2013, Our Vibration Has Changed

February 17, 2013 by Leave a Comment

It has been quite a while since I have written a blog post.  There has been a lot going on since December 21, 2012.  On that December weekend our planet was aligned with the centre of the Milky Way.  Without getting too deeply into the science behind it I can share knowledge of some energy shifts that are happening.  Some of these feel like “Symptoms of Ascension”.  Hopefully this will help you through this time.

  • Our Planet has moved from the Third Dimension into the Fifth Dimension. (not all the PEOPLE on earth have moved, but the planet herself has).
  • As a ‘human race’, our DNA is in the process of changing.
  • For many of you who have successfully let go of the things that were no longer serving you, you have probably felt as if you are in an in-between time.  It feels like “What Now?”  (there should be more movement in these areas around March ~ for most, but not all of you)
  • Many people are finding that they cannot eat the way they used to.  Some are finding they are not very hungry a lot of the time, or they cannot eat the “crap” that they could tolerate before.  Many are finding they are very thirsty, water is a conductor of energy and we have a lot of higher vibrating energy on earth so drinking lots of water is important.
  • Some are feeling VERY depressed or anxious at the moment.  Part of the reason for this is the reluctance to personally move into the Fifth Dimension.  In its most simplified version, the Fifth Dimension is a place where WE are the Creators.  WE Create our own life.  If you fall into this category, you may be reluctant to take responsibility for what you have created.  Still trying to hang on to the Third Dimension, you are looking for someone to rescue you, or worse, someone to blame.  YOU and only you can rescue you.  You can get assistance from Healers, Teachers, Mentors, other training programs, but ultimately the healing and responsibility for your life comes from YOU.  People and things can help you, but the power comes from you.  We are 100% responsible for what happens in our life.
  • There are many of you who’s lives are really taking off.  Over the past few years you have embraced change, and healing and you are now reaping the rewards of your creation.  You KNOW you can and do create your own reality and you are running with it to create wonderful things for yourself.  Congratulations!

There is so much more I have to say on this and other subjects.  I decided that it was better to write a short blog post than none at all.  Some of you have been wondering where I have been lately.

Quick synopsis of what’s up with my life for those of you that have been curious.

I have been doing a lot of work and psychic readings

I have been working with a select group of people that I have been mentoring (if you are looking for mentoring/training, let me know, there is a cost involved with this)

I joined the Global Information Network after listening to the Your Wish is Your Command CD series last year.  In January I took advantage of the free cruise I received when I joined this Success Club.  I went down to Miami Beach a few days before and had an amazing time with other memebers of GIN.

I have been teaching and learning and learning and learning over the past few months.  I did not know how much I did not know.  I joined GIN in the summer of last year and have worked my way up to being a Level 3 member.  In April I am going to a “Dream Weekend” in Dallas and I am looking forward to upgrading to at least Level 4, maybe even becoming a Level 5 Candidate.

I have been doing a radio show on News For the Soul and Blog Talk Radio.  Bi-weekly on Tuesdays at noon.  (next show is Feb 26th).

I do have a facebook page Psychic Medium, Tamara Hawk.  I try to post updates there.  I can post shorter updates than what I do in a blog post.  I post there when I update my blog, when I am scheduled for an Event, when I get an interesting short channel, or when I come across something that I think others may like.  If you are interested in seeing more about what I am up to and when, I suggest that you click this banner and LIKE this page.

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December 21, 2012

December 20, 2012 by Leave a Comment

The World WILL NOT end tomorrow.  Extra Angels (or any deity) sent to rescue the planet will not suddenly arrive from the clouds tomorrow (they are with us all the time anyway, and any time we ask them to be).  For most of the population on the planet, it will be business as usual.

We go through cycles, the Earth goes through cycles, everything cycles.  What we are going through is just one of these cycles.

The energy is intense for sure.  More so for those of us that are intuitive or empathetic.  Over the past week I have had days where it feels as if my whole energy body is like an open nerve.  Physical tingling, the constant need to ground my energy, periods of time where it feels as if something is ‘not right’, almost as if my skin is crawling.  I recognize it for what it is though.  It is an energy shift.  It is not the only time I have felt this over the past 15 years or so.

Everyone is or will be feeling this energy on some level.  Some more intensely than others.  Everyone will be impacted in some way ~ we are all a part of the same energy, what affects one affects all.

We will be starting a new 26,000 year cycle on Saturday.  As with all new beginnings comes some endings.

A lot of people think that the ending and new beginning will be very abrupt.  It won’t be.  It has been going on for years.  In 2004 there was an influx of light to the planet and many people starting having more ‘psychic’ experiences.  Then again in February of 2006, another big shift.  In the fall of 2011 it was a time of letting go.  This letting go was a part of preparing for this new, fresh start, a new cycle.

For years now, more and more psychic children are being born.  More and more people are realizing that there is more to this life than what the 3rd Dimension shows us.

Many people have let things go.  Many are still holding on tight.

In the most simple terms, we are heading closer to Source come Saturday.  Our ability to create happiness and manifest things into our life is heightened now, and will be more and more as the days, months and years progress.  We are realizing that we are a part of God, that God is not just outside of us, but in and around and through all of us.

Whatever you are expecting to happen after tomorrow will likely happen on some level.  Some of you are expecting heaven on earth, you will experience more of that.

Some of you are expecting bad things, an Armageddon of sorts, you will experience more of that in your own way.  As I wrote in this post from 2009, “Is 2012 Really the End of the World“, every day is the end of the world for someone.

You are a Creator.  You co-create with the Universe and you get what you think about.  It is a choice.  You will see whatever you focus on.  Be aware of, and choose your thoughts wisely, you are creating the rest of your life.  The best thing about this is that you can change your thoughts and it will change what you create.

Chances are, if you are reading this, you are already open to a ‘knowingness’ of sorts.  Very few closed off, 3D people will be reading this blog.  Even if they did, they likely wouldn’t have gotten this far down the page.

The separation between people who ‘feel good’ and people who ‘don’t feel good’ will widen unfortunately.  Just know, that YOU create with your thoughts and energy.

If you are reading this and don’t “feel good” right now, know that not all is lost.  Not by any means.  YOU are a CO-CREATOR with God.  Know that you can create anything.  You have read this far in this post, you already have an inkling that feeling good is your natural state, even if it doesn’t feel like that right this minute.  Over the next couple of days, keep your thoughts as optimistic and positive as possible.  Ask God and your Angels for help if you need to.  They will be there for you.

This is an exciting time.  It may be trying for some.  Just know everything will be just fine.

 

 

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You Were NOT Born to Struggle

August 11, 2012 by Leave a Comment

Over the years, I have been told by hundreds of people how positive and empowering my readings are.  To see some of the feedback, you can look at the Psychic Testimonials on this page.

I have had clients tell me that they have had readings from others before and they felt lousy afterwards.  As if there was nothing that they could do. The difference between me and SOME other psychics is that I help to EMPOWER YOU.  I know that we create our own reality.  There are many people (psychics, and non-psychics), that will tell you that “stuff happens”.  That it is “fate”.  You are “meant to (fill in the blank)”.   They will tell you we are here to learn lessons and to struggle.  We are not here to struggle.  And the only lesson we really need to learn is that WE ARE CO-CREATORS of our own reality.  We create our reality… all of it.  We do this through our Vibration and the Law of Attraction (LoA).

We are bombarded by messages that disempower us.  Whether it is from the media or religions or schools or parents, governments, society in general, friends; the messages are the same.  You have no control.  It’s not your fault, you have had a bad upbringing, you have gotten a bad break, its karma, its fate, its outside of you and beyond your control; do you recognize any of this?.

As a society we have been brainwashed to believe that we cannot do anything.  I am here to tell you that you can be, have, do anything you want.  Period.

All this brainwashing is meant to create a feeling of disempowerment.  It is meant to keep you under control.  Its meant to keep you from thinking for yourself.  Its meant to keep you from ACTING on your desires.   It is meant to make you feel bad.  You cannot create positive change and a positive life from a place of feeling bad.  There really is no reason to feel bad.

If you KNEW that you are constantly creating your reality and consistently bringing more into your life that is vibrating at the level you are now, you would go out of your way to feel as good as you can as often as you can.  If you feel frustration, the Law of Attraction will bring in more frustration.  If you are feeling sad, the LoA wll bring in more sad circumstances for you.  If you are happy, the LoA will bring in more happiness.

YOU ARE NOT POWERLESS.  You have more power than you could ever imagine.  If you raise your vibration to a more positive state, your life will be more positive.

When I do a reading, I tell you what you are in the process of creating.  Sometimes when we need to make a move, the Universe (or God if you will), will step in and help.  If you are trying really hard to manifest the perfect job and you lose your current job, it does not mean you need to feel badly.  You don’t want to feel bad, it will just create more bad feelings.  Feel good.  Know that you are being assisted to find your perfect job.  Keep your vibration high, look forward positively, ACT on your instincts.  You can and you will create your NEW perfect job.  You have been helped along to make your move.  Run with it, get excited about it, be happy!!  You will create more excitement and happiness ~ it is the LoA ~ it works EVERY TIME.  It is a Universal LAW.

This is not just about ‘your job’ but about many things that can affect your life, relationships included.

Sometimes, through discomfort, growth is promoted.  I can help you see the positive in your situation and help you to move forward and create what you really want.

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Removed from The Secret

August 2, 2012 by Leave a Comment

Those of you that know me, (or read my blog regularly), hear me say all the time “Everything is Energy”. I generally explain it from the perspective of a psychic. Here it is explained by “Experts” and Quantum Physicists.
And Wow, what a great explanation this is!!

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You are Powerful

July 20, 2012 by Leave a Comment

You are powerful.  You create your reality whether you wish to believe it or not.

I have said many times before, everything is energy.  Our brain waves are energy, therefore our thoughts are energy. We are constantly bombarded with messages that tell us we are powerless and that there is nothing we can do about it.   We are told, “That is just the way it is”.  The only way you can get sucked into this is if you believe it. If you were to take a look around, you would see people all over the world, from all walks of life, in all different types of situations that are ‘bucking the odds’.  The ONLY difference between them and you is what you tell yourself. If you tell yourself you are powerless then you are powerless.  It is said that knowledge is power,  well, now you know, you have the knowledge that YOU CREATE YOUR REALITY.  Now you can take that knowledge and CREATE A REALITY THAT YOU WANT.

You may find that you are stuck in a ‘negative loop’ with your thinking.  You think the same negative thoughts over and over again.   As you ALLOW these thoughts to go over and over in your brain, they get stronger.  Every time you think that thought the negative loop gets stronger.  It is just like going to the gym,  as you work out your muscles, they get stronger.  By thinking the same negative thing over and over again, you are making your negative thought energy more powerful.  Imagine if you could do the same thing with positive thoughts, YOU CAN.

It is a Universal Law, the Law of Attraction.  Just because you cannot see it right now doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.  The Law of Attraction is as much of a LAW as the Law of Gravity.  We don’t have to know how it works, we just need to know that it exists.

Stop letting people tell you that you are powerless.  It is the saddest thing that I see on a daily basis, these ingrained programs, “I can’t”, “someone else is…”, “I don’t have…”, “I want”,  if only you knew just how powerful you are!!!  You CAN have it all.

There are a lot of folks out there that will tell you you have an addiction.  Whether its to a substance or to a behaviour.  Addicted to alcohol, drama, sex, exercise, drugs, poverty… the list goes on and on.

What it really is, is a learned behavior and brain pattern.  You do the same thing over and over again, you THINK about it all the time so it has a lot of power, NOT OVER you but FROM you (via your thoughts).  The more you do it, the stronger the synapses in your brain get, the more energy you put out.  The more you tell yourself that you are ‘addicted’ the stronger the synapses (or loops), get.  Your thought forms are now a habit.

You can replace your thoughts and therefore replace your behaviours, replace your addictions, replace your outcomes.  If you tell yourself something often enough it becomes your reality.  If you tell yourself, “I cannot stop messing around on my spouse, I must be addicted to sex” ~ sorry, that’s a bunch of baloney.  What it is is that you are running a tape in your head that reaffirms that you are powerless to control yourself.  You may be running a tape that says “I need variety and excitement in my life”, you may have a tape that says “I can’t have sex with this person he/she is too pure”, or “I don’t really love this person and I shouldn’t have gotten married”.  Whatever you are telling yourself is a habit, it does not need to stay your reality.

There is NO NEED to live with lack, or unhappiness, or without inspiration.  All you need to do is decide.  Decide what you want.  Practice thinking differently.  If you say “I cannot control myself, I can’t stop eating, it’s an addiction”, then that is EXACTLY what you will continue to get.  If you tell yourself over and over again you love vegetables as a snack and practice eating vegetables, you will acquire a taste for them and eating them will become a habit.  If you tell yourself, I can get off my ass for 10 minutes and go for a little walk, I can do something, anything differently.  And keep telling yourself that over and over.  It WILL sink in to your subconscious and things WILL change.

Chances are, whatever you are going through took time to take root.  It may take some time to rebuild/reprogram, but IT CAN BE DONE.  Every time you have ANY thought for the next while, I urge you to look at it and see what its saying to you.  What YOU are saying to you.  Look long and hard if you have to.  If your thought contains a reality that you do not want.  CHANGE YOUR THOUGHT!!!  I guarantee you that if you change that thought often enough your REALITY WILL CHANGE.  It can’t not.  Everything is energy, whatever energy you put out is what you get back.

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I could have changed it …. but why?

May 29, 2012 by 1 Comment

I was getting ready to go down to see a friend for lunch in the states. While I was blow drying my hair in the morning, I was told by my guides that I’d be stopped at the border and sent inside, which doesn’t happen very often. They did not tell me anything more, just that I would have to go in.

I KNOW that we can all create our own realities and I know that the Law of Attraction works. So, I was thinking about it, and thought, gee, if I put my focus on just going right through, and really put the ‘big desire’ to sail right thorough ‘out there’, then I know I can.

That’s basically how psychic readings/messages work. I get the information, it’s up to the receiver (in this case me), to decide what to do about it. Sometimes when I see things like this ahead of time I do really want to change it (so I manifest the change using the Law of Attraction). This time though, as I was driving down the highway on the way to the border crossing, I was just thinking, “I don’t really care”. I just couldn’t muster up the “burning desire” to create not stopping. Besides, my guides didn’t tell me it would be bad, just that it would happen. Also, I know from experience that sometimes detours are just rerouting opportunities or a way to be shown something new.

So, I get to the border, there wasn’t much of a lineup, cars were pulling forward one at a time, I got in a line and waited my turn. I get up to the border and get asked the usual questions “where are you from, where are you going etc.”. Then the border guard says “can I have your keys please, she takes my keys, checks the trunk, comes around to the passenger side of the car, rifles through my purse and tells me to pull over and go inside.

No biggie really, I’ve got nothing to hide or anything I’m not supposed to have so in I go.

I’m waiting inside the door (it’s a smaller border crossing office) and a really pleasant Border Guard says “I’ll be right with you”. AND YES, I SAID A PLEASANT BORDER GUARD.

So in a minute, he comes back and I walk up to the counter. He’s got amazing energy. He ‘feels’ quite happy and is smiling and just simply pleasant. I’ve never gotten such a warm reception from a border guard. I won’t mention the crossing I was at, or precisely when because I don’t want to get anyone in trouble. I think the guards are trained to be intimidating rather than friendly.

So I told him what I do, psychic readings, and that me and my hubby have a concrete cutting company. Then I sat down for my wait. Partway through my wait, he asked me what I charged. I said “$250 for a full hour, but there are variations”.

After about 35 more minutes he handed me my keys and passport and said I could go. I told him that if he was intrigued by the ‘psychic’ thing that I had a website. He said “I know” and pointed to his computer. He had googled me while I was waiting.

While checking on me he had called the friend I was meeting to confirm that we were just having lunch and that I wasn’t working while in the US. So she knew I would be late. While waiting for me, she had the opportunity to read part of a good book which she doesn’t get to do very often with young children.

So back to my point about, “Why change it”. Being stopped at the border was actually a very pleasant experience for me that day. As a matter of fact, dealing with the fellow I dealt with there was probably the highlight of my day. You know how just interacting with someone who is pleasant and has good energy can be uplifting and help you be in a better mood.

Also, I got the impression he was quite interested in the whole “Psychic Medium” thing. Who knows what he got out of our meeting. Maybe he read parts of my blog and it helped him in some way. Maybe he or someone in his family will end up requiring the services of a medium in the future and I will be able to help them.

The thing is, we don’t always know what the Universe has in store. Everything is a matter of perspective. When I got the message that I would be stopped at the border, if I had had the perspective that it was a negative thing I could have either changed it or turned it into a negative thing.

In my case, I consciously thought “Thanks for letting me know, it’s no big deal, I’ll just arrive at my destination later”. By doing that and just going with the flow, I ended up having a great day, my friend got in some much-needed reading time, I got a good example to share with you in a blog post, and who knows what else changed just because of one little stop.

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Success Secrets Revealed

May 17, 2012 by Leave a Comment

In my last blog post I mentioned that I was listening to the Your Wish is Your Command CD series.

I have finished the CD series and am now working on some of the free training on the Global Information Network website. I am so stoked about all this. Its the most excited I’ve been in a long time. Its 3:35 p.m. right now and I have been working since 5:30 this morning. I don’t necessarily feel like stopping right now either.

I was so excited that I found myself getting just a little ungrounded so I went out around lunchtime and mowed the front lawn. Just a litte back to nature to help ground my energy so I could get back to work.

If you would like a free copy of the “Success Secrets Revealed” CD that I have here just let me know. All you need to do is send me an email with your mailing address and I will send you the CD. Pretty simple, could be totally life changing for you.

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Your Wish is Your Command!!

May 10, 2012 by 6 Comments

I am really excited right now. I am just about finished listening to 14 “Your Wish is Your Command” training CD’s by Kevin Trudeau that a friend had given me. I have read a couple of Kevin’s books and I really resonate with what he has to say. These CD’s are truly life changing. There is so much on there that I unconsciously knew and a lot of information on how energy works that I have been taught since I was a child. But…there is so much more too! I have been listening to “Your Wish is Your Command” for over a week now and I can’t remember the last time I felt so excited about life! My husband has been listening to them too and he has done a 180 in his attitude and what he is drawing into his life. His company has grown a TON in the last two weeks. I won’t be sure until I see the final numbers for May, but I think he may have just doubled his income. AND he has been home early almost every day!! He didn’t even work on Monday, we went out together and had fun instead! I AM so happy for him and for us!

I am always blogging about how we create our own reality, these CD’s really explain it. A couple of months ago I wrote a blog post titled “Fortune Telling is BS” and I posted it here. After about two days I took it down because really, I DO see what is coming up for people. I CAN see certain aspects of their future. Up to this point, I had such a hard time reconciling what I KNOW to be true (We create our own reality) vs. the fact that I can truly see what is coming up for people.

After listening to these CD’s (two more to go!), I feel I now have a better understanding and a better way to share what I know, and a really good idea of how I do what I do, and how I can ‘predict the future’, and how you can change yours.

First off. We do create our reality. That’s a fact. We create situations and things and people that give us what we are focusing on. If we are open and positive, more positive things come in. If we focus on feeling lousy all the time, we create situations, people and things in our life that help us feel lousy. We are truly ‘magic’. YOU are magic. YOU can create anything you want in your life. I can totally see where you are headed, hence being able to see ‘your future’. As I’ve always said though, if you do not like what I see you can change it! I cannot stress this enough.

After listening to “Your Wish is Your Command”, I now have more tools than ever to help you. I have a way to explain to you what I have felt and been taught my whole life. I will listen to these CD’s over and over I’m sure. I am so very excited to share more with you. I only have a couple more CD’s to listen to.

Even my e-book, “the Secret of Simple Meditation” uses some of these teachings. When I wrote the book the other title I was considering for it was “The Magic of Easy Energy Work”.

Global Information Network (GIN)
There’s another thing I learned about from these CD’s. There’s a website that has been put together by Kevin Trudeau and a bunch of other very successful people that shares and teaches information on the Law of Attraction. It goes so much farther than ‘the Secret’ and a lot of the other books and resources out there.

Joining the Global Information Network is by invitation only and does have a cost involved. I got an invitation from a friend of mine. I have not yet fully joined as I am waiting until I finish the CD’s and manifest the money to do so. After listening to the CD’s I’m sure I will be able to manifest the money without any problems.

I DID however join the affiliate program available on the GIN website, doing this is free. I joined last week after listening to only 4 of the CD’s because I got so excited to learn more. In the past week my main focus has been on listening to “Your Wish is Your Command”, so I haven’t completely looked all over the GIN website yet, but what I have seen just since joining up as an Affiliate and looking around the website is making me excited too. I am blown away by all the information that is being shared. There is also a members/affiliates store on there where you can purchase the “Your Wish is Your Command” CD series at a significant discount from the regular price. There’s also a lot of free info in the site for affiliates.

There is also a way for you to win $500 cash each week just by listening to their weekly audio updates and entering a code that they mention. I almost can’t wait until I get through “Your Wish is Your Command” so that I can start looking through more of the GIN website. As I find out more about it, I am sure I will be sharing it with you.

I am inviting you to become an affiliate of the Global Information Network for free, using my affiliate code. This allows you access to affiliate training and free audio. There is tons of free information here. They could be charging a lot for it, but you can get it for free just by becoming an affiliate.

If you sign up under my affiliate code of THAWK I will send you a free copy of my e-book “The Secret of Simple Meditation”. The e-book outlines some additional ways you can work on your energy so that you can manifest positive experiences in your life. If you sign up using the banner below, I will be notified that you have signed up as an affiliate and I will send you the book.

One of the best things about this site is that you can join as an affiliate, get all the free audio programs and information, and refer people to it who you think will benefit from it. Even if you cannot afford to join GIN right now, or if you are not interested in joining, you could still become an affiliate and refer it to people you think may benefit from it or that may like it. Who knows, maybe you can even earn a little bit of residual income in the process. Or maybe you could earn a lot of money in the process. It is completely up to you…something you will learn more about as you become more familiar with the Law of Attraction. It is much like any other network marketing company except that it is free to join and you don’t need to buy anything to earn an income from it.

If you think you’d like to join the GIN Affiliate Program and get access to their free training audios, and potentially start earning some income, you can sign up using my affiliate code THAWK. Just click on the LINK below, enter THAWK as your affiliate code and start learning and manifesting positive things!!

GLOBAL INFORMATION NETOWRK

if you are asked for your referres email use tamara(at)tamarahawk.com

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Manifesting … what can we control?

December 4, 2011 by Leave a Comment

I have written a lot before about control. Most importantly that we cannot control other people or things. However, we can control our own life and how we react to things.

Positive, loving energy, creates and draws more positive and loving energy. Denser, fearful energy creates and draws more negative feelings and denser energy.

In my own life right now I have some great examples of how I decided what it is that I really want. This is personal, but hey, I’m an open book, and if it helps even one person it is worth it.  So here goes.

I decided a while ago, that the thing(s) I wanted most in life was to be happy (less stress), be healthy, and to be financially secure (ie get my bills paid down). We have a construction company and (without going into too much detail) it got slow for quite a while and our debt load got HUGE. I also had some health problems for a while (that are thankfully better now, not perfect, but better).

So, I will share how am I handling it, what I am affirming, and maybe it will help you with deciding what it is you want and how to get it.

For the happiness factor. Every day, I focus on what I can do, and keep moving forward. There are certain things I do to be happy. The biggest one is to know and affirm that I am right where I need to be and to know that I can do, be or change anything in my life in any given moment. It is often a personal choice whether or not to be happy. Don’t tune me out here, I know a lot of you are saying “easy for you to say”.

However, if you have been reading my blog for a while, you will know that this last spring I went through a pretty tough time. My health wasn’t all that great, and I was super tired and depressed. The one thing that kept me going was that I knew I would get through it. I remember thinking “One day I will look back at this as the hardest period of my entire life”.

So, in order to “be happy’ and ‘be healthy’, the first thing I did was acknowledge that it was something I was going through and that I would come out the other side of it. I went to my doctor, my naturopath, a Soul Realignment Practitioner, got my energy cleared, my house cleared out of all its ghosts, prayed a lot, tried to get out of the house when I could … the list goes on. I kept moving in the direction I wanted to be heading. I tried really hard not to focus on how lousy I was feeling.

As much as our energy is powerful, so are our brains. We actually build ‘bridges’ in our brains for repetitive thoughts and behaviours. This is how habits are formed. We have all had times in our life where something has happened that was so painful that we thought we might not survive it. If you are reading this, you survived it. You need to focus on the fact that you will survive it this time too. No matter how hard it is, you will survive it. This does two things, it enhances an energy of creating better feelings, and it also keeps your brain from creating negative bridges. (ie. This hurts so bad, I’m going to die vs. I can get through this, I always do)

Something I have always worked on is not worrying about the stuff I cannot control. This can be hard to do for many people. When you are not feeling good about who and where you are you are likely to take on controlling behaviors. Even with the small stuff.

For example: My PC has been breaking down. I messed with it myself for a week and then decided it was beyond my abilities to fix it so I brought it in to be fixed. It was in the shop for a few days and I got it back. I thought all was well, but a couple of days ago noticed that I was missing an awful lot of e-mails. I get tons of emails and my in-box was actually manageable ~ I knew something was amiss. So I checked it out and one of my email addresses was not sending emails to my in-box. It took just over a day of working with my Web Hosing company (they were super helpful), and I got my emails up and running again.

Half-way through this weeks-long process (at least I hope its done now and that what I think is half-way is), my husband came home and commented on how calm I was despite all these issues and the time it was taking.

I was calm because I knew I could not control it. Why get totally upset over something I can’t control? I was trying. I was working on it every day, moving forward, trying this and that, taking my PC in to a professional when all else failed. I was doing what I could and letting go of the rest.

That doesn’t mean I didn’t care that I couldn’t get back to my clients. Or that I didn’t care I wasn’t getting blog posts or work done. It was that there was nothing I could do about it except what I was doing so why get all riled up! (and yes, meditation does help – a lot).

I need to mention too that I was working on this blog post on Friday morning when my website had a “FATAL ERROR”.  I could not get back to this post, and when I tried to pull up www.tamarahawk.com online, every page said “FATAL ERROR” so anyone going to my site on Friday would have seen only that.  I must admit I was a bit worried that my website was gone and I would need to recreate the whole thing from scratch.  I chose to go and sit and meditate for a while and then contacted my techie friends and webhosing company and they were able to get it back online for me.

It could have gone either way, I could have focused on all the lousy aspects of what was happening, or I could “Let go and Let God” and just do for the sake of doing. I chose to let go. (Please do not confuse letting go for giving up).

Now for the second thing I am trying to create. Getting my bills paid down or off. (I know a lot of you will be able to relate to this one).

That last sentence I wrote is NOT how I manifest things. We need to focus on what we want and focusing on bills and debt, no matter what the context, will not get them paid off, it will just create more bills and debt.

I focus on money and cheques coming in from both businesses. I focus on money going into a savings account. I focus on the knowing I will have what it is I really want and need. I focus on anything positive I can think of around having abundance.  I pay people I owe instead of buying myself something new that I do not need.

So now here is the part that some of you may find difficult. You need to ACT like you have what you want, and ACT in a way for you to get it. So many ‘guru’s’ are talking about manifesting things and saying you can have whatever you want. Yes you can. They say to act as if you already have it. However, you also need to ACT in a way that will get you there.

An easy example:  You do not lose weight by eating and acting like a fat person, and you do not create abundance by spending money you do not have.

Here’s another personal example that I hope will explain this in more detail and that you can relate to. I have been trying to get together with a friend for quite a while. We live a few hours apart and we are planning on getting together for a weekend. She is prepared to go next weekend, but I am not sure. I have not committed to next weekend away because at this moment, I am needing to wait for other people or things (remember, I cannot control those things), before I know if I can afford a weekend away.

I was thinking about this situation and wondering about Manifesting it. It crossed my mind that if I can manifest anything, why don’t I just plan it and then manifest the weekend trip. Kind of a “build it and they will come” mentality.

This is why I am not doing that…..

Firstly. As I wrote in the beginning paragraphs, the things I want to manifest the most are being happy, healthy and financially secure. Which includes less stress.

Here is how trying to manifest my weekend away to happen quickly can create stress and bite me in the you know where.

If I commit now to a weekend away for next weekend there are a few things that could happen. The biggest one being is that I will be relying on other people/things, and this will create MORE STRESS. The stress of waiting, the stress of ‘will I let my friend down’, ‘will the cheques come in’, the list goes on.

If I commit and the expected accounts receivable for the construction end of things does not come in, then I will feel badly on many levels. I will either have to go into more debt to go for the weekend OR I will have to cancel the weekend with my friend at the last minute.

In either of those scenarios I will be moving away from one of the main things I want in life. I will either be spending money I do not have yet, creating MORE debt, or making my friend unhappy, which will create more unhappiness and stress.

So, here is where I stand. I will be patient and I will wait. I know beyond any doubt that me and my friend will get together. I just cannot control other people or things so I cannot control the when of it. I will not spend or commit to spending money that I do not have, nor will I put myself and my friend in a position where we feel badly about a last-minute cancellation.

You do always get what you create. It is just a matter of deciding what you want and letting go of the how’s or when’s. If you are facing any decisions like this, just remember to always go back to what it is that you want the most and create from there.

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