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Mid January 2016 Check In

Hi Everyone!!  Hope your 2016 is going fantastically so far!

I wanted to publish a quick note to update you all on what is going on with me.  I have not posted many blog posts lately however I have been doing tons of work in the background to help you all better and be more efficient in the process!!!

Firstly, I did a 21 Day Energy Healing/Clearing for some of you in December.  I got such an overwhelming positive response that I have decided I will be doing them 4 times per year!  I have not yet posted the new page for the Sessions that start March 9, 2016 but hopefully will have one up soon.  If you want to make sure you get in now before the Canadian dollar gets any lower you can still use the links that are in this post and get on the list for the next 21 Day session.  (At the bottom of this post is an email I received after the session.  It is 100% as was written.)

On another note, my website was hacked.  For those of you who could not get in to look at it, its good now.  It took me over a week to get it fixed but its done now finally ~ all clear and free of any issues.  I ended up doing it myself (thank goodness I’m reasonably technical), because I reached out to 4 different people/companies and not one was able to help me quickly.  I probably saved myself about $400+, but it took a lot of time.

Now that my website is all clear, I can get back to work.  That brings me to the next update.  I am really busy right this minute.  I got way behind in a lot of things and am working on catching up.  If you have sent me an email in the past week or so, or if you are waiting for me to send you information, or for an email reading, please be patient with me, I will do my best to get back to everyone as soon as I can.

I am going to have someone do up a new website for me.  It will take some time, but I should have a new amazing site up in the next few months.

Which brings me to my next thing.  I am going to hire someone for administrative support.  If you are looking for some part time work, this is what I need:

Must be extremely computer literate.  Once my new website is done, I will need someone who can transfer content, one page at a time without changing any code on the page (except what needs to be changed).  Experience with Aweber, Social Media (Facebook, Google +, Twitter), Windows, Word, Outlook, making memes, etc.  And of course anything else I that comes up.  I’m not sure if I will need someone physically in my space ~ probably not, although if you are local, help with filing would be awesome, I’m way behind in that as well.

I will wrap this post up for now, hope you are doing amazingly well!

With Love (and some excitement for all of us for the 2016 year thrown in!!)




Here is an email I received after the Energy Healing/Clearing in December.  Yes, things can shift this much, and in this many areas:

Hi Tamara! And Happy New Year!

The last 3 weeks has been a real game changer for me, to say the least. I have learned how effective this energy work and healing really is. The biggest reason why I joined the 21 Day Energetic Healing and Clearing was to get help with grounding my energy in general; or my lack of energy and over abundant energy (at the same time) to be exact. LOL! I have discovered that attitude & gratitude are my key components to having my energy grounded, healed & “realigned”. I can literally feel the change, the shift, and the healing. Thank you for working through it with us.

Each day as I did my gratitude work & contemplation time (yes I discovered I do my best meditation lying down & I am OK with that) the things that I had been holding onto for such a long time just lifted and released. Especially the relationships that were not serving me and the negative thoughts I have had for years around them. My mantra through the last 3 weeks when I got any kind of stinking thinking as I call it, is to tell myself, “IT”S NOT MY MONKEY!” then let it go and change my thought: like I would change the subject if I didn’t want to talk about something. And it works. I have had to let go at least in my own mind some family relationships that became one sided on my side. And I have come to the understanding that if they are to be rekindled it will have to be from their side. I can’t give out to them anymore, but I will most certainly if they want to breathe some life into them. And although it is not the norm for me I am OK with it. I have accepted that reality. For me that’s pretty much my whole battle is to get out of my own way and leave things be.

Since about the first week or so I have not had the exhausted – energy serge in my body; I still lay down a lot but I do my meditating instead of sleeping. I don’t feel depressed like I did, that has almost totally lifted. I have also realized that because I am empathic I need to cleanse my aura, my chakras etc. more. I live in a 55+ condo (we are actually a registered village in Abby) that has 500+ people residing and I think Ron & I are the youngest ones here. The average age is like 80 and I feel there is a lot of negative, depressed vibes that maybe get passed to me, psychically. We have only been here like 2 years and all of this really bad depressed, negative energy etc. stuff for me started really bad when we moved in here. So I am going to start smudging a lot and really soul cleansing often during the day to get rid of any residual crap from others in our little village here. I always feel better after doing a reading because I release any energy that I have tapped into. So that’s something huge & wonderful I have learned in the last 21 days.

Prior to these 21 days the feeling was one of real indescribable urgency. Like if something didn’t shift I would literally explode. Around mid-December I had a really bad surge of energy and it physically hurt, like crazy. I even went for a drive and ended up at my sons place and he could notice I was really in pain. So I explained the feeling, like restless leg x a million through my whole body. So I went home, went to bed and woke up the next day at a normal time (7am) with a completely different feeling, a real calmness. I knew whatever was pent up for so long was gone, done and finished with. And I did my gratitude work that day with a whole different exuberance! Pretty much every day since I have been able to go to bed early (by midnight LOL!) and get up at a decent time, by 8am with a whole different mindset. That’s the key for me to change my mindset. My circadian rhythm is actually starting to get in sync. I have decided I need to make life about me first, then bring it out to my surroundings. If I am not centered and balanced I can’t help anyone. I am a helper & a nurturer. I am a healer. Man that makes my soul feel good to say that. I have always said it like I was ashamed of it or afraid of what people would say about it. I have always questioned it but after these 21 days it is as clear as crystal for me. I have been a healer all my life. That is my soul purpose for this life and the ones gone past. But I have to be OK first, and then I can bring it to others. I think maybe this is why I have been learning how to effectively deal with my own energy so I can help others to learn to deal with theirs or be able to clear theirs for them so they can take the next steps?? There is always a reason why we have experiences right?? Oh man I am so grateful beyond belief for this light bulb moment and your help!!

I have always been a vivid, in color, full on dreamer and it has magnified during the 21 days. Going forward I will record them nightly. I get a lot of my visions and answers about life & healing from my dreams, both waking and asleep. I can literally ” awake daydream” something into existence. Weird but true. I will be doing more studies on this because it is such a HUGE part of my life. I always said if I had a nickel for every novel I could have written just from the story lines I’ve dreamed I would be rich. Well maybe there is something more to it. Since I started the 21 days the dreams are even more vivid (didn’t know they could get any more real & vivid) and quite prophetic but I don’t know the relevance of them yet. Maybe it can aide me more in my Tarot readings??? We shall see; but my mind is clearer and it feels so, so, soooooo different. Pinch me please!
I am really looking forward to the next 6 months or so rather than dreading even stepping foot out of bed. That right there alone has been worth the 21 days.

I will continue to do the chakra cleaning once a month at least if not daily and release shit from my life as it comes up. No more holding onto stuff, people, things, thoughts, patterns, beliefs, habits, and food etc. that does not serve me to my highest good. Even my hubby Ron said he notices a big change in me. He said my step seems lighter and I don’t seem so depressed. Don’t get me wrong it is a daily struggle but I don’t feel the same dread & urgency that I did. Ron is even OK with making some positive changes in himself in the next while. WTF!!!! That fricken blew me away. He came home on Thursday, the day after the earthquake and I told him how scary it was for me. About an hour or so later, we were both lying down because I didn’t sleep well after the quake and he said sorry for the first time EVER. His words exactly were, “he was soooooo very sorry I had to go through feeling so overwhelmed and scared and he was sorry I had to be alone through it.” He’s never said sorry to anyone especially me for anything ever since I’ve known him. His whole negative attitude is changing because he sees a positive change in me maybe??? Don’t know but I am for sure going to keep this on a roll; maybe negative and depressed causes negative and depressed?? If I change myself for me maybe this will spark a change for him and those who see the change in me?? Maybe I will be a ripple effect out to all in my world?? Maybe that’s all the focus & purpose I have needed all this time to save my life and my marriage?? These 21 days was my last resort. And by golly it is working. Thank you so much!!

There are so many more things to say but you get the picture. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing the stand in work for us and doing the energy healing. It was so worth the time and effort! I have learned so fricken much!! I will do it again in the future. It would be good for me to do at least twice a year.

With much love and blessings to you . . . Star*

(link to Star’s website:

Angel Card Reading for the Week January 4-10, 2016

Here is your free Angel Card Reading for this week, January 4-10, 2016


Overview of the energy for the week:

Knight of Water
Knight of Water:  Deep emotions arising from situations or relationships imopact your life.  Falling in love or a wedding proposal is possible.  You (or someone close to you) need to balance your emotions, lest you become overwhelmed. You may receive invitations to parties or other social opportunities.

People represented by Knight of Water:  An extremely emotional person who’s driven by a love of romance, art and beauty.  Someone who is charming, contemplative, and idealistic.  Sensitive.  Romantic.  Imaginative. Enthusiastic.  Refined.  Moody.


For the beginning of the week your Angel Card is:

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Archangel Jeremiel

All is Well ~ Archangel Jeremiel:  Everything’s happening exactly as its supposed to, with hidden blessing you’ll soon understand.

“Sometimes, what appears to be a problem is actually an answered prayer in disguise.  When we ask for help, Heaven may dismantle the old to make room for the new.  During this time of change, practice relaxation methods such as yoga, deep breathing, exercise, and meditation.  Ask me to make your transition smooth and harmonious for everyone involved.  And know that this change is for the better!”

Your Angel Card for the Middle of this Week is:

Archangel Sandalphon

Archangel Sandalphon

GentlenessArchangel Sandalphon: “Be very gentle with yourself at this time. Surround yourself with gentle people, situations, and environments”.

“Sandalphon wishes to help you feel peaceful and centred, and he strongly advises that you begin by listening to gentle music. Play it wherever you go. Talk quietly and engage in slow, rhythmic movements suck as swaying to music or a gentle yoga session. Don’t engage in battles at this time. Instead, retreat from conflict while you revive your spirit an become even stronger. Delay decisions making at this time. You’ll know exactly what to do when you emerge from your gentle retreat.

For the End of the week your Angel Card is:

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Archangel Raphael


Breathe – Archangel Raphael:  “Take several deep breaths, and exhale slowly to awaken your energy and to release old patterns”.

“Often during times of stress, you may unconsciously hold your breathe.  Yet, as you know, breath is essential to oxygenating your mind, body, spirit and very life.  Write a note to yourself to breathe, as a reminder of the importance of invigorating yourself with deep and steady beaths.  Make trips to places where fresh air is plentiful.  You’ll also notice an increase in ari quality when you’r near water, such as the beach or a lake.  Even taking a shower or bath puts you in touch with the positive ions associated with water and air.”



If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

The Only New Year’s Resolution You Need

There is one thing you can do for yourself this year that is guaranteed to change your life. It can change your life so drastically that it will feel like magic.

Make the New Year’s Resolution to pay attention to what you are thinking and saying and how you are phrasing it.  Then re-phrase things where necessary.

They don’t always teach this in “Manifesting School”, but being unaware of what you are manifesting is the biggest block to happiness and success for most people.

How you phrase things, and what you say you want can make all the difference in the world.

Firstly:  What is it you want? Be clear on that.

Most of you when asked what you want, will list off a bunch of things that you DON’T want. It seems to be human nature to phrase things that way.

Here are some examples of how you can replace your negative thinking with more positive thinking.  How you can begin to manifest what you do want instead of manifesting what you DON’T want.

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What most people say about money:

“I don’t want to struggle anymore.”

“I can’t save money”

Instead say:

“I want to be financially comfortable”

“I can save $10 this week”


What Most People Say About Relationships:

“I don’t want to attract another guy/woman that treats me badly and can’t be trusted. I’ve had so many bad relationships, I want a good one now.”

“All the good ones are taken”

Instead say:

“I want to share my life with someone who loves and respects me as much as I love and respect them”.

“I know there are good single people in the world, I am single and I am good”.


How Most People Phrase the Simple Things

When talking to kids.  “Go to bed, you want to have a good sleep so you are not late for school”.

Instead say:

“Go to bed now, you want to have a good sleep so you can get to school on time feeling refreshed”.


What most People Say about Body Image/Weight/Health:

“I am so fat. I eat way too much crap food and I don’t move enough.  I am sick of feeling this way, I want a change”.

“I really don’t like this (fill in the blank), about my body/health.”

Instead say:

“I love my body. I like to eat vegetables (insert any food you like that you know is healthy for you here) and it feels really good to move around.  The more I move my body, the more I want to move my body”.

“I am really grateful I woke up this morning and that I am breathing.  I am grateful that I have my eyes, or can get around (or whatever else your wonderful body does for you).”

How most people state things is focused solely on what is NOT wanted. You already know what you don’t want ~ STOP AFFIRMING IT.

You need to affirm what you DO want.

I guarantee that if you do this consistently and long enough, your entire world will change in the most positive ways!





If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.