true feelings.  Write them down in a private journal, and then call upon me to bring comfort to your heart and mind.  I can help you sleep better at night, and put your mind at ease.”

 

Your Angel Card for the Middle of this Week is:

Relationship Harmony

 

Relationship Harmony – Archangel Raguel:  “We angels are opening the hearts of everyone involved.  Arguments and conflicts are being resolved now.

“Your prayers for personal peace have been answered, and you are to be commended for your role in ushering peace into this situation.  Visualize everyone involved (including yourself) being cooperative and open-minded, even if particular persons aren’t usually this way.  Trust the inner guidance you receive, and know that changes are sometimes uncomfortable but often necessary.  Ask me to help with any aspects of relationships that need healing.  Know that all relationships ultimately have blessing, growth lessons, and love at their core, even if appearances seem otherwise. Stay focused upon this truth as much as possible.”

For those of you who are going through break-ups or divorces, this is also helpful to ensure that you are at peace with the process and are not unnecessarily hanging onto resentment and anger that can harm you.

 

Your Angel Card for the End of this week is:

 

Breathe Angel Card

Breathe – Archangel Raphael:  “Take several deep breaths, and exhale slowly to awaken your energy and to release old patterns”.

“Often during times of stress, you may unconsciously hold your breathe.  Yet, as you know, breath is essential to oxygenating your mind, body, spirit and very life.  Write a note to yourself to breathe, as a reminder of the importance of invigorating yourself with deep and steady beaths.  Make trips to places where fresh air is plentiful.  You’ll also notice an increase in ari quality when you’r near water, such as the beach or a lake.  Even taking a shower or bath puts you in touch with the positive ions associated with water and air.”

Take Time to Reflect

Sometimes its good to reflect back on your day, or your week, month, year, life…. look at where you were, where you are, how far you have come, and where you want to go from here.

I think the planetary energies right now are a good time for this.  We have a full moon with a lunar eclipse coming up on April 4.  The full moon is a good time to release anything you don’t really want in your life anymore.

So much has changed for all of us over the past years.  So many huge changes, 2006, 2012…both huge years for shifts, then 2014 being such a big year for letting go.  March 2015 bringing all the junk we thought we’d got rid of last year back to us so we could look at it again.  Uggghhhh.

So take time tonight if you can, or at least in the next few days to ruminate some of the big changes that have occurred for you.

Reflect

See how even the ones that were the most difficult have brought you to where you are now.  Prepare to release anything from your past that you no longer need or that no longer needs you (or is not good for you).

Take a good look at what you have gained, and celebrate how far you have come.  Know that you may have farther to go yet, but you’ve got this.  You can do it, you’ve made it this far.

Its not a time to sit back and coast.  April will be a lighter month than March for sure, but use this energy to propel yourself forward.  Don’t allow yourself to think back and wallow in what was.  It is okay to reflect, but reflect with the intention of seeing the lessons and the successes in your life, NOT to go back to a past time or past event.  It is gone now, and really, good riddance.

It might be cliché, but today really is the first day of the rest of your life.

Love

Tamara

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

I Can’t Always Do Psychic Readings for Everyone

Sometimes I just don’t get anything.

Every so often, maybe once or twice a year, I have a client that for some reason, I can’t get correct information for.   Sometimes its like I take a look and ‘nothing’. Other times, I feel like I might be connecting (and I am connecting to something), but it makes no sense to my client whatsoever.

It doesn’t happen very often and I almost never know why it happened, but I have learned to live with it.  Generally if I have a client booked, I will sit and focus on their energy for a few minutes ahead of time and stuff starts flowing in.

Every time I meet with a client I start the talking part, I don’t want to have my mind engaged in someone’s life story before I allow information to flow.  I sit and focus and feel.  Then I will share what I am getting.  Sometimes what I get is feelings, or a picture or words in my head, or a dead loved one pops in (or any other number of ways information comes in for me).

After I share the first feelings I look to my client to let me know if what I said makes sense to them, at least in some way.  Most of the time it does.  However, sometimes, I share what I get and the person just says, nope, makes no sense I don’t know what you are talking about.

We don't always know why

We don’t always know why

At this point I will sometimes ‘look’ a little deeper, or see if there is any clarifying information that might help.  When I do this deeper look, there is one of two things that I will ‘get’ or feelings, or words from my own peeps, whatever you want to call it;  I either get clarifying information, or I get told, this won’t work.

I don’t get told why it won’t work, if I was going to be privy to that information, then I would likely be getting more for my client.

Thing is, I used to try.  I would try and connect with/for someone.  We would sit while I struggled to get information that was not going to be forthcoming in a helpful way anyway.  (If it was, it would have already).  I would try; my client was probably thinking “she sucks”, and then I would be so tired afterwards I would have to sleep for 4 hours.

So now, if I sit with someone and I share what I get and it makes no sense to them, I ask Spirit for more clarity and information.  If that additional information makes no sense, I just ‘call it’.  I say “I’m obviously not connecting, today is not the day”.

“Trying” to connect once it is clear to me via the energy I am getting is not correct, is useless.  My client might get a little bit of helpful information, but after they leave, I would think to myself, “Wow, that was a lousy reading”.

My client would walk away thinking, “Wow, that was pretty expensive for the lousy reading I just got”.

Why couldn’t that Psychic Read Me?

So here is the thing.  There are a million reasons why a psychic might not be connecting with you.

  • There could be something a little ‘off’ with the psychic’s energy that day.
  • Someone else’s energy is interfering (your friend, my friend, some other client of mine…etc.)
  • There could be something a little ‘off’ with your energy that day.
  • There could be too much fear or desperation energy coming from you.
  • For some reason Spirit thinks the timing is bad.
  • Maybe I refund your money and then two days later you find you need it desperately for something else (like a car repair), and end up being thankful that the reading didn’t work out and you now have that money to meet your other need.

See, it really can be a lot of different reasons, and I’ve only given you a list of 6 out of potentially millions.

Just know, that sometimes you are not meant to get a psychic reading from the person you are sitting across from.  You can always try at a different time, with the same or a different psychic and if the timing is right then you will likely get a decent reading.

I have had clients come to me saying, “I’ve been to other psychics before and they couldn’t read me”.  Just because one or two or three other people on one or two days couldn’t connect with you doesn’t make you ‘hard to read’.  It means that on those days you were not meant to get a reading.  Don’t talk your energy into being ‘hard to read’ because no one is really hard to read unless they are trying to hide things (either from themselves or others).

Psychic readings are energy, and you cannot push energy any more than you can push a river.  It just flows (or it doesn’t).

Just know, that if you come to see me for a psychic reading, and its not flowing for me we will both know it in the first 5 minutes and I’m going to send you away rather than trying to make something happen that isn’t meant to happen.

 

Stop It!

Bob newhart therapy

This video is one of my favourites of all time.

Its all tongue in cheek, I hope you get a giggle out of it.

 

Are You Afraid of Success?

There are many reasons some people are afraid of success.  It could be fear that if you are successful and make a lot of money people won’t like you (how do you feel about rich people?).

You could have subconscious fears about your family life changing, or not having enough time if you are successful.  Fear of judgments from others’.  There are many reasons for blocks to success.

let go of fear

If you are not sure if you have blocks to success, but you don’t yet feel successful in your life, then try this hypnosis by Michael Sealey for a few nights in a row.  If you do have any success blocks, after listening to this for a few days you may find yourself wanting to do more with your business, or your life, or something generally different in whatever area of your life you are holding yourself back in.

I’d love to hear how it goes for you if you decide to try it, feel free to leave me a comment below.

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

 

Are You Insane?

Sometimes I think our entire world is insane.  We have a small number of people on this planet that are trying to control the masses by keeping them unaware of how quantum reality really works.

From birth we are bombarded with messages that we have no control over anything.  That people are out to get us (think about the Middle East, Survivor, Big Brother etc.).  That we need to do as they say, we need protection.  We hear on the news how bad things are and that we are powerless to do anything about it.

Some of us are lucky enough to have parents that taught us differently (or these days, access to blogs like this), that teach us we do have some control over our own circumstances.

Some people use Albert Einstein’s quote as the definition of insanity “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.

Technically speaking, that is not the definition of insanity.

According to Ryan Howes PhD, in an article published on “Psychology Today”:

To be clear, insanity is a legal term pertaining to a defendant’s ability to determine right from wrong when a crime is committed. Here’s the first sentence of law.com’s lengthy definition:

Insanity. n. mental illness of such a severe nature that a person cannot distinguish fantasy from reality, cannot conduct her/his affairs due to psychosis, or is subject to uncontrollable impulsive behavior.”

According to this definition (and Einstein’s definition).  Most of you are insane.

According to many folks, I would be considered insane, but for different reasons than ‘the masses’ would be insane.

We are not taught What IS, We are taught what they want us to learn

As I wrote above there are certain people in this world that do not want us to know our own power.  We are taught from a young age what to think, how to think, whether or not we should even bother to think (or just follow along).

Now, THAT is insane.   We are being treated like rats in a cage.  Its unfortunate that so many of the rats in the cage have just rolled over and taken what is given to them as gospel.

So back to the definition of insanity, mental illness of such a severe nature that a person cannot distinguish fantasy from reality, cannot conduct her/his affairs due to psychosis, or is subject to uncontrollable impulsive behavior.

So, what is fantasy and what is reality?  Many would have you believe that talking to dead people and psychic abilities are ‘fantasy’.  However, if you have had experience with this, you know its not.  You have experienced it.  Most of you who have had psychic experiences do not exhibit uncontrollable or impulsive behaviour due to this “fantasy”.

perspective

The way I see it.  The BS we are being force-fed from birth is the fantasy

We are told we must go to school to learn what they want us to learn, and that’s it.  There are books going back more than a hundred years (that I have read, I’m sure there are ancient texts as well that I have not been privy to) that acknowledge quantum reality, and some of it has now been PROVEN in scientific experiments, but it is still not being taught in school.  NOT TAUGHT.  Our children are being taught incomplete and inaccurate science.  (not to mention all the other political crap, but maybe that would just make this post too long).

We are trained, via television, our parents, our schools, society in general that we must consume.  That we have no personal power, we have no control.  No control over what we ingest (we are addicted to booze, drugs, sugar, bread), no control over how we feel (people make us feel, we don’t have any responsibly for our own feelings), no control over what we are supposed to spend money on (Keeping up with the Jones’), where we live, or what we do for work, our happiness, our debt, what car we drive, what clothes we wear, nothing.

Our lives are lived on auto-pilot with no awareness of how we are being programmed.

Now back to our definition of insanity:  mental illness of such a severe nature that a person cannot distinguish fantasy from reality, cannot conduct her/his affairs due to psychosis, or is subject to uncontrollable impulsive behavior.

Those bolded parts are what I want to point out to you.  Every time you say “someone made me feel”, “its not my fault“, eat too much, go shopping when you have no money, get drunk, buy more house than you can afford, buy a car that takes you more than 3 years to pay off, get addicted to something, YOU ARE INSANE.

You have allowed yourself to be on auto-pilot, you have relinquished all control over to the ‘programming’ you’ve been subjected to, you are no longer able to feel your own strength, and the worst part is that now that its been pointed out to you, you think there is nothing you can do about it.

That could not be farther from the truth. You could start out with one little tiny realization. Thoughts are things. Thoughts have energy behind them, and they are the beginning stages of every manifestation you will ever have in your life. Thoughts create your feelings, and if you feel lousy, it is TOTALLY, 100% because of the thoughts you are allowing yourself to have.

You can control your thoughts.  You have been told that you can’t (see above about what we are taught in school), but you most certainly can.  Just STOP IT.

“I’m feeling hurt” ~ okay, think of anything else (preferably something you like) for 67 seconds (or 5 minutes), and if you allow your energy to follow your new thought, you won’t feel hurt anymore.  That’s it, it really is that easy.

Ditto for “I can’t do the job I want, earn the money I want, lose the weight I want etc”.  You need to change your thoughts so your energy can change.  Once your energy changes in these situtations you will be able to listen to your inspiration/intuition.

Remember, you have been programmed.  Programmed to be powerless.  Programmed to be INSANE (according to the legal definition).  Think about that one for a while.

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

It is Time to Come Out of the Spiritual Closet

This means you.  What are you waiting for?  It is time for you to embrace your authentic self.  You are so much more than this physical body and you know it.

It is time for you to come out of the spiritual closet and BE who you are.  After the Spring Solstice/Equinox and our Super New Moon, and Solar Eclipse everything has changed energetically.  With every astrological shift you are getting more aware of who you really are and why you are really here. Many of you have heard these energy shifts called “Ascension”.

This doesn’t mean that you will go from zero to “all knowing”, but it absolutely will mean that you can see and feel more than you did before.  It is all relative to where you were.

I know most of you reading this can feel it.  Some of you might be confused about what your next step might be.  Your FIRST step needs to be embracing your Authentic Self.  Some people aren’t going to understand you once you embrace this, but its okay.  Those people who are meant to be in your life and stay in your life, or (best yet), come into your life, will.

you are a lightworker

The Council of 12

One of my personl shifts is the energy of my council.  They have been with me for as long as I can remember.  I see them all standing there when I do my meditations.  They almost look like a choir (lol).  I call them my council because I haven’t yet asked them for a specific name.  They don’t really call themselves anything.  Maybe sometime soon they will tell me something that I can call them.  They aren’t really “my” anything.  They are a collective of 12 beings that are here to help us all.

They often take over or give input when I am writing.  They have been there a long time, and they have helped me out a lot over the years.  They have also helped many of you over the years if you have had a psychic reading done by me or if you have been reading my blog.

I am just feeling them very differently now.  When I am sitting to write now I feel serious tingling in my upper back.  A lot of the time when I start writing it is coming out more as a channel.  This is a little hard to explain, as a lot of my writing over the years has been more channeled information than just ‘me’ (as opposed to coming from me, it comes through me ~ aka. inspiration).

Some of my messages are ‘different’ now though.  Some of the words coming out are coming out referencing “WE” more often.  “WE” being the council.  The more I connect with and channel my council, the more I am feeling like I am not from here.  So much of the information I am getting is the need for humanity to ‘get it together’.

I have always been happy that I can help you blend the Spiritual with the Physical in the way I do.  I don’t think that talking to my council is going to change that a whole bunch.  I won’t get all woo woo on you all the time, (although I might sometimes).  We do live here and we do need to function within the confines of the earth reality/human form.

I will continue to share ways that make your life here easier for you.

Are you ready to show your authentic self?

Yesterday, the first card of the Angel Card Reading of the week was Courage.  I think that card really applies here.  You will need to have the courage to let go of some of your ego and share yourself.  Share your gifts.  Share the wonderful human and soul that you are.

Courage to love, courage to share, courage to be who you are.

 

 

If I can help in any way, please feel free to contact me for a psychic reading.

 

Angel Card Reading, Week of March 23-29, 2015

Here is your Angel Card Reading for this week.

For the Beginning of the Week, Your Angel Card is:

Courage

 

Courage – Archangel Ariel:  “Be courageous, and stand up for your beliefs”

“In this situation, you need to act upon your convictions, even if others disagree.  I’m protecting you from harm, and guiding you to be a loving warrior of light.  As you stand up for your beliefs, you’re a role model for others.  This is an important form of spiritual teaching, in which your example gives others courage to also stand up for their own principles.”

Your Angel Card for the Middle of this Week is:

Prosperity Angel Card

Prosperity – Archangel Ariel: “Your material needs are provided as you follow your intuition and manifest your dreams into reality.”

“I’m pouring a cornucopia of prosperity upon you and your life, and ask that you open your arms to receive.  Some of the treasures will come in the form of brilliant ideas, and some will come as opportunities. We’ll work together to realize your highest dreams, and I ask that you give any worries to me.  God and I love you very much, and are happy to help you in this way.  We know that you’ll pass along the goodness to others as well.

 

Your Angel Card for the End of this week is:

Archangel Haniel

Archangel Haniel

Moon Cycles – Archangel Haniel:  “Notice how the moon affects your energy and manifestations, and capitalize upon these cycles.”

“The full moon is a perfect time to release anything you’re done with the new moon is the time to focus on manifesting desires and intentions, and the evening before the full moon is optimal time for healing, and for recharging healing instruments such as crystals and oils.  Spend time looking at the moon, and notice how you feel in relationship to its cycles.  As you discover the moon’s connection with your vitality and mods, you’ll be more in touch with its Divine magic.

You Are Here for a Reason

We are all here for a reason.  We don’t even need to know why we are here, except to know that what we do here is important.

Not what we do here as in our jobs or our finances or our success.  But what we do here as a human soul.  How we treat people, how we love, how we respect (people, animals and mother earth).  I sometimes see memes on social media that say “We don’t need more successful people” ~ that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Success doesn’t necessarily equal money.  That is where you get tripped up all the time.  Yes, we need money to buy things in our world, but money does not equal success.  There are some very rich people on this planet that aren’t successful at all.

We need successful people.  We need you to be successful.  Be successful at loving, at being kind, at being a good parent, at your healing practice, or at your office job, or your labour job, just be successful.  If you are successful, you will be happier, you will be helping to raise the vibration of the collective on earth.

Things changed big time in around 2006 (and earlier, but more people noticed it then), and reality as you knew it no longer exists.  For some of you, what you thought was your reality has been challenged beyond anything you could have imagined before then.  March 20, 2015 has now catapulted us forward again, the energy is different, it will not go back to where it was.

lightworker

You Are a Lightworker

Most of you reading this are lightworkers whether you acknowledge it consciously or not.  If you didn’t come here to help mother earth through this transition, you likely wouldn’t be reading this.  There are many people on this planet that think what I write is a bunch of bunk; and that is perfectly fine.  They are not the ones I am here to help at this time.

We need to be successful at living.  We must be successful at loving.  We must do our best to wake up most days with a smile on our face and love in our hearts, and spread it as far and wide as we can.  We need to help here.

Some of you may be suffering, but don’t suffer over your suffering.  You can still muster a smile and you can still muster happiness and love.  I know it can be done, because I have suffered through much myself and I know it doesn’t last unless we decide to hang onto it.

You are a powerful being, you chose to come here.  The world needs your help if it is to remain healthy and to be inhabited by humans.  You know who you are.  You can feel it as you read this.

So start defining your success by how you feel and how you uplift others.  You will find that you have a purpose, and you are successful.

Love

Tamara  

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Its Not Your Fault

I swear these are the most disempowering words in the English Language.  Its not your fault.  So many of you yearn to hear those words.  So many of you use those words when you talk to yourself.

“Its not my fault”

Its not my fault the Law of Attraction doesn’t work.  I can manifest small things, but not big things so the LoA must not work.  I can manifest some things quickly, but not others.  Its not my fault the Law of Attraction only works some of the time.  I can manifest bad things almost instantly, but the good things take forever to show up, if they bother to show up at all.

I have some good news and some bad news.  The Law of Attraction does work, and if it is not working in the way you would like it to, it is because you have some subconscious beliefs engrained in your energy.

That’s it.  That is the good news and the bad news all in one sentence.  How good or how bad it is depends on how you look at it.

I was having a discussion with a healer friend of mine last night and we were talking about our own manifestations in our lives.  We were talking about all the positive things we were in the process of manifesting.  We also talked about the seemingly ‘negative’, or more aptly put challenging things that we were going through.

The only difference between me and her and the rest of you, is that her and I both take 100% responsibility for what happens in our lives.  We know we created it, we take credit for the good and the bad.  When it is something ‘bad’ (uncomfortable), we both immediately ask ourselves the question, “Why is this happening, why did I create this for myself?  What do I need to be aware of?  Where in my life does something need to change and why?”

No blame of others, no blaming of ourselves, just questions that brings awareness.

You cannot fix what you don’t acknowledge.  The minute you say, this is not my fault, I am doing everything right, I have no limiting subconscious beliefs, the Law of Attraction isn’t real, or something outside of me sucks, is the moment you give your power away and you start down the road of getting the ‘same old same old’.  Nothing in your life can change.

This is your choice.  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  It doesn’t have to stay that way.

subconcious

How do I start to clear subconscious blocks

Stop blaming energy for acting like energy.

Acknowledge that maybe there is something going on that you are not aware of.

All it takes is a whole bunch of self-awareness (it takes more than ‘a little’ self awareness, most of you reading this have some self awareness).  The willingness to acknowledge that maybe your subconscious mind is tricking you and is in fact in control of your life.

If you had no subconscious blocks you would have what you want or at least know exactly why you didn’t have it.  You would be able to see with your conscious mind exactly what was holding you back.

There are many modalities that can help you recognize and clear your blocks.  Psych-K is one of them, the Millennium Method is another, a psychic reading with me can help you recognize and clear your blocks, Akashic Records readings can sometimes help.

You can get good at meditation and listen to your own Higher Self when it (*you), tells you what subject matter you need to work on.  That is how I usually do it, (that or the Millennium Method) but I realize most of you are not interested in spending the time it takes to make this effective (that is why you hire others as mentioned in the previous paragraph to help you).

There are a lot of ways that you can find healing for yourself; but none of them will work if you don’t first acknowledge that you are responsible for your life, and if you want things to work out the way you hope they will, you will have to change something.

Stop saying “its not my fault, I think positive but things just never work out, these people who talk about the Law of Attraction are lying”.  Start saying, “Wow, I have studied the Law of Attraction and I think I know how it works but I keep attracting things I don’t want, maybe I have a limiting belief that I need to acknowledge and clear”.

Then get to work and clear it.

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.