Abraham Hicks on Money

Money, credit cards, debt

So I came across these two videos and thought I would share them with you. They are Esther Hicks channelling Abraham and they are both related to money.

These cover off debt and money in relationships as well.

They won’t be for everyone, but if your financial situation isn’t exactly as you’d like it to be, or if you feel like you are not on the same page as your spouse, they may be helpful for you.

What if I can’t pay back my credit cards?

 

My Wife and I Have Different Beliefs about Money

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Give More To Get More

This post will hopefully help those of you who have your own practice.  I wrote it in such a way though that even if you don’t have a “business”, it can help you with life in general.

Over the years I have met many people who have helped me on my journey.  At some point or other I have mentioned most of them on this website.  You may need to look around, but if you are looking for a referral to someone who does a type of work that I don’t do, (or that does the same work as I do but are in a different city, and I know and trust them), you will probably find a link to them somewhere on this site.

If they write a blog or Facebook post that I think my own readers will find helpful, or amusing, or interesting, I will share it.  I don’t often re-cycle other people’s work on this blog, but certainly I will share their posts on my Facebook Page.

Something I don’t understand about some of you though, is your absolute fear about sharing other people’s goodness.  I am not talking about stealing someone else’s work and posting it as your own. I am taking about referring your friends and clients to someone who is good at what they do.  Sharing love with or about someone else takes nothing away from you. 

Help Others Psychic

Give Credit Where Credit is Due

One time when I shared another psychic’s link on my page, and wrote up a review for her on my site, she emailed me and thanked me because, she said “this can be a bit of a cutthroat business and I find that most people try and put other psychic’s down, not build them up”.

I couldn’t believe it.  I am aware that I think a lot differently than most people, but c’mon.  There are over 7 billion people on this planet.  There is a TON of work for all of us.  We don’t have to slag each other and put each other down, or hide who our friends are if they are in the same business as we are.

My readings aren’t for everyone, some people are looking for something I do not offer.  Or, I live in Chilliwack, and some people are not comfortable getting a reading on the phone and can’t drive here.  Why wouldn’t I give them a referral to someone in their area if I know of someone?  I’m not the only game in town.  I have many wonderful clients and am consistently meeting new ones.  I am not afraid that by helping one person find someone in their area or someone who is an expert in something a little bit different than I do, my work will dry up.

I have taken Reiki, but I don’t teach it, nor am I a master.  I have a couple of Reiki Masters  in different cities I refer people to when I need to.  I know a couple of people that do Akashic Records Readings that I will refer people to.  I know Shamans, Tarot Card Readers, website experts, holistic health practitioners, and other Psychic Mediums.

My circle of people reaches far and wide.  I am not afraid to share them with anyone.  I am here to help, I have always said that, and I have always lived that.  If helping involves beating someone else’s drum, then that is what I will do.

Don't be afraid to help someone else.

Don’t be afraid to help someone else.

If you have your own business (or even if you don’t) here are 5 Points to Help You Connect with More People:

1.  By living in fear that there will not be enough clients for you, you will not have enough clients.

2.  By thinking that sharing someone else (another company/practitioner/expert opinion), will take away from you or your business, you are doing yourself a great disservice (energetically and in your ability to truly help others).

3.  Not everyone that interacts with you or your website is going to want or need you when they find you.  If you truly want to help them, and other healers you know, don’t be afraid to speak up and share your connections.

4.  If you have your own blog, or your own practice, allow for comments, and allow for commenters to link back to their own website.  It will be a win/win for everyone.

5.  Even if the help that you give someone is to point them in the direction of someone else, they will remember that you helped them, and if they need what you offer in the future, you will be the first one they think of.

* I don’t get any ‘kickbacks’ from the people I refer.   What I get is the satisfaction of sending someone in the right direction for what they need.  I get the satisfaction of giving business to someone who has really helped me; I get to help them back.

We are all in this world together.  We need more cooperation and less competition.  More sharing, less hoarding.

 

 

 

*  I do sometimes have affiliate links to products on this website for which I receive a small commission, but if they are on here, it is for a product I have used or tested myself

 

 

If You are Feeling Financial Pressure You HAVE to Read This!

I know way too many of you that are feeling financial pressure and are “trying” to work with the Law of Attraction and you keep telling me “It doesn’t work”. It is hard for me to see and feel things so clearly and know that you don’t get it. I am going to write this post and try to help to make it more clear for you so that you can begin to see it work in your life.

Things that you do when you are trying to use the Law of Attraction and you think it’s not working for you.

• You talk all about spending money ALL THE TIME.
• You don’t talk about or dream about NOT spending. You don’t talk and dream about SAVING money, or paying back the people or institutions you owe.
• You constantly and consistently talk about spending and what you want but don’t have.
• You don’t say “I have DEBT and I need to work my ass off to pay it off BEFORE I spend anything else”
• You say “I have to be able to have SOMETHING for myself for all this hard work I do”. (Chances are if you are reading this you do have some things for yourself, either a computer or smart phone for one).
• You chase opportunities with your money. Whether it’s an MLM, or a training program, or a “work at home” scheme, you are always looking for the “next big money maker”, without picking one thing at a time and putting your focus on it. You waste hundreds, or thousands per year that you do not have, to “chase” money. If you do this, you are doing it from a place of knowing you don’t have money and vibrating in a place of lack. I am involved in a couple of MLMs but it is because I like the product and think it may help other people too. I rarely make money on MLMs because I do not join them to make money. I just have my FOCUS on doing readings and helping you that way. If I make money on an MLM it is because I have an abundant mindset, not because I am chasing anything. (There are many people in the same MLMs as me that ARE making money. They are making money that way though, because they put their FOCUS into it, and that is one of their main sources of income).
• You are always complaining about the prices of things, (food, gas, services, pretty much anything and everything).
• You spend money before you earn it and say “I will just manifest more for my bills (rent, food, mortgage, car payment) later”. This is a killer.
• You spend money on your wants before you take care of your needs. This leaves you feeling very stressed about having your needs met. Stress like this is pretty much “ANTI” manifesting what you want, and just manifests more of the stressful feelings of not having your needs met.
• You have read something that tells you that you have to be always thinking about what you want. This only works if you truly believe you can have what you are thinking about and if it makes you feel good to think about it 100% of the time. Here’s a tip. If you really believed you could have it, you would be able to write a list of what you want and put it away KNOWING that now that you have written it down, it will show up (even if it takes a long time and even if you NEVER think about it again).

The problem when you are “trying” to manifest is that you think about what you want, you think that you have to think about it day in and day out, see it on a vision board 10 times a day, and that will bring it. That will NOT bring it to you, and that will not make it come any quicker if you are not feeling happy. You need to be happy and grateful and loving before anything positive can come to you.

You think that you can just “manifest” money without getting off your ass and doing something. Yes, you need to do things that feel good, but I know very few people who feel good without some type of work to do. Sitting around day in and day out doing nothing does not feel good, and just creates through the Law of Attraction, more feelings of not feeling good.

You can say “I have to visualize what I want”, well yes, but if you visualize it KNOWING you have debt to pay off, that you cannot afford it, and feel like its a pipe-dream, you don’t feel good visualizing it.

Now that we have covered what may be some of your habits, let’s look at a things a new way.

Think of your debt as being similar to KARMA. Many of you reading this seem to understand karmic debt. Well 3D financial debt is pretty much the same thing. You need to pay for all the ‘stuff’ you have received (or used, or done) already.

With Karmic Debt, you said, did, spent something, either now or in a past life, and you need to ‘pay back’ before you can move forward.

What about paying for all the stuff you have already received? What about all the times you spent money on gifts for yourself or others? They (and you) don’t even remember what you bought them for Christmas last year, but you still have to pay for it. That vacation you took last month, last year, 5 years ago? Some of you have still not paid for it. You put it on credit, and never did pay it off. Just paying interest every month for years. You need to take responsibility for that. No one forced you to do it. YOU DID IT. YOU need to pay for it. Not grudgingly, but with happiness and gratitude for the trip (or the gifts or whatever you spent). Don’t spend so much time griping about the interest payments, no one held a gun to your head and MADE you spend that money. Every time you make a payment on that card, be HAPPY about it. You received something, now you are paying it back.

Of course the way to avoid this is to be patient and SAVE UP for what you want. If you REALLY TRULY believed in the Law of Attraction, Manifesting, and an Abundant Universe, you would NEVER spend money on credit again. You would simply write down what you wanted and KNOW that if it was for your Highest and Best Good, that it would arrive, and in the perfect time for you.

Do you have a vehicle? Did you finance it? Have you been paying for the same vehicle for the past 5 years, and still have two years (or more) on your loan? If this is the case, then you have likely bought more vehicle than you could afford. After the initial “high” of a nice new vehicle has worn off, do you find yourself complaining about the payments? Or that your car is now getting old and you might need a new one? Or worse yet, that you owe three times more on your loan than your vehicle is now worth? If you TRULY believed in the LoA, you would have bought what you could afford at the time and MANIFESTED more money for a better vehicle ~ or if you are a really good manifester, maybe you would have even won a car.

SMARTEN UP! Stop doing this to yourself. Stop making excuses. YOU ARE CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY. Financial and otherwise. Be grateful that it’s you. The SECOND that you take responsibility for YOUR OWN STUFF you empower yourself. You ENABLE yourself to begin to do things differently. If you find yourself complaining more than once a year (we all get ‘moods’) that the Law of Attraction does not work you don’t “believe” it. Those that really believe it, that live by the motto “I will see it when I believe it”, RARELY or NEVER question it. They go within, they pay attention to THEIR thoughts and feelings, they look for examples of how things are working or not in their life, they change, they work on becoming very aware of where their thoughts and feelings are going ALL THE TIME. They see and feel the similarities of the energy between seemingly unrelated events in their life. They KNOW it’s up to them, they do not BLAME (others, the economy, their spouse, their parents, kids….).

IT IS A FEELING. The “facts” have NOTHING to do with it. Nothing at all. If you cannot feel good about money, money cannot come to you. Stop complaining about how things “ARE”, take responsibility for your life, and start taking steps (no matter how small), to make the life you want.

Rescuing people from their continued lousy choices is not your job

You cannot flourish and do what you came here to do if you are too busy living someone else’s life for them. I often write about how you can empower yourself, but I cannot MAKE changes for you, nor can I make your life better. Only you can do that.

You need to realize that you cannot make changes for others, nor is it your job to make changes for them. It is up to them to do that for themselves.

Are you ready to live your own life? Or are you focusing so much on other people that your life is just put on the back burner again? What a great excuse to not step up to the plate and do what you came here to do. “But I have to do this for someone else first”. That is a bunch of hooey. Doing things for other people while doing nothing for yourself does not serve you, or them, or our planet.

If our planet was full of happy, abundant, successful people it would be a much better place. Keeping yourself unhappy, broke, and floundering is not helping anybody.

Have you brought “helping others” to a point where you are just enabling bad behavior in them? Is it an excuse so that you do not need to shine your light on YOU. Are you focusing on others because it is easier to ‘worry’ about them, and take care of them, than it is to step forward in your own life?

It is time to think about yourself. You cannot help others if you do not help yourself first. I am not saying to ‘do harm’ to other people, but it is time to get rid of your distorted view about how much help you are providing. Enabling is not helping. When you try and live someone else’s life for them, you are essentially saying that you do not trust the divine source within them to flourish and for them to take care of themselves. It is not fair to them for you to take away their own life choices.

There is a fairly large split on our planet right now. Those of you who ‘get it’, and those people who don’t. If you are reading this with an open mind, I guarantee that you are one of the people that ‘gets it’; even if you don’t totally understand everything and how energy works, you still get it on a soul level. I cannot make someone else understand this if they do not want to ~ you cannot make someone understand if they are not open to it. Some people have closed minds and closed hearts, and in this lifetime, on the earth in this moment, they will never get it.

Sometimes you just need to walk away from people who are draining your energy. Family members who are always asking for money (adult children included), friends who only call you to bitch about their problems, people in your life who are in lousy relationships and call to tell you about it all the time while not doing anything to change, ditto for lousy jobs, or unemployment.

These interactions do nothing to or for you except to lower your vibration and dim your light, whether slightly or a lot. IT IS NOT HELPING them or you. No matter how often you listen, counsel, or talk, they won’t get it until they get it. AND SOME OF THEM NEVER WILL AND IT IS NOT YOUR JOB TO MAKE THEM.

It is time to let go. Let go of all the things, thoughts and people that are holding you back from your life purpose. Move on. Take steps to make your life better. To feel better. To BE better. Once you do this, then you will be surrounded by wonderful light beings in physical form (all of you reading this already have many light beings around you in ethereal form). As you get together with these people there will be strength in numbers. You will find that two of you, or a group of you, or a tribe of you WILL be able to have an impact on our world. Your light will get stronger and stronger and stronger. The lighter our planet, the better off everyone will be ~ including the people you may be trying to ‘help’ now.

Many that cannot hold the light, or do not want to hold the light and positive energy that is available will stay stuck ~ but just in this lifetime. Do not worry about them, they WILL make it home, and their Soul will be okay. It can be hard to watch them suffer, but you cannot know what it is their soul wants.

If someone comes to you for help, it is okay to help. IF they are also taking some personal responsibility for where they are and IF they are actually willing to change and help themselves. No amount of you ‘doing for them’ will help them out of a rut if they are not willing to get out of it themselves.

This is what I do. This is part of my life purpose. I share, I help those of you that come to me authentically wanting help. I cannot help you if you take no responsibility for your own life ~ it is an impossible task. I can share information that might change your life for the better if you are willing ready and able to run with it. If someone comes to me and asks me to change their life for them, and they do not want to make any adjustments to what they are doing, either physically or energetically, I cannot help them.

It is time for you to do the same with the people in your life. Put the spotlight on yourself. See what you need for you and give it to yourself. THIS is what will make the world a better place for everyone.

Are You Asking for Enough? Needs VS. Wants

I am guessing that if you are reading this, then you have what you need.  You have food, you have a computer to look at.  You have a place to live.  This is good.  Of course you want to have what you need.  Most of you have your needs met every day.

It gets tricky when you begin to look at what you want.  Most of you don’t have what you want.  Whether it is the job you want, or the relationship you want, or the things that you want.

This post is about money though, so if you don’t like or want money, then stop reading here.

It can be difficult to navigate the difference between your wants and your needs sometimes.  We are bombarded with images that tell us to consume.  Buy this, buy that, it will make you happy.   You are so bombarded with this you get sick of it.  You begin to think, “I don’t want all this stuff, I just want to be happy!”

Sometimes it gets to the point that you begin to bash consumerism.  You think, “all these people are asking me to buy all of these things, its BS”.  So you swing from being able to visualize yourself having nice things, to making statements that are the exact opposite.  Statements that say vibrationally “I don’t want these things!”

On the one hand, you may feel that there are things you want, but then the little guy on your shoulder, your alter ego, says “It’s wrong to want these things.  So many people have nothing, I should be grateful for what I have, I am being so selfish.”

You are correct that you need to be grateful for what you have.  However, it is not WRONG to want things.  Even nice things, or frivolous things, or money to blow on experiences.  We came to earth to have experiences.  To expand and to grow.  There is nothing wrong with having wants.  There is nothing wrong with getting the things that you want.

In the past, I have had problems with this myself.  Things I was told about money that are just simply wrong.  These are things that were ingrained in my subconscious.  In realizing that they are there, and by consciously releasing them, now I am able to move on from them.  See if you see any of yours in here, maybe with some conscious effort, you can release yours too.

It was ingrained in me from a young age “Money is the root of all evil”.  Say What!?!?!?  Yes, I was told that.  That can be a tough one to get over.  I was raised Roman Catholic and in my humble opinion, I think that most organized religions teach this so that you give all your money to them instead of having things yourself.  Look at the Pope – ‘nuff said.

It is wrong to want things when so many people go without

– Are you kidding me.  If I had a bazillion dollars you know how many people I would share it with!  Most of you are very generous and loving.  If you had more, you would share more.  It is just simply inaccurate to say that you having less will help anyone else have more.  Huh?

Every business owner is out to screw you

– Another huge untruth.  Most business owners do really appreciate their customers.  This is a really BIG one to release from your subconscious if you are thinking about starting your own business.  How are you to run a business if in the back of your head you have a belief that you (a business owner), will be screwing people?  Even if you manage to tell yourself, “I will be different”, you will have it in your vibration and you will attract clients just like yourself ~ ones that constantly challenge you on your prices or your business practices because they are afraid that you are like all the rest.

Paying taxes is bad, the government just wastes the money

– Well, yes and no, but there is no sense in thinking about this or stressing on it.  I personally would LOVE to pay more taxes.  I pay less right now because I make less money.  See how that works?  If I make more money I will be paying more taxes.  I appreciate the roads I drive on, the parks I visit, having running water, electricity, garbage pick-up ~ the list goes on and on.  Yes there are wasteful things in government, but me thinking of them or bitching about them won’t change it, so I’ll just focus on the parts I like and appreciate.

Rich people are assholes

– Again not true.  Just look at Jon Bon Jovi and Oprah, or Warren Buffet.  Yes, a lot of rich people are jerks, a lot of poor people are jerks.  A lot of rich people are nice, a lot of poor people are nice.

People will hate me if I have money (or worse yet, I hate people that have money)

– Some will.  Usually poor people, and they will likely stay poor if they keep that line of thinking.  As will you.

I have a gift, it is wrong to charge money for it

– I’ve gotten this one before, I used to believe it too.  C’est la Vie.  Yes I have a gift, as do many other people on the planet.  Anyone can, with time and energy, learn to do what I can do.  I just happened to be born with it so it’s easier for me.  I can teach others to do it, I charge for this because I like to have my needs met ~ and after releasing some of the things on this list, I’m ready to get some of my WANTS too!  Some people like accountants have a gift with numbers, I could learn it from an accountant.  I would expect to pay my accountant to teach me.  At this point in my life it is MUCH easier to hire the accountant to do it for me so I can do what I love doing.

I could probably go on and make this a list of 100 things, but I’ll keep it here.  Please look deep and see what your recurring thoughts are.  Be aware of them, challenge them.  If you are not getting what you want, chances are it is just your subconscious mind talking you out of them.