What if There is Nothing Left to OVER-COME? Now it is time to BE-COME

For years now we have been in an energy of letting go, overcoming challenges, removing blocks, clearing chakras and energy fields, and trying to get rid of what is no longer serving us.

What if that is all over now?

It is for a lot of you.  You’ve done the work.  You have succeeded in clearing out all the old, now what?

It’s time to BECOME who you want to be.  You can.  And it doesn’t need to be the least bit difficult.

All you need to do is let go of “how things have always been”.  Our world HAS changed, we HAVE changed.  Its already done.  Any discomfort you are feeling now is trying to bring the old world into the new world.

It simply won’t work.  The old paradigms won’t work in the new energy.  This goes for the monetary system, how and where we live, what we eat, the energy of competition vs. the energy of cooperation, how we get our electrical power, the old reliance on oil, being immersed in masculine energy without embracing the divine feminine energy,  the separation from our earth and between different races of people; think you get the meaning, everything has changed.

If you try to bring your past into your present it won’t work.  You have a clean slate now.  What do you want to create?  Who do you want to Become?


It really can be easy if you let it flow.  The hardest part is making a decision.  Once you make your decision you will find that things fall into place for you quite easily.  The Law of Attraction will bring you people and circumstances that will assist you in moving forward and creating the life you imagine.

You might not have much more to clear.  During September we truly were scraping the bottom of the barrel of what needed to go.  Things we thought were done with may have come up so that you could release the last remnants.

ITS ALL NEW NOW.  Embrace the new energy, allow things to change, imagine the life you want.  Then simply go for it!!!  Don’t worry about what anyone else is doing or what society or the ‘news’ tells you.  YOU are the creator, create what you want, you’ve got this!





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Wayne Dyer How To Get What You Really, Really Want

I know that some of you are familiar with Wayne Dyer, however I also know from speaking to you that some of you have never heard of him.

Wayne Dyer passed away earlier this month, but his legacy will live on.  I had the privilege to see him speak a couple of times at events, and he always had such loving and caring energy.

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Early in my journey I was introduced to a couple of his books, and they were very helpful for me.  His teachings evolved over time ~ as it is with all of us, as the world changes, so do our perceptions and experiences, and learning.

I wanted to share this video with you to introduce you to him in the case you’ve never heard of him before.  It is one of his earlier ones, but still applies.  If you have heard of him before and/or read some of his books, then I am sure you will enjoy this video.

How To Get What You Really, Really Want


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Time to Put Your Ideas to Work – Get a Plan!

We are in such a great time of creation on earth right now.  Its time to get with the program and get a plan to get this energy working for you instead of against you.

I am a big proponent of going with the flow and doing what you are inspired to do in any given moment and this really does work ~ most of the time.

For myself, I meditate at least once a day, usually twice, and sometimes even more than that.  I have been writing a blog post every day this year so far.  The more I write and share my channels and inspirations, the more inspired and the more channels I get.  This is the Law of Attraction at work!

I have opened a doorway for myself.  I set the intention to share what I know, and to share what Spirit shares with me.  Thing is, it doesn’t always come to me at a time when I have the time to sit and write.

I have so many subjects and blog posts I want to share with you, plus the energy alerts have been coming fast and furious the past few months.  There have been times when I am just sitting watching TV with my family, and I need to get up and write down a blog post for the next day.  Or we will be driving somewhere and something hits me so I write down all I can about it on my phone and email it to myself (only when I am a passenger of course).  Or, another common occurrence, is when I’m lying in bed and BAM!  Out of the blue Spirit starts sharing something with me so that I can share it with you ~ I just have to get it written down to share.

This is awesome, and I have no complaints at all.  I love the flow, the information I am getting for you (and for myself as well), and the inspiration.  It feels so good.

Thing is, I also have a lot of other projects on the go right now.  I sat down on Sunday morning last week and thought of all the things I am inspired to do.  There is so much I want to do that I actually found myself getting just a little ungrounded.

Being ungrounded when you have so much on the go can really slow you down….

sometimes you need a plan

Here is where my plan is coming in

I will share my plan with you and maybe you will be able to use aspects of it to help yourself as well.

  • The first thing I needed to do is ground my energy.
  • I can be a workaholic.  I am well aware of this fact and sometimes neglect my ‘downtime’ and my friendships.  So the second thing I did was schedule my downtime and friend visiting for the week.  I tend to make it a fairly low priority most of the time, but I know how much it can energize me to just let loose once in a while.
  • I picked what days I was going to work with clients and I blocked them out on my calendar and booked clients in.   I knew I may end up working with clients on other days as well, time permitting (see the point above about being a workaholic), but I have my ‘set’ days picked already.
  • I wrote SEVEN blog posts on Sunday last week (including this one ~ with minor edits this morning).  As much as I never seem to run out of inspiration (apparently I write as much as I talk), I now had 7 blog posts all ready to go for the week.  I will still likely do more through the week as the inspirations hit (or if I channel an energy alert, I will post it on the day I get it which I did on the New Moon), but I was now free to work on some of my other projects.  I won’t have to stop in the middle of anything else to get a blog post done.  I will likely still be emailing myself in the middle of the night with outlines, but I will be free to focus solely on my moments without worry about getting a post done.
  • I have blocked out time for other writing as well.  Whether its an inspired blog post or some work on a book, writing time is scheduled in.
  • I have  a couple of things I want and need to learn about, so I have given myself time in my plan for that too.
  • I am working on a lot of projects around the house.  I’ve scheduled in time for these projects, and time for shopping as well.  Over the past couple of weeks I have found myself starting house projects before the sun even comes up.  Something peaceful about getting started before the rest of the world.

So I now have a plan.  I made sure that I did not put MORE into my plan than any reasonable person could expect to get done.

It all started with grounding my energy.

As I wrote above I really do like to go with the flow and live in every moment and allow inspired actions to take over most of the time.  It is just in the making of the plan that enabled me to start getting things done.  I’m not one to set things in stone for myself but in not having any plan at all I was feeling very overwhelmed and ungrounded and like I would never get to everything I wanted to get to.  The Law of Attraction will help here as well.  Feeling good and knowing that I do indeed have time to do all I want to accomplish will bring me more ‘good feelings’ and more ‘accomplishment’ in my experience.

I have left lots of ‘wiggle room’ in my scheduled plan to do other things, but it turned out to be a very productive week.

If you try these tips I’d love to hear how they work for you.


How Facebook Works Just Like the Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction will bring to you what you are focused on whether it is something you want or something you do not want.  For example, if you are focusing on war or poverty, you will find that war and poverty come into your awareness all the time.  The ails of the world will bombard you constantly and you will have a harder time keeping your vibration high.  If your vibration is not high, you will be less able to spread love on our planet and our planet needs lots of love right now.

This is a really over-simplified explanation, but I think it will do the trick.

So, how can Facebook teach you to use the Law of Attraction?  Its simple.  Just look at your newsfeed.  I often will hear people complaining that there is so much negativity on Facebook these days.  Or too many cat videos, or any other number of things.

I can tell you that on my newsfeed I rarely see anything negative ~ and I only see cat videos if I have taken the time to watch a different cat (or any animal) video in the recent past.

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Why?  Because Facebook uses algorithms to see what you look at, what you spend time on, the articles you click, the things you “like”, comment on and share.

If you come across something negative on your Facebook news feed and take the time to “read more”, or share it saying “this is so negative”, or click through a link to the article, Facebook will give you more of it.  Facebook doesn’t care if you say “I hate this” in the comments, they just see that you commented, so you must want to be engaged with that type of content.

Voila, more negative content for you.

The universe works that way too.  If you give something your attention, the universe says “he/she must like this and want more of it because that is what they are giving all their attention to” ~ so that is what you get more of.

Next time you find yourself saying “everything is so negative these days”

Ask yourself, “What am I giving my attention to?”

I can guarantee that what you are giving your attention to is what you are experiencing more of.




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Controlling your vibration

you can control your vibration

Have you forgotten that you are a vibrational being?  That you can control your vibration, and that you can get what you want with the Law of Attraction if you are aware of your vibration.

Most humans have forgotten they are vibrational beings, and they are acting like observational beings.  Observing what is, rather than changing your vibration and creating what is.  Are you stuck on how things “should” be, or are you focused on solutions to what is?

This has some similar points to a post I wrote a bit ago called “Three Words that Will Change your Life Forever“.

So, another audio by Esther Hicks, channeling Abraham.





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Manifesting and the Law of Attraction

something better waiting


We are manifesting things much more quickly than we ever have before.  Sometimes what me manifest looks exactly as we imagined.  Other times, it appears that we don’t get what we wanted or what we asked for.

That is why when we use the Law of Attraction to manifest things in our lives we need to focus more on how we will feel when we get what we want, rather than the details all the time.

In relationships for example, we may be picturing our perfect relationship with the person we are with now, but maybe the person you are with now is unable to be who you want him or her to be.  In that case the Law of Attraction might actually have you end your current relationship so that the perfect relationship can come.

I want to re-share a couple of posts I did from 2010 that talk about the fact you cannot control other people or things in your life.  You can control how you feel, what you do and how you do it, but you cannot control everything in your life.  Sometimes your higher self will take over and get you what you want in a different way than you thought you wanted it.  Once you are there though, you realize that it is better than you could have imagined.

Part 1 – How Much Control Do You Have Over Your Life?

Part 2 – You Cannot Control Other People or Things


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Where have you been vibrating this year?

There are a lot of things coming to fruition right now. You have a TON of momentum from the energies of the spring.  Think about what you wanted six months ago.  Law of Attraction is bringing it to you now.

What type of momentum you have got going will dictate whether things get worse before they get better or just get better.

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If you have been releasing, then you will find that the upheaval will be easier to take. Things ARE changing and they will continue to change. For a lot of you reading this, you’ve been doing your homework and things are changing in the most wonderful way. A little stressful at times, yes. But you can actually see now how things just might work out in the end.

If you find yourself saying “I have been trying to manifest things in my life”, but you find things just aren’t working out the way you thought they would, chances are you have been hanging onto things you should not be hanging onto.  You certainly are creating your life~ all of it ~ some of the things you have been trying to hang onto just might get ripped away from you though.  That’s the thing with manifesting.  You can’t dictate exactly what it will look like.

If you choose to try and move forward while carrying all your old baggage with you, you will find it much harder going.  It will be like trying to drag a house with a string.

Letting go can be uncomfortable, but not letting go while trying to move forward to a better situation will just cause chaos for you.  It will be you causing chaos for you.  You can try and blame the Universe if you like, but the Universe is here to support you.  Every day we are getting downloads of new energy, the planet vibrates higher and higher, your manifestations are coming faster and faster.

Give yourself a break.  Let go.  Do what you can and let God handle the rest.  The more you go with the flow and the momentum of what was started 6 months ago (or many years ago for that matter), the better you will feel.  The better you feel, the better your future creations will feel.


Probably not a coincidence that your Angel Card Reading for this part of your week says “You Know What to do?”  Could it be time to let go and feel better?



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June New Moon ~ You Are Creating in Every Moment

Its a New Moon today.  What do you want in your life?  All year we have had infusions of light energy that are empowering us to create the lives we desire.  Our manifestations are getting faster and faster and stronger and stronger.

Unfortunately, a lot of you are still stuck in playing the ‘blame game’ and thinking of yourself as small and powerless.  You may see things seemingly falling apart for you.  You may think “I didn’t sign up for this, why is everything going wrong?”

It is because its time to MOVE.  You need to take 100% responsibility for your life and you need to stop pouting when things don’t look exactly how you thought you imagined them; and you need to keep your focus on what you WANT.

You need to stop blaming;  the economy, the government, your boss, your spouse, the big ‘corporations’, society, the banks…..  Yes, some of those things may seem like big blocks to your success, but they aren’t.  If you are not successful, you are the block to your success. 

When things work out for you, maybe you hold the energy that you are kinda grateful, but hey, things could be better.  You might be happy for a few minutes, maybe even an hour, but then your focus goes right back to what is wrong, or could use improvement in your life.

This is not to be mistaken with an energy of “Wow, I mastered that!  Onward and upward to the next challenge!”  The energy I’m talking about, that you need to get rid of, is “Wow, that was great; but I still have so much lousy stuff to deal with”.

Maybe when things go a little sideways you are kinda PO’d, and then you start blaming someone or something else for what has happened.  The ‘stupid’ company decided to downsize.  The ‘stupid’ corporations/grocery stores raised the price of food again.  The ‘stupid’ 1% raised the price of gas again.  All BLAME.

No, you can’t control your company, the price of food, gas or anything else, BUT, you can control yourself and your thoughts.  Every time you complain about something like that you create more of it.

You may find yourself saying, yeah, but I’m usually a positive person, and I am truly grateful when things go well, but they only go well for a short time and then I’m screwed all over again.

I can tell you exactly what is going on here and you probably won’t like it and that’s okay.  You do need to consider it though if you want things in your life to change.

So, you may be grateful that you have a job ~ then you continually bitch about your boss, coworkers, rate of pay or customers.

If you are self-employed, you may be grateful when you get clients or customers, but when you get paid you think “I’m grateful for this customer, but my bills are so high and there are things I want that I can’t have today, I am never going to get ahead at this rate”.

he who has gratitude

You have a home, and you may say you are grateful to have it, but then you complain about what it looks like or a room that needs paint, or furniture that is old, or it is cluttered or hard to keep clean, or…..

You are in a relationship and you say you love your spouse and are happy, but then you complain about their habits, their attitude, the way they treat you, the fact they are too tired after work to do anything with you, their weight, their eating habits, whatever.

All of these thoughts/things are you creating.  They are you being happy situationally.  You are not authentically happy ~ you choose to pin your happiness on what all these little external things look like.

This doesn’t mean that you are never allowed to be in a bad mood, or sad, or cry, or mourn a loss.  It does mean that you must take every measure necessary to NOT wallow in it.   Nothing wrong with thinking “well, that threw me for a loop, I didn’t expect that” and to actually be a bit angry or down for a little while.

However, if you choose to wallow in it, rant on and on about examples of how this “always happens” and say stuff like “well I was happy, and then this happened, so now I’m not happy anymore” and then you follow it up with, “I don’t know why this keeps happening to me”.

I can tell you why this keeps happening to you.

It is the Law of Attraction

We are manifesting now faster than ever.  You squandered your opportunity to be really grateful when something good happened by saying, “thanks, but its not enough, now I am still lacking….”

AND when something went even a little bit wrong, you ranted about it for HOURS.  “Oh, the inequality of it all”.

If you would put as half as much energy into the gratitude for the little positive things, as you put into the dismay at the little negative things, you would see EVERYTHING turn around for you, AND FAST.

You are not to blame yourself either!!!

There is a huge energetic difference between blaming yourself and taking responsibility for yourself.  You have done what you know up to this point.  No sense in feeling guilt and blame for something you did in the past.  I wrote last week about the need to forgive yourself.  That was a precursor to the energy of the day today.

If you blame yourself, you are just energetically sending yourself right back into victim mode.  That won’t get you to where you want and need to be.

If you acknowledge your past and consciously forgive yourself and then take responsibility for yourself, you will change everything.  You will realize that everything that has happened up to this point in your life was your doing.  It may have been uncomfortable but it is discomfort that promotes growth.  If you were always comfortable you would never change, learn or grow.

By taking responsibility you can take a good look at all that has happened.  You can see how your thoughts, (which created your actions), brought you to where you are today.  Then you can change your thoughts and your vibration and give ‘er to create what you want more of.

When you can look at the events of your past and your present with gratitude for what they are showing you ~ THAT is when you will be able to empower yourself to do, have and be differently.

Change your thoughts, change your life.




If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Three words that will change your life forever (and they are not the ones you think)

You ever notice that we humans seem to always want to impose our will onto someone or something else?   I blog a lot about spiritual development and empowerment because there are so many things you can do and choices you can make to propel yourself into a future that you would like to see.  This includes developing your intuition.  The Law of Attraction is real and we can use it to our advantage ~ (for ourselves), or we can let it run our life without any conscious creation.

on earth as it is in heaven

Sometimes, you might mistake “Personal Power” for “power over others”.  These two things are not even remotely energetically related.  You have power over yourself, your actions, what thoughts you think, how you feel, and what you decide to do in any given moment.

Because you cannot control other people or external events to the degree that you think you should be able to, when you do try you come up against a brick wall.

You may try something ‘your way’, and when it doesn’t work the way you want immediately, you say “I can’t”.  Or you say “the Law of Attraction does not work”.  It does work though, 100% of the time which is precisely why you need to replace your “I can’t” with….

How Can I?

If you want to change your life very quickly, and easily, replace “I can’t”, with “How Can I?”

That one little tweak could change your entire life forever.

So many of you tell me “I want to enhance my gifts” or “How can I talk to my guides”, or “how can I develop my intuition”, or “how can I make more money” or “how can I find a relationship” (endless list, everyone has a unique question).

It is simple, stop blocking it.  You have the ability to use the Law of Attraction in your favour.  You also have the ability to use it against yourself.  You have the ability to get your own intuitive answers to questions as well.

You cannot get answers to questions you have not asked.  If you find yourself in a situation and you say “Well, I can’t do that” then the buck stops there.  The energy stops on that subject and your mind and your energy moves onto something else.  After all, “you can’t” and you are frustrated so there’s no point in trying.

When you get angry or frustrated or sad ~ that just exacerbates the situation.  Now you are adding lower vibrating thoughts (energy) to the mix of “I can’t”.  There’s usually lots of feeling behind that statement!

Once you say “I can’t” it doesn’t matter what anyone says to you that is contrary to your “I can’t”, you won’t believe them.  No one can buck your current of “I can’t, its impossible”.

I want you to try an experiment and leave me a comment on this blog post, or on Facebook.  I want you to start out by practicing a bit of awareness so that you can recognize how often you say “I can’t” to yourself.

Then, every time you find yourself saying “I can’t”; I want you to replace it with this phrase:

I don’t know how, but I’m open to finding out.

That’s it.  One little phrase will change your whole life.

Your guides, the Universe, God, Source, your loved ones, Angels… none of them can help you without your permission.  The minute you say “I don’t know how, show me”, you WILL get an answer.  YOU WILL GET AN ANSWER.

Sometimes the answer will be on how to specifically do what you were thinking about.  Sometimes your answer will be a parallel thought/feeling that will get you to the same end result you were thinking of, but via a different path.  Sometimes your answer will be no.  Sometimes your answer will send you off in a completely different direction.

It doesn’t matter HOW it comes, what matters is that you open the energetic doors to be able to hear your ‘intuition’ or helpers.


Its also important to remember that you cannot use the Law of Attraction on, or manifest things for, someone else.  That is their job.  If someone around you has a situation that you want to help with, you can ask “How can I help”, but you must be open to receiving the message that you cannot help them.  Also, it will not work with “How can I manipulate this person into getting back together with me” ~ you cannot control other people ~ however, you could ask “How can I be happy, or how can I get ready for a relationship” ~ these questions are about YOU not someone else.

So try it.  Whatever you have been thinking you want or working towards, ask the question “How Can I?”

It will change your life.

Ready to attract … Abraham Hicks

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The title of this audio is about relationships, but it actually talks much more about our relationships to that which we want.

If you are trying to get in and stay in your vortex and create good things in your life, this is a ‘must listen’.

 Abraham Hicks – Ready to attract a relationship