I’m So Excited Today!

My son is coming home this evening!  He is 14 (will be 15 at the end of the month), and he’s been in Ontario since August 6th visiting with a friend.

Remember when we were kids and we didn’t have ‘helicopter parents’ and we were allowed to go and have adventures!  Some of my biggest and best memories are from that age.  I just talked to him on the phone and he has made so many friends over the past two weeks he almost doesn’t even want to come home.


Me and Jake


I am so happy for him, he will remember this trip for the rest of his life.  He decided he wanted to go, and then he worked and made his own money and planned his trip.  He had schoolwork to finish before booking so he got that all done and off he went.

As much as he’s had a blast and worked hard for what he wanted and learned some good lessons about how to get what you want out of life; he’s given himself a bigger gift than he even knows.  He now knows that ‘anything is possible’.  It wasn’t that many months ago that going to visit his friend was just a pipe dream; he didn’t have a job or any money or any idea of how to get there from here.  I’ve taught him about how to manifest what he wants, create his life, how to work with energy and use the Law of Attraction.

I do think he was a little bit nervous (not that he’d ever admit it), but he did it anyway.  He looked at the ‘big picture’ of what he wanted, not the little steps like flying alone, being away from home in another province for 2 weeks (his first time away from home for any length of time).

Too many of us go through life never having adventures.  We think about the small uncomfortable (“scary”) steps and stop before we even get started.  We say “Oh, that first step (in my son’s case, flying alone), is too scary, think I will stop now so I don’t have to get out of my comfort zone”.  We never get anywhere by stopping ourselves before we even get started.

Me and my family Christmas 2007

Me and my family Christmas 2007

When I first had my ‘baby’, I made him and myself a promise.  I promised that I would allow him to be his own person.  Yes, its my job to guide him and teach him how to navigate this world, but who and how he wants to be is his choice in the end.  He is a human being, not a possession.  I trust I raised him well and that he has a good head on his shoulders.  I feel I can trust him with his (age appropriate) adventures.  The more he spreads his wings and fly’s the farther he will go in life.  I am so very proud of my son, brave, willing to do what it takes to get what he wants….usually, (he is still a teenager after all).

What about you?  Do you challenge yourself?

Do you have adventures, or do you try and stay in your comfort zone?  Do you allow yourself to have experiences?  Do you leap or play it safe?  Can you see what you want in the future and are you willing to do what it takes to get you there?

How has it worked out for you?





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Do You Want to Be Like Everyone Else?

Its funny what is considered ‘normal’ in our society right now.  Its normal to struggle, its normal to work 5 days a week at a job you don’t like, its normal to fight with your spouse, its normal to walk around with blinders on, its normal to be horrified when you watch the news….

The list of what is normal is long.  Thing is, many people are simply afraid to do anything differently, to do anything that makes them not normal.

It might be ‘normal’ to complain about the 1% (or 5%), but its not normal to study what they do differently than all the normal people in society.  What if being less than normal is what gets them what they have?

Normal people think that money is the root of all evil.  Normal people think that if they have money they will turn into a-holes.  Normal people think rich people are stuck up.  Normal people often feel stuck in their lives.  Normal people don’t listen to their intuition.  Normal people don’t take chances and go for it in their lives.  Normal people don’t work for themselves.  Normal people value their false sense of security.  Normal people watch TV and play games on their phone instead of reading books and learning.  Normal people work for money instead of having their money work for them.


why be normal

Normal is boring, normal is uncomfortable, and normal is disempowering.

Do you have normal financial habits?

We have been programmed that it is BAD to receive.  We are taught “It is better to give than to receive” ~ that is normal.

I totally think it is great to give.  I give by offering my services to you, I give by writing and sharing with you every day.  However, I also think it is great to receive.  If I don’t receive, I have nothing to give.  If I wasn’t open to receiving anything, I would be going to some other job 9-5 and struggling and I wouldn’t have any time available to help any of you.

According to our higher selves, its NOT NORMAL to go without all the time.  According to what ‘society’ says, it is very normal to go without, as a matter of fact society tells us that 99% of the population goes without while 1% has everything.

This is not a good normal.

Can you get your mind around the fact that the same people that are telling you it is normal to go without, that you always have to give and its bad to receive are the ones that are taking from you and giving you nothing in return?

The 1% (or 5%) of the population that think differently than you do are the ones that are successful.  If you want to be and feel successful in your life, you are going to have to do something that is outside of your normal comfort zone.

You will have to do some things that upset other people around you.  You will need to do things that perhaps the 95% will judge you for.  But you will have to do it eventually if you ever want your life to change.

You never ever have to crap on other people to get what you want.  All you have to do is think outside the box and STOP BEING SO NORMAL!!!

You are more than you think you are

You are more than you think you are.  You are not your “stuff”.

Do you really have the power to create anything you want?  Is our life pre-destined?

Yes, and sometimes yes.

The trick to creating anything you desire in life is to know what all of you desires.  Your whole soul, not just the ego part of you that is living this life in this body.

Do you ever wonder why things don’t seem to fall into place sometimes?  Maybe its because you are not living the life you came here to live.

That is why meditation and quiet contemplation is so important.  We are bombarded with how things should be from the time we are born.

You are uniquely you, and you need learn about and embrace that part of yourself.  The whole of you.

It is when you try to ‘create’ the life you think you want and it is not in alignment with what your soul came here to do that you feel uncomfortable.

“My soul wants to be a healer, but I come from a family of lawyers”, I need to create a law degree.  Won’t work.

“My soul wants to work with animals but I have been told my whole life that it won’t work because there is no money in it”.  This won’t work either.

“My soul wants to live in a yurt in the forest and live off the land, but my family would be horrified because they are all doctors”.  Nope.

The list of examples of going against your Higher Self is vast.  I myself, used to work for government and I often changed positions (working for the same Ministry ~ which was ‘social assistance’), and tried to change and improve things from there.  I worked really hard to empower staff, and help clients.  Thing is, as much as I made a little bit of a difference, the majority of the people I worked for and with just didn’t vibrate where I was.  The entire population of clients and staff, and government in general was extremely disempowering.  I could not buck the current of the vibration of the establishment.

The pay was good, the benefits were awesome, everyone I knew thought I had it made.  I kept working my way up the ladder and with each position I had more responsibility and thought I could have more of an impact to make the workplace better.  I truly thought that one day I would get into politics and be able to make things better that way.

Thing is, the farther I got up that government ladder, the more my hands were tied.  There were outdated policies, procedures and vibrations.  I came to the realization that I was being sucked into a negative vortex and it was making me physically ill.

be your unique self

That’s when I decided to Create something different

I was a single mom with a mortgage and car payment who had a decent paying job and a lot of opportunities for advancement.  When I started getting physically ill from my work environment, I started to think more about what would make me happy and enable me to be a better mom.

Once I decided, things started falling into place.  I didn’t even know where I was going, but I sure knew what I was leaving.  I meditated a lot, I prayed a lot.  I made sure I had enough savings that if I was ‘unemployed’ for any length of time I could still support me and my son.  My worst case scenario was going back to a job I no longer flourished in or just get a job in private sector (neither options were any worse than where I was right then).

Was I scared?  A little bit.  But I was more scared of being a crappy mom and an unhealthy human.  Things worked out.  It is so much easier to spread love and healing energy with my current role in humanity than it was from where I used to be.  For years I struggled more financially than I would have if I stayed where I was, but for me the trade off for me was worth it.

Now I can help people who want the type of help I offer.  People who don’t want my help just aren’t drawn to me.  I am not forcing myself to be someplace that isn’t ‘right’ for me.

I am no different from you.

You Can Create the Life YOU Want Too

You need to listen to your Higher Self.  Your repetitive thoughts, your dreams.  You cannot let just money or status or ego rule your life for you.  You will be your happiest if you follow your dreams.

Some people say that “money is the root of all evil”.  Money is not the root of all evil.  Lusting after money and doing something you hate for the rest of your life just for the love of money isn’t good though.  How can you spread love on our planet if you are miserable all the time?

I am NOT saying that you should quit your job without a plan and leave yourself open to negative consequences.  I AM saying that if you are unhappy and feel like you are on a wrong path to weigh out your options and consider doing something different, allow yourself to imagine what your dream life would look like and then create your reality from there.

You can’t control external things (like me trying to ‘change the government’), but you can control what you do with your own life.  Clean up your energy vibration from where you are now, and then follow your heart and your soul and you will be just fine.




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Motivation; Reward or Self Sabotage?

Do you set goals?  Do you ever reach them?  How often do you “REWARD” yourself?

If you don’t set goals, why not?  Are you afraid you won’t reach them anyway so why bother?  If that’s the case you probably have a hard time getting what you want out of life.  If you cannot imagine having it, it is very hard to manifest it for yourself.

If you set goals and never seem to reach them have you ever wondered why?  You start out all gung-ho and things seem to be going okay, but the end result seems to constantly elude you.  Here are some things to think about.

Are you Motivated?

When you decide you want something, you absolutely must be motivated to get what you want.  If you are doing it for someone else, or because you think its something you should do, you will find any motivation you had at the beginning waning pretty quickly.

momentum of goals

Are you rewarding yourself too much?

This is the most common thing I see in my clients that are not getting what they want out of life.  Yes, we need a reward or a rest once in a while, absolutely.  But the way some of you think about reward seems to be a bit skewed.

If you aren’t reaching your goals, ask yourself “Am I rewarding myself or am I sabotaging myself?”

A reward come at the end of a job well done.  See that word in there ~ the END of a job well done.  Not 15 times in the middle of a job (goal), at the end.  If you put in an effort for a short time, and then say “phew, that was hard, but I feel good, I think I’ll take a reward” you will never reach your goals.

The reason you won’t reach your goals is because with your self sabotage you will be constantly setting yourself back, the results you see will be mediocre at best, and you will not have the staying power to get to the end of your goal.

This pretty much applies to any subject, doesn’t really matter what it is.

You are working at paying off your credit card bills and loans and you are doing really well, you are beginning to see some results.  Its only been a couple or few months but…

You “reward” yourself by buying something ~ on your credit card.

My son is working really hard to get an online class completed so he can go to see a friend in Ontario for a couple weeks this summer.  He is working really hard at it and says he really wants to go but the class has to be completed first. 

His tendency is to ‘reward’ himself by taking two days off in a row to do nothing and he loses momentum on the class.  It actually slows him down because he has to reread a bunch of stuff.  If he took shorter breaks he’d get a lot more done. (I’m sharing tips with him but letting him learn by experience on how he wants to do this, it will serve him well into the future).

You decide you want to lose weight.  You are doing really well.  You lose 7 pounds.

You eat a whole pizza in one night and weigh 5 pounds more in the morning and lose motivation.

In all these scenarios’ you are just shooting yourself in the foot.  You are probably someone that says “this is taking too long”, or “I need to see some reward or its not worth even trying”, or something like that, you probably have a hard time losing weight, paying bills or getting goals set and reached.

You need to change your mindset.  Rewards are good.  Too much of a sense of entitlement, or too many rewards are just self sabotage.  You don’t need to reward yourself constantly, you are not two.  Instant gratification won’t get you what you want.  Having the staying power to set a goal, work towards it ~ unfaltering, is what is going to get you there.

If you must have a reward, take one, but take something other than something that is going to sabotage you.

If you are trying to pay down bills, don’t give yourself a financial reward on credit ~ give yourself a day off to do nothing, or hang out with friends or go to the beach instead.

If you are trying to lose weight don’t eat a whole pizza once a week ~ have one slice every 3 weeks.

If you are trying to complete a project, stop giving yourself excuses not to work on it.  We all have excuses.  Instead of excuses, maybe just get up and take a walk around the block, or play a game or go for a swim, wash dishes, mow the lawn, shovel snow, or something to decompress, then get back to it.

It really is up to you if you reach your goals or not.  Watch your self talk and ask yourself if the big reward of reaching your goals is more important than all the little unimportant things along the way.




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Life is Harder Than Ever Before ~ Or is it???

Saying that “Life is harder than it used to be” is so much BS.  Life on planet earth is so much EASIER than it has ever been before.

What is HARD is trying to keep fitting into the old paradigm (and energies) and make your way in the “Matrix” that has been active on your planet for the past (hundreds of) years.

If you are trying to hang onto the OLD way of doing things it is HARD.  Very hard.  Things are not like they used to be.  No longer do we have jobs that last a lifetime, or pensions, or enough to live on by working for minimum wage.  We simply DON’T.

BUT.  The energy of the planet has shifted so much its incredible and magic when you let go of the old crap and embrace the new earth energy.

It is easier than ever now to create.  The denseness of 3D reality simply does not exist for most of us anymore.  We put out thoughts into the universal energy, and what we thought about comes back to us just like magic.  And it comes back really quickly now.

That’s is actually why some of you are so uncomfortable right now ~ you are putting thoughts of 3D world as it used to be out into the Universal energy, and that is what you keep getting more of ~ and it feels out of place and like things somehow don’t quite “fit together” like they used to.


All of the systems of the OLD 3D world are crumbling

Thing is, those systems are crumbling (financial systems, pensions, employers), and it appears ‘bad’ to you because you are stuck on thinking about them in the old way.  Its like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole; it simply will not work.

If you actually allow yourself to truly embrace the dimension we are in now, you will realize you don’t need to ‘fit into’ that old matrix anymore and you can create the life you want.  The job you want, the financial situation you want, the relationships you want, the home you want.

That is why more and more people are becoming self-employed.  They know what they want to do, they look at the old energy (working for someone else), and there’s nothing there that energetically resonates with them.  So they put out to the Universe what it is they would like to do and the Universe responds with an opportunity for them to do it.  They don’t limit themselves to ‘how it used to be’.  Sometimes you may put it out there (what you want to do), and the Universe conspires to bring other people to you that can offer you that type of work; you end up in your dream job and working for someone else.

You cannot be held back by old energy unless you choose to be.  If you realize that you are an infinite being and can create what you want out of your life, you will.  If you focus on the ‘elite 1%’ and blame them for where you are in your life, you won’t ever feel empowered to create the life you want.

The ONLY difference between you and the elite 1% is that they already KNOW this stuff and have been using it for generations.

There cannot be a ‘controller’ unless there are people who accept being controlled.

Do you accept responsibility for you life?  100% responsibility?  If not, you are giving power over your life to someone else.  That is a really scary place to be.  No wonder so many sheeple on this planet are so afraid.

You are powerful.  You are the creator of your experience.  You are magic!

In this new earth energy and the new dimensions available to us we can create the lives we want more quickly and easily than ever before.  Create wisely.  Its up to you!




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Stop Riding the Energetic Coat Tails of Your Adult Children!

You need to stop riding your kids’ energetic coattails.  It’s not helping them.  This channel actually goes hand in hand with what I wrote yesterday.  There is a trend happening where parents are living their life through their kids.  This has always been a factor in some families, to some degree, but it is getting out of hand where more and more people are putting so much into their relationships with their kids that they aren’t living their own life.

Children need to be raised to learn how to make decisions.  When they are young, it is your job to teach them and protect them, but you do not own them.  They were not put on earth for the sole purpose of fulfilling YOUR life for you.  If you teach them properly they will be very well equipped to deal with life on their own.  If you teach them well, once they become adults you need to let them go if they want to go (or push them out of the nest if they don’t).  Too many of you are raising your kids to be dependent on you as adults.

I am talking to a lot of people in their 20’s that are feeling badly about moving on or moving away from their parents.  “It will crush my mom if I move out, or move to another part of the world”.  IT SHOULDN’T BE LIKE THAT.  I hate the word “should”, but really.  Your adult children are ADULTS.  They need to move out on their own, they need to be able to make their own decisions, get their own jobs, homes, families.

Let your adult children go

Empower !!

There’s another type of thing I hear from 20 somethings (and into the 30’s) that is even more disturbing.  They say “I can’t do it on my own.  My parents have always done everything for me and taken care of me.  I can’t take care of myself”.  ARE YOU KIDDING ME.  A 30 year old!  What are you thinking parents?  This is so unfair to these young adults, they are completely disempowered and afraid of being adults its crazy.

Keeping them under your roof well into their 20’s or 30’s is NOT helping them.  It is selfish.  You are doing it for YOU not for them.  You have “lost” yourself to the point that you don’t even know who you are without them, so you convince yourself that they NEED YOU.  They can’t do it on their own.  I have a news flash.  YES THEY CAN.  We all did it.  We all lived through it.

All the challenges we had, getting hired, getting fired, finding our first apartment, deciding whether we needed a roommate, having relationships (with sleepovers), staying out all night, going to work with a hangover ~ think back to some of the experiences you had when you were first starting out.  They all shaped who you are today.  I wouldn’t trade my experiences in my early 20s for anything, it was so much fun!  I made mistakes, ‘suffered’ unemployment, struggled to pay rent and buy groceries, partied, got in a bit of trouble (nothing serious or legal related), but here I am!!!


Think hard about that.  You aren’t doing it for them, you are doing it for you, and you need to stop it.  They need some autonomy.  If you have a huge home that has self contained suite that they can RENT FROM you that is different.  While they are living there though, if they are an ADULT it is none of your business if they come home at night or what they do in their own home.  If you cannot separate yourself from your kids enough to give them anatomy in their own space then maybe its best if they actually move AWAY for a while before they live in your suite.

Family is very important and there is not a problem with separate families living under the same roof or on the same property.  I would do that myself, space permitting.  It can be very supportive to have multiple generations living together, sharing bills, taking care of elders, and elders taking care of younger generations.

The problem occurs when you keep your adult child around so that you can still ‘keep an eye on them’ because they cannot do it themselves, and you think they still need parenting.  If they are old enough to drink and vote, they are old enough to take care of themselves.  When you do this you create a DEPENDENCE.

We have a generation of young people who cannot cope.  I talk to so many of them it can be pretty sad.  They have no imagination, they feel entitled to have a nice car or a lot of ‘stuff’ because mommy and daddy are paying their rent and food.  I don’t care if you can’t afford it or not, it is disempowering to them (and to you).  That is why so many of them are broke or in debt.  Many of you are broke or in debt because you are ‘taking care’ of your ‘kids’ when they should have left the house years ago.

Stop blaming ‘the economy’.  It absolutely can be harder to live on your own as a young adult now if you are working for minimum wage.  However, there are numerous opportunities to make really good money whether you have an education or not.

If you tell them that there are endless possibilities they will go out and look for them!  If you tell them there are ‘less opportunities for young people these days’, they will give up and stop looking before they start.

The main key here is resourcefulness.  Why is it that some ‘kids’ make their first million by the time they are 17, and others sit in their parents basement working for minimum wage until they are 37 (or until the parents die)?

It is all about WHAT YOU HAVE TOLD THEM.  If you disempower them for your own selfish needs, they will stay with you.  Congratulations, you never have to live your own life, you can live through someone else forever.

If you have told them “you can do it, you are smart, resourceful, and are an adult, have fun”, guess what they will do?  Yes, you will have to go through the discomfort of letting your babies fly the nest, but really humans have been doing it for eons and survived.

There is also an “energy” dynamic here.  When you do this TO YOUR KIDS (its certainly not FOR them), you attach unhealthy energy cords to them.  Essentially it is like having an etheric cord to them, but in this case you are TAKING energy from them.  Riding their coattails (like I wrote above).  They cannot move forward unhindered because the etheric cord you have attached to them weighs them down.  Every time they try and take a step away, the energy cord YOU attached to them takes a part of their energy (as if you are a ‘psychic vampire’).  They try and step away and get blocked and they don’t know why.  Things happen that stall their progress and they get nervous about (or second guess) their next step.  Your etheric cords that you created can cause this.

I wrote a few years ago about the need to cut energy cords to your parents.  Now I am writing about the need for you parents to cut the energy cords to your kids.  Love energy never goes away, but the disempowering vampirism needs to stop.  So try this meditation, cut the cords to your kids (then adjust your thoughts and actions accordingly), and let them fly.  I think they will surprise you!

let go let god




  • When I was 16 I quit school.  My mom said “go back to school or get your own place”.  Guess what?  I went back to school.
  • When I was 17 I moved out because I didn’t like the rules.  Guess what?  I lasted 3 months then realized how good I had it and moved back home and focused more on school (school was easy compared to working to pay rent).
  • A woman I know has a daughter that quit school.  She is now being very disrespectful at home and says she hates where they are living (they had to move because mom couldn’t afford the house she was in).  The daughter is now 18.  She works but pays no rent or bills even though her mom is struggling to make ends meet.  There’s a solution to this and it is really easy.  Let the daughter go and be the adult she wants to be.  She might flounder a bit, she might flourish, she might come crawling back home.  The specifics of what happens next doesn’t matter as near as much as to how much her growth will be stunted if she is allowed to continue to act like a spoiled entitled brat.
  • A client has a son who is 19 and sits in the basement playing video games all day.  Drinks to excess on the weekends and does not contribute at home.  They are not rich by any means, but they are actually considering buying a bigger property that THEY CANNOT AFFORD, in order to let their son stay disempowered and living like a mushroom in the basement.  The biggest favour they could do for him is empower him to GET OUT, or contribute.
  • Another client called me because her son who is in his LATE 20’s is thinking of moving to a different country and she is devastated.  She has other sons as well but cannot fathom what it will be like to let him go and live his own life.  To her credit, she connected with me to learn how to deal with it, let him go and live her own life (as opposed to asking me how to get him to stay).  She WANTS to let him flourish and is working on her own life to allow that to happen in the most positive way.
  • I have another client that is a 24 year old WOMAN (not an “adult child”).  She’s moved out of her parents’ house and is on her own but she admittedly says she was “treated like a china princess” and was never taught what to do to get by as an adult.  She is now in deeply in debt and is very lost on where to go next or how to support herself (financially and emotionally).

There are so many ways for this to manifest in our lives.  Let your kids grow up, be adults and prove to themselves that they can do it!  Let them live the life they came here to live!



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Wherever you go, you bring your vibration with you.

We don’t always all have the same truth.  Everything is a matter of perspective.  I think the world is getting better, that is my perspective.  I know a lot of people who think it is getting worse, that is their perspective.

We get what we are vibrating.  We get what we expect to see.  If you think someone is lying, or if you think someone (or the world), is “out to get you”, then you will find that they are.  You will find it, because that is your truth.  You will continually find examples of it wherever you go.

Two people can hear the exact same thing and have completely different responses to it.  Your response to what you hear ALWAYS will reflect your vibration.  Neither is lying, they just have different perspectives.

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Thoughts are Things

Wherever you go, you bring your vibration with you.

No matter what you are feeling, running away while continuing that feeling will just give you more of the same.  Whether it is related to homes, jobs, relationships, or other spaces.  You need to take care of your own vibration first, and then make your moves.

Clean up your own vibration, then decide whether to move on or not.  Trust that once you feel better, you will make a decision whether to stay or go (from any type of situation) ~ from a good space.  That will enable you to move into a space that is more comfortable instead of more of the same.

This video by Esther Hicks channeling Abraham is a really good example of this.  The specifics are regarding divorce (which I know a lot of you could use), however, they relate to every relationship you will have (roommates, parents, friends, clerks in the store).  It is very much worth the 12 minutes it will take you to listen to it.



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Prayer is Energy Work on Steroids

The power of prayer.  I am sure you have heard of this before.  Prayer really does work.  Groups of people can pray over a sick person, or on a certain situation and it has been proven that there are changes with the power of prayer.

We live in a quantum world.  Thoughts are things.  Thoughts are energy.  There are God (Source/Universe), Angels, our guides and our teachers and helpers that live in another dimension (a lot of you call this the other side).  These energies are real too.  As real as we are in our energetic forms.

These higher (not really higher, just elsewhere), energies can help us sometimes.  Thing is, we have to ask them for help.  They won’t normally just step in and tell you what to do, or change your life for you (there are exceptions, but they are rare).

When we do energy work, we are channeling our own energies towards something.  Whether it be physical healing, emotional healing, some movement in our physical life, or something else.  We are using the power of our thoughts, which are really energy, to try to create an outcome.  Think of “manifesting”, or the Law of Attraction.  We use this energy and these thought forms to create our lives.

Law of Attraction Works

With prayer, we take it a step further though.  We do the ‘energy work’ with our thoughts, and then we let go.  We ask God and the Angels for help, but we surrender the outcome.  Most of you pray after everything else has failed and you don’t know what to do.  Some of you, pray when things are going well ~ this is practicing gratitude, and it also produces positive results, as a matter of fact, Gratitude Creates Miracles.

That is why it appears like prayer is energy work on steroids, it is the Law of Attraction at work.  Because when you get to the point of praying, you are no longer dictating exactly what you want to see.  You have given up.  You set your intention, and then you let go and let God.  It is your surrender, and letting the energy take its course is what makes prayer work so well.

If you do energy work improperly, and “try” and use the Law of Attraction (trying rarely works), you put more focus onto what is and you hang on really tight to your idea of what should be.  You cannot get out of your discomfort of what is, so you focus more on your discomfort and you create more of it.  All the while thinking you are focusing on creating differently.

When you pray and let go, you stop focusing on what is in the way you were before.  You have lost faith in your ability to create, and you allow ~ you allow God, Angels, Ascended Masters, helpers, and ENERGY ITSELF to go to work on resolving a situation.

It is not that prayer is so much more powerful than intention.  It is that when you set your intention, you don’t let go.  When you pray you let go of outcomes.

This is what “Let go let God” really means.


If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

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Are You Afraid of Your Own Inner Strength?

Strength?  Power?  Are those synonymous?  Is power just not the use of strength?  Why then do some people have a problem with the word Power.  Many of you will say happily “I have an inner strength”, yet be afraid to say “I have power”?

Is it because you think of using power as being synonymous with using force?  Is it because when you think of using your power, or your force you think of how these things have been used against you?

You can use strength, power or force without using them on others or to do anything to anyone else.  There really is no need to use these on others.

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Sometimes bad things will happen in your life.  It is your inner strength or inner power, or sometimes just a force of will that gets you through it.

You need to realize that it is okay to use these things, it is good to feel strong.  You were given an inner strength as a way to make your way through your life and you don’t need to be afraid.

There is no need to use your strength or power to overcome anything.  You never really need to force anything either.  Once you realize that you have it, your strength is what gets you through your days and keeps you looking ahead to what you want.

Do not be afraid of your Strength.  Embrace it.  Use it.  Strength is what gets us through a tough time.  Power is what will help propel you forward.  The sheer force of your power will astound you.

Strength, power and force, work best when you simply know you have them and you walk bravely through your life.  You use them to do what you came here to do without fear of what other people might say, think, or do.  If you have inner strength and use your power wisely you can create anything.

All it takes is focus on what you want.  100% on what you want.  NOT on what you don’t want.  Your thoughts and your feelings are your power and they can give you strength, or they can feel like they take away your strength.  You need to use your thoughts in the most empowering positive way possible.

It takes my strength and my power to write these posts for you.  If I denied these things, I would be afraid to write this for you and put myself out there.  There are many people that don’t think the way I do.  I may use the force of my will (by using my positive thoughts) to sit and write every day, but I never try to force my opinions on others.  They have their own strength, and can use it to read more or to move on.

Without strength, power and force, most of the things we take for granted would not exist.  All inventors have the inner strength to allow their imaginations to flow, inner power to keep at it even if they fail, and the force of will to keep going even when other people laugh or get angry at their tenacity.

You all have an inner strength.  You just need to allow yourself to use it.  It will not harm others for you to find your personal power.  As a matter of fact, unless and until you find your own, you will never be able to help empower (or inspire) anyone else.

There is plenty in this world for all of us.




If you are ready to have someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

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Guest Post on the Momentum Cycle

My husband Sean wrote this on his Facebook wall just over 2 years ago.  He likes to write too, just doesn’t take as much time at it as I do on a regular basis.  He’s got some good things to say here, hope you enjoy it.


So, here is a guest post from Sean Burns:

The Momentum Cycle

And here, the momentum cycle.
Ever heard that one?
Sad thing is, is that it’s a phrase of distress for most people; most people saying it are referring to negative things happening.
Well, it is also true for positive happenings. Most of us refer to those people as lucky. Fact is, we create our own luck… via a positive momentum cycle. We also create our own distress… via a negative momentum cycle. You may believe this or you may not; We are 100% responsible for EVERYTHING in our lives via the Law of Attraction… And momentum cycles occur via Law of Attraction.

Forget about the past and focus on right now. From this point forward we are creating our future. And the MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do to make your future better and start a positive momentum cycle is to FEEL GOOD NOW! No matter what is going on in your life currently, you do have the ability to feel good… or to feel better. Of course one can’t go from feeling depressed or despair to feeling joy and bliss. But you can find something; some memory maybe, that you can grasp on to that helps you to feel better. And then hold onto that feeling and keep thinking the thoughts that got you there. Then you will have the ability to find a better feeling thought… and so on. This will take longer for some than others. But when you can get to a point where you feel really good MOST of the time, then you will truly have the ability to create and manifest into reality that which you desire. Now, of course, most of us aren’t going to feel fantastic every day & all the time (If you are, then I suggest getting employment with Santa.); but if you can remain on the emotional scale somewhere between contentment and fantastic, then good things will come and continue for you. No two things can occupy the same space at the same time, so it is impossible to feel really good and attract something bad. If you feel good and a seemingly negative situation or event occurs, understand that no matter what, it will work out to benefit you in the end. This can be a huge learning curve for most…
Example; I just got back from a fishing trip with my tent trailer. I forgot the light switches on inside and when I plugged into my truck the lights came on. I was 4 hours from home. When I opened it up in the driveway, the hot lights had melted holes throughout the layers of folded canvas as they were pressed against the ceiling when it was closed. And through a sleeping bag as well. – DESTROYED –
10 holes in all when open. And the kicker is that it is listed for sale and I had three viewings lined up for the next day (yesterday). And it is going to cost money to replace obviously. Now I have no idea how or when, but I know, absolutely, that it will work out in my favor. Why? Because I had a fantastic time fishing and felt great. And I generally always feel pretty good. So nothing bad will come of this. This is what I know.

The Law of Attraction works via energy. And though it is physically proven that our brains are very powerful transmitters and receivers of frequencies, and that our thoughts are very powerful (they can actually alter physical matter), it is the FEELING behind the thought that activates the Law of Attraction.
When something bad happens and you react, or often, OVERREACT negatively, and these negative feelings stay with you for a period of time, you are attracting more unknown circumstances and events that will give you more of those feelings.
Same when something good happens and you respond positively and feel great; you are attracting more circumstances and events that will bring good feelings (You’re on a roll baby!)… THE MOMENTUM CYCLE.

success is a decision away

So how does one get over the negative feelings from an occurrence?
Just being AWARE of how you feel, and understanding that this attraction thing is a universal law – like gravity – and simply make it your GOAL to feel better. Even just a little at a time is a shift in the right direction.
Human beings are meant to always move forward – MOMENTUM. And cycles are the way of the universe.
So, start right now and reach for a better feeling. Even if you already feel good; make it a goal to feel great! Start your positive momentum cycle right now. Think about it… what is easier than thinking?