If You Want Things in Your Life to Change, You Have to Change Things in Your Life

April 24, 2013 by Leave a Comment

Think about that.  Really think about it.  What are you willing to change to have a better life?  You really can change anything at all.  Anything that you wish to be different in your life can be different.  You do not need to stay stuck in your present reality.  You, yourself, can do it, although we all can request and receive help.  All it takes is a willingness to do something differently.  Sometimes it doesn’t even matter what it is that you do differently, as long as it is something that you are not presently doing.  Or maybe it will be something that you need to give up.

What are you attached to that you are unwilling to change?  For some people it is a job, for others it might be a relationship, habit, or way of thinking.  Some people request a psychic reading, and they are wanting to hear how amazing their life is going to be in the future.  Thing is, they are stuck.  They are holding on tight to their old belief systems, and/or way of thinking.  I guarantee that your life WILL NOT CHANGE, unless and until you are willing to let go of the energetic space you are holding in your present.

When I do psychic readings I see the parts of your past, present, or future that are important for you to know about, deal with or take care of.  I don’t get information on 100% of everything all the time ~ some things just aren’t that important.  If you are having a reading because you want change in your life, I will see what in your past needs to be let go or what blocks you may have; what you can do in the present to make changes, grow or heal; and what opportunities or challenges may lie ahead.

Ultimately though, you are the creator of your life.  If you want an exciting psychic reading, then be willing to do something exciting.  If you are sitting at home, feeling powerless, watching TV, unable to let go of the past and move forward into your life and your future, your reading will not be filled with excitement.  Without a willingness to change, a fairy is not going to come and tap you with a magic wand and turn you into a prince or princess.  You have it within your power to have or be or do anything that you want.  Please do not squander it by hanging on so tightly to what is or what was that you rob yourself of the wonderful life that you are here to experience.

We are living in a 5th dimensional reality now.  In the 5th dimension our ability to consciously create is greatly enhanced.  Think about that.  You can and do create your life.  If you believe you are stuck, you create more “stuck-ness”.  There is NOT something “out there” that will rescue you.  YOU are the only one that can rescue you.  We are God, God is us.  God is creator, we are creator.  Many people believe this, yet they cannot go so far as to take responsibility for their creations.  You may take responsibility for some of your creations, but when something that you do not anticipate, or that you deem to be negative happens, you put responsibility for it “out there” to some mystical force.

You are the Creator.  If something that you did not anticipate happens, or something negative, all that is required to create differently is to be aware.  Many of the so-called ‘bad’ events in our life have simply been re-routing opportunities.  Did you take the opportunity to re-route your life, or have you allowed yourself to stew on what happened and become stuck?  Our thoughts create our reality.  If something has happened in your life, there are two ways you can look at it … “this event has ruined my life forever” (I see this one in the media all the time ~ very disempowering), OR, “this event was very uncomfortable, but I can get through it, I do not need to let it be who I am, I CHOOSE to heal and move forward from it”.  Both of these statements are DECISIONS.  HUGE difference in where you end up based on what you decide.

If you have decided that your life sucks and that you have no control over anything, then your life sucks and things will continue to be “done to you”, and there will be very little positive movement.  I see this with some of the people in my life and it is heartbreaking.  I connect with their soul and I see and feel the potential and the love and what their higher self yearns to do, but they refuse to see things differently.  Refuse to let go, refuse to change, refuse to see a positive potential.  Hopefully if you are reading this, you at least have an inkling that your life can be different.  Very few people who are extremely stuck would even be drawn to be reading this far in this post.

YOU CAN DO IT.  You don’t always need to do it alone, there are many of us that are willing to help you.  The world is full of healers and mentors.  They do not do it for you, they help you to do it for yourself.  Your guides, the Angels, the Ascended Masters, the Universe, are all there to assist you.  If you ask, you will receive help.  You just need to be willing to change something and allow for the help.  If you insist on keeping the status quo… that is exactly what you will get.

If you would like to change your life, permanently, in any area, perhaps mentoring/coaching will help you.  If you are serious about making changes in your life, I would be happy to talk to you to see if Psychic Mentoring with me would be right for you.

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Who do you let into your life?

March 28, 2013 by Leave a Comment

Who do you let into your space?  Not just your home or physical space, but into your emotional, energetic space?  Do they prop you up, or do they drain you?

If you want to be successful in any aspect of your life, you need to surround yourself with your fans.  This doesn’t mean that everyone in your circle of family or friends needs to worship the ground you walk on, or even agree with everything that you do.

What it does mean is that you need to remove people from your life that are constantly bringing you down.  When you are surrounded by people that say “You can’t do that”, or “You are doing that wrong”, or “what a stupid idea”, or “You need to do this instead of that”; it can suck the inspiration right out of you.

To be successful in anything, you need to have a cheering section, not a jeering section.  Every time someone says something negative about your ideas, or your inspirations, it puts a little thought in your head that maybe you can’t do it, or maybe your idea wasn’t as good as you thought it was.

You need to stop letting people like this into your life.  Take a close look.  If there are people in your life that you simply cannot avoid, (more your perception than fact) that are not helping to make you feel good about you, at the very least, please use a bit of energy work to block their energy.  Best case scenario though is to avoid them altogether.

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Who Are You?

March 21, 2013 by 4 Comments

How do you define yourself?  What is it that makes you you?  Do you even know anymore?  Is your definition of yourself based on what the people around you tell you?  Or based on your health?  Your financial circumstances?  Where you live?  The work you do?

Who are you?  Really.  Think about it.  When you say to yourself “I am”, what follows those words?

Do you say, “I am a mom”,  “I am an executive”,  “I am a healer”, “I am sick”,  “I am struggling”, “I am a construction worker”, “I am busy”.

What are you?  Who are you?

Society tells us that without some clear-cut definition of ourself, a definition that must contain some third dimensional words, we have no purpose.  We are bombarded with messages that tell us we need to be busy.  I can’t even count how many TV commercials, shows, or Newscasts that I see that contain messages that we are busy all the time (think “Programming”).

When we see these messages, we think to ourselves that if we are not busy, or if we allow ourselves to just “be” or have some down-time, then there must be something wrong with us.  Maybe we aren’t working hard enough.  What is wrong with me that I am not all frazzled like everyone else, maybe I need to be doing more.  What can I add to my life that will make me more like everyone else?

What about the “programming” that tells us we are stressed, overworked, broke, stuck in a career and not really getting ahead?  We are told constantly that that is “how we (and things) are these days”.  The messages, and programs that we get bombarded with are there to keep us struggling.  We are told we have no power, no control, no peace, no calm.

Without some awareness that we are being “PROGRAMMED” it is really easy to fall into the trap of feeling completely dis-empowered and out of control of our lives.  We are not at the mercy of all these external circumstances.  WE ARE NOT!

We are only at the mercy of our thoughts, feelings, and vibrations.  What we think about is what we create in our lives.  Everything is energy.  Your thoughts and feelings are energy that cause you to vibrate at a certain level.  You can change your vibration by changing your thoughts.

There are many men and women out there that have no self-worth whatsoever unless they are ‘busy’.  They keep adding more and more and more to their plate in the hopes that someone, anyone, will recognize that they are worthy.  Please, tell me I am appreciated, please tell me that I am doing something right, please acknowledge that I am a someone, that the world would not be the same without me.

The problem with that is that your self-worth cannot ever come from someone else.  It needs to come from within.  No amount of doing, or busy-ness, or running around will get you what you want.  Chances are, the people around you are doing the same thing.  Do you even have time to acknowledge their contribution.  Most of the time, probably not.  Most people are too self-absorbed in playing this game of “busy-ness” to even notice others, never mind acknowledge their contribution.

It is a vicious circle.  The best way to get the recognition you deserve is from yourself.  Take a really good look at yourself and what you do.  Thank yourself for your contribution.  Do not resent the fact that you are busy and no one appreciates you.  Do what makes you feel good, and appreciate yourself.

There are some things that we must do.  Care for our children for example.  Do you care for your children in the hope that you will get some recognition for it, or do you care for your children out of a space of loving them and loving what you do for and with them? (If you do not have children, this could also be your job, your home, your relationships).

You need to treat ALL parts of your life like that.  Do what you enjoy and what fills your heart with love.  When your heart is full of love, recognition does not matter as much.  You end up recognizing yourself as a loving being, and worrying less when those around you are not loving.  You will be able to observe the fact that they are not loving ~ whether they are not loving themselves, or maybe not loving you or other people ~ but it won’t matter so much to you.  You will be operating your life from a place of love rather than judgement ~ of yourself or of them.

Even if you hate your job, there must be something that it is giving you.  If it wasn’t giving you anything at all there would be no point in doing it.  Love what it is giving you.  Even if it is just enough money, or not enough money.  Love and appreciate it for what it is.  The more love you have for anything in your life, the more love your life will give you.  Love will open doors and create more opportunities for you.

There are many people out there that have burned themselves out by trying to be what other people (or society) expect them to be.  If this goes on long enough it blocks the flow of energy and creates health problems in our bodies.  How this manifests is partly dependent on your belief systems and what part of yourself you are denying.  Sometimes the only way we think we can take a moment for ourselves is if we are sick.

This is not a conscious decision.  It’s not like “geeze, I need a rest, I think I’ll make myself sick so my family has to take care of me”.  It is a subconscious decision (yes decision).  ”I have done enough, I give and I give and I give and no one appreciates me, I always give more than I get,  I resent the fact that I have to do so much for so little in return!”

After a time, months, perhaps years, finally…BAM!  You just can’t take it anymore!  Your body comes up with fibromyalga, or chronic fatigue syndrome, or cancer, or some other illness that STOPS you in your tracks.  As much as the illness is upsetting to you, it is in and around your body because that is where you were vibrating.  You were resentful, or busy, or under appreciated, or trying to fit into someone elses perception of you, and your Soul just can’t take it anymore.

This is not meant to BLAME you for your illness.  I have been sick myself.  My doctor told me “Sounds like CFS (chronic fatigue syndrome) to me”.  He also said “I won’t give you a prescription for painkillers because I know you don’t like to take them”.

My naturopath said “Well, I won’t tell you you have fibromyalga because you do not belive that it is a proper diagnosis, but doing these things (she gave me a list of things, that people do when they have been diagnosed with fibromyalga) might work for you”.

A lot of people want a “DIAGNOSIS”.  It is easier to get a diagnosis and either give up, or try to “treat an illness” than it is to look inside at what is not working with your energy field.  It gives you a way to define yourself or your life.  It gives you something to focus on that is centred around you and self-care.  Your whole life you have likely been taking care of other people (whether they asked for it or wanted it or not).  Your entire focus was on how to help them, be there for them ~ defining who you were by how they saw you.

Now with an illness its all about you.  Why not practice self-love, self-care, self-esteem, allow yourself to do what makes you truly happy, (no martyrdom), and just skip the piece about getting “sick and tired.”  When you get to a space of being able to say simply “I am”, without any further words, that is when you will truly begin to know, love and appreciate yourself.

 

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What is Luck?

March 8, 2013 by 2 Comments

For most of my life, I have heard the words, “you are so lucky”.

When I was in my teens and twenties, it used to bother me because I have always worked very hard for what I have, but now I just say “Why yes I am!”

Here is what I want to share with you though.  It’s not just that I am lucky.  I move, I act, I take leaps of faith.  We make our own luck.  Luck is 100% perception.

I have lost jobs and said “I’m lucky I’m not stuck in that dead-end anymore”.

I have left relationships (or worse yet, been dumped) and said “I am lucky I got out of that”.

I have been broke and said “I am lucky I have someone to buy me food”.

What we focus on is what we create.  I focus on love and gratitude, have for most of my life.  No matter what my circumstance are in any given moment, I always try to bring my focus back to what is going right.  I always know and trust that whatever happens, in the end, one day, it will be okay.  I will be in a different place, but I will survive.

I have been through some horrible times in my life, but I still think I am lucky.  I always seem to be able to move to a new energetic space that was better than the one before.

My husband and I are both self employed and have been for 9 years.  We are just now starting to see a light at the end of our financial tunnel.  We have massive amounts of debt from our businesses, but for the past few years we have been unencumbered by the 9-5 and our life is good ~ we are happy (for me personally, happiness trumps everything).  After all this time, we are finally starting to make a little profit.  There have been times over the years when we did not know how we were going to pay the mortgage, but I kept focused on the love and gratitude I had for the roof over my head.  When we did not have money for food, rather than be angry, I was grateful that my mom stepped in and helped.  No matter how bad things got, I was always grateful that I had the fortitude to quit my day job.

Next time you see someone who is doing well, rather than just say “they are lucky”, why not try saying, they worked their asses off for a really long time and went without a lot of the time, took chances, so that “one day”, they could live their dream.  Is this Luck?  Or is it simply a willingness to make changes, take a chance and work hard?  What would you be willing to give up for a little while to get what you want in the end?  Most people, will answer “nothing”, and most will go through their lives feeling like they could have done or been more.

“If you want things in your life to change, you have to change things in your life.”  I can help you with this.

Do you want to be lucky?  Here is what you can do NOW to get started.

  • Be grateful for everything you have at every opportunity
  • Radiate Love for all that is in your life.  People AND things.
  • CHANGE something, anything.  Whether it be a habit, a relationship, a job, an attitude.  CHANGE SOMETHING!
  • Take the words “I can’t” out of your vocabulary.  You can have, be or do, anything you want.  That is a FACT.  (you just need to learn how to focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want).
  • Think about what you might be willing to give up for a time so that you could get everything you want later.

If you are ready to make changes in your life, and feel that you would like some help, I am available for mentoring/coaching.  Just use the form here and let me know.  I can help with all aspects of life, relationships, business, money, love, or developing your psychic abilities.

 

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2013, Our Vibration Has Changed

February 17, 2013 by Leave a Comment

It has been quite a while since I have written a blog post.  There has been a lot going on since December 21, 2012.  On that December weekend our planet was aligned with the centre of the Milky Way.  Without getting too deeply into the science behind it I can share knowledge of some energy shifts that are happening.  Some of these feel like “Symptoms of Ascension”.  Hopefully this will help you through this time.

  • Our Planet has moved from the Third Dimension into the Fifth Dimension. (not all the PEOPLE on earth have moved, but the planet herself has).
  • As a ‘human race’, our DNA is in the process of changing.
  • For many of you who have successfully let go of the things that were no longer serving you, you have probably felt as if you are in an in-between time.  It feels like “What Now?”  (there should be more movement in these areas around March ~ for most, but not all of you)
  • Many people are finding that they cannot eat the way they used to.  Some are finding they are not very hungry a lot of the time, or they cannot eat the “crap” that they could tolerate before.  Many are finding they are very thirsty, water is a conductor of energy and we have a lot of higher vibrating energy on earth so drinking lots of water is important.
  • Some are feeling VERY depressed or anxious at the moment.  Part of the reason for this is the reluctance to personally move into the Fifth Dimension.  In its most simplified version, the Fifth Dimension is a place where WE are the Creators.  WE Create our own life.  If you fall into this category, you may be reluctant to take responsibility for what you have created.  Still trying to hang on to the Third Dimension, you are looking for someone to rescue you, or worse, someone to blame.  YOU and only you can rescue you.  You can get assistance from Healers, Teachers, Mentors, other training programs, but ultimately the healing and responsibility for your life comes from YOU.  People and things can help you, but the power comes from you.  We are 100% responsible for what happens in our life.
  • There are many of you who’s lives are really taking off.  Over the past few years you have embraced change, and healing and you are now reaping the rewards of your creation.  You KNOW you can and do create your own reality and you are running with it to create wonderful things for yourself.  Congratulations!

There is so much more I have to say on this and other subjects.  I decided that it was better to write a short blog post than none at all.  Some of you have been wondering where I have been lately.

Quick synopsis of what’s up with my life for those of you that have been curious.

I have been doing a lot of work and psychic readings

I have been working with a select group of people that I have been mentoring (if you are looking for mentoring/training, let me know, there is a cost involved with this)

I joined the Global Information Network after listening to the Your Wish is Your Command CD series last year.  In January I took advantage of the free cruise I received when I joined this Success Club.  I went down to Miami Beach a few days before and had an amazing time with other memebers of GIN.

I have been teaching and learning and learning and learning over the past few months.  I did not know how much I did not know.  I joined GIN in the summer of last year and have worked my way up to being a Level 3 member.  In April I am going to a “Dream Weekend” in Dallas and I am looking forward to upgrading to at least Level 4, maybe even becoming a Level 5 Candidate.

I have been doing a radio show on News For the Soul and Blog Talk Radio.  Bi-weekly on Tuesdays at noon.  (next show is Feb 26th).

I do have a facebook page Psychic Medium, Tamara Hawk.  I try to post updates there.  I can post shorter updates than what I do in a blog post.  I post there when I update my blog, when I am scheduled for an Event, when I get an interesting short channel, or when I come across something that I think others may like.  If you are interested in seeing more about what I am up to and when, I suggest that you click this banner and LIKE this page.

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December 21, 2012

December 20, 2012 by Leave a Comment

The World WILL NOT end tomorrow.  Extra Angels (or any deity) sent to rescue the planet will not suddenly arrive from the clouds tomorrow (they are with us all the time anyway, and any time we ask them to be).  For most of the population on the planet, it will be business as usual.

We go through cycles, the Earth goes through cycles, everything cycles.  What we are going through is just one of these cycles.

The energy is intense for sure.  More so for those of us that are intuitive or empathetic.  Over the past week I have had days where it feels as if my whole energy body is like an open nerve.  Physical tingling, the constant need to ground my energy, periods of time where it feels as if something is ‘not right’, almost as if my skin is crawling.  I recognize it for what it is though.  It is an energy shift.  It is not the only time I have felt this over the past 15 years or so.

Everyone is or will be feeling this energy on some level.  Some more intensely than others.  Everyone will be impacted in some way ~ we are all a part of the same energy, what affects one affects all.

We will be starting a new 26,000 year cycle on Saturday.  As with all new beginnings comes some endings.

A lot of people think that the ending and new beginning will be very abrupt.  It won’t be.  It has been going on for years.  In 2004 there was an influx of light to the planet and many people starting having more ‘psychic’ experiences.  Then again in February of 2006, another big shift.  In the fall of 2011 it was a time of letting go.  This letting go was a part of preparing for this new, fresh start, a new cycle.

For years now, more and more psychic children are being born.  More and more people are realizing that there is more to this life than what the 3rd Dimension shows us.

Many people have let things go.  Many are still holding on tight.

In the most simple terms, we are heading closer to Source come Saturday.  Our ability to create happiness and manifest things into our life is heightened now, and will be more and more as the days, months and years progress.  We are realizing that we are a part of God, that God is not just outside of us, but in and around and through all of us.

Whatever you are expecting to happen after tomorrow will likely happen on some level.  Some of you are expecting heaven on earth, you will experience more of that.

Some of you are expecting bad things, an Armageddon of sorts, you will experience more of that in your own way.  As I wrote in this post from 2009, “Is 2012 Really the End of the World“, every day is the end of the world for someone.

You are a Creator.  You co-create with the Universe and you get what you think about.  It is a choice.  You will see whatever you focus on.  Be aware of, and choose your thoughts wisely, you are creating the rest of your life.  The best thing about this is that you can change your thoughts and it will change what you create.

Chances are, if you are reading this, you are already open to a ‘knowingness’ of sorts.  Very few closed off, 3D people will be reading this blog.  Even if they did, they likely wouldn’t have gotten this far down the page.

The separation between people who ‘feel good’ and people who ‘don’t feel good’ will widen unfortunately.  Just know, that YOU create with your thoughts and energy.

If you are reading this and don’t “feel good” right now, know that not all is lost.  Not by any means.  YOU are a CO-CREATOR with God.  Know that you can create anything.  You have read this far in this post, you already have an inkling that feeling good is your natural state, even if it doesn’t feel like that right this minute.  Over the next couple of days, keep your thoughts as optimistic and positive as possible.  Ask God and your Angels for help if you need to.  They will be there for you.

This is an exciting time.  It may be trying for some.  Just know everything will be just fine.

 

 

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Empowering Through Responsibiltiy

November 22, 2012 by 1 Comment

So I had a brief discussion with my son yesterday and I want to share it with you because I think the message is important for everyone. If you have children, please read this and think hard about how you are ‘helping’ them.

My son borrowed his dad’s ear buds to listen to his iPod with his dad’s permission. He was told quite clearly by his father that “if you break them, you will have to buy me some new ones”.
My son agreed. Two days ago, my son came home from school and showed me that the ear buds had broken (he is 12, so they probably broke in his pocket with all the other ‘boy stuff’ that was in there).

I told him that he was going to have to tell his dad, and perhaps ask him how he could earn some extra money to pay for the ear buds. My son told me he would rather not have to work for the money. I had a chuckle on that one.

I had told my son I would buy him an iTunes Card last week as a ‘bonus’ for a job well-done on bringing his grades up over 20% in only one month. My son told me that he would prefer to use this to pay for the ear buds. I told him that I was okay with that, but that it wouldn’t quite cover the buds so we’d have to think of another way to get the remainder.

So yesterday I pick him up from school and we are talking. He says to me “I think I would rather just have the iTunes card please” (he’s very polite). I asked him how he thought he would pay for the ear buds. He tells me he would just like for me to buy them please.

I am trying hard to teach him some responsibility. A big part of me just wants to buy the ear buds, they are only about $40 but so much of what I do now will shape his entire future so I tell him that he needs to start taking some responsibility. And if that responsibility requires him to work, then so be it.

I follow up by saying that he has few responsibilities. That they are: trying at school, a few chores, participating in the family etc. I told him that being responsible involves working hard, doing what you say you are going to do, and taking care of things you said you would. I point out to him that me and his dad have many responsibilities, including paying all the bills and teaching him how to be responsible.

He says, “hrumph, if that is the case then most of my friends are going to be in trouble”.
NOW here is where the most important part comes in.

I said to him, “you are right. There are many people that are adults right now in their 20’s and 30’s, and even 40’s that have no clue. Some of them still live with their parents, a lot of them cannot support themselves and have no idea how life works. They have no work ethic, no ‘common sense’, and no idea of how to work hard and get what they want.

“Think of all the homeless people, people that cannot feed themselves, the people that are always looking for handouts and for other people to ‘rescue’ them. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT WERE NOT TAUGHT HOW TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES AND THEIR LIVES.”

That basically shut him up for a while as he pondered what I had said. I think it hit home for him. He hasn’t come up with a plan yet, but I know he’s thinking about it.

NOW, for all of you who read this and think that I am a horrible B*tch for saying what I said about the homeless and people that are having a hard time.

I WANT TO BE VERY CLEAR ON WHAT I MEAN BY THIS POST

I am all for helping people out. I know that there are people who have challenges and require assistance at certain times of their life. This does not mean that they are bad people, far from it. I have been through some very challenging times myself.

My point is that we are raising a generation of kids who think that they should have EVERYTHING handed to them ~ for nothing. We disempower our children when we don’t allow them to take care of themselves.

The media, the government, certain ‘rights’ groups, are teaching us and our children that we are powerless. That the government needs to step up and take care of us. We cannot take care of ourselves. We are BOMBARDED with this message every single day of our lives.

One thing the people who are doing well know, beyond all doubt, is that they can have, be or do anything they want. They do not rely on others’ for their success or failure. They take responsibility for their lives and their actions. They STRIVE for achievement. They do not wake up in the morning asking what someone else can do for them. They wake up in the morning asking what they can do to help themselves and others.

I just saw on the news last night a story about the BC Government. The reporter asked a government official what they were doing “for the people”. The Official went on to say that BC has a “Jobs Plan” to get people into new, well paying, careers. The government is paying for training, spending money on getting the word out on where the jobs are, where the training is, where the financial support to get the training can come from. All very positive, empowering things.

The reporter actually put the emphasis on HANDOUTS. Here there is a plan in place to EMPOWER people and it is being slagged in the media because it actually requires people to take some responsibility and do something themselves. Work, earn, and feel good. The only focus of the reporter was on how to give people more welfare money. Pretty bloody sad. Once again the media is saying people can’t do for themselves.

I pay a fair amount of taxes and I do not mind doing so. It is my responsibility to do my part. However, after paying my bills and TAXES I have less to give to anyone that might really need some assitance. My tax money goes to pay for bureaucracy. I give to the government, the government takes a HUGE portion to pay for government employees and other things. I have LESS money to give to people or things that need it.

We need to help each other. But we also need to do it while EMPOWERING people and helping them know that they can have, be or do anything they want.

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Imagine & Explore New Things

October 22, 2012 by Leave a Comment

What an amazing time we are going through. The energies right now sure seem intense to most of us. Last year was a time of letting go for most, and this year has been a time of exploring new things. This can be really uncomfortable for those of you that do not embrace change. Please trust in yourself and your process and allow yourself to take those baby steps. As with all journeys, you will not get anywhere unless you take those first steps.

Shifts like the one we have been going through this year can bring about physical symptoms also. There are many who are feeling a little dizzy or disoriented, or who are having mobility problems. Even the cold and flu are impacting a lot of us (I myself had a bug). Our DNA is changing, we are becoming lighter, vibrating at a higher frequency. Sometimes it is hard to accept what we do not understand. As much as you need to be stepping forward into your new life, you may also need to allow yourself to be physically rested.

This is not as contradictory as it seems. Sometimes stepping forward into your new life simply involves allowing your creative side to shine through. Dream and dream big because all of your wishes and dreams can and will come into your life. Keep it positive. Allow yourself to say “What if?”

What if I could have anything, what if I could do or be whatever I wanted? The beginning of any journey starts with an idea, allow your positive ideas and affirmations to shape your future. The energies of our planet and our human race support growth, happiness and love. It is only by allowing yourself to dream and move forward that you can realize anything you want.

Even as I was going through healing from the cold I had, I had to rebook a couple of my reading appointments and spend a lot of time resting. On the one hand it felt like I was not doing much ‘work’ because I was spending so much time just sleeping or reading. On the other hand, while I was sleeping I was doing a lot of work on a soul level. Also, by resting and reading and just hanging out, I was able to focus on the things I that I want in my life. There’s no better time for self-evaluation and dreaming and creating than when you can’t physically do much else.

The whole point of being on earth is to live life, create, have experiences and share love. Please, as we go through this transition, just allow yourself to BE.

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It is okay to allow happiness

October 15, 2012 by 1 Comment

God does not want you to be unhappy.

I talk to so many people who think that when they are going through a tough time, it is karmic, or because they have somehow done something wrong. Some think that God is punishing them, or that they have no reason to be ungrateful because they have good things in their lives.

No wonder we go through tough times. We feel so disempowered sometimes. If only you knew just how powerful you are.

Even if we go through a ‘good’ or ‘abundant’ time, we feel guilty and sometimes, somehow, manage to turn it around on ourselves. (“I don’t deserve to be so happy when so many others are suffering”).

We are on earth to have experiences and to enjoy life. We are not here to suffer. There are those people out there who wish to disempower the masses. Its working. They tell you that you have no control, that if you have good, you must have the bad, that you have to be on medication to heal yourself, that being empowered and listening to your intuition or your guides is ‘evil’.

You are bombarded with messages that tell you what you cannot do. Its in the newscasts, on our favourite TV shows, social media, on the radio, (sometimes even in our churches), it’s everywhere.

You don’t have to listen to that you know. You can listen to what your own intuition and guidance is telling you. Its time to question everything. Everything is changing, the energy of the Earth and her humans has been changing for years now. Are you going to hop on board and start listening to yourself? After all, ulitmately, you is what you have to trust in. No matter what anyone else says, its YOU that makes a choice and takes action (or chooses not to take action, which in itself is also a choice).

We are co-creators with God. Stop listening to people who tell you you aren’t. You can have, be or do anything you want. Don’t let anyone tell you differently. Do not feel guilty if your life is good. Its okay. It can be even better if you ALLOW it to be. Why not have it all? There is nothing selfish in having what you want.

If you have what you want you are better able to share with others. If you do not have what you want, what would you have to share anyway?

Just a little rant from me today… I love you all.
Tamara

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What, How, When – Tell Me My Future

September 14, 2012 by Leave a Comment

I would really like to clarify something about the future, “fortune telling”, psychic readings, talking to, or hearing from your guides, loved ones, angels etc.

You are a co-creator. To ask a psychic or clairvoyant what is going to happen in the future, without being willing to hear what you are in the midst of creating is a waste of your time. I, like most other psychics can accurately tell you what you are in the middle of creating. When we see what you are in the midst of creating, we can pretty accurately tell you what will happen in the future.
The problem with this mentality, and some psychic readings, is that when you focus on what the psychic has said is “Your Future”, and you refuse to listen to what a psychic might tell you about what you need to do IN THE PRESENT, you are robbing yourself of actually having a life of your own.

I won’t do this – tell a person that this is “your future” – anymore. I haven’t done this for quite some time. I always start off readings with what you are in the middle of RIGHT NOW. Of course I can accurately see what’s on the horizon, I’m clairvoyant. However, I don’t want to take control of, or try to create your life for you. Neither do your guides or your loved ones on the other side.

For those of us psychics who have managed to keep our ego’s in check, we focus on wanting to help EMPOWER you. Not live your life for you. There is nothing more disempowering than to say “HERE’S YOUR FUTURE, SUCK IT UP”, and then leave you hanging if it’s something you deem to be uncomfortable.

Do I sometimes see things that are in the works, on a roll and seemingly unstoppable? Yes, I do. But if I do, I also get information that will help you to make it through to the other side with the least possible problems or resistance.

Some of my clients are so focused on the HOW or WHAT of things that they miss an awful lot of good messages from their guides. A great example is concerning relationships. I get many questions every month about relationships. When will I meet them, who are they, where will I meet them, how will I meet them? More often than not, when I get these kinds of questions, the first place your guides will go with me is to tell me where you are RIGHT NOW. They may share some of your past relationship information with me, or your upbringing, or where you are now, where you are vibrating with your energy, what you are attracting. But most importantly, what they share with me is WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF, WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR ENERGY, RIGHT NOW to enable you to find your perfect match.

So many of you don’t want to hear this. You throw your entire life into the hands of a psychic and say “Tell me what will happen”. Your guides, and me, would much rather tell you how you can find your soul mate than telling you that you are going to have another relationship exactly like the last one, or that it will take you 10 years to find them. Wouldn’t you much rather hear how to heal yourself, and change your energy vibration than to put your future in someone else’s hands?

Now I KNOW there’s a lot of people who will say, NO to that question, “tell me what will happen”. And all I can say is, go and find another psychic. This one WILL NOT take control of your life away from you.

All that being said, can I see the future? Yes, as I stated before I am a clairvoyant. Can I see who your mate is, what they look like, do for work, when you will meet them etc.? Yes, a LOT of the time. But often the information comes WITH OTHER INFORMATION about where you are now and what steps you need to take to get yourself ready for this relationship. If you do not take care of what needs to be taken care of with your own stuff, then you could meet your absolute soul mate, not be ready for them, and send them packing. Who knows how long it would take you to either re-connect with them or connect with someone else that you agreed to meet up with while living this life. Or, you could actually change your own future by changing what you are thinking, feeling and doing in your life.

The more healing that you need on a soul level, the more your reading will focus on you, your past, the present, and what you can do to heal yourself. Your guides want you to be able to move forward with a clean slate, and the only way to do that is to know where you are at and what you need to let go of.

I have used ‘significant other’ relationships as an example in this blog post, but truly the message is the same for all ‘issues’ I get in psychic readings. Career, family/friend relationships, money, everything. YOU are co-creating your reality every moment of every day whether you realize it or not. Sometimes we need to create from the most basic space … where we are now.

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