Venus Retrograde is Almost Over ~ Have you made a shift?

Venus is about to go direct after about 5 weeks of being retrograde.  There has been a big push for change in relationships.  If your relationships are no longer serving you, you may have decided to leave and start fresh.  Even if you are in a positive relationship, you may have noticed changes (this can also be work/family/friends or other relationships).

These changes are coming from within you.  They are all about your relationship to yourself.  You may be looking at external things and shifting relationships with others, but really it is all a part of you learning to love and care about yourself.

Have you taken advantage of this energy?  Are you learning how to love and care for yourself?  Have you learned to value yourself?  Are you taking some responsibility for how you feel and what you allow in your life?

We are coming into eclipse season again and its all about change and transformation.  Will you allow it to flow for you?  Can you trust the changes that have been started?  Can you go with it and embrace the new?  It will be more comfortable for you if you do.

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Nothing can stay the same forever, everything changes ~ we are either growing or dying.  You do have some control over what your changes will look like.  Just remember to honor yourself.  Honor who you are and what you came here to do.

You don’t even need to know exactly what the changes will be or what you came here to do.  You may need to simply BE for a little bit longer, listen to your intuition, allow your higher self and divine guidance to let you know when it is time to act.

You will be called to walk your talk though.  For those of you that are not walking your talk it will feel a lot like suffering.  That comes from old energy and isn’t quite so comfortable in our new energy.  The new energy is all about living your truth.  When you live in your own truth you will be able to live the life you have imagined for yourself.  You will take responsibility for yourself, and you will release blame and you will flourish.

Be yourself, Love yourself.  If you can learn to love and nourish yourself, you will have more than enough to share with others.

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

 

I love you

what is love

The words “I love you” should never mean, “I don’t love myself”.

It doesn’t matter how much love you give to or share with another, it should never take away from the love you give yourself.

You can love someone else without disrespecting yourself.

If anyone ever asks you to do something that makes you uncomfortable, or that puts you yourself at risk, or takes away from who you are inside, that is not love.

“If you loved me you would….”

That’s a bunch of hooey.  You can love someone without doing something, being something, or feeling something that you would rather not.  Loving someone does not require you to endanger yourself, physically, emotionally or spiritually.

Anytime you ask someone to do something uncomfortable for them, that is not love.  Anytime someone asks you to do something uncomfortable for you, that is not love either.

(I am not talking about asking your spouse to vacuum, yes vacuuming can be uncomfortable, but that’s not the kind of discomfort I am talking about.)

Love is love.  Love is accepting.  Love is allowing ~ allowing someone to be all of themselves.  Not just who you want someone to be.

If you truly love someone, you want them to be happy.  Period.

Not just for them to be happy if it makes you happy.  That is not fair, to them, or to you.

In relationships we are meant to grow together, not to stunt the growth of someone else.  To love is to love, fully, completely without conditions.  Let no one stunt your growth and do not stunt the growth of others.

If you love yourself enough you won’t need to control anyone else, and you won’t feel the need to let anyone control you.

 

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

You Are Here for a Reason

We are all here for a reason.  We don’t even need to know why we are here, except to know that what we do here is important.

Not what we do here as in our jobs or our finances or our success.  But what we do here as a human soul.  How we treat people, how we love, how we respect (people, animals and mother earth).  I sometimes see memes on social media that say “We don’t need more successful people” ~ that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Success doesn’t necessarily equal money.  That is where you get tripped up all the time.  Yes, we need money to buy things in our world, but money does not equal success.  There are some very rich people on this planet that aren’t successful at all.

We need successful people.  We need you to be successful.  Be successful at loving, at being kind, at being a good parent, at your healing practice, or at your office job, or your labour job, just be successful.  If you are successful, you will be happier, you will be helping to raise the vibration of the collective on earth.

Things changed big time in around 2006 (and earlier, but more people noticed it then), and reality as you knew it no longer exists.  For some of you, what you thought was your reality has been challenged beyond anything you could have imagined before then.  March 20, 2015 has now catapulted us forward again, the energy is different, it will not go back to where it was.

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You Are a Lightworker

Most of you reading this are lightworkers whether you acknowledge it consciously or not.  If you didn’t come here to help mother earth through this transition, you likely wouldn’t be reading this.  There are many people on this planet that think what I write is a bunch of bunk; and that is perfectly fine.  They are not the ones I am here to help at this time.

We need to be successful at living.  We must be successful at loving.  We must do our best to wake up most days with a smile on our face and love in our hearts, and spread it as far and wide as we can.  We need to help here.

Some of you may be suffering, but don’t suffer over your suffering.  You can still muster a smile and you can still muster happiness and love.  I know it can be done, because I have suffered through much myself and I know it doesn’t last unless we decide to hang onto it.

You are a powerful being, you chose to come here.  The world needs your help if it is to remain healthy and to be inhabited by humans.  You know who you are.  You can feel it as you read this.

So start defining your success by how you feel and how you uplift others.  You will find that you have a purpose, and you are successful.

Love

Tamara  

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Fastest Stress-Buster Ever

This stress relief tool is the fastest and easiest way to relieve stress, anxiety, anger, depression, fear and resentment.  It doesn’t stop there, any emotion that you are having that is causing you discomfort can be relieved almost instantly, just by doing one thing.

Go to your Heart (Chakra)

Yes, that is it.  Go to your heart.  Almost any emotion that we as humans have is created in and by our minds.  The trick is to get out of our minds and release our thoughts.  If you can do that you can have relief.

Meditation will do this for you.  So many of you never bother to even try to meditate more than once though.  You may try it, find yourself thinking, and then say “I can’t meditate, I tried it (once)”.  If you want to learn how to mediate and clear energies and get out of your head so much, you could read my book, The Secret of Simple Meditation;

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You could just go to your heart.

Guaranteed to Work Instantly

Guaranteed to Work Instantly

4 Steps to go to your heart and rid yourself of stress instantly

1.  Close your eyes for a moment (you don’t have to, but it helps remove distractions).

2.  Take at least one super deep breath; a few is better, but one is enough if you are in a hurry.  Think about it though, its a requirement that you breathe, doing it deeply for a bit certainly won’t hurt.  I can’t see it making you late for your next appointment.

3.  Bring your attention to your chest area.  In particular, your sternum.

4.  Say to yourself “Love”.

You are done.  You are “In your heart”.  How long you chose to stay there is up to you.  The longer you stay there, the calmer and better you will feel.  However, I guarantee, that as long as you are there, you will not be stressed, depressed, or feeling any other discomfort.

If you have any discomfort or stress, you have left your heart, and gone into your head.

This may seem so simple, but that is because it is.  If you could do this every time you felt uncomfortable over the next 3 weeks, it would become a habit.  Once it was a habit, you would be ‘in your heart’ a lot of the time.

We are humans and very few of us are there all the time, but with practice you can get to the point where you feel good most of the time.  And if you don’t feel good you will know why, and you will make it a priority to go back to your heart.

So easy, imagine if we all did this?  What our world would be like!  Just wow.

It can start with you!

 

Relationships and Your Heart Chakra

Over the past few months I have written a lot of posts about letting go. A lot of them were directly related to relationships that have outgrown their purpose.

There is one more that I have written that will be included in this post. I think it will be the last one of its kind (for now anyway). When I wrote the first one, I didn’t realize that it would end up being a series on different types of relationships that no longer serve our highest and best good. I write what I am inspired to write on any given day. My inspiration comes from more than one source. The majority of the time it is from my own personal teams of guides teachers and angels. Sometimes when I have had many clients in a short span of time that all have the same issues related to relationships, I realize that I need to put something out there so that those of you who are not able to get a reading can still benefit from what many people’s guides (including my own) are telling me about the times we are in.

As mentioned in my last post, not all these posts relate to all relationships. There are a great many of you that are living in very positive “twin flame” relationships where you are both able to live your lives filled with love and growth.

I am hoping to be able to channel a post or posts in the future that will better serve those of you who are already in your mutually supportive relationships. Even in very good relationships there are energy and communication exercises that you can do to make things even better.

But that is a future post. For now, here is the post about relationships that are very ‘different’ ~ but still need to be released.

With love,
Tamara

A Special Relationship that Serves to Open Your Heart Chakra

A lot of times when I do readings for people and they are asking about a relationship, they will tell me “I’ve never felt like this before, we must be soul mates”. Usually during these readings, the person that you are focusing on is no longer in your life and you are not letting them go. I am totally convinced that you will be able to find a psychic that will tell you, yes, you have had past lives together, and you are soul mates and that they will come back to you. The world is full of “psychics” that will tell you just what you want to hear.

A lot of the time when I say that you need to let the person go, you will say… “I just can’t, we must be meant to be together, I’VE NEVER FELT LIKE THIS BEFORE”. I am here to tell you that just because you feel a strong connection with someone does not mean that you must be soul mates or that you are meant to be together.

There are many reasons that we feel strong connections with others. It doesn’t always mean that they need to be a romantic partner in this lifetime.

The most common reason for these feelings is that the person that you are obsessed with has helped you to open up your heart chakra. I could count on one hand the number of readings I’ve done when matchings like this are meant to be and I’ve done a LOT of readings. If you are meant to be, chances are you are together and happy and are not calling me to ask why he or she has walked out of your life.

When your heart chakra opens up it can be a feeling like no other. Its amazing. It is warm and fuzzy, and something that most of us aren’t accustomed to once our childhood has ended.

In cases like this you simply need to realize that you likely DO know this person from the other side. You might meet up with them again after you both cross back over and go home. However, chances are, you had an agreement before you came here. The object of your affection agreed to come into your life for a while and be a wonderful part of your life and to help you open up your heart chakra. Once your heart chakra has been opened you can more freely allow someone in to share your life.

It is usually no more than that. Once they have assisted you in opening your heart chakra, their job in your life is done. It’s a wonderful gift they have given you. It doesn’t mean that you are meant to be with them romantically in this lifetime.

Most of you say things like “I am confused as to whether or not he/she likes me. When I call or email them, they are really nice and open but I don’t get a lot of indication that they want more”. They are nice and open because they are ’nice’ people, they probably do like you and don’t want to hurt you. Its usually ‘nice’ people that can assist you with your heart chakra. They aren’t usually the type of person that is going to hang up on you or ignore your emails. (although sometimes they do when you get too pushy). They know that it wouldn’t work for the two of you. Most of the time they do care for you on some level… they just don’t want to ‘be with you’, or they would be.

Take the gift of an open heart, receive it with grattitude, and find someone else with an open heart to share your life with.