What if you really could have anything you want?
When you are thinking or talking, and you say “What if….”, what do you follow it with?
Do you follow it with all your fears and the things you do not want in your life?
Thoughts are energy and create our feelings. Our feelings create our next steps. Our next steps create our life.
Everything we have in our lives, we have co-created. Everything we have, started with a thought; a “What if?”.
Successful and happy people have different ‘What if’s” than, unhappy or stuck people.
If you would like to see things show up differently in your life, you need to change your what ifs.
If you find yourself saying the following What If’s, you may be at a sticking point in your life.
What if I lose everything?
What if I can’t pay my bills?
What if my partner cheats on me?
What if I lose my job?
What if I can’t find another job and I am stuck in this job for the rest of my life?
What if I am stuck in this relationship?
What if I try something new and I fail?
What if I get hurt?
What if I get sick?
What if I don’t have enough money to retire?
What if my car breaks down?
All of these statements, whether said aloud or just to yourself are creating your life.
Why not try these instead?
What if I were to find my perfect job?
What if money were to flow to me easily?
What if my partner loves me very much?
What if I can stay in this job as long as I want?
What if I found my perfect job?
What if I get out of this relationship and find a better one for me?
What if I try something new and it ends up being fantastic and propels me into a new and wonderful area of my life?
What if I succeed?
What if I take care of myself and am the healthiest I have ever been in my life!!!!
What if I can retire early?
What if my car lasts me a really long time, will I keep it?
Can you feel the difference in these statements?
Read them out loud to yourself. They simply feel different. The former list creates a feeling of being stuck, and of not wanting to move forward. When you read that list you probably feel quite disempowered. If you habitually talk/think like that list you probably feel afraid of making any moves or changes in your life.
Now when you read that second list you will find that your energy actually changes. You start to feel more optimistic. You start to feel more inspired. If you have self-talk like on the second list, you will find that you get inspired to take action. You may just be in the shower, or driving, or walking from your car into the store, and something that you CAN do will pop into your head.
You will feel happier. You will create an energy in your Aura of feeling good, and with your new-found optimism you will find that people and circumstances will just come into your life, just like magic. You will find yourself saying “What a coincidence” (even though you know there is no such thing as a coincidence).
Give it a try. Just for a week, (or even a day if a week seems like too much). Observe what happens in your life, you will be pleasantly surprised.