Archives for October 2015

Happy Halloween ~ Clear Energies Tonight!

halloween 2015

 

I have done a check-in with my peeps and the energy for this evening feels pretty good.  There is not a lot of drama in the day so it should be a reasonably calm day and evening.

Of course, there will be some people who are a bit impatient, and yes, there will be certain people drinking, partying and creating too much drama for themselves, however, generally speaking the planetary energies are calm.

No funky overbearing moon or planetary energies either.  Just a lot of enjoyment to be had from what I am getting.  So feel free to get out without too much concern if you have plans.

I must say though that the energies of today can also help you focus on home and family, so you might just want to hunker down and hand out candy at home like I will be doing.

No matter what your plans, have a wonderful evening.

 

 

 

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One Step Forward Two Steps Back

I have a lot of you coming to me saying that this is how you feel.  Like you start to get somewhere and then all of a sudden you are propelled backwards and you feel worse off than you were before.

It doesn’t need to be that way.  What is it you are trying to manifest for yourself?  Are you able to let go when you start your forward movement or do you move forward while trying to hang on to old stuff?  The ‘stuff’ can be ways of thinking or being, or fears or actual physical things or people.

Do you go with the flow when things start to move forward?  Or do you start trying to dictate exactly what it is going to look like?  Are you able to redirect yourself when something goes a little bit sideways or do you fight it tooth and nail and end up going backwards (instead of just sideways a little?).

Do you find that when things start to move forward you get a little bit nervous and then stop moving?

When things go forward do you allow yourself to practice gratitude about what is moving?  Or do you complain about what hasn’t yet come into form?  Do you always seem to find something to complain about even when things are going well?

I’m not writing this to place ‘blame’, or to make you feel lousy when you feel as if you move backwards.  I am writing this to bring your attention to why things work the way they do for you.  Mostly because I hear so often that when things start to get good, they then get worse than they were before.

If you can learn to celebrate the slightest movement forward, you will find that you are less likely to slide backwards.  Going backwards is a practiced vibration.  If you believe in “Murphy’s Law”, you will create Murphy’s Law moments occurring in your life.

If you are always allowing drama into your life and are constantly celebrating your ability to ‘overcome adversity’ you will in essence create more adversity to overcome.

What you focus on and what you talk about is what you will create more of.  So when a little thing goes well, if you talk about that and focus on that, then more will go well for you.  If you rant and rave and constantly talk about what is good in your life and really feel it and really appreciate it, you will get more of that!!
something better waiting

 

Do NOT mistake Wishful Thinking for Manifesting

A lot of you also think that if you wish for a specific thing hard enough you will get it.  Sometimes it works that way, but when there is something you want it is generally a feeling that you are wanting.

Lets say you want to move into a specific house.  What you really want though is the feelings that you will have if you get that house.  You may see things moving in a positive direction for you moving.  You may even find that events and circumstances seem to be keeping you away from that particular house.  This could feel like you are moving forward, but then when that particular house isn’t available you feel as if you’ve gone two steps back.  What if you were to go with the flow and be grateful for where you are at and how far you have come.  You would find that although you might be at a bit of a standstill for a while (things going sideways on moving into that specific house at this specific time), if you were to go with the flow and keep your vibration high, you would wind up in the perfect spot for you whether it was that house or a better one (based on your high vibration).

This example would work the same for a job or in other circumstances, including finances, as well.  Like if you started to be saving up money and paying down debt and are working to keep your vibration high and attract good things to yourself.  Then your car breaks down and you wind up with either part of your savings gone or your debt back up.  If you keep your vibration high and go to a place of gratitude for having the money to fix your car, you will get more to be grateful for.  If you go to thoughts and a lower vibration of being angry or feeling like you are going backwards, you will create more circumstances that make you feel as if you are moving backwards.

Hoping and wishing that things will be different won’t work without the proper vibration on your part.  Making promises, even to yourself, that you are in no position to keep (yet) won’t make things ‘magically’ happen.  As a matter of fact, they can keep things away from you because the stress of knowing you don’t have it yet can actually create a vibration within you that will keep it away from you.

Your Expectations of Other People can also Create a Feeling of Moving Backwards

You cannot control other people or things.  If your are moving forward while having expectations from other people and they do not do what you want them to do when you want them to do it, it can feel like you are moving backwards as well.

In this case, you aren’t really moving backwards, your forward movement just stopped because you were wishing that someone else would do something and they didn’t do it.

If you can train yourself to know that you create 100% of your life, then you will be able to train yourself to keep your vibration high and roll with things that don’t look exactly like you thought they would.  You will be more able to keep moving forward without the feelings of being flung backwards.  You will begin to see setbacks as opportunities for re-direction rather than a “negative thing that keeps happening to me”.  This takes a lot of practice (and awareness) and it isn’t always easy, but it does make for a more comfortable, flowing life.

Here is a great audio from Abraham that expands on this and will help you to raise your vibration.

Abraham Hicks, how to leave fear out of your life and start attracting

(This audio in this ends around the 11:24 mark even though the video continues on after that).

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

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My how things have changed… post on Religion, Prophecies and Beliefs from January 2012

I just found a blog post that I wrote in January 2012.  Wow!  Have things ever changed since 2012!

I know I’ve written blog posts that say the end of 2012 was not the ‘end of the world’, and that it was the beginning of something new.  Dec. 21/2012 ~ remember that day!, oh my!  What a big deal it was leading up to that!

Anyway, I came across this post from the beginning of 2012, before the big shift in consciousness.  No kidding, this is how it used to be for people like me.

Usually when I share posts from before it is because what is written still applies and can still be helpful for you now.  I am sharing this one because things have changed so much in the past 3 years, this doesn’t even seem to apply anymore… its like 90% of the people that I cross paths with are AWAKE, and even the ones that aren’t don’t seem quite so afraid (as the ones written about in this post).

Not sure if you all have noticed this change as well or not, but I wanted to share this “old” post as a way of showing what the “old earth energy” used to feel like more often than not.

You Are Love

You Are Love

 

 

 

 

Prophecies and Religious Views

I’ve been thinking of writing a blog post for a while about fear and religion and how it fits in with what I do.  Those of you who have been clients for a long time, know the difference between a Fortune Teller and a Psychic and Medium and what I do.  When I connect with your energy, I can usually see where you have been, where you are and where you are headed.  I tell you what direction you are headed in and I assist you to make your own choices based on the path you are on.  You are either happy with the path and continue on, or you are not happy with it and make adjustments to change things.  It is so very rare when I see something for someone that seems like it cannot be adjusted.

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CFS, Autoimmune Diseases, Fibromyalgia and Friendships…

I have read a few articles circulating on Facebook the past week that walk you through “what a real friend” looks like.

One of the things I have noticed that these articles have in common is that they will say, “If your friend is constantly too busy or too tired to get together, they are not a real friend, we are all busy and tired”.

I wanted to write an article on that subject but with a bit of a different spin on it.  I am what those articles would call a “shitty friend” for lack of a better way to put it.

Thing is, I have suffered from adrenal fatigue and some weird sort of an autoimmune disorder for years.  For the most part I often feel healthy and happy and I have learned to live with it when I don’t.  I am so happy and grateful that in the past month I have met a doctor that is doing all kinds of tests on me to see what my body is up to.  (My old doctor just said “you’ve got CFS” ~ really?  WHY THOUGH, I want to know WHY!)

It is epidemic how many people are suffering with issues like this.  I am 100% positive it is an imbalance of sorts that has numerous causes.  I don’t think that any ONE thing impacts us, I think it is a combination or “perfect storm” of different things (maybe even a few ascension symptoms thrown into the mix).  I also think that its not the same for everyone, for those of us that have an issue, we all have different ways that it can manifest.

 

I wrote this in Miami!

I wrote this in Miami!

I love my friends (and my clients and my readers, thank you).  Unfortunately, I have a really hard time physically being there for my friends sometimes.  Its not that I am always busy, but I do go through stages where I am exhausted.  It comes and goes.  Some months I have tons of energy and can do a lot of things, and other months I swear I sleep 14 hours a day.

I sometimes have a hard time making plans to get together with friends because I really don’t know how I am going to feel.  Its not that I don’t want to, its just that sometimes I can’t trust my body to do or be what my mind wants.

For those of you that are reading this that have a friend who seems perfectly fine but that can sometimes be elusive, maybe try listening to what they say, rather than what you assume.  When I say to someone, I didn’t phone you back because I was sleeping, it doesn’t mean “you aren’t important”, it means “I was exhausted yet again and I was sleeping”.  I try really hard to let my friends know where I am at with my energy.  I love them and I don’t want them to think I don’t care when I can’t plan a weekend away, or if I can’t help them move over the weekend.

I would LOVE to be “normal”.  To be able to make plans for two weeks from now to do something physically demanding, or do something late in the day, or to just know that I will have normal energy levels next week.

For those of you that are reading this that have some sort of autoimmune disorder or fibromyalgia or anything, maybe its time to let your friends know.  You don’t even necessarily need to give them all the details, but letting them know you need more sleep than most people or something might help.  I can relate to not wanting to tell people because it is so very hard for someone with normal energy levels to understand what it is like.  They get tired too ~ they just don’t realize how tired (and/or sore) you get from seemingly nothing.  Most people wake up in the morning a little groggy and after a coffee or shower they are ready for their day ~ for some of us (sometimes) once we have a coffee and a shower we are now ready for a nap.

I think those articles doing the rounds on Facebook are doing a disservice to some friendships.  Things aren’t always what they seem, and just because your friend is having a hard time getting together with you doesn’t mean that you should ditch them as a friend.

If they are kind to you and you share a connection hang onto them.  Good friends are very important.

EVERYTHING HAS MORE THAN ONE PERSPECTIVE.  That is my entire point of writing this article.  I don’t need sympathy, I’m doing just fine, very healthy and happy (just a little tired sometimes).

My point in writing this is so that if you have any health issues, you don’t feel so alone.  My point in writing this is also that if you have a friend that doesn’t seem to be able to ‘step up’ in the way a lot of people do, it doesn’t necessarily mean you should write them off as a friend.

As always, with love,

Tamara

 

 

 

 

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Super Full Moon in Taurus – October 27, 2015

So this is our third Super Full Moon in a row (August, September, now October), and the last one for a while.

Many have been feeling the effect of this moon since the weekend (Saturday even).  Some may be feeling a little impatient.  This is partly because we’ve cleared so much and are raring to go but there seems to be a bit of a hold on useful activity.  At the beginning of October so many of us felt very optimistic and were thinking of future plans and what we wanted to do, then bam!  It was like things stopped.

Don’t worry too much about this, we’ve just been in a little bit of a holding pattern.  Maybe work has slowed down, or you’ve been feeling a little less inspired, or you aren’t quite sure what to do next even though you want to do something ~ anything…

Given that, I don’t think its surprising that this moon is going to remind us that we need to blend who we are on the inside with who we are on the outside.

supermoon energies oct 2015

Many people are not honoring who they truly are, they are pretending to be something they are not.  This moon will provide a push to be your authentic self.  I’m not surprised this subject has come up in some of my blog posts over the past few weeks.  Even in yesterdays Angel Card Reading the card of the week is Balance.

Full moons sometimes illuminate things that have been hidden.  Are you hiding anything from yourself?  From those that are closest to you?  Do you even know if you are hiding anything?

Taurus full moon makes us realize that we deserve more in our life.  Because of that, this moon can also bring up issues around self-love, acceptance, worthiness.  Know you are loved and know you are worthy.  Take advantage of this time to purge yourself of old emotions.

Release your fears.  Be yourself.  Do what makes your heart sing.

If you can get outside under the full moon, you might find it helps to recharge your batteries.  While outside, do a little meditation and go to your heart centre.  Listen to messages from your heart and your higher self ~ they will provide clues as to where you can blend your inner self and outer self and feel more in rhythm with who you really are.

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Angel Card Reading for the Week – Oct 26 – November 1, 2015

Here is your free Angel Card Reading for this week, October 26- November 1, 2015

Overview of the energy for the week:

 

angel card tarot reading

Archangel Zadkiel

Balance ~ Archangel Zadkiel

The need for balance and moderation.  Cooperation and compromise.  Wait for perfect timing.

The angels are cautioning against making impulsive decisions or moves right now.  Instead, take the path of moderation and balance in this situation.  You’ll experience better results by revaluating your current circumstances and changing your approach.  If you acted impulsively in the past, you can heal and rectify things.  And if you’re considering making dramatic life changes, then this card asks you to approach those changes slowly and methodically.

This card encourages you to work cooperatively with others, and to see things from their point of view.  Compassion and kindness are keys to successfully manifesting your dreams.  Forgiveness also brings healing, which allows for new beginnings.

Keeping a moderate pace.  Cooperation and blended ideas.  Self-restraint.  Finding the balance between action and contemplation.  Waiting for better timing.

I am sure the reason the card of the week is Balance is due to the full moon tomorrow. A lot of you are feeling like you want to be doing something but don’t know what. I will write more on the Moon tomorrow.

For the beginning of the week your Angel Card is:

Archangel Chamuel

Archangel Chamuel

Career Transition ~ Archangel Chamuel:  “Your life purpose is triggering a blessed career change.”

“You’ve prayed for help with your career, and it’s now occurring.  Sometimes change is perceived as stressful, yet I’m helping to clear the old from your life to make way for the new.  Pay close attention to your repetitive ideas, dreams and visions, as these are Divinely inspired roadmaps pointing the way along your desired path.  You may not see the entire road (or where it’s leading), but each step will be lit along the way.”

For the Middle of the Week Your Angel Card is:

free angel card reading august 31 2015

Archangel Raguel

 

Divine Order – Archangel Raguel:  “Everything is how it needs to be right now.  Look past the illusion, and see underlying order.”

“A win-win situation is brewing, one with solutions that are fair to everyone involved.  This requires you to have blind faith that Heaven is working behind the scenes to extract the highest good for all.  Ask me to buoy your faith if it wavers.  Use positive affirmations and prayers to keep your spirits high.  Above all, make sure that your conversations about this situation involve positive and optimistic words and phrases.  You’re so powerful that your positive thoughts can speed the resolution along even quicker.”

For the End of the Week (The Weekend), your Angel Card is:

free angel card reading

Archangel Michael

 

Remember Who You Are – Archangel Michael: “You are a powerful, loving and creative child of God. You are very loved.”

“You are made in the image and likeness of your Creator, so you embody aspects of all those qualities. Your inner Divine light is pure and bright in truth, and no mistakes can undo God’s handiwork of true perfection. Don’t be afraid of your power, your magnificence, or your wisdom. When you succeed, you inspire others. When you change your life so that it’s more aligned with your interests, you inspire others. Be powerful! Be magnificent! This is who you are.”

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

The Path of Least Resistance

creating my own reality

Thoughts are Things

This is a great Abraham audio.  No matter what you want, or what your challenge might be, this will help.  It has a really good explanation about your beliefs and your subconscious and your vibration.  I think all of you that are wanting something should listen to this.

For those of you that could relate to the relationship posts I have posted in the last couple of days, especially the one from yesterday, What are You Willing to Bring into a Relationship, this audio will probably help you a lot on that subject as well.

Love

Tamara

Abraham Hicks, You Don’t Need People Validating You

 

 

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What are you willing to bring into a relationship?

I talk to a lot of you that say you want a relationship.  Many of you have been hurt in the past and you have baggage that you have not yet released.

You say you want someone to make you happy.  You want someone who is trustworthy, who can make you laugh, who can ‘complete’ you.

Only happy people can share happiness.  Are you happy?  Can you bring happiness into a relationship?  Without conditions?  Just plain happiness and a sense of being okay with yourself?

If not, then what makes you think someone else can do that for you?  Would you want to get into a relationship with someone who didn’t like themselves just how they are?  Would you want to get into a relationship where the other person was a ‘project’ for you?  Someone that was so insecure in themselves that they needed constant reassurance that they were okay?  Someone who had so much baggage that they couldn’t trust you no matter what you did?  That were afraid to live their own life because they thought they needed to be someone or something else in order to attract the right partner?  Someone that once they got more comfortable turned back into themselves because they were being someone else to attract you?

Think about those things long and hard before you say you want a relationship.  What are YOU bringing to the table in a partnership?  You need to bring yourself.  Not a pretender, not an insecure hurt person, YOU.  The real you.

someone to complete me

So many of you think that you want a partner so badly.  That ‘if only I had a partner I would be okay ~  I am not okay on my own’.  Thing is, you would not make a good “partner”, you would simply make a good “dependent”.  All of your thoughts, feelings and self-esteem would be “dependent” on what the other person said or did or how they acted.  That is too big of a job for anyone to take on.  You need to be good with you and who you are ~ alone or in a partnership.

Anyone can find someone to spend time with.  If you are lonely you can date, or have sex or whatever you want.  Just don’t expect anyone to complete you EVER.  No one can, its an impossible thing to do and it is not fair to them, nor is it fair to you.  No one can “make you feel”.  Feeling is something that comes from INSIDE and is something you need to do for yourself.  There are lonely people who are surrounded by others and there are happy people who are alone.  IT COMES FROM A FEELING INSIDE.

Some of you say, I don’t want to date and waste my time on the wrong person.  What are you doing by sitting there waiting for the ‘perfect’ person to come along and fix your life for you?  Now THAT is a waste of time.  All those days where you could be out doing something with someone, laughing, having fun, and you choose to stay home and not ‘waste your time’.

If you want a relationship, start by being okay with who you are.  Don’t judge yourself by how other people see you.  Start being okay with how YOU see YOU.  There is the perfect person for you out there.

Relationships can absolutely help you grow.  But if you have stunted your own growth with your thoughts and feelings, no one can change you.  That is your job.  Thing is, there’s probably not a lot you need to do to change.  Except for maybe doing some energy work to let go of your old crap, and learning how to be yourself, how to appreciate yourself for who you are.  Once you do that then the perfect person can see the real, complete, happy you!

So, if you find yourself saying “I want a relationship”, ask yourself, are you ready for one?

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a phone psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Abraham Hicks on Wanting A Relationship

what is love

I know a few of you are looking for relationships, and that some of you are even afraid because of your supposed “baggage” around relationships.

I wanted to share a couple of awesome Abraham Hicks audios with you.  Listen to them more than once if that’s what it takes.

I love the end of this first one when Abraham says “I wouldn’t tell you even if I knew” (if this was ‘the one’).

So, for all of you wanting a relationship, here you go.  If you aren’t in a space of wanting a relationship, there is still some good information on vibration in these ones.

Abraham Hicks 2014 “I want a life partner”

 

 

 

Abraham Hicks ~ I Want To Find My Love

This is a good one for those of you that have had a rough time in the past and really know what you don’t want.

“I want to meet a great guy” ~ (or great gal), if this is what you are saying to yourself, this one might help you.

 

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a phone psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Change always starts with YOU

I know I write about change a lot, and our world is changing for sure and it is changing in the most wonderful ways.

I have been getting a lot of emails and messages from people lately and they ask me when things in their life will change.  For sure I can see influences coming up for people and I can see what is the most supported by the Universe and what the easiest path might be to any potential future.

What I cannot do though is make the changes for you.  If you are reading this and thinking “something in my life has to change, I feel so stuck (or sad, or lost)” know that things absolutely can change for you, but you need to do something differently.

If you get up in the morning and think the same thoughts and do the same things and stay in the same vibration, you will get more of the same for today, and tomorrow, and next week and next year.

how do i change my life

If you really want change in your life you have to change something.  It doesn’t even need to start with a drastic change.  It can be a small change.  It can be a change in the thoughts you are thinking.  Everything starts somewhere, and it is always with a thought.

You CAN change your thoughts.  Some thoughts are harder to change than others for sure, but it can be done.  You need to practice awareness of what you are thinking and then let yourself think something different.

Asking me ‘when are things going to change’ is pointless if you are not willing to change something.  We are living in the most wonderful time in the recent (eons) history of our planet.  It is so easy to create in the energy we are in.  Things are manifesting so quickly and so easily for us now.

If you want change, you are going to need to use this energy to your advantage instead of using it against yourself.  If you are thinking that your life is stuck, you will manifest more things that make you feel stuck.  If you are thinking that people are horrible you will manifest more interactions with horrible people.

Don’t ask “When will things change for me?” ~ ask “What little thing can I change to feel better?”

Some of you are messaging me saying “a psychic told me that things would be different in my life by September, and so far everything is the same”.  Or a psychic told me that my lucky week would be the first week of October and nothing happened.

Thing is, there for sure are influences that can help you to make changes, or lucky time frames for you, or times when the energy will be really good for things to transform for you.  BUT YOU MUST TAKE ACTION.  If you wake up at the exact same time every day, and do the exact same things you always do, and sit on the same couch every night watching television, and go to bed without doing any one thing differently that day, then the “luck” and the “change” pretty much goes out the window.

You need to take advantage of this energy.  You need to allow the Universe to provide for you, you need to do something with it.

If you want something in your life to change, you are going to have to change something in your life (Wayne Dyer).

So, now that you have read this far, what are you willing to change?  What are you going to do differently today?

If you feel stuck and not sure what to change start with one of these easy ones:

  • Meditate
  • get a bit of exercise (or get outside in nature)
  • read a book (if you are an avid reader already, read something different)
  • pay attention to your thoughts for the day and see what your subconscious mind has been up to
  • make an effort to smile for no reason while you are sitting staring at a computer screen
  • write a list of all the things in your life you are grateful for
  • write a list of dreams or wishes you would have for your perfect future (without judging them or talking yourself out of them)

Your future is NOT set in stone.  If you want a different life, you need to create a different life.  You can do it, I know you can!

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a phone psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.