Comments on: Help, My Son / Daughter Sees Ghosts

By: Tamara Hawk

Tamara Hawk — Sun, 23 May 2010 17:16:31 +0000

Hi Crystal,
What city do you live in, perhaps there’s someone that could talk to you and/or your son. I might not be able to do it justice by just typing in a brief answer, but I will try.
As for asking ghosts/spirits to leave your kids alone. You need to think of them just as you would a human being. For example, if a flesh and blood person came into your house, as a mom, you would likely demand that they get out of there. You might or might not be afraid, but chances are you would be firm and demanding and there would be some expectation on your part that they would go.
If you asked the person to please just go with no expectation whatsoever that your words would have an impact, they wouldn’t have an impact. If you approached the person with total fear and the energy (and body language etc), that you couldn’t and wouldn’t do anything if they stayed, they would likely stay.
You need to know that you have control over what energy is allowed to be around you. If you feel you cannot do this, then having an expert in to help, or even asking clergy or using whatever resources are available to you will help you.
Finding someone in your area that can speak to you in person, might be the key to helping you out.

By: erin jenkin

erin jenkin — Sat, 22 May 2010 03:18:43 +0000

hi my son is 6 and claims he sees a little girl and a boy he says they look like normal kids but that they alwals wear white and that there hair is white he said only the girl talks and says things to him,he dose not respond back to her as he is a little scared because her voice is litte bit scary.I have told him not to be scared and talk back to them at first i thought he might of been having dreams or something but he is adimit they are real,he describes were they were and what they were doing etc.

By: Crystal

Crystal — Sun, 16 May 2010 10:14:43 +0000

Hello,
I am a concerned parent. We have lived in this house almost 2yrs. I have a 2yr old and a 5yr old. The land lords aunt past away in this house. I have heard her walking threw the house and she has knocked stuff of my mantel and even opened my bedroom door while I was in there with the boys. Now my 5yr old is acting like she has taken over his body. He has come out of the bedroom screaming that he saw something in there. My 2 yr old has woke up screaming like someone has hit him or scared him so bad hes shaking. My 5 yr olds eyes turned blacked tonight and got real big and where moving all over the place. He will talk in a deep voice and laugh at you if you try to tell him something. I don’t know what to do he never acted like this before. We are looking for another place to move but no luck so far. How can I get her to leave him alone ? I have asked her to not hurt my boys, but didn’t work.

By: Tamara Hawk

Tamara Hawk — Mon, 03 May 2010 02:02:07 +0000

In my experience I have found that spirits can get things to me if they want to. Whether through having me find them, or by having some other physical person put it somewhere that I will find it. When I come across it, they tell me it is from them.
I haven’t myself experienced a spirit just walking up to me and handing me something, although that doesn’t mean I have a closed mind about it happening, I suppose it might be possible.

By: jessica

jessica — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 00:01:25 +0000

hello i have a 9 yr old son who has had two near death experiences. he has been telling me that he sees dead people. im not sure how to react he also has ADHD. know that it is getting worse its at the point where theres rooms in our house that he refuses to go in alone and sometimes when he sees these things he trembles and cries and when i ask him why he is crying he says i dont know why i cry i told him try to talk to these ghost that you see he says hes to scared. I want to know how to find out if these ghost are real and what should i do for him he demands it be quite it has gottin to the point where he doesnt even want to be in our home I am scared for my child. Can anyone help me? please help me and my son out i dont know what to do for him and it hurts me not knowing what to say or do for him i try to comfort him but he doesnt want it at the time of seeing these objects he doesnt like being touched. He is lossing sleep talking to people in his sleep, grades are going down, PLEASE im begging for help my email is peachie895@yahoo.com

By: Dana

Dana — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 06:21:41 +0000

Is it possible that a ghost or spirit can give a material gift to you. my daughter has a necklace that she said her ghost friend gave her recently. she is having more sightings especially of a young girl she seems to really have taken a liking to.

By: Tamara Hawk

Tamara Hawk — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 14:57:57 +0000

Hi Maria,
First thing I would say is to not even mention it around anyone who is not supportive. It is hard enough for those of us who see things without having people telling us there is something wrong with us, or worse yet, that we are being manipulated by evil.
You need to allow your daughter to talk to you, and try your hardest to not be afraid yourself. Our psychic children can feel our fear and it just scares them more.
You need to let her know that she can control this. She can tell the people (ghosts/spirits/energies), that she does not feel comfortable with to go away.
I was brought up roman catholic myself and my family was very supportive of me. However, after reading parts of the bible, and going to church I would get scared myself. Even with a supportive family, it took me into my 30’s before I was 100% convinced that it was okay, and that the things I was seeing were not evil and that if anything came around that had denser energy I could tell it to leave.
I’m not sure what religion you are but I remember being scared one time as a teenager and I said “in the name of Jesus Christ, leave me alone” ~ and I said it a lot of times. It worked for me.
As an adult now, I know that I can chose who is allowed to be around me. If I feel anything that I do not feel comfortable with, I just surround myself with white love and light energy and know that I am protected. Nothing dark can come anywhere near the light.
Just as we empower our kids to yell and get away from physical danger, they can do the same thing with non-physical things that feel dangerous to them. THEY DO HAVE THAT POWER OVER THEIR ENERGETIC SUROUNDINGS. We also all have our helpers from the other side, and angels, Ascended Masters (which are usually religious icons), and asking them for help does work.
Keep letting your daughter know she is safe, and try and not allow talk of her gift around anyone that might say anything at all about demons, evil, and satan. You can check out the “Meditation for Centering, Grounding and Protecting your Energy” on my site here and share it with your daughter. It will help to keep any energy away from her that is undesirable. Including the fear energy from her father.
I agree that it would be a good idea to find someone in your area that can talk to her. Maybe if you respond and tell us where you are from me or someone else will see and be able to point you in the direction of someone close to you.

By: Tamara Hawk

Tamara Hawk — Sat, 24 Apr 2010 23:11:14 +0000

Hi Dana,
I will try and get back to you and reply to your email in the next few days.

By: Dana

Dana — Fri, 23 Apr 2010 17:15:44 +0000

I left a concern email a week ago & was hoping to hear from you I will try to resend If I can find it I sent it through your site about my daughter & her many seeings lately

By: Maria

Maria — Thu, 15 Apr 2010 03:04:52 +0000

My 12 year old daugter just began to see “ghosts/spirits” She is deathly afraid of most of them. One spirit she does not mind visiting her is our dog we put to sleep two months ago. She sees him daily. My problem is My husband is very strict with his religion and he is convinced that these spirits are demons or satan at work. I think that there are good spirits and bad spirits and that not all of them are bad. I feel so alone with this and do not feel I have anyone to turn to. I can’t tell my family because they too do not believe as me and my daughter do. Do you have any advice or a support group I can turn to?