Are Your ‘Hopes and Dreams’ Congruent with Your Actions?

We are creators and we are attractors.  The Law of Attraction is real.  What we think about and focus on is what we create.  These are FACTS.

So what do I mean when I ask you if your hopes and dreams are congruent?  Is what you intend to happen really going to happen?

I have a few examples that I would like to give you, and you can decide for yourself if what you think you want is actually what you working towards, or if you are blocking yourself with actions or belief systems that will get you exactly what you don’t want.

Manifest your Dreams

Special Relationships, with Spouse or BF/GF

So, you want a good relationship.  One where you have someone who is respectable like you are.  Has similar values, even if they like different activities than you.  Someone who you can talk to, that respects you and that has as much love to give you as you have to give them.

At the moment you are trying to ‘manifest’ that your current relationship improve.  You live with a drug addict, but just know that if you treat them right and you keep working on ‘manifesting’ the perfect relationship, they will get help and stop using.

You cannot change or ‘manifest’ for other people.  What is likely to happen in this situation is that your current relationship will get worse and worse until one of you can’t take it anymore and the relationship ends.

This will free you up to have the type of relationship that you were imagining (see the first paragraph of this section).

If you pine over the lost relationship you are essentially blocking anything new coming in.  If you do not allow yourself to heal from the lost relationship, you are blocking anything new.

The harder you try to hang onto the current (unhappy) relationship, the less congruent your thoughts and actions are and the longer it will take to finally manifest the relationship of your dreams.

Money

So you would like to ‘manifest’ having your debt paid off and having money in the bank.  Seems doable enough, just work hard.

Yes, that can work and often does.  But your actions need to be congruent with what you want.  If you keep spending money on ‘wants’ you will most likely never get your debt paid off.  Especially if it is credit card debt.  If you have credit card debt, pretty much every single penny you spend is spent on credit.  Every penny!

So, when you go out shopping, or start to focus on things you want and then spend money on them, your thoughts are not congruent with paying off your debt.

This isn’t to say that you NEVER spend anything ever on a want.  It means to be AWARE that if you spend that $5 on coffee, or that $100 on an outing, it is ADDING TO YOUR DEBT.  Anything that keeps you paying interest on a credit card, and not paying off the balance of what you owe, is the opposite of what you say you want to manifest.

It is not ‘what you want’ that isn’t manifesting here.  It is that your actions are different than what you say you want.

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Work

There are a couple of different scenarios here depending on whether you are working for someone else, or self employed so I will cover them both.

You are working for someone and you hate your job or want more money.  Or you really want to move up or do more, use more skills, but haven’t been able to.  You keep thinking about it, every day, but you don’t seem to ever make the time to look for more or apply for something else.  You just keep imagining what it would be like to be doing something else.  You are hoping for a head-hunter to find you or for the “job-fairy” to tap you with his magic wand and put you into your dream job.

Then you lose your job.  You think you have been trying to manifest a better job and suddenly you don’t even have one!  WTH!  Well, you manifested that.  Now you have to go out and look for a different job.  What you make of the situation will be up to you.

At this point many people will just feel sorry for themselves, feel desperate and only look at the same type of job they just left.  It is okay to take a job at this point to take care of your immediate needs, IF you ALSO (at the same time) apply for the type of job you would really want to do ~ your dream job.

You will fare much better if you just take responsibility for your creation, realize you must be a pretty powerful manifester to have done that for yourself, and keep focusing on the type of job you want.  Apply for the types of job you want.  You have already proven you can manifest in a big way, ride that wave and apply for jobs out of your comfort zone.

Self Employed

Okay, so you are self employed and are doing ‘okay’.  There are a couple of scenarios here.

1.  You start to feel successful and you are pretty busy so you STOP doing all the things that got you to that point.  Advertising, visualizing, schmoozing, talking to people; the list goes on ~ just think of what you did to get busy.

Then you stop it.  Work gets slower and slower and you wonder why.  It is because you STOPPED doing all the things that made you a success to begin with!  You ‘manifested’ your success with your actions, now you’ve stopped your actions, what do you expect to ‘manifest’ next?

2.  You get tired of what you are doing and decide that maybe you want to do something new.  You put all of your focus on being done with what you were doing and work slows down immediately and just to your liking.  You think, “Hey, I’m a powerful manifester and my work dried up, I don’t have to do that crap anymore unless I feel like it”.

Then you run out of money and realize that maybe you need to keep doing what you were doing before and come up with an exit strategy for your business instead.

Its not that you hated your job, you just needed a break.  Most of your clients were nice, and the cheques when they came were pretty awesome after all.

You have proven to yourself that you are a great manifester and you know that 90% of manifesting is your thoughts, feelings and attitude, so even though you are kind of broke you start reading inspiring books (or even my blog) to learn how to manifest even better.  You know you can do it, if you just focus and feel good, your phone will start ringing again.  You have your client base and some work will come.

Here’s the thing with that;  your ACTIONS are not congruent with what you want.  When you first started your business, you did all kinds of things to build it (see #1 above).  If you are not DOING, something, then nothing can happen for you.  Visualizing and ‘trying to manifest’ won’t work if you are not taking inspired action.

So, are your actions congruent with what you want?  Take a good look at what you want and then take a good look at your life.  If they don’t match up then it may be time to take a really close look at what you are doing or not doing.  Are you making conscious decisions or are you just ‘hoping’ that things will be better one day if you think about it long enough.

If you would like some help with moving in any direction in your life a psychic reading can help.  You can contact me here.

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You Are a Creator

We are creators. That’s it period. Really absorb that thought WE ARE CREATORS. What does that mean?

It means that whatever your life looks like, you made it that way. If you are stuck somewhere and feel like you can’t get out of it, then the thought that “I am stuck”, is YOU creating more of being stuck.

It is human nature to look at “reality”, or “facts”, and say ‘that’s just how it is, nothing I can do about it’. Even those of you who are aware of, and try and practice the “Law of Attraction”, get stuck in this. You may work on trying to attract the life you want, you do your affirmations, you ‘think positively’, you smile, you work on being nice and kind to others. You try and ‘feel good now’. Yet nothing changes.

We are more than just “attractors”, we are creators. Sometimes the harder you try and attract something into your life using the law of attraction, it seems the worse things get. Usually this happens because you are focusing on what you have, not on what you want.

Creating vs. Manifesting

My first lesson in this was a small thing, but it really taught me the difference between the two. I had a carpet that I put outside so that we could bang the dust out of it. It was during a two month dry spell. I kept looking at it, and thinking how hard it was to get help to bang the dust out.  After a long time, when autumn was about to arrive, I started thinking “we should get to that carpet, I don’t want it to get wet”. Every time I looked at it, I thought “I don’t want that carpet to get wet”.
Much like staring at something and thinking about something to get it to “manifest”.

So, what happened. The carpet got wet. What was I focusing on? Initially, if I had focused on “let’s get that carpet clean”, I would have created the inspiration to actually ask for help and get it done. I would have be so focused on a clean carpet, I would have “manifested” it; and in this case, by manifest, I mean CREATE.

This is a really simplistic way to explain it, but hopefully it works for you.

If you want things in your life to change, you have to change things in your life. That’s all there is to it. It isn’t even really magic, but it can seem like it is. Sometimes we sit and hope and wish for change, but it seems like it never happens. It is because we are focusing on what we don’t want (wet carpet, I have no money, I am all alone etc.), and we lack the inspiration to change anything in our lives.

Hawk Creating

Positive creation comes with change and with inspired action.

Doing nothing, or doing things that you are not inspired to do will not create positive things in your life.  You are always creating; but for positive creation, you need inspiration MORE than just motivation.

Even if you have a job now that you do not like or do not think you want to do long term, how you look at it is what will create the next part of your life. You may say, I am not inspired to do the job I have right now. But then, you may not be in a position to quit that job just yet.

Your perceptions are what will help create what comes next. If you go into work loathing it, and thinking about how much you do not like it, it will not provide much for you (except perhaps stress). If you go into your job and do your work, and appreciate what it does for you right now (provides some income), then you are on your way to creating more of what you want. If you are not inspired by the actual work you do, then let yourself be inspired by the paycheque in the short term. As you are appreciating the paycheque (it could be worse, you could have NO job), you can allow yourself to be inspired by being paid. As you are grateful for the work you have, and you are feeling good, you will start to be more inspired in a positive way to do other things. You may need to stay in your current situation/job for a while until your new inspirations will work, (or you find a new job), but it is your outlook, attitude and gratitude that will get you more.

Once you understand the concept that you are creating in every moment, you will find that you want to be more aware of your thoughts and what you are creating for you next.

Blending Spiritual with Physical

There seems to be a lot of confusion with blending the spiritual and the physical worlds. I’m hoping to explain some of this in this post.

I have been coming across some people that are so Woo Woo and they are driving me nuts. Yes, I said it, human emotion, NUTS.

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We chose to come to earth to have a physical experience. A TON of us have come at this point time to help the planet and her people understand about energies and bring humanity back to where they were before. To times of Atlantis where we as humans were more aware of our power and our energy.

There are so many ‘guru’s’ that will tell you you need to ‘imagine’ and ‘intend’ and create with your mind. This is true, but they don’t always mention that we live here and if we want physical things (Money, a home, food), then we actually need to DO physical things.

We live in a physical world. I cannot stress that enough. Yes, as I wrote last week, this is only 1% of who we really are, but it is where we live and where we are PERCEIVING from. You will not be able to perceive 100% from the spiritual realm until you go back there.

You cannot wish for money which is a physical thing, and think that a physical thing will come if you just have your mind thinking about it. Okay, so maybe technically we could, because of how energy works, but ~ we can’t right now, because WE LIVE HERE. We chose to live here. We need to BLEND the spirit and the physical. Not just have one or the other. In order for us to be “all spiritual”, we’d have to be dead of our physical bodies. We already know what its like to be “all physical”, until 2006 99.99% of the planet was all physical. All you need to do is look around at what’s going on in the world to see the ‘all physical’ (wars, poverty etc.).

Your way to happiness is to have both while on earth. You live here, so there’s no point in trying to get to a place of ‘non physical’, as stated before, you’d be dead.

We can create a “Heaven on Earth” scenario, but it will not come from a place of wishing and hoping for something to be different. It doesn’t work that way. You came here to help, not just to wish and hope. You could have wished and hoped from the other side. You came here to DO. To BE. To help with changes. You chose to come to a physical world, some of you have eons of experience in other worlds, you think that the physical world is boring or ‘too slow’ (impatience anyone?).

You Chose to Live Here

You Chose to Live Here

Most of you have heard the quote “It’s the journey, not the destination”, well, you are on a journey. A HUMAN journey. Be patient with the changes, be human. Live, experience, DO, BE. It’s a pretty lonely life just sitting at home wishing and intending (and trying to “Manifest”) when you are broke and all alone.

Blend… do both.

One of the reasons why I like doing readings and writing so much, is because when I do, I am connected to Source in a very big way, and I feel really good. Any physical work I do when I have my strong connection with source feels good. Even scrubbing toilets is okay when I have my connection with source. If I am feeling good, it does not matter what I am doing. My physical world feels better.

Your trick is to connect with source and then do your work. Don’t think to yourself “If I just connect to source, and feel good, then my life will be good”. Yes, you will feel good, but if you don’t do something physical then you are missing the whole point of being human. The idea behind manifesting, is to feel good, and then DO. Do what you need to do to bring physical things to you that you want. Once you connect to your Source, you will be inspired to do things that will bring you what you want in the physical world.

If you get too woo woo and just wish for things, you end up being discouraged that nothing is changing. Then you are immediately disconnected from source.

Trust me, it feels really good when you connect with your source and create your physical life from there. The physical is a part of who you are.

Blending Spiritual with Physical

There seems to be a lot of confusion with blending the spiritual and the physical worlds.  I’m hoping to explain some of this in this post.

I have been coming across some people that are so Woo Woo and they are driving me nuts.  Yes, I said it, human emotion, NUTS.

Nuts

We chose to come to earth to have a physical experience.  A TON of us have come at this point time to help the planet and her people understand about energies and bring humanity back to where they were before.  To times of Atlantis where we as humans were more aware of our power and our energy.

There are so many ‘guru’s’ that will tell you you need to ‘imagine’ and ‘intend’ and create with your mind.  This is true, but they don’t always mention that we live here and if we want physical things (Money, a home, food), then we actually need to DO physical things.

We live in a physical world.  I cannot stress that enough.  Yes, as I wrote last week, this is only 1% of who we really are, but it is where we live and where we are PERCEIVING from.  You will not be able to perceive 100% from the spiritual realm until you go back there.

You cannot wish for money which is a physical thing, and think that a physical thing will come if you just have your mind thinking about it.  Okay, so maybe technically we could, because of how energy works, but ~ we can’t right now, because WE LIVE HERE.  We chose to live here.  We need to BLEND the spirit and the physical.  Not just have one or the other.  In order for us to be “all spiritual”, we’d have to be dead of our physical bodies.  We already know what its like to be “all physical”, until 2006 99.99% of the planet was all physical.  All you need to do is look around at what’s going on in the world to see the ‘all physical’ (wars, poverty etc.).

Your way to happiness is to have both while on earth.  You live here, so there’s no point in trying to get to a place of ‘non physical’, as stated before, you’d be dead.

We can create a “Heaven on Earth” scenario, but it will not come from a place of wishing and hoping for something to be different.  It doesn’t work that way.  You came here to help, not just to wish and hope.  You could have wished and hoped from the other side.  You came here to DO.  To BE.  To help with changes.  You chose to come to a physical world, some of you have eons of experience in other worlds, you think that the physical world is boring or ‘too slow’ (impatience anyone?).

You Chose to Live Here

You Chose to Live Here

Most of you have heard the quote “It’s the journey, not the destination”, well, you are on a journey.  A HUMAN journey.  Be patient with the changes, be human.  Live, experience, DO, BE.  It’s a pretty lonely life just sitting at home wishing and intending (and trying to “Manifest”) when you are broke and all alone.

Blend… do both.

One of the reasons why I like doing readings and writing so much, is because when I do, I am connected to Source in a very big way, and I feel really good.  Any physical work I do when I have my strong connection with source feels good.  Even scrubbing toilets is okay when I have my connection with source.  If I am feeling good, it does not matter what I am doing.  My physical world feels better.

Your trick is to connect with source and then do your work.  Don’t think to yourself “If I just connect to source, and feel good, then my life will be good”.  Yes, you will feel good, but if you don’t do something physical then you are missing the whole point of being human.  The idea behind manifesting, is to feel good, and then DO.  Do what you need to do to bring physical things to you that you want.  Once you connect to your Source, you will be inspired to do things that will bring you what you want in the physical world.

If you get too woo woo and just wish for things, you end up being discouraged that nothing is changing.  Then you are immediately disconnected from source.

Trust me, it feels really good when you connect with your source and create your physical life from there.  The physical is a part of who you are.

5 ways to figure out what your true Beliefs and Expectations are and to change them if you need to:

I wrote a blog post yesterday called “What do you Really Expect“.  I got a good question in the comments, so I am taking the opportunity to answer that question in another blog post.

This was the comment/question:

“The tricky part is to know what your sub-conscious is expecting. So, how do you know?
Because sometimes I have expectations and beliefs about certain things, and what comes into my experience is almost the opposite… Even though I felt pretty certain what my deep- down beliefs and expectations were.”

This is my answer:

1.  You can try a muscle testing modality such as Psych K.
2.  You need to become very aware of your thoughts and feelings.  In the restaurant example in my last post, if you have a bad experience, you need to be aware of what you thought when it happened.
Was your thought “Bad service again!  What the hell, I expected it to be good, I thought I was over this creating bad BS”.  Right there, with that thought, where did your focus go?  Certainly not to a place that supports your energetic expectation it would be good.
What if you were to say “Oh, everything always works out for me, my server must be having a bad day, think I’ll smile at them, appreciate them and send them some nice energy”.
Right there you are NOT even thinking about whether you are creating good feeling or bad feeing things, you are just appreciating someone/something.
3.  If it involves someone else, disconnect your energy from them.  You can send them that loving energy without getting angry psychic ties in there.  Put yourself in their shoes.  It is their bad day, don’t make it yours.
4.  Realize that maybe it’s not always about you.  Yes, you had the bad experience to shine a light on something for you.  We are constantly creating things.  But what you do with it (the information/feedback from an experience), is what will help to form your beliefs.
5.  Maybe, just maybe, you are in the space you are in so that you can send love to a situation.  Put yourself in the shoes of the other person, if you do this, you will be able to soften any resistance.  Maybe your beliefs ARE what you think they are (positive), and they are so positive you have the ability to change someone’s day (or life), just by staying positive in a seemingly negative situation.

I find that you can change your energy just by thinking and feeling differently in any given situation.  A personal example from my own life is traffic.  I used to love driving.  Then for some reason I started to get more impatient with other drivers.  I would comment in my head about their driving skills or lack thereof, or I would get angry that someone was tail gaiting or on their phone and not paying attention to the road (and almost hitting me).  I knew how the energy worked, but I kept doing it.  Which of course helped to grow my belief that other drivers were nuts, driving was NOT fun, and was downright dangerous.
Then I got sick and tired of not wanting to drive.  I used to love driving, I found myself avoiding driving.  So I decided to challenge my Belief (that I created), that everyone drove like a freaking maniac and was trying to kill me.
Every time I got in my car, I did a small meditation, focusing on a violet flame and surrounding my car in a big bubble.  I would go out, and if I did happen to see something, I would just say to myself, “maybe they have a medical emergency and are rushing to the hospital”.  Or if someone was on the phone, I would think “maybe they have a young child that really needed to hear their voice right that second”.  I made up all kinds of excuses to be more patient with people.  And I sent them love energy.
And guess what?  I RARELY ever have experiences in my car that are stressful.  I can be on a crowded highway and look in my rearview mirror and there will be no traffic for miles.

This worked for me because I had a belief that it would work.  It worked because EVERYTHING IS ENERGY.  The minute I took my focus and energy off of ‘taking my life in my hands every time I get in a car’, it stopped being an issue.  If I see a crazy driver now I don’t think “What the hell, I thought I was over this”.  I think, oh, “Things always work out for me, so there’s a reason that person cut me off and is now in front of me.  I don’t know why, but it’s all okay”.  This kind of energy/statement is one that completely diffuses the energy.  It’s like a little blip on a radar screen that disappears.
Try it.  You can change your beliefs.  But you need to do it by replacing negative with positive.  And you need to BE AWARE, and you need to CONSTANTLY and CONSISTENTLY PRACTICE.

Conciously Create Through Awareness

You are the Creator of your life experiences.  Create Consciously.

You are the Creator of your life experiences. Create Consciously.

Look within to create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction is real.  It isn’t often taught in the right way, but it does exist.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.  What we think about is what we attract and create.  What we focus on we create.  We ARE creators, we are creating our lives every minute of every day.  No exceptions.

The big difference between those of you who get what you want, and those of you that don’t, is all in how conscious you are of your creations.  You can choose to create consciously, or unconsciously.  And YES, it is a choice.

It is actually very simple, but most of you cannot be bothered to consciously create.  You think it is easier to blame fate, or the economy, or any person or circumstance other than yourself.   I am NOT suggesting you blame yourself.  I am suggesting you take responsibility for what you have created thus far.  The minute you take responsibility for your creations is the minute you take back your power.

By blaming you are essentially saying to yourself “I cannot create my life, everything that has happened or is happening, is the result of something outside of me”.

Did you know that over 90% of the thoughts you will have today are the same thoughts you had yesterday, and the same thoughts you will have tomorrow?   That is a LOT of thoughts, and a lot of creation.  The problem occurs when you are thinking these thoughts and going through your day on auto-pilot.  You may wake up to your alarm and think “I don’t feel like getting out of bed, I’m so tired, I wish I could go back to sleep”.  That is a thought that is beginning to create your day for you.

You may start getting ready to go to work and think “I hate my job, my boss is such an ass.  These customers all think that the whole world revolves around them and they can be so unkind”.  More creation on your part.

You are driving along, and traffic is bad, or you see someone speeding or cutting someone off (or you are the one speeding through traffic and are thinking about how slow everyone else is), as you are having those thoughts, you are creating.  Creating more of the same traffic woes.

You get off work, think of the day you had and wonder “Will I ever get rid of this debt that I am working to pay off?  I work and work and still have debt, this is BS, I want to be debt free”.  You think you are focusing on being debt free, but really, you are still focusing on your debt, and, you guessed it, CREATING MORE DEBT!

If you want your life to be different, you have to do something different.  In order to do something different, you have to start thinking something different.

YOUR FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT STEP IN CREATING THE LIFE YOU WANT

Is to start being aware!!!  Get yourself off of Auto Pilot!!
As long as you keep allowing your brain to rehash the same thoughts, to allow your subconscious mind to create for you, your life will just stay the same.  I guarantee it.

You must live in your present moment.  You must become aware of your thoughts.  When you find yourself on auto-pilot, bring your energy back into your body and your present moment.  Remind yourself that you are creating your life with your thoughts.

The first day you try this, you will probably do it for a couple of minutes, then wind up back on auto-pilot.  Then a few hours later, you might remember that you were supposed to be aware and you might be able to live in your moment for a few more minutes.

Here is the good news.  If you can manage to do this even for a part of your day, or for a few minutes a few times a day, you will find that it will get easier as time goes on.  Just as most of the thoughts you have today, you will have tomorrow, as you practice awareness today it will be easier to do tomorrow.  If you are diligent with it, you will find that within a month, you will be much more aware of most of your thoughts.

Then as things happen in your life, you will be able to see exactly how they were created.  How YOU created them.  Take credit for the good you start to see in your life.  As you become more aware, you will find that synchronicities and coincidences happen more and more.  You will find yourself saying “I was just thinking of that, and there it is!”  Good, bad or indifferent, you will see how your present moment was created with a thought.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.

You Can Feel It – Energy Alert – August 2014

It’s time to move.  So many of you feel the urge, the pull, the desire to change something.  Anything.  The NEED to change your life or move forward, and you are terrified!

The energies of the moment are pushing you to start moving.  Sometimes the energy feels like a power surge, and you MUST DO SOMETHING!  Sometimes it is a little more subtle and you just feel an inkling that maybe you should expand in some area of your life.

Get used to this feeling, it is going to prevail for the next little while.  Some days it will be stronger than others.  The thing is YOU HAVE TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO HAVE MOVEMENT.

You will never get what you want if you don’t go for it.  You are being pulled to get out of your comfort zones.  Change will not happen gracefully if you try to stay where you are.  I am talking to so many people right now that feel disempowered.  Are you kidding me!  We are in one of the most POWERFUL times that we will see in our lifetimes!
The reason you are feeling so disempowered is because you are relying on people and things outside of yourself.

You are afraid to move on and out of your comfort zone.  Even if you are in a relationship that is uncomfortable (personal or professional), you are not letting yourself move out of your comfort zone.  THAT IS WHERE YOUR DISCOMFORT IS COMING FROM.  Your Soul is trying so hard to grow and to move forward and you are not letting it happen.  You have to move out of your comfort zone.

No one else has control over you or any aspect of your life unless you let them – NO EXCEPTIONS.  I have talked to 3 people just this week who have had relationships either come to an end or change drastically.  Some of them are terrified.  How can I do it on my own?  Or worse yet, “I can’t do it on my own”.  Yes you can.
Sometimes you even think “But they have all the control”.  No they don’t.  They may have control over themselves, but they do not have control over you unless you flat out give it to them.

When you tell yourself you cannot do something, you cannot do it.  When you tell yourself “I can do this, I don’t know how, but I can do it,  I can do it by and for myself”, then you can do it.  When you say those words to yourself, you take back some of your power.  You start to feel a little bit better.  Your intuition starts to come back.  Your guides are better able to talk to you.  You begin to realize that all those recurring thoughts are really insights into what your next step should be.  You stop talking yourself out of stuff and start to get inspired to take little actions.  Sometimes you take big actions.  Either way, you MUST get out of your comfort zone.  ESPECIALLY if your “Comfort Zone” is “Uncomfortable”.

Say to yourself, I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.

The energies of the Universe are pushing you to go!  Don’t let yourself stay stuck in whatever space you feel you are stuck in.  You have a lifeline from the Universe – grab hold and take it!

Even if you cannot change everything right this minute, you MUST change something.  Remember, the Law of Attraction brings you more of what you are experiencing now.  The subject does not matter so much as the feeling.

If you are feeling powerless in a relationship or a job, you will create more opportunities to feel powerless.  It could show up as a car accident, illness, something going wrong with your home and you needing to put out money you do not have to fix it… the subject is not as important as the feeling …. All these things make you feel powerless, it is not an accident that they showed up in your life.  Like energy attracts like energy.

It works the other way too.  Let’s say you are in a relationship or a work situation that you feel powerless in.  If you can say to yourself what I wrote above, (and I will write it again here because it is important)  “I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.”  You will feel empowered.  If you can say that, and FEEL it, you will feel more empowered than you do now.  As soon as you take back a little bit of your power, and start to allow yourself to feel that power things will begin to improve.  IT IS LAW.

You may not be able to quit your job right now, but you could start looking for something else.  Or more likely, once you allow yourself to feel that powerfulness that is in you, you will be INSPIRED to take an action. It will actually FEEL GOOD.  You will be hard pressed to NOT take it because it feels so good.  All you did was allow yourself to feel a little bit more power and you felt immediately better.  Things and people will show up for you that make you start to think “I can do this”.  The Law of Attraction will bring more things to you that have that same feeling.  Maybe someone at work will surprise you and change their attitude, maybe someone that you feel has never valued you will say some words of appreciation, maybe you will come across a job posting that looks just perfect for you (you may not get that job, but it may inspire you to realize that there are other things out there).  No matter the circumstance, or what it looks like ‘exactly’, the feelings will be the same, and empowered feelings will assist you in moving forward and will via LoA attract more of the same feelings.

If it’s a relationship, you need to remember you cannot control other people, but you can change your thoughts and your actions.  Instead of thinking “I am stuck in this house, with this person, in this state”, replace it with “What can I do right now to feel more empowered and feel better?”.  The answer might be to pull your energy back from that person a little bit and put the focus back on yourself.  The answer might be to get a job so that you will have money.  Once you bring it back to you, and realize that you have power over yourself and your feelings, you will feel better.
Sometimes people are afraid to feel powerful in a relationship if they are unhappy in it because they think if they were to have their own money, or power, then they would leave their spouse and that would certainly bring them out of their comfort zone.  Sometimes that does happen, BUT sometimes the relationship just changes.  The thing is, you will not know unless and until you focus on yourself.

If you are uncomfortable or worse yet, miserable, now, what have you got to lose?

 

If You are Feeling Financial Pressure You HAVE to Read This!

I know way too many of you that are feeling financial pressure and are “trying” to work with the Law of Attraction and you keep telling me “It doesn’t work”. It is hard for me to see and feel things so clearly and know that you don’t get it. I am going to write this post and try to help to make it more clear for you so that you can begin to see it work in your life.

Things that you do when you are trying to use the Law of Attraction and you think it’s not working for you.

• You talk all about spending money ALL THE TIME.
• You don’t talk about or dream about NOT spending. You don’t talk and dream about SAVING money, or paying back the people or institutions you owe.
• You constantly and consistently talk about spending and what you want but don’t have.
• You don’t say “I have DEBT and I need to work my ass off to pay it off BEFORE I spend anything else”
• You say “I have to be able to have SOMETHING for myself for all this hard work I do”. (Chances are if you are reading this you do have some things for yourself, either a computer or smart phone for one).
• You chase opportunities with your money. Whether it’s an MLM, or a training program, or a “work at home” scheme, you are always looking for the “next big money maker”, without picking one thing at a time and putting your focus on it. You waste hundreds, or thousands per year that you do not have, to “chase” money. If you do this, you are doing it from a place of knowing you don’t have money and vibrating in a place of lack. I am involved in a couple of MLMs but it is because I like the product and think it may help other people too. I rarely make money on MLMs because I do not join them to make money. I just have my FOCUS on doing readings and helping you that way. If I make money on an MLM it is because I have an abundant mindset, not because I am chasing anything. (There are many people in the same MLMs as me that ARE making money. They are making money that way though, because they put their FOCUS into it, and that is one of their main sources of income).
• You are always complaining about the prices of things, (food, gas, services, pretty much anything and everything).
• You spend money before you earn it and say “I will just manifest more for my bills (rent, food, mortgage, car payment) later”. This is a killer.
• You spend money on your wants before you take care of your needs. This leaves you feeling very stressed about having your needs met. Stress like this is pretty much “ANTI” manifesting what you want, and just manifests more of the stressful feelings of not having your needs met.
• You have read something that tells you that you have to be always thinking about what you want. This only works if you truly believe you can have what you are thinking about and if it makes you feel good to think about it 100% of the time. Here’s a tip. If you really believed you could have it, you would be able to write a list of what you want and put it away KNOWING that now that you have written it down, it will show up (even if it takes a long time and even if you NEVER think about it again).

The problem when you are “trying” to manifest is that you think about what you want, you think that you have to think about it day in and day out, see it on a vision board 10 times a day, and that will bring it. That will NOT bring it to you, and that will not make it come any quicker if you are not feeling happy. You need to be happy and grateful and loving before anything positive can come to you.

You think that you can just “manifest” money without getting off your ass and doing something. Yes, you need to do things that feel good, but I know very few people who feel good without some type of work to do. Sitting around day in and day out doing nothing does not feel good, and just creates through the Law of Attraction, more feelings of not feeling good.

You can say “I have to visualize what I want”, well yes, but if you visualize it KNOWING you have debt to pay off, that you cannot afford it, and feel like its a pipe-dream, you don’t feel good visualizing it.

Now that we have covered what may be some of your habits, let’s look at a things a new way.

Think of your debt as being similar to KARMA. Many of you reading this seem to understand karmic debt. Well 3D financial debt is pretty much the same thing. You need to pay for all the ‘stuff’ you have received (or used, or done) already.

With Karmic Debt, you said, did, spent something, either now or in a past life, and you need to ‘pay back’ before you can move forward.

What about paying for all the stuff you have already received? What about all the times you spent money on gifts for yourself or others? They (and you) don’t even remember what you bought them for Christmas last year, but you still have to pay for it. That vacation you took last month, last year, 5 years ago? Some of you have still not paid for it. You put it on credit, and never did pay it off. Just paying interest every month for years. You need to take responsibility for that. No one forced you to do it. YOU DID IT. YOU need to pay for it. Not grudgingly, but with happiness and gratitude for the trip (or the gifts or whatever you spent). Don’t spend so much time griping about the interest payments, no one held a gun to your head and MADE you spend that money. Every time you make a payment on that card, be HAPPY about it. You received something, now you are paying it back.

Of course the way to avoid this is to be patient and SAVE UP for what you want. If you REALLY TRULY believed in the Law of Attraction, Manifesting, and an Abundant Universe, you would NEVER spend money on credit again. You would simply write down what you wanted and KNOW that if it was for your Highest and Best Good, that it would arrive, and in the perfect time for you.

Do you have a vehicle? Did you finance it? Have you been paying for the same vehicle for the past 5 years, and still have two years (or more) on your loan? If this is the case, then you have likely bought more vehicle than you could afford. After the initial “high” of a nice new vehicle has worn off, do you find yourself complaining about the payments? Or that your car is now getting old and you might need a new one? Or worse yet, that you owe three times more on your loan than your vehicle is now worth? If you TRULY believed in the LoA, you would have bought what you could afford at the time and MANIFESTED more money for a better vehicle ~ or if you are a really good manifester, maybe you would have even won a car.

SMARTEN UP! Stop doing this to yourself. Stop making excuses. YOU ARE CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY. Financial and otherwise. Be grateful that it’s you. The SECOND that you take responsibility for YOUR OWN STUFF you empower yourself. You ENABLE yourself to begin to do things differently. If you find yourself complaining more than once a year (we all get ‘moods’) that the Law of Attraction does not work you don’t “believe” it. Those that really believe it, that live by the motto “I will see it when I believe it”, RARELY or NEVER question it. They go within, they pay attention to THEIR thoughts and feelings, they look for examples of how things are working or not in their life, they change, they work on becoming very aware of where their thoughts and feelings are going ALL THE TIME. They see and feel the similarities of the energy between seemingly unrelated events in their life. They KNOW it’s up to them, they do not BLAME (others, the economy, their spouse, their parents, kids….).

IT IS A FEELING. The “facts” have NOTHING to do with it. Nothing at all. If you cannot feel good about money, money cannot come to you. Stop complaining about how things “ARE”, take responsibility for your life, and start taking steps (no matter how small), to make the life you want.

The Big World-Changing Event 2014

Have you been waiting for “The Big Event”?  Many of you thought that Dec 2012 would be it.  There always seems to be some date floating around where everything will change and we can all be happy and live in peace.  Some think, ‘Armageddon’, some think of ‘Rapture’ and the return of Christ, some think it will be another world war, or the collapse of the financial system.  Or maybe you are waiting for all 13 Crystal Skulls to come together, or for Angels to come down and finally tell us everything we have always wanted to know.

Even when I do readings, many of you just want to know when will I meet someone and be happier?  When will I feel better, when will I get a new job, relief from my suffering, more money, the list of what we are “waiting” for can be endless.

What you need to realize though, is that all of this ~ everything ~ really is happening now (past/present/future).   You have the ability to live whatever reality you want right now.  You do not have to wait for anything.  All of the things in the first paragraph of this post are already happening NOW.  They have been happening for many years now.  Most of you just haven’t allowed yourself to fully feel the changes.  You are staying stuck in your head and the way things have always been.

Because you have put yourself into a state of ‘waiting’ you will continue to have to wait.  What if you actually allowed yourself to live in this moment?  Live in this moment as if everything you ever desired was just waiting for you to let it happen?

What if you made a decision to stop thinking so much, to turn within (to your heart and energy NOT your mind), and really figure out what it is you want, in the innermost part of your being?  Leave the ego and the need to control external things out of it.

The energy is shifting, has shifted.  For those of you who allow yourself to feel with your energy, you can feel it.  If you have not allowed yourself to truly feel with your energy and your heart and with love, things probably feel like ‘same old, same old’, even though NOTHING is the same as it was before.

If you can allow yourself to embrace this new energy that we are living in, you will find that you start to live more freely and a more happy life than ever before.  Not 100% free of challenges, but with an acceptance of what is, and a knowing that you are right where you need to be, and that everything will work out.

I see posts on Social Media all the time saying “Be the change you want to see in the world”, or “Your thoughts create your reality, chose them wisely”.  But when you post these things, do you really embrace what it means?  The statements are true (as far as being backed by our quantum science), but so many of you still cannot trust, and are still waiting for some event to change your circumstances for you.  If you truly believe what you are posting, and if you have any knowledge of the Law of Attraction, you should know that the energy of ‘waiting’, just creates more opportunities to ‘wait’.

Maybe it is time to stop waiting and start living.  How about that.  What if, just what if, you had everything at your disposal right now?  What if you could be happy now?  What if you allowed the knowledge in ~ intuitively?  What if you allowed yourself to realize that everything is possible?

Do you stop yourself from dreaming because you really feel you cannot have what you want?  If you have a circumstance that is uncomfortable for you (job, relationship, finances, health), and you continue to wait for the big event as if it is an external force that will change everything, you could be waiting for a really long time.  Not that big events don’t happen, its just that if you do not allow for the intuitive flow of energy, and you do not take any actions in the direction you want to go, the big event will never come in the form you expect.  Most of your “Big Events” come as a response to the energy you are vibrating.  Look back on all the big events in your life, in hindsight you will see that in some way or other you asked for the change that the big event brought you.  Hence, the big event was created by you and your energy, not by something outside of yourself.

Just as you cannot control other people or things, other people or things cannot control you.

We are living in an amazing time.  Most of the world is in the 5th Dimension where it really is easier to have what you want.  Maybe its time to challenge some of your thoughts, and to allow for this wonderful flow of love and oneness that is enveloping this planet to become more a part of you.

Between the planetary energies, the astrological and numerical influences, and the support we have from other dimensions, now is the perfect time to start living the life you want.  Focus on what you want, not on what is lacking, and you will become more inspired and motivated to take actions in your life that will begin to create the life you want, now and in the future.

If you think you need some additional assistance with your connection, I may be able to help.  If you would like to book an appointment with me, there is more information on my psychic readings here.

The Universe Responds to Your Attention

This is Levi, Calvin & Benny on their usual place on top of me in the recliner.

This is Levi, Calvin & Benny on their usual place on top of me in the recliner.

Just the other evening I was all snuggled up under my electric blanket in my recliner and reading an Abraham/Hicks book.  I have a funny story to share about that moment, that I think may help explain how the Law of Attraction really works.

I have 3 Shih Tzus, Calvin, Levi and Benny; Levi and Benny were fast asleep on the couch.  Normally if I am sitting watching TV or something I will have 1, 2 or 3 of them curled up in my lap.  The book I was reading was quite large, and I had no room for puppies on my lap this evening.

So there I was, all comfy in my recliner sipping tea and reading.  Calvin comes over and jumps up on my legs.  He was trying to crawl up my legs and onto my book.  I told him quite firmly to get down, I said “I don’t want you right now, I’m reading a book!”

No sooner had I said that, and Benny jumps up on me and Levi was preparing to join the other two.

My son says to me, “Mom, you are calling them all”.  I said, no I’m not, I was trying to get Calvin off of me, not the other two on me as well!”

Then my husband pipes in and says “You gave your attention to one, and now they are all coming over”.

So I clear my lap of dogs, and go back to my reading, this is what I read immediately upon commencing my reading:

“Most people believe, or want to believe, that everything in the Universe responds to their words in the same way that other people around them can sometimes be trained to behave.  When you tell someone, “Yes, come to me,” you expect them to come.  When you say, “No, go away from me,” you expect them to go.  But you live in an attraction-based Universe (an inclusion-based Universe), which simply means there is no such thing as no.

When you give your attention to something wanted and you say “Yes, come to me,” you include it in your vibration, and the Law of Attraction begins the process of bringing it.  but when you look at something unwanted and you say “No, I do not want you – go away!” the Universe brings that, also.  Your attention to it and therefore your vibrational alignment with it, is what is causing the response-not your words.”

Excerpt from “The Essential Law of Attraction Collection”, Esther and Jerry Hicks, The Teachings of Abraham

What a perfect example of the Law of Attraction, what we focus on is what we get more of, whether we want it or not.

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