Our World IS Changing

June 14, 2013 by Leave a Comment

Fasten your Seatbelts!!

I’ve written before about moving from the 3rd Dimension into the 5th Dimensional energies.  There are still a lot of 3rd Dimensional energies here on our planet.  Our Souls have come to earth to have a 3D experience.  Maybe one day I will explain how we can have 3D and 5D, but for now, this post is about something else.

The best part of this, is that from the 5th Dimension, we can create what we want.  Many people are waking up and choosing love and light.  People are tired of running on the treadmill that just a few on the planet have put them on.  I wrote a post many years ago stating that there was enough on the planet for everyone.  And there is.

It just so happens that there are a group of people on the planet that control our banks, government, food, media, energy, pretty much everything that we rely on or use.  They want to keep us disempowered so that they can have their “elite” lives, and we can do all the work for them.  They have helped turn our governments into dictatorships, and they are spying on us and trying to shut us down.

They came up with the phrase “Conspiracy Theory” so that anyone that questioned them could be labeled a “Conspiracy Theorist”.  Once they did that, they said that Conspiracy Theorists were simply nuts.  I don’t believe that EVERYTHING we see is a conspiracy, nor do I believe everything I read.  I do however, KNOW that a lot of what we think is real is not.

This small percentage of people, we will call them the ”Elite Class”, are really scared that we are waking up.  They are trying really hard to keep control, but its not working anymore.  People are coming forward and speaking up.

I have been blogging about this change since 2008.  It is upon us.  We need to keep feeling LOVE and PEACE.  No fear, no anger.  Just LOVE and PEACE will get us to the new reality we want.  What we focus on is what we create 100% of the time!  Please focus on LOVE & PEACE!

I have so much to tell you about this.   I try and keep my posts short but I will be writing a lot over the next little while.  About 3D stuff and what is really going on.  I am not a Conspiracy “Theorist”, but I see and feel what is going on.  WE CAN CHANGE THE WORLD FOR THE BETTER.  We don’t have to stay under that control of the Elite (they control the Government).

I think the first thing we need to tackle is the “Global Threat to the Internet”.  Calling people “Conspiracy Theorists” and “nuts” didn’t work, so now they are trying to shut down our internet.  This is not widely known and is being left off of the “Regular News” media.

Too many people are waking up and listening and sharing online.  “They” want to shut us up.  WE CAN BE THE CHANGE.  Please check out this link and sign the petition (I did 3 weeks ago and never got spammed so don’t worry about that).  It will take you a minute and its important.  Let your voice be heard.

Our last petition worked here in Canada (the one where they were trying to charge us a lot of extra money for bandwidth and being online).  That was ‘their’ first go at getting people off the internet and it didn’t work.  This one, the Trans Pacific Partnership (TTP) is worldwide.   Together lets stop their second attempt.

Don't let them shut down our Internet. Sign the petition, BE THE CHANGE

Don’t let them shut down our Internet. Sign the petition, BE THE CHANGE

 

 

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I’m tired of people telling me what to do!

June 14, 2013 by Leave a Comment

There is an energy out in the world right now that is really pushing us to be our authentic selves. We really need to be true to US. Who WE ARE. What we want. We need to stop worrying about what other people might think or say or do.  We have been PROGRAMMED (mostly by the media).  They keep telling us what to do, or who we need to be to fit in.

Stop being so afraid to be yourself!  You are wonderful!  You need to let your OWN light shine, NOT someone else’s idea of what or who you should be.

People can Respond to us being us, or they can React to us being us, but either way, that is their ‘stuff’ not ours.

I want to share that I am going back to my maiden name for most aspects of my life.  If I call you now, you will see my maiden name on your call display.  If you join the Global Information Network as an Affiliate under me, you will see my maiden name.  My maiden name is Hadath.  Not quite as pleasing to some as Hawk, but Hawk became my surname in my early 20′s, I’m turning 47 this year and its time to change back!  (no reflection on my current relationship, his name is not Hadath or Hawk).

I am ME.  I am happy to be ME.  Proud to be ME.  I will take back my given name.  My website will stay the same because its been www.tamarahawk.com for almost 10 years and I will be easier to find that way.  But some other communications from me will say Hadath.

I had a “business professional” tell me that it would not be a good idea to do this, that it might confuse people or put them off.  I am going to do what I need to do and bet that you will be okay with it.  I will practice what I preach (and listen to the messages/nudging I get from the Universe), and I will be ME.

So far today I have “unsubscribed” to 4 email lists.  Yesterday I unsubscribed from two.  As they come in, I will unsubscribe from more.  Not that I have a lot more, but some.

There are quite a few that I will stay subscribed to, but I am tired of getting emails that tell me what I need to do to grow my business, or what I need to change about WHO I AM to be successful.  I will keep the ones that are encouraging me to be the best ME that I can be.

I already consider myself to be successful.  I have this picture on my wall that I bought about 5 years ago.  I look at it often, almost every day.

This is how I feel.  I feel successful.  I AM living my life in my own way.

There is only one Success ~ to be able to spend your life your own way. Christopher Morley

There is only one Success ~ to be able to spend your life your own way. Christopher Morley

I was talking to a coach the other day, not my regular mentor but a coach.  (I coach people, but I think its important for Coaches to have a coach too!).  Anyway, he says to me, “I think you will just have to get yourself a niche, and change your specialization and/or what you say you do”.

I was like “WHAT?!?”  Are you kidding me!  I am who I am, I do what I do.  I am all for adjusting, learning, changing and growing.  I have changed many things over the years.  One thing I will NOT change is who I AM or what I do.

 

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Lies I Was Told About Getting Older

June 9, 2013 by Leave a Comment

I’ve been thinking about this subject for a few weeks now, I will be 47 at the end of June 2013, which I do not consider to be old.  Some of you in your 20′s will beg to differ with this opinion, and some of you in your 60′s and 70′s will consider me a spring chicken!

The reason I started thinking about this is because I realized I had some belief patterns that were a little stuck in my subconscious mind.  When we believe something we make it our Reality.  If we believe it can’t be done, we quit trying.  If we believe this is how life is, then that is how OUR life is.  This is where I found myself to be.

I am actively working on replacing these old limiting belief patterns with new ones that will serve me a lot better in my life.  My young and vibrant life!

THE TOP 5 LIES I WAS TOLD ABOUT AGING

  1. Beauty fades – I heard this a lot when I was younger, and still see it around now on Social Media sites and hear it from some “inspirational” speakers.  Beauty changes, but it does not fade.  I know some very beautiful women that have 20 or 30 or even 40 years on me.
  2. It is harder to lose weight as you get older – our metabolism might slow down a little bit, BUT … it is because we LET it.  Kids have a higher metabolism, but they are constantly moving (unless they are addicted to TV or video games, but that’s another subject).  The less you move, the slower your metabolism.  Your metabolism might not be as young as it used to be, but you probably aren’t moving as much as you used to either.
  3. Your body gets stiff as you get older – with some people yes.  But it doesn’t HAVE to.  You might have to make a more conscious effort to keep from getting stiff, but it doesn’t have to happen.  Not saying that I never have stiffness in my own body, but I find that doing yoga, or even the most basic of stretches can keep the stiffness at bay.
  4. Your memory isn’t as good as it was when you are younger – this is almost true for me, but its because I have let it be.  I am working on changing certain aspects of that.  I find that with some things, it is not always that your memory isn’t as good, its that a lot of things are a lot less important than they used to be.  You may not need to ‘keep score’ with certain things anymore.  Another reason, is that we allow ourselves to get wrapped up in a lot of different thoughts at once.  Practicing awareness of what it is we are doing and thinking can improve our short term memory.  As can exercising our brain.  Doing certain puzzles, or playing memory games can help.
  5. It is harder to change or accept change as you get older – I don’t believe this at all.  I believe that there are a lot of older people who do not like change, even ones that used to embrace change, but once again, this is all in your head.  Some people, as they get older, lose sight of having a future goal.  It is our future goals that keep us going.  As we get older, our goals might change, but we can still have them.  If we do not have a goal to strive for, we get stagnant:   You are either growing or dying.  Without a goal, you are essentially dying (this can be at 20 or at 90).

Some of you who are quite a bit older than I am might say that I just don’t know what I’m talking about.  You might be thinking “Just wait till you get to my age!”   I guess all I have to say to that is “okay”.  When I was a kid, I had people who were in their 40′s saying that to me – we’ll I’m your age now, and I don’t feel as lousy as you told me you felt back then.

Now, and in the future, I will try and keep my mind and my body moving.  I will make goals, and I will move toward them.  If I find myself getting ‘stuck in a rut’ (been there already many times in my life), I will pick something, anything new to begin to move towards.

 

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How to Feel Better Right Now

May 27, 2013 by Leave a Comment

I guarantee that no matter what your circumstances are in life, you CAN feel at least a little bit better.  Our thoughts are things, and our thoughts are energy, and they control our life.

More than 95% of the thoughts that you had yesterday are the same thoughts that you will have today and tomorrow.

Start by being aware of what you think about when you first get out of bed.  Are your thoughts positive, or are they the same old negative thoughts and feelings about hating your job; feeling busy; being angry; upset with your body; worry?

Whatever thoughts you have WILL create more similar thoughts throughout your day.  If you want your life to change, if you want to feel better, try the following for ONE WEEK.  I guarantee you will feel better if you do.  It is extremely simple, and once you have tried it, you will want to continue with it, probably forever.

What is it?

When you get out of bed, rather than think all the same old negative thoughts that you have had almost every day of your adult life up to this point, I want you to say to yourself “I’m Alive, I’m Alert, I Feel Great! ”

If you can get that stuck in your head, much like you would get a song stuck in your head that woke you up with your alarm clock, it WILL improve your mood, your day, and your life (over time).  Add in a smile and a couple of deep breaths and the energy will be even stronger.

If you are running this phrase through your head, you will not be able to have those other negative thoughts running through your head.  Thoughts are things and thoughts are energy.  Our thoughts create our reality.  Generally, we can only have one thought at a time.  Why not keep it ultra positive and see how your day goes?

Try it.  It is one of the simplest things you can do to start to change your life, one moment, one day at a time.

Once you’ve tried it for a week, I would love to hear how your life has begun to change, leave me a comment below!

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If You Want Things in Your Life to Change, You Have to Change Things in Your Life

April 24, 2013 by Leave a Comment

Think about that.  Really think about it.  What are you willing to change to have a better life?  You really can change anything at all.  Anything that you wish to be different in your life can be different.  You do not need to stay stuck in your present reality.  You, yourself, can do it, although we all can request and receive help.  All it takes is a willingness to do something differently.  Sometimes it doesn’t even matter what it is that you do differently, as long as it is something that you are not presently doing.  Or maybe it will be something that you need to give up.

What are you attached to that you are unwilling to change?  For some people it is a job, for others it might be a relationship, habit, or way of thinking.  Some people request a psychic reading, and they are wanting to hear how amazing their life is going to be in the future.  Thing is, they are stuck.  They are holding on tight to their old belief systems, and/or way of thinking.  I guarantee that your life WILL NOT CHANGE, unless and until you are willing to let go of the energetic space you are holding in your present.

When I do psychic readings I see the parts of your past, present, or future that are important for you to know about, deal with or take care of.  I don’t get information on 100% of everything all the time ~ some things just aren’t that important.  If you are having a reading because you want change in your life, I will see what in your past needs to be let go or what blocks you may have; what you can do in the present to make changes, grow or heal; and what opportunities or challenges may lie ahead.

Ultimately though, you are the creator of your life.  If you want an exciting psychic reading, then be willing to do something exciting.  If you are sitting at home, feeling powerless, watching TV, unable to let go of the past and move forward into your life and your future, your reading will not be filled with excitement.  Without a willingness to change, a fairy is not going to come and tap you with a magic wand and turn you into a prince or princess.  You have it within your power to have or be or do anything that you want.  Please do not squander it by hanging on so tightly to what is or what was that you rob yourself of the wonderful life that you are here to experience.

We are living in a 5th dimensional reality now.  In the 5th dimension our ability to consciously create is greatly enhanced.  Think about that.  You can and do create your life.  If you believe you are stuck, you create more “stuck-ness”.  There is NOT something “out there” that will rescue you.  YOU are the only one that can rescue you.  We are God, God is us.  God is creator, we are creator.  Many people believe this, yet they cannot go so far as to take responsibility for their creations.  You may take responsibility for some of your creations, but when something that you do not anticipate, or that you deem to be negative happens, you put responsibility for it “out there” to some mystical force.

You are the Creator.  If something that you did not anticipate happens, or something negative, all that is required to create differently is to be aware.  Many of the so-called ‘bad’ events in our life have simply been re-routing opportunities.  Did you take the opportunity to re-route your life, or have you allowed yourself to stew on what happened and become stuck?  Our thoughts create our reality.  If something has happened in your life, there are two ways you can look at it … “this event has ruined my life forever” (I see this one in the media all the time ~ very disempowering), OR, “this event was very uncomfortable, but I can get through it, I do not need to let it be who I am, I CHOOSE to heal and move forward from it”.  Both of these statements are DECISIONS.  HUGE difference in where you end up based on what you decide.

If you have decided that your life sucks and that you have no control over anything, then your life sucks and things will continue to be “done to you”, and there will be very little positive movement.  I see this with some of the people in my life and it is heartbreaking.  I connect with their soul and I see and feel the potential and the love and what their higher self yearns to do, but they refuse to see things differently.  Refuse to let go, refuse to change, refuse to see a positive potential.  Hopefully if you are reading this, you at least have an inkling that your life can be different.  Very few people who are extremely stuck would even be drawn to be reading this far in this post.

YOU CAN DO IT.  You don’t always need to do it alone, there are many of us that are willing to help you.  The world is full of healers and mentors.  They do not do it for you, they help you to do it for yourself.  Your guides, the Angels, the Ascended Masters, the Universe, are all there to assist you.  If you ask, you will receive help.  You just need to be willing to change something and allow for the help.  If you insist on keeping the status quo… that is exactly what you will get.

If you would like to change your life, permanently, in any area, perhaps mentoring/coaching will help you.  If you are serious about making changes in your life, I would be happy to talk to you to see if Psychic Mentoring with me would be right for you.

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Be Careful Who You Listen To

April 5, 2013 by Leave a Comment

I have come across an awful lot of people lately that are calling themselves “psychic” that simply ARE NOT!

Some are offering “intuitive readings” and charging a heck of a lot of money for them.  Not all of these people are operating from the LIGHT.  The majority that I have come across (some I have met in person, some just online), are not psychics, and they are operating from a place of their EGO.

They have learned to listen to their intuition ~ good for them.  YOU also have an intuition, whether you know it or not.  I could easily teach you how to listen to it.  Heck, you could just decide to start listening to it and voila!  You are now “an intuitive” (everyone is).

This DOES NOT mean that you would be qualified to charge people money.  NOT if you are telling them you are ‘psychic’, and doing it to pad your own ego, rather than because you truly LOVE people.

It takes a LOT MORE than intuition to claim to be “psychic”.  If these people saw HALF what I see it would blow their freaking minds!

“Psychic readings”, do NOT start with “tell me all your problems and your questions, and I will “intuitively” tell you what to do.  THIS IS NOT A REAL READING/HEALING SESSION!!  PERIOD!!

I do not ever claim to know everything.  None of us do.  Our guides, loved ones, etc. do not want to tell us what to do.  Once someone crosses over, they really don’t care what colour you paint your kitchen, or what you do for work for the rest of your life.  It is your life.  LIVE IT!!

If someone starts to dictate your life for you, stop listening.  Stop the “reading”, stop everything.  I see all kinds of things.  Future things, past things, present things, potential things.  WHAT YOU DO WITH THE INFORMATION AND HOW YOU LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE IS UP TO YOU!

Readings are meant to empower you.  They are not meant to live your life for you.  They are not meant to pad the ego of the supposed “reader”.  They are for you, and when you are involved in one you should feel the love.

Not saying my readings are NEVER uncomfortable.  Sometimes confronting something that you haven’t wanted to confront can be difficult.  BUT, I really don’t remember the last time I told someone something that was uncomfortable for them that they didn’t already know (relationship over, job ending etc.).

I don’t get information that is going to screw up your life.  Why would LOVE do that to you?  It makes no sense at all.  Every being that I connect with comes from love ~ I ask for that and I intend that ~ no information that comes from love will ever hurt you (aside from the occasional bruised ego, but that’s easy to manage).

YOU ARE THE CREATOR.  Remember that.  Its important.  Don’t let some “intuitive”, tell you that you have no control over things.

When you get a reading, the person you are sitting with should be able to tell you at least a little bit about you from an energy perspective before asking you more than your name.  Not that your name is important, its just polite.

If you want a decent reading, there most certainly does need to be give and take.  I expect some questions, and I do want to know if what I am saying makes sense to you.  As stated earlier though, I do NOT need your birthdate, whole life story, the names of all your family members, every problem you ever had, etc. in order to help you.  They should be able to TELL YOU what kind of a life you had at home growing up, not the other way around.

Please don’t bother with ego ridden people that just want to prove ~ who knows what they want to prove  ~ most of them just parrot your own words back to you anyway.  They can do a lot of damage to you.  They parrot your words back, you think they are ‘psychic’ and then you begin to listen to everything their HUGE EGO tells you.

Okay, end of rant for now.

Much Love

Tamara

Here is a great video by Carolyn Myss I came across today… (its part of what got me started….)

Notice when she mentions how many people are coming from a place of POWER, rather than EM-POWERING others.

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Who do you let into your life?

March 28, 2013 by Leave a Comment

Who do you let into your space?  Not just your home or physical space, but into your emotional, energetic space?  Do they prop you up, or do they drain you?

If you want to be successful in any aspect of your life, you need to surround yourself with your fans.  This doesn’t mean that everyone in your circle of family or friends needs to worship the ground you walk on, or even agree with everything that you do.

What it does mean is that you need to remove people from your life that are constantly bringing you down.  When you are surrounded by people that say “You can’t do that”, or “You are doing that wrong”, or “what a stupid idea”, or “You need to do this instead of that”; it can suck the inspiration right out of you.

To be successful in anything, you need to have a cheering section, not a jeering section.  Every time someone says something negative about your ideas, or your inspirations, it puts a little thought in your head that maybe you can’t do it, or maybe your idea wasn’t as good as you thought it was.

You need to stop letting people like this into your life.  Take a close look.  If there are people in your life that you simply cannot avoid, (more your perception than fact) that are not helping to make you feel good about you, at the very least, please use a bit of energy work to block their energy.  Best case scenario though is to avoid them altogether.

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Are We Meant to Be?

March 24, 2013 by Leave a Comment

This is probably one of the most common questions I get.  You meet someone and feel a really huge connection.  It’s as if you have known them your whole life.  It feels so comfortable to be around them, you talk for hours, being in their presence feels like ‘coming home’.  There is a sexual attraction too.  You just love the way they look, how you feel when you are around them.  You really think that they are ‘the one’.

Then a short time later, usually it is only weeks or maybe about 3 months max., all of a sudden this person, the person you thought was your Soul Mate, that you felt so comfortable around, starts to change.  They start to take off and pull back from you.  Your relationship may be off and on for quite some time.

They start to accuse you of being controlling.  When you ask them “What happened, I thought you loved me?”  The response you get is usually similar to “Well, this is the real me, get used to it”.

What happened here?  Why can I not let this person go?  I feel as if I am obsessed with them, I cannot stop thinking about them.  I have never felt like this before.

If you find yourself in this situation, there is an explanation.  And here it is:

As Souls we live in many dimensions.  In our lifetime we come across many people (Souls) that we knew before.  Whether in a past life, or just from our existence in another dimension.  Chances are, if you are reading this, you are aware of “the other side”, and know that there is more to our existence here than just this 3D reality.

You are remembering a connection with this person from another dimension.  It does not exist for them in this dimension.  They initially feel the same connection of ‘coming home’ that you felt, but that is not what they are wanting or able to experience in this moment.

On a Soul level, you may have agreed to meet up on Earth at this time so that you could remind him/her of something that he/she does not want to remember right now.  You hold a space for them to remember, and be who you know they are on a Soul Level, but that is not what they are wanting at this point of their journey.

They are vibrating on a completely different frequency than you are.  This is their choice.  You cannot chose it for them.  They are a Soul having a human experience and they are chosing a different experience than you are.  You see their potential, but they don’t.

Just as you have had opportunities for spiritual growth in your life that you were not ready for, they are not ready for the growth and the space that you are offering.

This does not mean that you have failed, or that they have failed, it just means that at this point, in this dimension, you are in different places.  It is important to realize that just because you are connected to someone in a different dimension, it does not mean that you “MUST” be together in this one.

Once you realize what you truly are to each other it can be easier to let go.  You stop questioning what you did wrong.  You stop asking what you can do to make things better.  There is nothing you can do about anyone else’s path or choices.

On a soul level it may feel as if they are breaking a contract with you that you made a long time ago.  It is their path and their journey and their lessons that they are living and learning in their own way, at their own pace, and you cannot do it for them.

You need to release the need to ‘show them who they are’ on a soul level, and move on so that you can attract someone into your life that is vibrating at the same level as you are and that you can grow with more comfortably.

I’m hoping that this explanation will help bring you peace and enable you to release these energy cords more quickly and less painfully.  You do not need to try to keep up your end of the ‘contract’, when they are not able to live up to theirs.

I have had relationships in my life like this too.  I know it can be hard to let them go when you know how beautiful and loving their true soul is.  However, I also know how liberating it can be to realize that they are not where I am, and if we are meant to meet again on the other side we will.  All you can do for anyone is offer them love, and then let them be.  You cannot force love (and light), onto someone who is not ready for it.

 

 

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Are You Allowing Yourself to Receive?

March 22, 2013 by Leave a Comment

Why is it so hard for you to receive or accept what is offered?  The Universe is extremely abundant.  There is so much available to you.  Love, money, food, housing, friends, health, the list is endless.  You all have something that you want more of in your life.  Don’t you think its time to actually let it in?

Yes, often when something is offered there needs to be an exchange of energy.  There are many forms of energy.  Emotions are a form of energy, work you might do for someone is a form of energy, money is a form of energy.  I personally exchange my gifts and my knowledge for money.  I prefer it this way, when I do this, I have more freedom to exchange my money for the gifts and knowledge that I wish to receive from someone else.  Sometimes gifts and knowledge can be exchanged for the gifts and knowledge of someone else directly or exchanged for services.

Love and gratitude are also energy.  Sometimes we might do something for someone and the only energy exchanged is love.  Each situation and each person is unique in this regard.  We all have a currency, and our currencies change day-to-day, circumstance to circumstance, moment to moment.

The remainder of this post, is about money and financial abundance.

First off, if you want more money, you need to ask for it.  So many people think that they should not charge for what they do.  I am not saying to never do something just out of the goodness of your heart, but “Ask and ye shall receive”.  No asking, no receiving.

Another point.  Make sure that you are not ONLY placing value on that which you pay for.  I myself, do have somewhat of a belief that “You get what you pay for”, and will often pay more for what I deem to be ‘quality’ rather than cheap out on something.

HOWEVER, I also work with the Law of Attraction, and I often ask for things that I want in my life.  If I ask for something and someone comes along and gives it to me, (even for free), I have NO PROBLEM whatsoever in receiving it with gratitude.

What I am getting at with this post is that sometimes things will just come to you, out of the blue, with no strings, simply because you asked.  You need to get out of your head, stop thinking “Can’t get something for nothing” and let yourself take it!!!

I know it’s a foreign concept for most people because we have been programmed in a very convoluted way, but you CAN get something for nothing.  A lot of the time.  If you get your vibration to a certain point, and start allowing yourself to hold a higher vibration, stuff will be attracted to you like dog hair on black jeans.

If someone offers you something that you want, or would like to try out, take it.  If they later ask for something in return (a further commitment from you to purchase something perhaps), make a conscious decision if you want or like or need what they are offering, and be okay with what you decide.  If you decide that what they are offering is not for you, that’s fine. Say so!  It’s not a big deal.  So you got something for free.  Be happy.  Don’t beat yourself up and think that you have any obligations to anyone.  You don’t.

If you decide that you want what they are offering, then buy it.  Pretty simple.

We have been programmed with such a lack mentality over the years we no longer even receive things without feeling guilty.  It’s like we have this bizarre notion that if we receive abundance then someone else will be going without something.  Oh, if I am rich then my neighbour will be poor.  Are you kidding me?!?

Right now you are both lacking!  What is you attracting abundance going to do to your neighbour?  Absolutely nothing.  Unless of course your neighbour asks how you are doing so well.  In which case you can teach him what you know and then you will BOTH have more abundance in your life.  You teaching him about abundance will no more make you poor, than you being rich will make him poor.

When we are empowered in ourselves, we actually feel good for other people when they are doing well.  At this point in my life, I genuinely care about you and I get really authentically happy when people around me (or even people I see), are happy.  I LOVE IT!

That is why I love my job so much.  I get huge amounts of happiness from seeing you do well!  There will actually be people who read this and think that I am being selfish.  “You are making people happier, helping them have more fulfilling lives, teaching them and helping them to have or be or do whatever they want and you are getting enjoyment from it!”  How dare you love your job!  How dare you charge money for this (reminder yet again, I have to eat, have a family and a mortgage, hello), how dare you be living your dream life while I suffer.  All I have to say to that is.  ALLOW THE ABUNDANCE TO COME, be truly happy for all you have and be truly happy for those people you see who have what you want.  YOu will create such a big ball of high vibrating positive energy it will have a gravitational pull stronger than the one of the earth, and you will pull and attract everything into your life that you could possibly imagine.

If you would like me to teach you more (yes, for a financial exchange of energy), you can see more on this page of my website.  Psychic Mentoring/Coaching

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Who Are You?

March 21, 2013 by 4 Comments

How do you define yourself?  What is it that makes you you?  Do you even know anymore?  Is your definition of yourself based on what the people around you tell you?  Or based on your health?  Your financial circumstances?  Where you live?  The work you do?

Who are you?  Really.  Think about it.  When you say to yourself “I am”, what follows those words?

Do you say, “I am a mom”,  “I am an executive”,  “I am a healer”, “I am sick”,  “I am struggling”, “I am a construction worker”, “I am busy”.

What are you?  Who are you?

Society tells us that without some clear-cut definition of ourself, a definition that must contain some third dimensional words, we have no purpose.  We are bombarded with messages that tell us we need to be busy.  I can’t even count how many TV commercials, shows, or Newscasts that I see that contain messages that we are busy all the time (think “Programming”).

When we see these messages, we think to ourselves that if we are not busy, or if we allow ourselves to just “be” or have some down-time, then there must be something wrong with us.  Maybe we aren’t working hard enough.  What is wrong with me that I am not all frazzled like everyone else, maybe I need to be doing more.  What can I add to my life that will make me more like everyone else?

What about the “programming” that tells us we are stressed, overworked, broke, stuck in a career and not really getting ahead?  We are told constantly that that is “how we (and things) are these days”.  The messages, and programs that we get bombarded with are there to keep us struggling.  We are told we have no power, no control, no peace, no calm.

Without some awareness that we are being “PROGRAMMED” it is really easy to fall into the trap of feeling completely dis-empowered and out of control of our lives.  We are not at the mercy of all these external circumstances.  WE ARE NOT!

We are only at the mercy of our thoughts, feelings, and vibrations.  What we think about is what we create in our lives.  Everything is energy.  Your thoughts and feelings are energy that cause you to vibrate at a certain level.  You can change your vibration by changing your thoughts.

There are many men and women out there that have no self-worth whatsoever unless they are ‘busy’.  They keep adding more and more and more to their plate in the hopes that someone, anyone, will recognize that they are worthy.  Please, tell me I am appreciated, please tell me that I am doing something right, please acknowledge that I am a someone, that the world would not be the same without me.

The problem with that is that your self-worth cannot ever come from someone else.  It needs to come from within.  No amount of doing, or busy-ness, or running around will get you what you want.  Chances are, the people around you are doing the same thing.  Do you even have time to acknowledge their contribution.  Most of the time, probably not.  Most people are too self-absorbed in playing this game of “busy-ness” to even notice others, never mind acknowledge their contribution.

It is a vicious circle.  The best way to get the recognition you deserve is from yourself.  Take a really good look at yourself and what you do.  Thank yourself for your contribution.  Do not resent the fact that you are busy and no one appreciates you.  Do what makes you feel good, and appreciate yourself.

There are some things that we must do.  Care for our children for example.  Do you care for your children in the hope that you will get some recognition for it, or do you care for your children out of a space of loving them and loving what you do for and with them? (If you do not have children, this could also be your job, your home, your relationships).

You need to treat ALL parts of your life like that.  Do what you enjoy and what fills your heart with love.  When your heart is full of love, recognition does not matter as much.  You end up recognizing yourself as a loving being, and worrying less when those around you are not loving.  You will be able to observe the fact that they are not loving ~ whether they are not loving themselves, or maybe not loving you or other people ~ but it won’t matter so much to you.  You will be operating your life from a place of love rather than judgement ~ of yourself or of them.

Even if you hate your job, there must be something that it is giving you.  If it wasn’t giving you anything at all there would be no point in doing it.  Love what it is giving you.  Even if it is just enough money, or not enough money.  Love and appreciate it for what it is.  The more love you have for anything in your life, the more love your life will give you.  Love will open doors and create more opportunities for you.

There are many people out there that have burned themselves out by trying to be what other people (or society) expect them to be.  If this goes on long enough it blocks the flow of energy and creates health problems in our bodies.  How this manifests is partly dependent on your belief systems and what part of yourself you are denying.  Sometimes the only way we think we can take a moment for ourselves is if we are sick.

This is not a conscious decision.  It’s not like “geeze, I need a rest, I think I’ll make myself sick so my family has to take care of me”.  It is a subconscious decision (yes decision).  ”I have done enough, I give and I give and I give and no one appreciates me, I always give more than I get,  I resent the fact that I have to do so much for so little in return!”

After a time, months, perhaps years, finally…BAM!  You just can’t take it anymore!  Your body comes up with fibromyalga, or chronic fatigue syndrome, or cancer, or some other illness that STOPS you in your tracks.  As much as the illness is upsetting to you, it is in and around your body because that is where you were vibrating.  You were resentful, or busy, or under appreciated, or trying to fit into someone elses perception of you, and your Soul just can’t take it anymore.

This is not meant to BLAME you for your illness.  I have been sick myself.  My doctor told me “Sounds like CFS (chronic fatigue syndrome) to me”.  He also said “I won’t give you a prescription for painkillers because I know you don’t like to take them”.

My naturopath said “Well, I won’t tell you you have fibromyalga because you do not belive that it is a proper diagnosis, but doing these things (she gave me a list of things, that people do when they have been diagnosed with fibromyalga) might work for you”.

A lot of people want a “DIAGNOSIS”.  It is easier to get a diagnosis and either give up, or try to “treat an illness” than it is to look inside at what is not working with your energy field.  It gives you a way to define yourself or your life.  It gives you something to focus on that is centred around you and self-care.  Your whole life you have likely been taking care of other people (whether they asked for it or wanted it or not).  Your entire focus was on how to help them, be there for them ~ defining who you were by how they saw you.

Now with an illness its all about you.  Why not practice self-love, self-care, self-esteem, allow yourself to do what makes you truly happy, (no martyrdom), and just skip the piece about getting “sick and tired.”  When you get to a space of being able to say simply “I am”, without any further words, that is when you will truly begin to know, love and appreciate yourself.

 

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