Today is a blank slate, as is tomorrow and the next day…

A lot of you think that you are here today because something was “meant to be”.  And sometimes that is true.  However, you are a creator and where you are now is a result of the decisions that you made yesterday and the day before and the day before that.

Today is a blank slate.

What do you want for your today?  What do you want to do?  What do you want to feel?  What decisions would you like to make?

Are you taking some time for yourself?  Or are you giving away your life to something or someone else that doesn’t make you happy?

Yes, we all have a purpose for being here, but are you living that purpose?  How do you even know what your purpose is?  The best way to find your purpose is to stop with the busyness and go within.  Pick a time, a quiet space and calm your mind, see what God and the Universe has to say to you.

Today is a blank slate that you can do anything with.  It is human nature to do the same things today that you did yesterday.  It is spiritual nature to create.  What do you want to create?

Take some time today to go within and ask.  That is all it takes, asking.  You will get your answers.

Once you get your answers, you will need to act though.  Think differently, feel differently, act differently.  Then your life can and will transform into the life you want.

With Love

Tamara

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Don’t be afraid of repeating the past

We are in a very new energy now.  There is no need at all to revisit or be afraid of what came before.  Things are just different now.

We are much more aware of the Law of Attraction, and how we manifest in our lives.  We are no longer ‘fated’ to repeat past behaviours or scenarios for ourselves.  It is much easier to manifest what we want in our lives.

This is due to the earth being in a 5th dimensional reality, and also due to science.  We know more now about how to use energy to our advantage and now that it is backed by quantum science our belief has gone up.

When you believe that you can create your life, your reality, your days, you do so more consciously.  You take responsibility for your decisions and your actions.  You can think and act from a place of knowing you are a creator.

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You don’t need to be fearful of repeating the past

Its okay to let go of things that came before.  You may have had setbacks in relationships, or finances, or with your work or family, but you don’t need to be afraid of repeating them.  Simply being aware of what happened before, and being aware of what you are vibrating, thinking and doing now can keep you from ever having to repeat a destructive pattern.

You are not the same person you were then.  You have re-invented yourself.  Trust yourself.  Listen to your inner guidance.  Does what you are contemplating make you feel happy in your heart?  Or are there red flags going up all over the place?  Are you listening to your intuition, or are you ignoring signs and signals and pushing forward with old familiar patterns anyway?

So what is the difference between being nervous and a red flag?

If you see a sign that something is not right for you, and you try to justify it, then that is a red flag.

Relationship example:  In a relationship if you have been with abusive people before or with someone who has had substance abuse problems and you are now with someone new you have to ask yourself how it feels and be truthful with yourself about what it looks like.

Red flags would be seeing them use substances in an unsafe or destructive way; or them saying something very hurtful, or physically harming you.  These are red flags that should not be ignored.  Even if you have been together for 9 months and they have been okay up to this point, pay attention to the red flag before proceeding.

How to know if its just your own ‘baggage’ in a situation like this.  If you are with someone and they say something that hurts your feelings, but that is not abusive (more just pushes your buttons a bit and brings you back to the past), then that would be your baggage.  Can you talk to them about it?  Is it safe to share your feelings?  (not in a reactive way, but in a responsive way).

If you look at the relationship from the past you will see that there were red flags all over the place but maybe you ignored them.  See the past for what it was, don’t ignore the flags this time, but don’t bring the past into your present situation either.

Work Example:  You decide you want to change careers.  Maybe you changed jobs or started a business in the past and it didn’t go well.

Now you have found a new job that will pay the bills but is a little more esoteric, or creative, or different from what your upbringing taught you.  Or, you have decided to start a business that makes your heart sing.  These things can certainly make you nervous, but they don’t necessarily mean you are repeating a mistake from the past.

Your past and your family might get into your thoughts and tell you that this is not possible.  That it is a pipe dream and you can’t have a job that makes you happy and allows you to live comfortably.  You may have subconsciously believed that last time you tried and your old beliefs contributed to it not working out.

If you are now operating from a new energetic space, where you know you are a creator, this nervousness doesn’t necessarily mean its a red flag.  In the case of starting a business, you may need to keep your day job while you grow your business, but it does not mean that the past will repeat itself.

We are in a new energy and you are now able to operate from a completely new space.  If you find things coming up for you that are similar to the past don’t let it scare you.  Remember, you can do it differently this time.  You don’t need to be afraid of being stuck with the same scenario as last time.

Everything changes all the time, and you have changed and evolved a lot in the past few years.  Trust yourself, trust your intuition, create from a high vibration (not just wishful thinking) and all will work out.

 

 

 

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Who or What Do You Think is Controlling Your Life?

You have ultimate control over your own life you know.  You don’t really have to be controlled by anything or anyone outside of yourself.

I know that a lot of you reading this will have a list of 10 or more things that are external to yourself that you may say have some control over your life.  But it simply isn’t true.

Do you wish your life was different?  What is it you want?  Love, happiness, money, a career, a business, better health, time, freedom?  You can have it ~ really.

You may need to adjust the way you are speaking to yourself but you can have it.  Everything in your life starts with a thought.  The words you use in your internal dialogue is how you are thinking.

Who told you you can’t have what you want?  Was it your parents, your teachers, your bosses, society, the news?

Think about why you believe you can’t have it.  Is it even true?  Who said it?  Why did they say it?  When you look at them what does their life look like?  Are they happy?

You are living your life.  No one else is.

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You may need to do different things to get different results, but you are living your life.  When all the distractions and other people are not around, who are you left with?

Who decides what you are going to do with your time?  Who decides what distractions you are going to let get in your way?  Who decides how you are going to feel?

You are responsible for the choices you make.  If your life doesn’t look the way you want it to, take a good look at the decisions and choices you are making in any given moment.

Practice some awareness of your recurring thoughts; are they helping you or hindering you?

Live in the present moment; are you doing what you want to be doing in that moment?

If you are doing and thinking things that are the opposite of what you want to be doing and thinking, you may need to ask yourself what you are afraid of.

What is stopping you?  Why are you so afraid to live the life you want to live?

Make some decisions.  Think of what you are afraid to do, and then decide to do it.  Once you decide to do it, then the actual doing of it will be easier.

Don’t worry about judgements from others.  Don’t live a life full of regrets for things you did not do.  Make the hard decisions, then take action on them.  Don’t worry about what other people think.  It doesn’t matter.  What matters is what you think and how you feel.

Making decisions and taking action will leave you so exhilarated that you won’t have time to worry about what anyone else is thinking anyway.  You will be living the life you want, you will be happy.

You have one life, and you are the one living it, live it wisely.

 

 

 

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Grieving is NOT Negative Thinking

Just wanted to share this because I have talked to so many of you lately that are grieving a loss.  Within that grieving comes thoughts of loss and thoughts of how things will never be the same again.  Sometimes the thoughts are less than pleasant, and sometimes the thought process involves anger or resentment or any other number of ‘negative’ emotions.

Some of you have said to me “I know I shouldn’t be thinking negatively”.  The thing is, you are a human being and if you are going through a grieving process, you will naturally have some negative thoughts.

These negative thoughts are a part of your process and you need to allow them to flow.

If you have lost someone or something it is okay to be mad.  Be mad as hell if you want.  You don’t want to hold it all inside and make yourself sick, or pretend that you are not sad or mad or upset or whatever.  That will just help turn it into unresolved baggage that you might not even know is there because you’ve buried it so deeply.   The key being flow ~ NOT fester.

Go with the flow

Allow yourself some time to go through your grieving process.  Don’t be afraid of having anger, sadness or any other negative feeling ~ it needs to get out!

If you need to have a good cry, have a good cry, its okay.  If you need to feel sad, or spew some negativity, then do that.  Do it with the intention of letting it out and letting it go though.  There is nothing negative about that.

Acknowledging those feelings is important, some things simply cannot be sugar coated.

Over time it will be important to move forward, to release, forgive, let go; without that, you risk causing yourself to get into a depression.  But be patient with the process.  Do not be afraid of your feelings.

If you have a breakdown and cry and cry and cry, there will be a point where your crying begins to subside, you will find yourself taking some deeper breaths ~ it is at this point where you can decide that it is okay to quit crying for today.  You might even allow yourself to fall asleep or to imagine some more positive things in your life.

Please be patient with yourself if you are grieving a loss, let the pain flow through and out of you and your energy field.  During active grieving is not the time to worry about whether or not you are ‘talking negatively’.  It is not negative thinking it is a process of releasing a loss.

Grieving doesn’t last forever, but it is often a necessary process for us humans to go through.

 

 

 

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Why do we always have to push so much?

The Art of Relaxing

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Sometimes we simply need to listen to our bodies and rest.  How many of you reading this have pushed yourself when you were very tired or sick and got sicker?

We need to learn to listen to our bodies instead of running them ragged.  This is the only body you have, you need to love and care for it.  And yes, you need to love and care for it as much as you love and care for other people’s, including your kids ~ who would they have if your body wasn’t there?

How often do you find yourself doing things because you think you should?  Better question….  How often do you find yourself doing something because you want to?

How often do you have a nap or go to bed early because you want to?

Or skip cleaning the house for a couple of days because you have better things to do?

Or take some time away from work to simply have a couple days relaxing and doing nothing?

How often do you take time out to read a book?

I realize we have responsibilities and families and jobs etc. but really, its as if we have forgotten that its okay to have some downtime.  Always so busy.

I know a few people who are sick right now.  I was sick myself a short while ago.

Very few people rest when they are sick these days.  Their colds (or flu), drag on for what seems like an eternity, but they don’t let themselves rest.  I do understand that work does come first for many (don’t work, don’t get paid and all), but do you really need to vacuum the house?  Bake cookies for the bake sale until midnight instead of picking them up at the store?  Say yes to every favour someone asks for?  Deny your body the short nap it is yearning for?

How about you let yourself feel better.  Try and take some time for you.  You owe it to yourself  to be rested and healthy and to feel good.

Hoping you are all healthy this October 1st.

 

 

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Couple More “Best Of” posts from October 2011

Time to revisit some posts that I wrote right around this time of year, but 4 years ago.  So much still applies.  We are all at different stages of our paths and I know these are still helpful posts even after all this time.

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Don’t Take it Personally

Most of us have a tendency to take life way too personally.  It doesn’t matter what the situation is.

If you want to feel better, you need to expand your perspective to include other things and people.  If you walk around thinking that everything that goes on around you, is always directly related to how someone feels about you, you can easily lose your peace of mind.

Next time you encounter something or someone that irks you try and look at it differently. Use this as just a simple way to assist you in not taking things personally, and playing with changing your perspective.  Click here to read the rest of this post.

 

What is Waiting for you? Can you let go of the Old?

Over the past few years a lot of you have been working on letting things go. A lot of you haven’t. There are so many who are hanging on tightly to what they have always known. Those of you who are doing this are getting more and more uncomfortable. It seems like no matter what you do, things aren’t working out.

As we come up to 11/11/11, those of you that are Spiritually ready for movement, but not yet willing to give things up on your own, are having things ripped away from you, and this is very uncomfortable indeed.  Click here to read the rest of this post.

 

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Don’t Be Afraid of the New ~ Give Yourself a Chance, we have the perfect energy for this right now

We’ve got some awesome energy right now.  So much new stuff ~ you’ve got this, you can do it.  You might be feeling a little nervous right now wondering what is going on.

You’ve got your ideas and you have been planning to do something a little out of your comfort zone, but you feel stalled!

Its like “OMG, I don’t think I can do this, I’ve never done this before, what if I totally suck at it!”

That is the energy you are dealing with right now.  Here is the thing, you need to do it anyway.  You will do well, or you won’t.  It doesn’t matter in the least.  The energy right now says “try it”.  Really, you will probably end up with things going well for you and you may surprise yourself with what you are capable of.

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But if you don’t do well, then so what?  At least you will know.  You have to try it.  You’ve been waiting so long because you’ve been afraid to fail.  How about you give it a shot and give yourself a chance to succeed.  It will change your whole life.

You will either wind up knowing you can do it, or knowing you can’t (chances are you can if you have been thinking about it this long).  You will find that either way your energy is freer, happier and more able to propel you forward to where you want to be.

It will never be a waste of time either.  What is a waste of time is thinking and wondering for a really long time if you can or not.  Never taking the step, never taking the chance.

So, the message of the day, and its a big one ~ Just go for it.

 

 

 

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Your words and thoughts have physical power – Will Smith

Found this video of Will Smith talking about how your thoughts and words have physical power.  Its a montage of different clips where he talks about his success.  Interesting perspective on talent, skill, work ethic and making other peoples lives better.

Think its pretty interesting and inspiring so wanted to share it with you.

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Your words and thoughts have physical power – Will Smith

 

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Motivation; Reward or Self Sabotage?

Do you set goals?  Do you ever reach them?  How often do you “REWARD” yourself?

If you don’t set goals, why not?  Are you afraid you won’t reach them anyway so why bother?  If that’s the case you probably have a hard time getting what you want out of life.  If you cannot imagine having it, it is very hard to manifest it for yourself.

If you set goals and never seem to reach them have you ever wondered why?  You start out all gung-ho and things seem to be going okay, but the end result seems to constantly elude you.  Here are some things to think about.

Are you Motivated?

When you decide you want something, you absolutely must be motivated to get what you want.  If you are doing it for someone else, or because you think its something you should do, you will find any motivation you had at the beginning waning pretty quickly.

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Are you rewarding yourself too much?

This is the most common thing I see in my clients that are not getting what they want out of life.  Yes, we need a reward or a rest once in a while, absolutely.  But the way some of you think about reward seems to be a bit skewed.

If you aren’t reaching your goals, ask yourself “Am I rewarding myself or am I sabotaging myself?”

A reward come at the end of a job well done.  See that word in there ~ the END of a job well done.  Not 15 times in the middle of a job (goal), at the end.  If you put in an effort for a short time, and then say “phew, that was hard, but I feel good, I think I’ll take a reward” you will never reach your goals.

The reason you won’t reach your goals is because with your self sabotage you will be constantly setting yourself back, the results you see will be mediocre at best, and you will not have the staying power to get to the end of your goal.

This pretty much applies to any subject, doesn’t really matter what it is.

You are working at paying off your credit card bills and loans and you are doing really well, you are beginning to see some results.  Its only been a couple or few months but…

You “reward” yourself by buying something ~ on your credit card.

My son is working really hard to get an online class completed so he can go to see a friend in Ontario for a couple weeks this summer.  He is working really hard at it and says he really wants to go but the class has to be completed first. 

His tendency is to ‘reward’ himself by taking two days off in a row to do nothing and he loses momentum on the class.  It actually slows him down because he has to reread a bunch of stuff.  If he took shorter breaks he’d get a lot more done. (I’m sharing tips with him but letting him learn by experience on how he wants to do this, it will serve him well into the future).

You decide you want to lose weight.  You are doing really well.  You lose 7 pounds.

You eat a whole pizza in one night and weigh 5 pounds more in the morning and lose motivation.

In all these scenarios’ you are just shooting yourself in the foot.  You are probably someone that says “this is taking too long”, or “I need to see some reward or its not worth even trying”, or something like that, you probably have a hard time losing weight, paying bills or getting goals set and reached.

You need to change your mindset.  Rewards are good.  Too much of a sense of entitlement, or too many rewards are just self sabotage.  You don’t need to reward yourself constantly, you are not two.  Instant gratification won’t get you what you want.  Having the staying power to set a goal, work towards it ~ unfaltering, is what is going to get you there.

If you must have a reward, take one, but take something other than something that is going to sabotage you.

If you are trying to pay down bills, don’t give yourself a financial reward on credit ~ give yourself a day off to do nothing, or hang out with friends or go to the beach instead.

If you are trying to lose weight don’t eat a whole pizza once a week ~ have one slice every 3 weeks.

If you are trying to complete a project, stop giving yourself excuses not to work on it.  We all have excuses.  Instead of excuses, maybe just get up and take a walk around the block, or play a game or go for a swim, wash dishes, mow the lawn, shovel snow, or something to decompress, then get back to it.

It really is up to you if you reach your goals or not.  Watch your self talk and ask yourself if the big reward of reaching your goals is more important than all the little unimportant things along the way.

 

 

 

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Stop Judging Other Lightworkers for Having a Different Path Than Yours ~ there is more than one way to get things to change

I’ve seen a lot of posts on Facebook lately that slag people who choose to see the good in just about everything (yes, this is where I come in).  I have the ability to see multiple perspectives and energy behind every situation.  There are NO situations in life that are just black or just white, everything has more than one perspective.

Some of these posts I have come across say we (people like me) are “New Age Spiritualists” that have our heads up our asses.  That we are ignoring the real issues, and pretending they don’t exist.  That nothing can change if we don’t get in the game and start acknowledging all the evil and bad stuff in our world.

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WE ALL HAVE OUR ROLES TO PLAY IN THIS GAME CALLED LIFE

We are all here for different reasons and it takes ALL of us and ALL of our views, perspectives and ‘ways of being’ to help make the world a better place.  I don’t slag anyone who has opinions that are different than mine.  We all have something to contribute.

The Energy Workers

The world needs love.  There are some of us that have incarnated here in order to help empower other people to be their true selves and to make their life better ~ and by doing that, these souls are able to make more of a difference in the lives of others.  Some of us have even incarnated specifically during this time FROM OTHER PLANETS.  Mother earth and her people need a lot of love to help through this transition and there is a HUGE transition team here right now that are assisting with raising the vibration of the planet.

Those of us who were born with the ability to feel energies and consciously play with energy and manifest things more easily choose to use this ability to raise the vibration of the planet via positive reinforcement.  We know just how powerful we are when we use our energy in a certain way, and we USE IT.  We infuse light into situations, and transmute energies, that those living in the old earth energy cannot even fathom.

Those that Spread the (Bad) News far and wide to bring awareness to situations

There are some souls on this earth that are here to bring things to light so that transformation can occur.  These souls are more likely to share things and bring up uncomfortable subjects.  Some are outraged at what is going on on planet earth and they want to tell everyone!  They say “Do something dammit, don’t ignore this!!”

Sometimes these are the worst offenders for pointing the finger at those of us who are here to spread light and love, (while accusing us of “ignoring the issues”).  Most of them have some understanding of energy, but they don’t feel it in quite the same way that some of us do.

The Protesters

There are some that are here to protest and march against injustice.  I am grateful for these brave souls that risk injury or jail time in order to change things for other people.  They are the bravest of the brave and they put their energy into physical action.

I am sure there are many more, but these seem to be the 3 most prevalent ‘types’ of Lightworkers I have come across.  All of us have our role to play.  No one is wrong, however we all come at it from a different angle.

I am here to teach and to spread love.  I know about all the lousy stuff happening on the planet, but it would be hard for me to teach love, empowerment and compassion if I spent my time being upset about what is going on.  I don’t have to ignore it, I just focus on what I want to see more of.   If I can empower more people, then there will be more people empowered to make changes on the planet.  It matters not if I am empowering/helping energy workers or protesters or somewhere in between; empowerment works on every level.

All change starts from us.  Whether the change comes from within, or is focused on from without, change will happen.  Some of these changes need a 3 tiered approach, they need someone to shine a light on the injustices, they need an infusion of love, and they need people to stand up and march and protest to help change happen.  Without ALL these energies working in conjunction with each other the changes might not happen quite as quickly.

We cannot help anyone until we help ourselves.  If I was broke and miserable, I highly doubt that I would be able to make such an impact in this world.  It takes a lot of my time and energy to write these blog posts, do readings, and engage with people.  It takes my money to run a business and a website.  If I did not work on empowering my own self first, I would not be doing what I am doing.  I would be working for someone else to ‘make ends meet’ and I’d be lucky to do one reading a week and one blog post a month (been there done that).

I would love to be doing amazingly well enough one day to actually be able to help more people in more ways; if I do not take care of myself, I will have nothing to give.  Yes, I could spend my time complaining instead, and ‘getting the word out’ about the injustices on our planet, but that is NOT WHY I CAME HERE.   Some of you are here to do just that and I applaud you.

PLEASE just think twice before you judge anyone who has a different role to play during the Earth’s time of transition.

 

 

 

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