Are You Taking Advantage of this Energy to Transform?

Everything is changing ~ it has been changing and growing since 2012.  Are you allowing yourself to grow with the new energies?

Many people who are still resonating with the old 3D reality are waiting for “The End”.  The end pretty much happened already a few years ago though.

Since 2012 we have been growing, expanding, experiencing new things.  There is no need to live in fear any longer.  Embrace love and the new will flow easier for you.  I understand that it can feel as if things are falling apart sometimes, but really it is all the new that is trying to grow for you that makes it feel this way.

I’ve been writing a lot this year (and in prior years) about letting go of things that no longer serve you.  This is actually quite “old” energy.  It really is time to let the new start to present itself to you ~ it probably has already presented itself to you in some form ~ but have you been listening?

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Its almost like prior to 2012 we were caterpillars, and we have been in a cocoon for the last 3 years.  We have been transforming under the surface.  If you try and stay in the cocoon it will feel like a very dark, outdated, musty, yucky place.

You must let yourself be the beautiful butterfly you are meant to be!

What is it you want to be?  Who do you want to be?  What do you want to experience?  What would your ideal life look like?

Are you brave enough to let go of some of your fears and imagine what life would be like if you just let yourself go for it?

As my mom used to say “What are they going to do, throw tomatoes at you?”

Give this a ponder and practice imagining what the future would look like if you could have, be or do anything you wanted ~ because in the new energy, you really can.

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Why Do I Keep Seeing My Name Everywhere ~ The Synchronicity of Your Name

There are synchronicities everywhere, all you need to do is acknowledge them.  If it is a true synchronicity you don’t have to really look for them, all you need to do is practice awareness and you will begin to see more and more of them everywhere.

My guides have told me that most of the time the synchronicities are more than mere coincidence; more often than not they are messages from Spirit.  Your loved ones, angels, teachers and guides are always trying to help you in a non-obtrusive way.  They won’t force you into anything, but they will often gently push by showing you synchronicities as a way for you to begin to listen to your intuition.

Some synchronicities come about because when we were in Soul form, we planned our lives, and allowed for the opportunity of synchronistic events to help show us when we were on the correct path(or easiest path, rarely are we on the wrong path, some are just harder than others).

When you dismiss synchronicities as they come, you end up seeing less and less of them.  There are some that are really hard to ignore though.  Such as seeing repetitive numbers (11:11), or names; especially if it is your own name.

 

Why do I keep seeing 11:11 all over the place

Synchronicity

The most common reason you see, or hear, or meet people with, your own name over and over

I asked this question of my guides and they were more than happy to give me an answer to share with you.  This phenomenon is getting more and more common for many of you and it is generally good news.  One of the reasons it is appearing to more of you is because of the planetary and dimensional shifts we have all been collectively going through.

If you keep seeing your name when you rarely ever saw it before chances are you have been going though a bit of a rough patch, or through some very big changes.  Things have probably been very up and down and all around for you.  Like a roller coaster or merry-go-round.  You feel okay a lot of the time, but stuff just keeps cropping up for you.  You’ve been working on releasing old stuff that doesn’t work for you so that these recurring themes that had plagued you will stop and you can move on.

Seeing your own name over and over is a sign that you are on the right path and that things will be getting more and more comfortable for you.

A lot of you who are seeing your own name are light-workers yourselves.  You already know you are slightly different, but up till now you may have thought it was not safe to ‘be yourself’.  Maybe you have been afraid to acknowledge to yourself, or to others, how you really feel.  You may feel a ‘disconnect’ from some of these worldly ‘problems’ that seem to have other people all upset.  You know to the core of your being that large parts of what you see and hear out there are illusions.  You know things can be better for our planet, whether you know precisely what that would look like or not.

you are a lightworker

Think of being “comfortable in your own skin” or with who you are ~ your name.

If you landed on this page because you Googled “why do i keep seeing my name everywhere“, I hope this has helped you understand that you are doing okay, you will continue to be doing okay, and to keep loving yourself, and embracing all of who you really are to the core of your being.

With much love

Tamara

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

How Long is it Going to Take for You to Realize You Are Not Broken

You are not broken, although there are certain aspects of life on earth that are.  You have spent so much time trying to improve, repair, release, and figure out what is wrong with you ~ you have convinced yourself that you need to be ‘fixed’.

What if there is nothing wrong with you?  What if you were to begin to realize that you are a perfect Child of God and that it is the whacked out ‘pretend’ matrix of the earth that has you all messed up?

I get it.  You are sensitive, so am I.  We feel things very deeply and the ails of the people around us and the world can really impact us in a huge way.  You sometimes feel things that don’t belong to you and they feel dense and fearful and like there is something inherently wrong with the planet.

Firstly, the planet is fine.  Second, you are fine.  Some of your discomfort comes from your sensitivity.  What is ‘wrong’, is that you have been programmed to think that what you want is somehow wrong.

You watch TV, you talk to people who watch TV.  You stare at your phone and watch cat (or goat) videos, you play video games, or you zone out on Facebook.  You look at people who are living a ‘certain type’ of life, and think that maybe you should be doing something else.

You are bored.  There is a big part of you that knows there’s more to life than this, but you are a prisoner.  You are stuck in your job, and/or the place you live.  It feels like a prison and that there’s no way out.  The reason for this is because everywhere you turn you are being told you are broken and need to be fixed.

What if you aren’t broken.  What if you are just stuck in a matrix and you don’t know how to get out.

BE yourself

Thoughts are things, everything is energy, intention is everything

This is a big one and it can change your life to really ‘get it’.  You need to stop saying “I don’t know what is wrong with me”.  Or, “Something is wrong with me and I don’t know what it is, I need to fix it”.

I have done that; asked that question, and I will tell you now that it will lead to depression if you do not stop yourself from asking.  I have had other people’s energy attached to me and felt a bit ‘off’.  At least it started out that way.  After a while, instead of realizing what I was feeling wasn’t even my own ‘stuff’, I started to question things.  “What’s wrong with me, I’m so sad” or “OMG I am so sad, I don’t feel like I will ever feel good again, this came on so suddenly, there must be something wrong with me ~ I’m broken and I need fixing”.

If this has happened to you before, keep reading because:

Here is your Cure:

  • Firstly, do some clearing meditations.  Ask Archangel Michael to help you.  Do a lot of them if need be.  One should do it, but sometimes your mind gets in the way and thinks you need more ~ if your mind & thoughts think you need more, then you need more.  Your thoughts create, so thinking you need more clearing, creates the need for more clearing.  You need to clear and then trust its okay.
  • Make a conscious decision to disconnect from that which does not serve you.  Really.  I didn’t know this before, but as an Empath it is much easier to disconnect from the energy of others than I thought.  It mostly just takes practice.  Practicing to not take on others’ stuff, and practicing recognizing it and clearing it when you do.
  • Practice awareness.  Be very aware of the words you are using and make sure they are for your “Highest and Best Good”.  Your self-talk is very important.  Don’t say “I take on the energy of others’ and I can’t help it”; instead say “I sometimes take on the energy of others and I am really good at diffusing negative energy, but every day I get better at letting it go”.
  • “I don’t need to keep the energy I diffuse for others, I can let it go, and I do, EASILY”.  These are affirmations, and they will help you.  Just as being an empath is energetic, so are the affirmations.  Your thoughts/words to yourself will create your reality.  You can create something different.
  • When you are going to talk to someone that you know impacts your energy, make a conscious decision ahead of time to protect your own energy and stay in your own energy.
  • See an energy worker for help, I often help people with this during psychic readings when its required.

 

What if you don’t need healing so much as you need to let go of what no longer serves you?

So many energy workers and healers are stuck in a really bizarre place.  They feel differently than most people do, they are in jobs with people who are stuck in unawareness and they feel like the life is being sucked out of them on a daily basis.

The world is waking up but there are still a lot of people on the planet that really don’t have a clue.  If you were to talk to them about ‘energy’ in the way I write they might think you are a bit loopy, or worse yet become afraid of you.

So, you don’t talk about it.  You try to fit in, to conform to what you think is ‘normal’.  To what you see on television, or hear about at work or at family gatherings.  Sometimes as you are listening to other people talk you think “Where am I?  Am I stuck in some weird movie where things that are not important are what seems important; and what I know and feel is really important is ignored?  Are these people crazy?  Am I crazy?  It must be me because they are all in agreement and I am the only one standing here talking to myself.”

I know there are a whole bunch of you that just read that last sentence and thought “OMG, I’m not the only one!!!!”

And nope, you’re not.  There are millions of us.  We just really need to learn to meet each other.  It starts with being your lovely self.  Other people that are like you won’t be able to find you if you hide.

You will need to be discerning though.  Sometimes if you go to a “metaphysical event” you will meet some pretty freaky woo woo people who think they are stuck and broken themselves (they think, therefore they are), and you won’t relate to them any more than I do.  However, you may also meet some people who are a little more down to earth, (like myself), that just like to hang out in decent energy.  I went to just such an event yesterday and most people there had very lovely energy and I made some new friends.

One of the reasons I don’t ‘work’ these events normally is because they attract people who want someone to fix their broken selves, and quickly.  They don’t want to take part in their own healing journey, they want someone to wave a magic wand and ‘bam!’ ~ all fixed, you broken soul.  Even better if they can get it for free!

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Which leads me to…

I know a lot of beautiful wonderful energy workers and most of them that do work for others have a ‘day job’ that pays their bills.  They might charge for their services, but they charge very little because they believe (mistakenly), that they should be giving their services away for free.

They know that they cannot ‘heal’ anyone; all healing comes from within, so when someone comes to them essentially they heal themselves.  They have a really hard time getting their head around charging for something that seems so simple.  Or MORE COMMONLY, some of them think they aren’t “good enough” ~ this is a super common occurrence for those of us who are ‘different’ in this way.  After years of being told you are different or worse yet, broken it can take a while to begin to value yourself properly again.

This isn’t really fair to these energy workers, but it is their ‘belief’ that energy work is secondary to the matrix of slavery for money that is what made you feel broken to begin with.  I have done it before myself.  I used to have a day-job and charge less for my readings.  I helped way less people of course and it was harder to get in to see me.  It took me a long time to embrace the belief that I do help people, and that it is okay if I want to work my own hours, and live in a house, and take a trip every now and then.

I must say, that just because you are sensitive and different and feel ‘broken’ doesn’t mean that you have to turn your gifts into a career.  There are many light workers that work in other fields.  It doesn’t matter what you do, or where you work, or if you don’t work ~ just embracing all of your complete, unbroken self can work wonders for those around you and the world in general.

It is okay to ask for help, you cannot always do it yourself

As much as I know you are not broken, depending on the spot you are starting from it sure can feel like it sometimes.  I used to feel broken myself, and I have gotten some really good healing energy work from other healers.  I have an entire circle of healers that I consult for different things.  I don’t generally need to consult them very often because I get a lot from my own Spirit Helpers; but on the occasion that I do need help, I most certainly will HIRE one of them to help me.  Most of them are my friends, but they are also business women (just so you know, this is just who I have been led to for myself ~ there are men that do this work as well, just none that I have had the pleasure to work with).

It can take years to clear yourself of your stuff if you do it on your own without help, and it can get rather uncomfortable in the meantime.  So it is perfectly acceptable to work with someone who has been where you are, or at least knows how to help you on the next steps of your journey.

 

If I can be of assistance to you on your journey I would love to help.  I do single appointments and mentoring/coaching as well.  You can contact me here.

 

What Are Starseeds?

Star Seeds (sometimes referred to as ‘Star Traveler’s) are souls that had their first incarnation on a planet other than Earth.

The Universe is a big place and to think we are alone, or that every soul in the Universe is originally from Earth is very small thinking. The Earth that we know plays a very important role in the Universe, if the Earth did not exist, the whole universe would be different. Much as what one soul feels we all feel, (we are one), what one planet feels can impact all the other planets.

The Earth is going through a huge transitional phase, she has already transitioned past the 5th Dimension from the 3rd Dimension. Planet Earth has been in this energetic space before. One of the more well-known times that the earth had a similar energy to now was the time of Atlantis. Mankind worked with energy, knew how the energy worked and started playing with Dark-matter. The earth was at risk of being blown up by mankind, and Atlantis was destroyed.

The same thing is happening right now. Scientists are playing with Dark-Matter and they really have no idea what they are doing. Most beings in the Universe do not want to have to clear the earth yet again and start from scratch. The call went out to the Universe and many Souls that were not Earth Souls have answered the call. There are light beings from all over the universe that have come here to help raise the vibration of the planet enough that there is no need for Earth to “start over” once again.

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Many people are worried that the world will come to an end. It won’t, it really doesn’t need to. We just need enough souls on the planet that are vibrating at a high enough level that positive change on the planet can occur.  Sometimes with re-birth it can feel as if things are ‘coming to an end’, but really it is all new beginnings.  As we let go of some of the systems that are currently in place things will get better, even if the destruction of the system causes some temporary pain.

From the information I am receiving we are doing okay here on earth at the moment.  Even two years ago when we were still in the 5th Dimension things were more dire than they are today.  It may not seem like it with all the ‘problems’ in the world, but things are changing. Just as many of you personally have been going through things that are very uncomfortable so that you can clear the way for better things to arrive, so is humankind.  Starseeds are assisting with this in a huge way, and all is well.

I am a Star Seed. I found out precisely ‘where I was from’ when I had someone else do an Akashic Record Reading for me. I am Hadarian, originally from Hadar (I was not the least bit surprised to hear this from someone else as a second opinion ~ I relate to the Hadar energy 100%).  A lot of Hadarians were originally takin prisoner and brought to earth, but I was never a prisoner. I incarnated here willingly to help the planet along with her ascension.

 

Are you a Star Seed? Most Star Seeds:

  • Relate to the spiritual realms and energy work.
  • Identify as ‘light workers’.
  • See life very differently than most ‘human’ souls. Because they have such a different perspective, most Star Seeds don’t really understand why the world is the way it is. They have lived very different lives than this, and a lot of this ‘suffering’ makes no logical sense to them.
  • Some Star Seeds end up being medicated (anti-depressants mostly), because they feel so out of place here. If you learn to live on earth and control your vibration, you are less likely to end up medicated.

There are a lot of Starseeds coming to see me.  With the way things are ramping up for change here on planet earth, and all the shifts we are having in the vibration of the planet, there are a lot of  Star Traveler souls that are feeling confused.  For some it is getting harder and harder to feel sane and grounded.

There are Starseeds on earth from 20+ different planets and almost a quarter of us on earth at the moment are starseeds.  If you are feeling alone, you can try connecting with other lightworkers.  As most lightworkers are starseeds, you just may find a part of your soul group.

If you would like some help figuring things out in your life a psychic reading can help.  You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Stop Giving Up on Your Life & Dreams!

I had a totally different (logical) idea for a blog post when I first woke up this morning.  One that went along with the trend from this week about vibrations.  That one is going to have to wait though because I really feel a pull to write about something else today.

That’s what often happens to me when I write.  Most of my writing is inspired by source and flows through me.  It often feels more like the writing is happening on its own and I’m just along for the ride.  Blog posts for me are much like doing readings.  I write for you, and I trust that if I am being directed to write something different that means it is something that you need today.

Impatience

Keep Going ~ You’ve Got This!

Life is a process.  I have done no less than 4 email readings in the past week where people are questioning whether or not they should just give up or let go of what it is they have wanted to do.  If you are reading this, then this post is for you and your answer is “You need to give it a little more time”.

Very few things that are worth doing and growing are going to happen overnight.  You need to be able to trust.  Impatience is a dream killer.

You Need to Decide

Are you going to do this or not?  Do you have what it takes?  Can you do this and carry on until you make it?  It is your decision to make, but if you don’t decide it will not happen.  If you think to yourself.  Maybe this would be a good idea.  Could I make money at this?  Will this make me happy?  Maybe I will stick my toe in and see what its like.  I’m not sure if this is for me, but I will give it a try and if it takes off right away I will do it; if it doesn’t then I will throw in the towel.

If this is your thinking … stop now.  You won’t bother to…..

Take Some Action ~ Do What it Takes to Get What You Want!

If you don’t do something, then nothing is going to happen for you.  I am not saying that you do useless things just for the sake of doing something, but you need to take some inspired action.

As an example:  I DECIDED I was going to write a blog post every day.

When I am going to write, I don’t “wait for inspiration” to hit and then sit and write.  I sit and start writing and let the inspiration flow.  There have been many times when I have sat down and not known what was going to come through me.  BUT ~ I sat down at my computer.  I started, I did something!

There are other times when I am just going through my day, feeling good, and BAM.  Inspiration slaps me across the face and I need to stop what I’m doing and sit and write.  I have written blog posts on receipts and business cards and on my hand.  I have written at soccer games, in the truck while my husband is driving; I have taken a break in the middle of mowing my lawn to come in and write out a post.

You need to act when the inspiration hits you.  It doesn’t always last.  If you ‘wait until’ (you have more money, more time, more inspiration, more support from family), then you lose the momentum of what inspired you.

If money is what seems to be blocking you over and over again, then you need to do what you need to do to bring in money so that you have it when you need it.  (see above: Do what it takes to get what you want).  You may need to work for someone else for a while, or you may need to keep doing everything you can that doesn’t cost you anything ~ if its bringing you closer to your dream then do it!

If its your family or people around you that seem to be blocking you, stop telling them what you are going to do, and just do it.  If you do what you say you are going to do (even if you just say it to yourself), you won’t have this problem.

If you have a dream or a business and you are working on it every day and allowing things to flow and nothing has happened yet, don’t give up.  Everything takes time.  I totally understand that it can get discouraging, but you can’t let yourself stay discouraged.  When you look around you at successful people they all have one thing in common.  They didn’t give up.  It looks like they ‘made it overnight’, but years of work went into what they have.

You need to show up for your life so your life can show up for you

Sometimes the reason that things feel like they aren’t moving fast enough is because you just aren’t showing up.  Are you getting up early and getting to work?  Do you think about what you want?  Do you tell yourself, I don’t know exactly how this will work out, but it will work out.  Do you put in the time and the effort?

A lot of what I have written so far is about work life, but this really applies to every part of your life.   This post also applies to ….

Your health, your relationships, all of it.

If you want to be more fit are you showing up for workouts?  If you want a better relationship are you showing up for your spouse?  If you want your kids to behave themselves are you showing up for them?  Are you showing up for yourself?

Have you made any decisions?  If so, what do you do EVERY DAY to get you closer to the fulfillment of your dreams?  Leave me a comment, I’d love to hear it.

As I wrote above, You’ve got this.  You can do it.  You don’t need to give up on your dreams.  Sometimes you may need to work harder than you thought you would; or you will need to be more patient than you thought you could be; but you really can make your dreams come true if you stay the course and don’t give up.

 

Blending Spiritual with Physical

There seems to be a lot of confusion with blending the spiritual and the physical worlds. I’m hoping to explain some of this in this post.

I have been coming across some people that are so Woo Woo and they are driving me nuts. Yes, I said it, human emotion, NUTS.

Nuts

We chose to come to earth to have a physical experience. A TON of us have come at this point time to help the planet and her people understand about energies and bring humanity back to where they were before. To times of Atlantis where we as humans were more aware of our power and our energy.

There are so many ‘guru’s’ that will tell you you need to ‘imagine’ and ‘intend’ and create with your mind. This is true, but they don’t always mention that we live here and if we want physical things (Money, a home, food), then we actually need to DO physical things.

We live in a physical world. I cannot stress that enough. Yes, as I wrote last week, this is only 1% of who we really are, but it is where we live and where we are PERCEIVING from. You will not be able to perceive 100% from the spiritual realm until you go back there.

You cannot wish for money which is a physical thing, and think that a physical thing will come if you just have your mind thinking about it. Okay, so maybe technically we could, because of how energy works, but ~ we can’t right now, because WE LIVE HERE. We chose to live here. We need to BLEND the spirit and the physical. Not just have one or the other. In order for us to be “all spiritual”, we’d have to be dead of our physical bodies. We already know what its like to be “all physical”, until 2006 99.99% of the planet was all physical. All you need to do is look around at what’s going on in the world to see the ‘all physical’ (wars, poverty etc.).

Your way to happiness is to have both while on earth. You live here, so there’s no point in trying to get to a place of ‘non physical’, as stated before, you’d be dead.

We can create a “Heaven on Earth” scenario, but it will not come from a place of wishing and hoping for something to be different. It doesn’t work that way. You came here to help, not just to wish and hope. You could have wished and hoped from the other side. You came here to DO. To BE. To help with changes. You chose to come to a physical world, some of you have eons of experience in other worlds, you think that the physical world is boring or ‘too slow’ (impatience anyone?).

You Chose to Live Here

You Chose to Live Here

Most of you have heard the quote “It’s the journey, not the destination”, well, you are on a journey. A HUMAN journey. Be patient with the changes, be human. Live, experience, DO, BE. It’s a pretty lonely life just sitting at home wishing and intending (and trying to “Manifest”) when you are broke and all alone.

Blend… do both.

One of the reasons why I like doing readings and writing so much, is because when I do, I am connected to Source in a very big way, and I feel really good. Any physical work I do when I have my strong connection with source feels good. Even scrubbing toilets is okay when I have my connection with source. If I am feeling good, it does not matter what I am doing. My physical world feels better.

Your trick is to connect with source and then do your work. Don’t think to yourself “If I just connect to source, and feel good, then my life will be good”. Yes, you will feel good, but if you don’t do something physical then you are missing the whole point of being human. The idea behind manifesting, is to feel good, and then DO. Do what you need to do to bring physical things to you that you want. Once you connect to your Source, you will be inspired to do things that will bring you what you want in the physical world.

If you get too woo woo and just wish for things, you end up being discouraged that nothing is changing. Then you are immediately disconnected from source.

Trust me, it feels really good when you connect with your source and create your physical life from there. The physical is a part of who you are.

Blending Spiritual with Physical

There seems to be a lot of confusion with blending the spiritual and the physical worlds.  I’m hoping to explain some of this in this post.

I have been coming across some people that are so Woo Woo and they are driving me nuts.  Yes, I said it, human emotion, NUTS.

Nuts

We chose to come to earth to have a physical experience.  A TON of us have come at this point time to help the planet and her people understand about energies and bring humanity back to where they were before.  To times of Atlantis where we as humans were more aware of our power and our energy.

There are so many ‘guru’s’ that will tell you you need to ‘imagine’ and ‘intend’ and create with your mind.  This is true, but they don’t always mention that we live here and if we want physical things (Money, a home, food), then we actually need to DO physical things.

We live in a physical world.  I cannot stress that enough.  Yes, as I wrote last week, this is only 1% of who we really are, but it is where we live and where we are PERCEIVING from.  You will not be able to perceive 100% from the spiritual realm until you go back there.

You cannot wish for money which is a physical thing, and think that a physical thing will come if you just have your mind thinking about it.  Okay, so maybe technically we could, because of how energy works, but ~ we can’t right now, because WE LIVE HERE.  We chose to live here.  We need to BLEND the spirit and the physical.  Not just have one or the other.  In order for us to be “all spiritual”, we’d have to be dead of our physical bodies.  We already know what its like to be “all physical”, until 2006 99.99% of the planet was all physical.  All you need to do is look around at what’s going on in the world to see the ‘all physical’ (wars, poverty etc.).

Your way to happiness is to have both while on earth.  You live here, so there’s no point in trying to get to a place of ‘non physical’, as stated before, you’d be dead.

We can create a “Heaven on Earth” scenario, but it will not come from a place of wishing and hoping for something to be different.  It doesn’t work that way.  You came here to help, not just to wish and hope.  You could have wished and hoped from the other side.  You came here to DO.  To BE.  To help with changes.  You chose to come to a physical world, some of you have eons of experience in other worlds, you think that the physical world is boring or ‘too slow’ (impatience anyone?).

You Chose to Live Here

You Chose to Live Here

Most of you have heard the quote “It’s the journey, not the destination”, well, you are on a journey.  A HUMAN journey.  Be patient with the changes, be human.  Live, experience, DO, BE.  It’s a pretty lonely life just sitting at home wishing and intending (and trying to “Manifest”) when you are broke and all alone.

Blend… do both.

One of the reasons why I like doing readings and writing so much, is because when I do, I am connected to Source in a very big way, and I feel really good.  Any physical work I do when I have my strong connection with source feels good.  Even scrubbing toilets is okay when I have my connection with source.  If I am feeling good, it does not matter what I am doing.  My physical world feels better.

Your trick is to connect with source and then do your work.  Don’t think to yourself “If I just connect to source, and feel good, then my life will be good”.  Yes, you will feel good, but if you don’t do something physical then you are missing the whole point of being human.  The idea behind manifesting, is to feel good, and then DO.  Do what you need to do to bring physical things to you that you want.  Once you connect to your Source, you will be inspired to do things that will bring you what you want in the physical world.

If you get too woo woo and just wish for things, you end up being discouraged that nothing is changing.  Then you are immediately disconnected from source.

Trust me, it feels really good when you connect with your source and create your physical life from there.  The physical is a part of who you are.

When You Don’t Know ‘Why’, You Just Need to Trust

A lot of times as we go through life, we want to know WHY something is happening.  We refuse to accept what is, and we have this need to know why.

Sometimes there is not a ‘why’ that would make any sense to you in this moment.

Trust God

 

 

 

 

There can be a lot of strength and power in NOT knowing why.  Not caring why.  What if you decided to go to a place of trusting that what is happening is ultimately for your highest and best good?  What if you stopped asking why, and started focusing on the now, and focusing on what you want to see in your life?

 

Sometimes getting stuck in the ‘why’ can keep us from moving forward.  We keep looking for a why, when there is none, rather than trusting that we will be okay.  Rather than taking any actions towards what we want, we get stuck in asking why things are the way they are now.

 

There are times when ‘why’ can be helpful, but if there is no answer, then trust is your ONLY way out.  Even when I do readings and someone asks me why something is happening, sometimes I get an answer and sometimes I don’t.

 

Sometimes we need to just trust.  Just jump ~ into the void ~ knowing that things always work out for the best if we trust they will.

 

We don't always know why

We don’t always know why

Rescuing people from their continued lousy choices is not your job

You cannot flourish and do what you came here to do if you are too busy living someone else’s life for them. I often write about how you can empower yourself, but I cannot MAKE changes for you, nor can I make your life better. Only you can do that.

You need to realize that you cannot make changes for others, nor is it your job to make changes for them. It is up to them to do that for themselves.

Are you ready to live your own life? Or are you focusing so much on other people that your life is just put on the back burner again? What a great excuse to not step up to the plate and do what you came here to do. “But I have to do this for someone else first”. That is a bunch of hooey. Doing things for other people while doing nothing for yourself does not serve you, or them, or our planet.

If our planet was full of happy, abundant, successful people it would be a much better place. Keeping yourself unhappy, broke, and floundering is not helping anybody.

Have you brought “helping others” to a point where you are just enabling bad behavior in them? Is it an excuse so that you do not need to shine your light on YOU. Are you focusing on others because it is easier to ‘worry’ about them, and take care of them, than it is to step forward in your own life?

It is time to think about yourself. You cannot help others if you do not help yourself first. I am not saying to ‘do harm’ to other people, but it is time to get rid of your distorted view about how much help you are providing. Enabling is not helping. When you try and live someone else’s life for them, you are essentially saying that you do not trust the divine source within them to flourish and for them to take care of themselves. It is not fair to them for you to take away their own life choices.

There is a fairly large split on our planet right now. Those of you who ‘get it’, and those people who don’t. If you are reading this with an open mind, I guarantee that you are one of the people that ‘gets it’; even if you don’t totally understand everything and how energy works, you still get it on a soul level. I cannot make someone else understand this if they do not want to ~ you cannot make someone understand if they are not open to it. Some people have closed minds and closed hearts, and in this lifetime, on the earth in this moment, they will never get it.

Sometimes you just need to walk away from people who are draining your energy. Family members who are always asking for money (adult children included), friends who only call you to bitch about their problems, people in your life who are in lousy relationships and call to tell you about it all the time while not doing anything to change, ditto for lousy jobs, or unemployment.

These interactions do nothing to or for you except to lower your vibration and dim your light, whether slightly or a lot. IT IS NOT HELPING them or you. No matter how often you listen, counsel, or talk, they won’t get it until they get it. AND SOME OF THEM NEVER WILL AND IT IS NOT YOUR JOB TO MAKE THEM.

It is time to let go. Let go of all the things, thoughts and people that are holding you back from your life purpose. Move on. Take steps to make your life better. To feel better. To BE better. Once you do this, then you will be surrounded by wonderful light beings in physical form (all of you reading this already have many light beings around you in ethereal form). As you get together with these people there will be strength in numbers. You will find that two of you, or a group of you, or a tribe of you WILL be able to have an impact on our world. Your light will get stronger and stronger and stronger. The lighter our planet, the better off everyone will be ~ including the people you may be trying to ‘help’ now.

Many that cannot hold the light, or do not want to hold the light and positive energy that is available will stay stuck ~ but just in this lifetime. Do not worry about them, they WILL make it home, and their Soul will be okay. It can be hard to watch them suffer, but you cannot know what it is their soul wants.

If someone comes to you for help, it is okay to help. IF they are also taking some personal responsibility for where they are and IF they are actually willing to change and help themselves. No amount of you ‘doing for them’ will help them out of a rut if they are not willing to get out of it themselves.

This is what I do. This is part of my life purpose. I share, I help those of you that come to me authentically wanting help. I cannot help you if you take no responsibility for your own life ~ it is an impossible task. I can share information that might change your life for the better if you are willing ready and able to run with it. If someone comes to me and asks me to change their life for them, and they do not want to make any adjustments to what they are doing, either physically or energetically, I cannot help them.

It is time for you to do the same with the people in your life. Put the spotlight on yourself. See what you need for you and give it to yourself. THIS is what will make the world a better place for everyone.

Success & Life Purpose

Are you searching for what your life purpose might be? I have a secret for you. If you are happy you are living your purpose. If you are unhappy you are not living your purpose. It really is that easy.

You have come to earth to have a loving and joyous experience. If you are not, then you are not living your purpose.

Are you successful? It mostly depends on what success means to you. Some people only define success with money. Success only means monetary gains if that is how you define it.

According to the Dictionary, Success Means:

1.The accomplishment of an aim or purpose.
2.The attainment of popularity or profit.

If you are happy where you are, and with what you have, you are successful.

If you find yourself saying “I am happy, but….”, then chances are that you are not living your purpose, nor are you successful.

You are either happy or you are not. There is nothing wrong with wanting more out of life. More purpose, more success. The problems only show up when you are not happy with what you do have.

Some people think that to have a ‘good purpose’ they must be serving others. This is a fallacy. If you serve others, and are unhappy about it, then you are not living your purpose. If you are happy, and are not serving others, then you are living your purpose.

You cannot be of any service to others if you are unhappy. If you are happy, and joyful, and spreading positive love & light energy, you will be serving everyone you come into contact with anyway.

Don’t mistake service with martyrdom. There is nothing that you must ‘give up’ in order to make the world a better place, NOTHING. Just by being you, and by being happy and loving, you are living your purpose and you are successful.

That’s it.