New Moon April 18, 2015

It is a New Moon tomorrow.  I am writing this post a day early because I know a lot of you read this at night and this post will help you for tomorrow.

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The New Moon is a perfect time to focus on manifesting what you want in your life.  It is a good time for healing and personal growth.  It is time to plant your seeds of intention.  As the light of the moon grows over the next month, so will your wishes.

So at some point tomorrow, take some time to focus on what you want in your life.  Write down a list of anything and everything you would like to see come into your life.  It can be something concrete, or a feeling, or way of being.  It can be related to anything, relationships, work, money, home…there are no limits.

You can set goals or plan for the future.  Remember to keep it positive and focus on what you want to see in your life.

 

 

 

We all have the same opportunities….

Over the years I have had people tell me that I have it easy.  Even as a teenager my sister told me that I was “lucky“, she said “you always get what you want” etc.  Some people say that to me now as well.

I do realize that I am a little bit different than a lot of people.  But if you are reading this you are different than a lot of people too.  That’s the thing about us humans, we are all different.

Where we are in our lives basically boils down to a few things.  People who feel more successful think and do different things than people who feel unsuccessful.

You can have two people who have the exact same life and one will feel more successful than the other.  That feeling comes from within.  The one who feels more successful will be the one that looks ‘on the bright side’, the one who feels less successful will talk or think about what went wrong.  It is these feelings that will create more of the same old same old in your life.  Right down to the people that show up for you on a daily basis.  Do they annoy you, or uplift you?

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So, what is the same for all of us as humans?

At our core you all want the same things (love, happiness, appreciation, to feel safe …), but how those things manifest for each of you is different.

  • Our opportunities are the same.
  • We all have the ability to practice (and use), our intuition.
  • We all live on an abundant planet.
  • If you are reading this you have access to the internet, which is training, information, knowledge, friendship.

What’s Different?

  • The decisions you make.
  • Where you put your focus.
  • Your knowledge and education.
  • Your amount of motivation.
  • The amount of time you will spend on getting what you want.
  • What you are willing to do to get what you want.
  • What you are willing to give up in order to make changes to get what you want.

 

It is your thoughts and your energy that create for you.

I’m loathe to focus on the negative parts of my own life, but I think that by sharing some things from my own challenges it will help you see that ultimately, LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT.  I can share these things, then let them go.  But because I meditate every day, and “I’m over it”, I am pretty sure that as I share I will have very little feelings involved.  I can write this stuff out or talk about it with no ego involvement, just a detached observer.  I am actually very grateful for my challenges because it enables me to be a lot more compassionate when I do my readings ~ for a lot of stuff I see in readings, I’ve ‘been there done that’.  It helps me help you better.

Okay.  So my parents divorced when I was 1 year old.  My dad hit my mom and I saw it.  My dad was an alcoholic and a heroin addict and I remember visiting him in jail when I was 10.  I also remember being afraid to see him because I never knew who would show up (someone on drugs & happy, or someone needing drugs and upset, or just drunk and mean).

I quit school 3 or 4 times in grade 10 and never went back.  (I got my GED in my 20’s because I needed it to get a promotion at work).

There have been times in my life where I completely ‘forgot’ that I was psychic.  And I mean completely.   I had zero connection with source zero intuition and felt just as lost as most other people on the planet.

In my 20’s I lived with a verbally abusive guy that did coke (then started freebasing).  I truly thought that I was the crazy one. (This is just one of many times in my life where I had ZERO intuition).

I also dated a few other alcoholics/drug addicts/abusive men.

I have been a single mom with a son.  Of course his dad also ended up being an abusive alcoholic, drug addicted abusive man that screwed around on me.  We were both happy when I became pregnant, and split up when I was 3-4 months pregnant.

I wound up on stress leave from work at one point when my son was 2.  My doctor prescribed anti-depressants for me (I didn’t take them, I worked on healing myself and my situation instead).  A LOT of ‘depression’ is simply caused by our situations.  Change the situation and the depression goes away.  That’s why I quit my high-paying government job for good when my son was 3.  I wasn’t ‘clinically’ depressed, I was in a bad situation.  My health was more important than the money.

I have been physically ill as well.  Where for months I couldn’t do squat.  If I ever had to do anything, I had to do it first thing in the morning, because after about 10 am, I needed a nap.  I was in constant physical pain, exercise made me more tired…

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Its not always easy but what is your excuse?

If you look at the lists above, where do you fit in?  Can you get yourself into that “What’s Different” list and start making changes?  What is it that you are willing to do to make changes in your life and feel better?

No one can rescue you.  You need to make some decisions and take a good look at the list above to see what is different in people who are more successful.  What is different in people who overcome difficulties?

I had a mentor when I was going through some of these things, and she was a great help to get me to where I am now.  She taught me so much in my 30’s that I am sure she was instrumental in helping me get my energy (and life) straight.  Without her, I would not be where I am today I’m sure.  As much as no one can rescue you, some people can help you create the life you want.

 

I am presently taking on more mentoring clients.  If you are truly ready to make a change, to do what it takes, to release the old and embrace the new, I can probably help you.

You can look here for a bit more information on psychic coaching and mentoring.

Take note.  I DO charge for mentoring. If you are not ready to make a financial commitment that equals your energetic commitment then it might not be for you at this time. You can take a look at my psychic readings page if you would like just a one-off appointment.

 

Will I Win The Lottery?

I know many people that are absolutely convinced that they are going to win the lottery.  That is their entire life plan.  Win the lottery and then everything will be okay.

They have watched The Secret, and they think they have learned all there is to know about the law of attraction.  They study, they read, they watch videos, read my blog, and they think that if they put it on a vision board the lotto win is pretty much theirs.

The thing is, I am pretty sure that the odds of the 5 people closest to me ALL winning the lotto are pretty slim.  They all feel it coming though.  Every one of them says “I feel it, I am going to win the lottery”.

This is a feeling.  What if it’s not that they are going to win the lottery, but that they truly believe they will feel better – later.  They think winning the lottery will make them feel better.  What if it’s not the lottery, but that our financial system is going to go to crap and everything will melt down and all this financial stuff won’t matter later?  Same feeling as winning the lottery.

What is in the energy field of people who think they will win the lottery

They know the “Law of Attraction” is what gets them what they want.  They think that if they just keep focusing on the lottery and buying tickets they will win eventually.

The reason they are less likely to win the lottery is because they limit themselves to thinking that that is the ONLY way they can get ahead, get what they want, or dig out of debt, or out of their current situation.  In thinking about the lotto every day, they totally limit every other source of abundance from coming to them. They shut down inspiration, that connection with their higher self, their ability to create.

There could be a lot of money just waiting to come to them, but they won’t take action towards it because they are so depressed about their current situation they talk themselves into the fact that only a lotto can get them out of this mess (this mess that they created).  When they have an inspired idea, they push it aside because they ‘can’t afford it’ ~ at least not until they win the lottery.

If you spend $10 a week on lotto because that is the only way you can see yourself succeeding in life you are essentially taking $520 per year out of your pocket (savings, investments, debt reduction), and blowing it.

You will not win the lottery if you keep thinking that that is the ONLY way.  It is the energy behind it.  What if there is an investment, job or business opportunity that is staring you right in the face and you decide that you cannot do it unless you win the lotto.  You really want it, but you’ve convinced yourself that you will win the lotto; you are well versed on the LoA and just know that if you win the lotto THEN you can do what you are thinking of.  If you don’t win the lotto, you won’t ever be able to fulfill your dreams.

This is the most limiting thought anyone can have, and it is sad.

I swear that “the people at the top”, put the movie “The Secret” out there just to keep people from taking any action in their lives.  “Hey, let’s tell them that all they have to do is create a vision board and they will have everything they want.  They don’t have to work, they don’t have to strive or try, just imagine.  Most people will buy into this in a heartbeat, no one wants to think they have to work.   Our world is changing and energy and creating is getting easier for all of us.  They intuitively know that energy can help them, let’s put it out (in a movie) in such a way that they actually get this new earth energy working AGAINST them.  Then they will stay disempowered, say energy doesn’t work, it’s all BS, and be even more screwed up then they were before.”

What a perfect plan.  That will keep them (you) in line.

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How to let the Law of Attraction work in your favour:

Don’t limit yourself to ‘winning the lottery’ to get where you want to be.  Do be open to the fact that there are bazillions of ways for money to come to you.  Most of them aren’t even on your radar.  Focusing only on the lottery creates an energy of lack and of not believing there could be another way.

When you have an idea of what you want your life to look like later, what you are striving to have, DON’T tell yourself, “I can’t do that until I have the money, I will need to win the lottery to make this happen”.

When you are inspired to do something positive, do it.  If you need to wait for funds before you do it, then feel good about what you want to do, and say something like “I don’t know how, but this is a really good idea, so I will do what I can to start getting it going”.  This may involve researching what it is, or completing something else, or just cleaning up some aspect of your life as it is now (see below).  Or even working with someone like me, or an energy healer that can help you move past your limiting beliefs.

If you are overrun with debt, don’t say “I know I owe money, it’s too much, it’s always there, I’ll never pay it off unless I win the lottery anyway so screw it, there’s no sense in trying.  I may as well have something for myself now.”  Instead of saying that, say.  “I have a lot of debt, I lived beyond my means (if you didn’t you wouldn’t owe anything).  I am going to pay this off no matter what.  I don’t know how, but I WILL pay it back”.  And then DO IT.  Even if it is $10 at a time, PAY IT BACK.  You borrowed, you spent, pay it back.  If your debt is what is holding you back from being able to invest in other things (like yourself), you need to make paying back your debt a priority.

The Law of Attraction WILL bring you what you feel.  If you truly feel that winning the lotto is the only way to go, you will shut down any road to money that is NOT the lottery.  If your energy is on “I don’t know how, but I will do it”, then what you want can flow to you because you are not dictating EXACTLY what it is supposed to look like, you are not shutting down the other avenues that could potentially be available to you.

How to Get What You Want

  • Celebrate the little things.  The more you celebrate the little things and realize how little things can add up, the more flow you allow in your energy.  It is called gratitude.  Gratitude will get you a LOT more than entitlement ever will.
  • If you buy coffee at Starbucks you could say, its only $5 per day.  Well that is $1800 per year.  If you want/need money, have dreams, want to “Manifest” better things;  then saving $1800 per year will get you closer.  The energy of saving (or paying back) $1800 is much different than the energy of “I work hard, I’m entitled to nice coffee every day”.
  • You think you need to win the lotto, but what if you had an idea, job, investment, or whatever that paid you $300/day.  Even if it only paid you $300 day on weekdays for 10 months of the year, that would be $90,000.
  • I see a lot of you that make $300 (over any timeframe, day, week, fortnight) and say “that’s not enough, I need to win the lottery”.  Right there BAM, you shut down any opportunity you have to make your next $300.  “It’s only $300, I want/need more, its not enough.”  Are you grateful for the $300 (enabling more flow to you), or are you entitled to more?
  • The LoA works.  If you use it to your ADVANTAGE, you would say “Wow, I just made $300!  That’s fantastic, lets do it again!”  Then you would let go of any expectations you have and feel really good about the $300 you made.  LoA would bring you more of that feeling ~ whether it comes in $2, $20, $200, or $2million, increments.  It won’t even matter to you, because you will know there’s always more and it’s on its way.   You will have that feeling no matter the amount.
  • Don’t mistake this with “Oh, I will spend my rent money on a nice dinner date, there’s more on the way”.  That will NOT create the energy you are looking for.  It will do the exact opposite if you have been the least bit worried about your rent or debt.  What it does in that case, is you get the money, you spend it on a want instead of a need (because you have a subconscious belief that you never get what you want anyway), and your needs still aren’t met.  You have just “proven” to yourself that the Law of Attraction DOESN’T work, because you are still worried about paying rent ~ and that worry energy will shut down more flow.

If you truly believed that the Law of Attraction could work FOR you instead of AGAINST you all the time, you would take care of what you NEED to take care of, KNOWING that your wants will come.  It’s just that most of you spend on your wants instead of needs and it perpetuates this never ending circle of ‘I can’t get ahead unless I win the lottery”.

Its Not Your Fault

I swear these are the most disempowering words in the English Language.  Its not your fault.  So many of you yearn to hear those words.  So many of you use those words when you talk to yourself.

“Its not my fault”

Its not my fault the Law of Attraction doesn’t work.  I can manifest small things, but not big things so the LoA must not work.  I can manifest some things quickly, but not others.  Its not my fault the Law of Attraction only works some of the time.  I can manifest bad things almost instantly, but the good things take forever to show up, if they bother to show up at all.

I have some good news and some bad news.  The Law of Attraction does work, and if it is not working in the way you would like it to, it is because you have some subconscious beliefs engrained in your energy.

That’s it.  That is the good news and the bad news all in one sentence.  How good or how bad it is depends on how you look at it.

I was having a discussion with a healer friend of mine last night and we were talking about our own manifestations in our lives.  We were talking about all the positive things we were in the process of manifesting.  We also talked about the seemingly ‘negative’, or more aptly put challenging things that we were going through.

The only difference between me and her and the rest of you, is that her and I both take 100% responsibility for what happens in our lives.  We know we created it, we take credit for the good and the bad.  When it is something ‘bad’ (uncomfortable), we both immediately ask ourselves the question, “Why is this happening, why did I create this for myself?  What do I need to be aware of?  Where in my life does something need to change and why?”

No blame of others, no blaming of ourselves, just questions that brings awareness.

You cannot fix what you don’t acknowledge.  The minute you say, this is not my fault, I am doing everything right, I have no limiting subconscious beliefs, the Law of Attraction isn’t real, or something outside of me sucks, is the moment you give your power away and you start down the road of getting the ‘same old same old’.  Nothing in your life can change.

This is your choice.  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  It doesn’t have to stay that way.

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How do I start to clear subconscious blocks

Stop blaming energy for acting like energy.

Acknowledge that maybe there is something going on that you are not aware of.

All it takes is a whole bunch of self-awareness (it takes more than ‘a little’ self awareness, most of you reading this have some self awareness).  The willingness to acknowledge that maybe your subconscious mind is tricking you and is in fact in control of your life.

If you had no subconscious blocks you would have what you want or at least know exactly why you didn’t have it.  You would be able to see with your conscious mind exactly what was holding you back.

There are many modalities that can help you recognize and clear your blocks.  Psych-K is one of them, the Millennium Method is another, a psychic reading with me can help you recognize and clear your blocks, Akashic Records readings can sometimes help.

You can get good at meditation and listen to your own Higher Self when it (*you), tells you what subject matter you need to work on.  That is how I usually do it, (that or the Millennium Method) but I realize most of you are not interested in spending the time it takes to make this effective (that is why you hire others as mentioned in the previous paragraph to help you).

There are a lot of ways that you can find healing for yourself; but none of them will work if you don’t first acknowledge that you are responsible for your life, and if you want things to work out the way you hope they will, you will have to change something.

Stop saying “its not my fault, I think positive but things just never work out, these people who talk about the Law of Attraction are lying”.  Start saying, “Wow, I have studied the Law of Attraction and I think I know how it works but I keep attracting things I don’t want, maybe I have a limiting belief that I need to acknowledge and clear”.

Then get to work and clear it.

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

 

 

 

 

Do You Do What You Say You Are Going to Do?

Do you make commitments?  Do you keep your commitments?

Vibrationally speaking, it is important that you do what you say you are going to do.

When you break your commitments, you are energetically connecting with a specific morphic energy field.  It is not one of the morphic fields you want to connect your energy to if you want to be successful.  Once you start breaking commitments and connect to that energy, it gets way too easy to continue breaking commitments.  Then one after another after another get broken.  The Law of Attraction will work perfectly for you in this instance, to your detriment, but it will work.

On February 2nd, I committed to write a blog post a day for 21 days ~ again.  I committed to write a blog post a day for 21 Days at the end of December as well.   Just for kicks, I ended up writing a blog post each day in between those two commitments too, so I am on day 43 now. I wasn’t sure I could do it.  After all, if you look back at my blog over the years my blogging was pretty sporadic.

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Originally the main reason I kept it up is because I do what I say I am going do.  I had a pretty busy work day today.  I wasn’t sure if I would even have time to do this blog post.  I’ve got other things on my mind, my son needs to use my computer for his schoolwork (don’t know what’s wrong with his, he prefers to use mine though).  BUT, I said I would do it, I made the commitment to do a post every day and so I am.

I suppose that something ‘big’ could happen and I might not be able to write a post, but it would have to be something pretty big for me to break a commitment.  I don’t want to get sucked into that morphic field (basically of breaking promises).  That field exists and that is the other “main reason” I won’t break my commitments.

Another reason I am keeping up with my writing though is that The Law of Attraction does work and I am using it to my advantage.  I am finding that the more I write and share, the more I have to write and share about.  It works that way.  Thoughts are things and thoughts create.  And as I think about writing, teaching, sharing, channeling, I attract more things to write about.

If I had thought “I don’t think I have time to write today, I don’t know what to write about, I might have to skip today, I don’t want to do a lame blog post…”  etc. etc.  then I probably would have come up with an excuse not to do it.  Excuses are great for getting you sucked into an unproductive morphic field.

Instead, my repetitive thoughts go something like this, “I said I would do it, I have to do it, I will do it, if I sit at my computer something will start flowing through me that I can share, I will just do it.  I think I will get started and do it now, then it will be done.”

Voila!  Here we are.

Do What You Say You Are Going to Do

Do What You Say You Are Going to Do

Something else I have to share…….

I wrote this whole blog post out, even with my time constraints, and LOST IT.  The whole thing except for the very beginning of it!   This is my second time writing this post.  The first time, even though I save my posts every minute or two, it freakin disappeared on me!

I cannot remember exactly what the original of the post said verbatim, but I did have a paragraph in there saying that perhaps being in the hospital, or my computer breaking or some other emergency might keep me from writing today could come up, but that I have a thing about the energy of keeping my commitments so it would take something HUGE to keep me from writing a blog post and sharing with you.

Then BAM!!!  The whole thing was gone!  All that time and me being strapped for time, and IT WAS GONE!  I had to re-write!

Good thing I made that commitment and that I know how energy works, or I’d have given up after that.

Now that you also know how the energy works, are you going to be doing anything differently in your life to ensure that you stay ‘on a roll’ in the direction that you would like to see your life go?

 

Are You Successful Yet?

This could be a pretty loaded question.  Everyone seems to have different definitions of success and some people feel successful while others look at them and think they aren’t the least bit successful.  Then you have the people who feel like a failure, when someone might look at them and think they are successful.

The dictionary defines success as:  the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

Why do some people appear more successful than others?  It totally depends on what type of ‘glasses’ you are looking through.

If you value money and you see someone with a lot of money, you will automatically label them as ‘successful’.  Even if the rest of their life is falling apart.

If you value relationships and are not in a relationship you may see yourself as ‘unsuccessful’, even if you are financially ‘rich’.

If you think the only people that are successful are ones that have careers that were bought and paid for with years of University training, then anything less than a PHD will scream ‘unsuccessful’ at you.

Every single one of you that is reading this is successful at something.  But that begs the question…

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How do you become MORE successful in your life?

1.  You need to define what is really important to you in your life.

2.  You need to do something every single day that takes you in the direction of what you deem to be success.

3.  You need to make some rules that you set up so that you are consistently winning ~ you win at something every day.

4.  You need to build on previous successes (if you do step #3, this will be easier).

5.  You will need to come to the realization that no matter how ‘successful’ you get, you will ALWAYS want something more, and this is okay.

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Celebrate your success every day!

Even if you are not feeling particularly successful today, find something that you did well.  Are you a good parent?  Did you hug your dog?  Did you listen to a friend and help them feel better?  If you are unemployed and want a job, did you look for work?  If you want to be healthier, did you go for a little walk, or eat healthy?  If its a relationship you are after, did you do something to help you feel better about YOU?

No matter what your day looks like, there will be at least one thing you did that you could call a ‘success’.  You may have to look for it, but its there.  The more you think about it the more likely you are to do something you can call ‘successful’.

Law of Attraction works.  The more successes you can count in your day the more you will do to bring more success.  If you are constantly telling yourself you are a failure, you will continually be doing things that re-affirm that for you.  If you set it up so you are a success in something every day, you will feel and be successful.

Are Your ‘Hopes and Dreams’ Congruent with Your Actions?

We are creators and we are attractors.  The Law of Attraction is real.  What we think about and focus on is what we create.  These are FACTS.

So what do I mean when I ask you if your hopes and dreams are congruent?  Is what you intend to happen really going to happen?

I have a few examples that I would like to give you, and you can decide for yourself if what you think you want is actually what you working towards, or if you are blocking yourself with actions or belief systems that will get you exactly what you don’t want.

Manifest your Dreams

Special Relationships, with Spouse or BF/GF

So, you want a good relationship.  One where you have someone who is respectable like you are.  Has similar values, even if they like different activities than you.  Someone who you can talk to, that respects you and that has as much love to give you as you have to give them.

At the moment you are trying to ‘manifest’ that your current relationship improve.  You live with a drug addict, but just know that if you treat them right and you keep working on ‘manifesting’ the perfect relationship, they will get help and stop using.

You cannot change or ‘manifest’ for other people.  What is likely to happen in this situation is that your current relationship will get worse and worse until one of you can’t take it anymore and the relationship ends.

This will free you up to have the type of relationship that you were imagining (see the first paragraph of this section).

If you pine over the lost relationship you are essentially blocking anything new coming in.  If you do not allow yourself to heal from the lost relationship, you are blocking anything new.

The harder you try to hang onto the current (unhappy) relationship, the less congruent your thoughts and actions are and the longer it will take to finally manifest the relationship of your dreams.

Money

So you would like to ‘manifest’ having your debt paid off and having money in the bank.  Seems doable enough, just work hard.

Yes, that can work and often does.  But your actions need to be congruent with what you want.  If you keep spending money on ‘wants’ you will most likely never get your debt paid off.  Especially if it is credit card debt.  If you have credit card debt, pretty much every single penny you spend is spent on credit.  Every penny!

So, when you go out shopping, or start to focus on things you want and then spend money on them, your thoughts are not congruent with paying off your debt.

This isn’t to say that you NEVER spend anything ever on a want.  It means to be AWARE that if you spend that $5 on coffee, or that $100 on an outing, it is ADDING TO YOUR DEBT.  Anything that keeps you paying interest on a credit card, and not paying off the balance of what you owe, is the opposite of what you say you want to manifest.

It is not ‘what you want’ that isn’t manifesting here.  It is that your actions are different than what you say you want.

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Work

There are a couple of different scenarios here depending on whether you are working for someone else, or self employed so I will cover them both.

You are working for someone and you hate your job or want more money.  Or you really want to move up or do more, use more skills, but haven’t been able to.  You keep thinking about it, every day, but you don’t seem to ever make the time to look for more or apply for something else.  You just keep imagining what it would be like to be doing something else.  You are hoping for a head-hunter to find you or for the “job-fairy” to tap you with his magic wand and put you into your dream job.

Then you lose your job.  You think you have been trying to manifest a better job and suddenly you don’t even have one!  WTH!  Well, you manifested that.  Now you have to go out and look for a different job.  What you make of the situation will be up to you.

At this point many people will just feel sorry for themselves, feel desperate and only look at the same type of job they just left.  It is okay to take a job at this point to take care of your immediate needs, IF you ALSO (at the same time) apply for the type of job you would really want to do ~ your dream job.

You will fare much better if you just take responsibility for your creation, realize you must be a pretty powerful manifester to have done that for yourself, and keep focusing on the type of job you want.  Apply for the types of job you want.  You have already proven you can manifest in a big way, ride that wave and apply for jobs out of your comfort zone.

Self Employed

Okay, so you are self employed and are doing ‘okay’.  There are a couple of scenarios here.

1.  You start to feel successful and you are pretty busy so you STOP doing all the things that got you to that point.  Advertising, visualizing, schmoozing, talking to people; the list goes on ~ just think of what you did to get busy.

Then you stop it.  Work gets slower and slower and you wonder why.  It is because you STOPPED doing all the things that made you a success to begin with!  You ‘manifested’ your success with your actions, now you’ve stopped your actions, what do you expect to ‘manifest’ next?

2.  You get tired of what you are doing and decide that maybe you want to do something new.  You put all of your focus on being done with what you were doing and work slows down immediately and just to your liking.  You think, “Hey, I’m a powerful manifester and my work dried up, I don’t have to do that crap anymore unless I feel like it”.

Then you run out of money and realize that maybe you need to keep doing what you were doing before and come up with an exit strategy for your business instead.

Its not that you hated your job, you just needed a break.  Most of your clients were nice, and the cheques when they came were pretty awesome after all.

You have proven to yourself that you are a great manifester and you know that 90% of manifesting is your thoughts, feelings and attitude, so even though you are kind of broke you start reading inspiring books (or even my blog) to learn how to manifest even better.  You know you can do it, if you just focus and feel good, your phone will start ringing again.  You have your client base and some work will come.

Here’s the thing with that;  your ACTIONS are not congruent with what you want.  When you first started your business, you did all kinds of things to build it (see #1 above).  If you are not DOING, something, then nothing can happen for you.  Visualizing and ‘trying to manifest’ won’t work if you are not taking inspired action.

So, are your actions congruent with what you want?  Take a good look at what you want and then take a good look at your life.  If they don’t match up then it may be time to take a really close look at what you are doing or not doing.  Are you making conscious decisions or are you just ‘hoping’ that things will be better one day if you think about it long enough.

If you would like some help with moving in any direction in your life a psychic reading can help.  You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

 

 

 

You Are a Creator

We are creators. That’s it period. Really absorb that thought WE ARE CREATORS. What does that mean?

It means that whatever your life looks like, you made it that way. If you are stuck somewhere and feel like you can’t get out of it, then the thought that “I am stuck”, is YOU creating more of being stuck.

It is human nature to look at “reality”, or “facts”, and say ‘that’s just how it is, nothing I can do about it’. Even those of you who are aware of, and try and practice the “Law of Attraction”, get stuck in this. You may work on trying to attract the life you want, you do your affirmations, you ‘think positively’, you smile, you work on being nice and kind to others. You try and ‘feel good now’. Yet nothing changes.

We are more than just “attractors”, we are creators. Sometimes the harder you try and attract something into your life using the law of attraction, it seems the worse things get. Usually this happens because you are focusing on what you have, not on what you want.

Creating vs. Manifesting

My first lesson in this was a small thing, but it really taught me the difference between the two. I had a carpet that I put outside so that we could bang the dust out of it. It was during a two month dry spell. I kept looking at it, and thinking how hard it was to get help to bang the dust out.  After a long time, when autumn was about to arrive, I started thinking “we should get to that carpet, I don’t want it to get wet”. Every time I looked at it, I thought “I don’t want that carpet to get wet”.
Much like staring at something and thinking about something to get it to “manifest”.

So, what happened. The carpet got wet. What was I focusing on? Initially, if I had focused on “let’s get that carpet clean”, I would have created the inspiration to actually ask for help and get it done. I would have be so focused on a clean carpet, I would have “manifested” it; and in this case, by manifest, I mean CREATE.

This is a really simplistic way to explain it, but hopefully it works for you.

If you want things in your life to change, you have to change things in your life. That’s all there is to it. It isn’t even really magic, but it can seem like it is. Sometimes we sit and hope and wish for change, but it seems like it never happens. It is because we are focusing on what we don’t want (wet carpet, I have no money, I am all alone etc.), and we lack the inspiration to change anything in our lives.

Hawk Creating

Positive creation comes with change and with inspired action.

Doing nothing, or doing things that you are not inspired to do will not create positive things in your life.  You are always creating; but for positive creation, you need inspiration MORE than just motivation.

Even if you have a job now that you do not like or do not think you want to do long term, how you look at it is what will create the next part of your life. You may say, I am not inspired to do the job I have right now. But then, you may not be in a position to quit that job just yet.

Your perceptions are what will help create what comes next. If you go into work loathing it, and thinking about how much you do not like it, it will not provide much for you (except perhaps stress). If you go into your job and do your work, and appreciate what it does for you right now (provides some income), then you are on your way to creating more of what you want. If you are not inspired by the actual work you do, then let yourself be inspired by the paycheque in the short term. As you are appreciating the paycheque (it could be worse, you could have NO job), you can allow yourself to be inspired by being paid. As you are grateful for the work you have, and you are feeling good, you will start to be more inspired in a positive way to do other things. You may need to stay in your current situation/job for a while until your new inspirations will work, (or you find a new job), but it is your outlook, attitude and gratitude that will get you more.

Once you understand the concept that you are creating in every moment, you will find that you want to be more aware of your thoughts and what you are creating for you next.

Blending Spiritual with Physical

There seems to be a lot of confusion with blending the spiritual and the physical worlds. I’m hoping to explain some of this in this post.

I have been coming across some people that are so Woo Woo and they are driving me nuts. Yes, I said it, human emotion, NUTS.

Nuts

We chose to come to earth to have a physical experience. A TON of us have come at this point time to help the planet and her people understand about energies and bring humanity back to where they were before. To times of Atlantis where we as humans were more aware of our power and our energy.

There are so many ‘guru’s’ that will tell you you need to ‘imagine’ and ‘intend’ and create with your mind. This is true, but they don’t always mention that we live here and if we want physical things (Money, a home, food), then we actually need to DO physical things.

We live in a physical world. I cannot stress that enough. Yes, as I wrote last week, this is only 1% of who we really are, but it is where we live and where we are PERCEIVING from. You will not be able to perceive 100% from the spiritual realm until you go back there.

You cannot wish for money which is a physical thing, and think that a physical thing will come if you just have your mind thinking about it. Okay, so maybe technically we could, because of how energy works, but ~ we can’t right now, because WE LIVE HERE. We chose to live here. We need to BLEND the spirit and the physical. Not just have one or the other. In order for us to be “all spiritual”, we’d have to be dead of our physical bodies. We already know what its like to be “all physical”, until 2006 99.99% of the planet was all physical. All you need to do is look around at what’s going on in the world to see the ‘all physical’ (wars, poverty etc.).

Your way to happiness is to have both while on earth. You live here, so there’s no point in trying to get to a place of ‘non physical’, as stated before, you’d be dead.

We can create a “Heaven on Earth” scenario, but it will not come from a place of wishing and hoping for something to be different. It doesn’t work that way. You came here to help, not just to wish and hope. You could have wished and hoped from the other side. You came here to DO. To BE. To help with changes. You chose to come to a physical world, some of you have eons of experience in other worlds, you think that the physical world is boring or ‘too slow’ (impatience anyone?).

You Chose to Live Here

You Chose to Live Here

Most of you have heard the quote “It’s the journey, not the destination”, well, you are on a journey. A HUMAN journey. Be patient with the changes, be human. Live, experience, DO, BE. It’s a pretty lonely life just sitting at home wishing and intending (and trying to “Manifest”) when you are broke and all alone.

Blend… do both.

One of the reasons why I like doing readings and writing so much, is because when I do, I am connected to Source in a very big way, and I feel really good. Any physical work I do when I have my strong connection with source feels good. Even scrubbing toilets is okay when I have my connection with source. If I am feeling good, it does not matter what I am doing. My physical world feels better.

Your trick is to connect with source and then do your work. Don’t think to yourself “If I just connect to source, and feel good, then my life will be good”. Yes, you will feel good, but if you don’t do something physical then you are missing the whole point of being human. The idea behind manifesting, is to feel good, and then DO. Do what you need to do to bring physical things to you that you want. Once you connect to your Source, you will be inspired to do things that will bring you what you want in the physical world.

If you get too woo woo and just wish for things, you end up being discouraged that nothing is changing. Then you are immediately disconnected from source.

Trust me, it feels really good when you connect with your source and create your physical life from there. The physical is a part of who you are.

Blending Spiritual with Physical

There seems to be a lot of confusion with blending the spiritual and the physical worlds.  I’m hoping to explain some of this in this post.

I have been coming across some people that are so Woo Woo and they are driving me nuts.  Yes, I said it, human emotion, NUTS.

Nuts

We chose to come to earth to have a physical experience.  A TON of us have come at this point time to help the planet and her people understand about energies and bring humanity back to where they were before.  To times of Atlantis where we as humans were more aware of our power and our energy.

There are so many ‘guru’s’ that will tell you you need to ‘imagine’ and ‘intend’ and create with your mind.  This is true, but they don’t always mention that we live here and if we want physical things (Money, a home, food), then we actually need to DO physical things.

We live in a physical world.  I cannot stress that enough.  Yes, as I wrote last week, this is only 1% of who we really are, but it is where we live and where we are PERCEIVING from.  You will not be able to perceive 100% from the spiritual realm until you go back there.

You cannot wish for money which is a physical thing, and think that a physical thing will come if you just have your mind thinking about it.  Okay, so maybe technically we could, because of how energy works, but ~ we can’t right now, because WE LIVE HERE.  We chose to live here.  We need to BLEND the spirit and the physical.  Not just have one or the other.  In order for us to be “all spiritual”, we’d have to be dead of our physical bodies.  We already know what its like to be “all physical”, until 2006 99.99% of the planet was all physical.  All you need to do is look around at what’s going on in the world to see the ‘all physical’ (wars, poverty etc.).

Your way to happiness is to have both while on earth.  You live here, so there’s no point in trying to get to a place of ‘non physical’, as stated before, you’d be dead.

We can create a “Heaven on Earth” scenario, but it will not come from a place of wishing and hoping for something to be different.  It doesn’t work that way.  You came here to help, not just to wish and hope.  You could have wished and hoped from the other side.  You came here to DO.  To BE.  To help with changes.  You chose to come to a physical world, some of you have eons of experience in other worlds, you think that the physical world is boring or ‘too slow’ (impatience anyone?).

You Chose to Live Here

You Chose to Live Here

Most of you have heard the quote “It’s the journey, not the destination”, well, you are on a journey.  A HUMAN journey.  Be patient with the changes, be human.  Live, experience, DO, BE.  It’s a pretty lonely life just sitting at home wishing and intending (and trying to “Manifest”) when you are broke and all alone.

Blend… do both.

One of the reasons why I like doing readings and writing so much, is because when I do, I am connected to Source in a very big way, and I feel really good.  Any physical work I do when I have my strong connection with source feels good.  Even scrubbing toilets is okay when I have my connection with source.  If I am feeling good, it does not matter what I am doing.  My physical world feels better.

Your trick is to connect with source and then do your work.  Don’t think to yourself “If I just connect to source, and feel good, then my life will be good”.  Yes, you will feel good, but if you don’t do something physical then you are missing the whole point of being human.  The idea behind manifesting, is to feel good, and then DO.  Do what you need to do to bring physical things to you that you want.  Once you connect to your Source, you will be inspired to do things that will bring you what you want in the physical world.

If you get too woo woo and just wish for things, you end up being discouraged that nothing is changing.  Then you are immediately disconnected from source.

Trust me, it feels really good when you connect with your source and create your physical life from there.  The physical is a part of who you are.