Conciously Create Through Awareness

You are the Creator of your life experiences.  Create Consciously.

You are the Creator of your life experiences. Create Consciously.

Look within to create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction is real.  It isn’t often taught in the right way, but it does exist.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.  What we think about is what we attract and create.  What we focus on we create.  We ARE creators, we are creating our lives every minute of every day.  No exceptions.

The big difference between those of you who get what you want, and those of you that don’t, is all in how conscious you are of your creations.  You can choose to create consciously, or unconsciously.  And YES, it is a choice.

It is actually very simple, but most of you cannot be bothered to consciously create.  You think it is easier to blame fate, or the economy, or any person or circumstance other than yourself.   I am NOT suggesting you blame yourself.  I am suggesting you take responsibility for what you have created thus far.  The minute you take responsibility for your creations is the minute you take back your power.

By blaming you are essentially saying to yourself “I cannot create my life, everything that has happened or is happening, is the result of something outside of me”.

Did you know that over 90% of the thoughts you will have today are the same thoughts you had yesterday, and the same thoughts you will have tomorrow?   That is a LOT of thoughts, and a lot of creation.  The problem occurs when you are thinking these thoughts and going through your day on auto-pilot.  You may wake up to your alarm and think “I don’t feel like getting out of bed, I’m so tired, I wish I could go back to sleep”.  That is a thought that is beginning to create your day for you.

You may start getting ready to go to work and think “I hate my job, my boss is such an ass.  These customers all think that the whole world revolves around them and they can be so unkind”.  More creation on your part.

You are driving along, and traffic is bad, or you see someone speeding or cutting someone off (or you are the one speeding through traffic and are thinking about how slow everyone else is), as you are having those thoughts, you are creating.  Creating more of the same traffic woes.

You get off work, think of the day you had and wonder “Will I ever get rid of this debt that I am working to pay off?  I work and work and still have debt, this is BS, I want to be debt free”.  You think you are focusing on being debt free, but really, you are still focusing on your debt, and, you guessed it, CREATING MORE DEBT!

If you want your life to be different, you have to do something different.  In order to do something different, you have to start thinking something different.

YOUR FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT STEP IN CREATING THE LIFE YOU WANT

Is to start being aware!!!  Get yourself off of Auto Pilot!!
As long as you keep allowing your brain to rehash the same thoughts, to allow your subconscious mind to create for you, your life will just stay the same.  I guarantee it.

You must live in your present moment.  You must become aware of your thoughts.  When you find yourself on auto-pilot, bring your energy back into your body and your present moment.  Remind yourself that you are creating your life with your thoughts.

The first day you try this, you will probably do it for a couple of minutes, then wind up back on auto-pilot.  Then a few hours later, you might remember that you were supposed to be aware and you might be able to live in your moment for a few more minutes.

Here is the good news.  If you can manage to do this even for a part of your day, or for a few minutes a few times a day, you will find that it will get easier as time goes on.  Just as most of the thoughts you have today, you will have tomorrow, as you practice awareness today it will be easier to do tomorrow.  If you are diligent with it, you will find that within a month, you will be much more aware of most of your thoughts.

Then as things happen in your life, you will be able to see exactly how they were created.  How YOU created them.  Take credit for the good you start to see in your life.  As you become more aware, you will find that synchronicities and coincidences happen more and more.  You will find yourself saying “I was just thinking of that, and there it is!”  Good, bad or indifferent, you will see how your present moment was created with a thought.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.

You Can Feel It – Energy Alert – August 2014

It’s time to move.  So many of you feel the urge, the pull, the desire to change something.  Anything.  The NEED to change your life or move forward, and you are terrified!

The energies of the moment are pushing you to start moving.  Sometimes the energy feels like a power surge, and you MUST DO SOMETHING!  Sometimes it is a little more subtle and you just feel an inkling that maybe you should expand in some area of your life.

Get used to this feeling, it is going to prevail for the next little while.  Some days it will be stronger than others.  The thing is YOU HAVE TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO HAVE MOVEMENT.

You will never get what you want if you don’t go for it.  You are being pulled to get out of your comfort zones.  Change will not happen gracefully if you try to stay where you are.  I am talking to so many people right now that feel disempowered.  Are you kidding me!  We are in one of the most POWERFUL times that we will see in our lifetimes!
The reason you are feeling so disempowered is because you are relying on people and things outside of yourself.

You are afraid to move on and out of your comfort zone.  Even if you are in a relationship that is uncomfortable (personal or professional), you are not letting yourself move out of your comfort zone.  THAT IS WHERE YOUR DISCOMFORT IS COMING FROM.  Your Soul is trying so hard to grow and to move forward and you are not letting it happen.  You have to move out of your comfort zone.

No one else has control over you or any aspect of your life unless you let them – NO EXCEPTIONS.  I have talked to 3 people just this week who have had relationships either come to an end or change drastically.  Some of them are terrified.  How can I do it on my own?  Or worse yet, “I can’t do it on my own”.  Yes you can.
Sometimes you even think “But they have all the control”.  No they don’t.  They may have control over themselves, but they do not have control over you unless you flat out give it to them.

When you tell yourself you cannot do something, you cannot do it.  When you tell yourself “I can do this, I don’t know how, but I can do it,  I can do it by and for myself”, then you can do it.  When you say those words to yourself, you take back some of your power.  You start to feel a little bit better.  Your intuition starts to come back.  Your guides are better able to talk to you.  You begin to realize that all those recurring thoughts are really insights into what your next step should be.  You stop talking yourself out of stuff and start to get inspired to take little actions.  Sometimes you take big actions.  Either way, you MUST get out of your comfort zone.  ESPECIALLY if your “Comfort Zone” is “Uncomfortable”.

Say to yourself, I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.

The energies of the Universe are pushing you to go!  Don’t let yourself stay stuck in whatever space you feel you are stuck in.  You have a lifeline from the Universe – grab hold and take it!

Even if you cannot change everything right this minute, you MUST change something.  Remember, the Law of Attraction brings you more of what you are experiencing now.  The subject does not matter so much as the feeling.

If you are feeling powerless in a relationship or a job, you will create more opportunities to feel powerless.  It could show up as a car accident, illness, something going wrong with your home and you needing to put out money you do not have to fix it… the subject is not as important as the feeling …. All these things make you feel powerless, it is not an accident that they showed up in your life.  Like energy attracts like energy.

It works the other way too.  Let’s say you are in a relationship or a work situation that you feel powerless in.  If you can say to yourself what I wrote above, (and I will write it again here because it is important)  “I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.”  You will feel empowered.  If you can say that, and FEEL it, you will feel more empowered than you do now.  As soon as you take back a little bit of your power, and start to allow yourself to feel that power things will begin to improve.  IT IS LAW.

You may not be able to quit your job right now, but you could start looking for something else.  Or more likely, once you allow yourself to feel that powerfulness that is in you, you will be INSPIRED to take an action. It will actually FEEL GOOD.  You will be hard pressed to NOT take it because it feels so good.  All you did was allow yourself to feel a little bit more power and you felt immediately better.  Things and people will show up for you that make you start to think “I can do this”.  The Law of Attraction will bring more things to you that have that same feeling.  Maybe someone at work will surprise you and change their attitude, maybe someone that you feel has never valued you will say some words of appreciation, maybe you will come across a job posting that looks just perfect for you (you may not get that job, but it may inspire you to realize that there are other things out there).  No matter the circumstance, or what it looks like ‘exactly’, the feelings will be the same, and empowered feelings will assist you in moving forward and will via LoA attract more of the same feelings.

If it’s a relationship, you need to remember you cannot control other people, but you can change your thoughts and your actions.  Instead of thinking “I am stuck in this house, with this person, in this state”, replace it with “What can I do right now to feel more empowered and feel better?”.  The answer might be to pull your energy back from that person a little bit and put the focus back on yourself.  The answer might be to get a job so that you will have money.  Once you bring it back to you, and realize that you have power over yourself and your feelings, you will feel better.
Sometimes people are afraid to feel powerful in a relationship if they are unhappy in it because they think if they were to have their own money, or power, then they would leave their spouse and that would certainly bring them out of their comfort zone.  Sometimes that does happen, BUT sometimes the relationship just changes.  The thing is, you will not know unless and until you focus on yourself.

If you are uncomfortable or worse yet, miserable, now, what have you got to lose?

 

If You are Feeling Financial Pressure You HAVE to Read This!

I know way too many of you that are feeling financial pressure and are “trying” to work with the Law of Attraction and you keep telling me “It doesn’t work”. It is hard for me to see and feel things so clearly and know that you don’t get it. I am going to write this post and try to help to make it more clear for you so that you can begin to see it work in your life.

Things that you do when you are trying to use the Law of Attraction and you think it’s not working for you.

• You talk all about spending money ALL THE TIME.
• You don’t talk about or dream about NOT spending. You don’t talk and dream about SAVING money, or paying back the people or institutions you owe.
• You constantly and consistently talk about spending and what you want but don’t have.
• You don’t say “I have DEBT and I need to work my ass off to pay it off BEFORE I spend anything else”
• You say “I have to be able to have SOMETHING for myself for all this hard work I do”. (Chances are if you are reading this you do have some things for yourself, either a computer or smart phone for one).
• You chase opportunities with your money. Whether it’s an MLM, or a training program, or a “work at home” scheme, you are always looking for the “next big money maker”, without picking one thing at a time and putting your focus on it. You waste hundreds, or thousands per year that you do not have, to “chase” money. If you do this, you are doing it from a place of knowing you don’t have money and vibrating in a place of lack. I am involved in a couple of MLMs but it is because I like the product and think it may help other people too. I rarely make money on MLMs because I do not join them to make money. I just have my FOCUS on doing readings and helping you that way. If I make money on an MLM it is because I have an abundant mindset, not because I am chasing anything. (There are many people in the same MLMs as me that ARE making money. They are making money that way though, because they put their FOCUS into it, and that is one of their main sources of income).
• You are always complaining about the prices of things, (food, gas, services, pretty much anything and everything).
• You spend money before you earn it and say “I will just manifest more for my bills (rent, food, mortgage, car payment) later”. This is a killer.
• You spend money on your wants before you take care of your needs. This leaves you feeling very stressed about having your needs met. Stress like this is pretty much “ANTI” manifesting what you want, and just manifests more of the stressful feelings of not having your needs met.
• You have read something that tells you that you have to be always thinking about what you want. This only works if you truly believe you can have what you are thinking about and if it makes you feel good to think about it 100% of the time. Here’s a tip. If you really believed you could have it, you would be able to write a list of what you want and put it away KNOWING that now that you have written it down, it will show up (even if it takes a long time and even if you NEVER think about it again).

The problem when you are “trying” to manifest is that you think about what you want, you think that you have to think about it day in and day out, see it on a vision board 10 times a day, and that will bring it. That will NOT bring it to you, and that will not make it come any quicker if you are not feeling happy. You need to be happy and grateful and loving before anything positive can come to you.

You think that you can just “manifest” money without getting off your ass and doing something. Yes, you need to do things that feel good, but I know very few people who feel good without some type of work to do. Sitting around day in and day out doing nothing does not feel good, and just creates through the Law of Attraction, more feelings of not feeling good.

You can say “I have to visualize what I want”, well yes, but if you visualize it KNOWING you have debt to pay off, that you cannot afford it, and feel like its a pipe-dream, you don’t feel good visualizing it.

Now that we have covered what may be some of your habits, let’s look at a things a new way.

Think of your debt as being similar to KARMA. Many of you reading this seem to understand karmic debt. Well 3D financial debt is pretty much the same thing. You need to pay for all the ‘stuff’ you have received (or used, or done) already.

With Karmic Debt, you said, did, spent something, either now or in a past life, and you need to ‘pay back’ before you can move forward.

What about paying for all the stuff you have already received? What about all the times you spent money on gifts for yourself or others? They (and you) don’t even remember what you bought them for Christmas last year, but you still have to pay for it. That vacation you took last month, last year, 5 years ago? Some of you have still not paid for it. You put it on credit, and never did pay it off. Just paying interest every month for years. You need to take responsibility for that. No one forced you to do it. YOU DID IT. YOU need to pay for it. Not grudgingly, but with happiness and gratitude for the trip (or the gifts or whatever you spent). Don’t spend so much time griping about the interest payments, no one held a gun to your head and MADE you spend that money. Every time you make a payment on that card, be HAPPY about it. You received something, now you are paying it back.

Of course the way to avoid this is to be patient and SAVE UP for what you want. If you REALLY TRULY believed in the Law of Attraction, Manifesting, and an Abundant Universe, you would NEVER spend money on credit again. You would simply write down what you wanted and KNOW that if it was for your Highest and Best Good, that it would arrive, and in the perfect time for you.

Do you have a vehicle? Did you finance it? Have you been paying for the same vehicle for the past 5 years, and still have two years (or more) on your loan? If this is the case, then you have likely bought more vehicle than you could afford. After the initial “high” of a nice new vehicle has worn off, do you find yourself complaining about the payments? Or that your car is now getting old and you might need a new one? Or worse yet, that you owe three times more on your loan than your vehicle is now worth? If you TRULY believed in the LoA, you would have bought what you could afford at the time and MANIFESTED more money for a better vehicle ~ or if you are a really good manifester, maybe you would have even won a car.

SMARTEN UP! Stop doing this to yourself. Stop making excuses. YOU ARE CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY. Financial and otherwise. Be grateful that it’s you. The SECOND that you take responsibility for YOUR OWN STUFF you empower yourself. You ENABLE yourself to begin to do things differently. If you find yourself complaining more than once a year (we all get ‘moods’) that the Law of Attraction does not work you don’t “believe” it. Those that really believe it, that live by the motto “I will see it when I believe it”, RARELY or NEVER question it. They go within, they pay attention to THEIR thoughts and feelings, they look for examples of how things are working or not in their life, they change, they work on becoming very aware of where their thoughts and feelings are going ALL THE TIME. They see and feel the similarities of the energy between seemingly unrelated events in their life. They KNOW it’s up to them, they do not BLAME (others, the economy, their spouse, their parents, kids….).

IT IS A FEELING. The “facts” have NOTHING to do with it. Nothing at all. If you cannot feel good about money, money cannot come to you. Stop complaining about how things “ARE”, take responsibility for your life, and start taking steps (no matter how small), to make the life you want.

The Big World-Changing Event 2014

Have you been waiting for “The Big Event”?  Many of you thought that Dec 2012 would be it.  There always seems to be some date floating around where everything will change and we can all be happy and live in peace.  Some think, ‘Armageddon’, some think of ‘Rapture’ and the return of Christ, some think it will be another world war, or the collapse of the financial system.  Or maybe you are waiting for all 13 Crystal Skulls to come together, or for Angels to come down and finally tell us everything we have always wanted to know.

Even when I do readings, many of you just want to know when will I meet someone and be happier?  When will I feel better, when will I get a new job, relief from my suffering, more money, the list of what we are “waiting” for can be endless.

What you need to realize though, is that all of this ~ everything ~ really is happening now (past/present/future).   You have the ability to live whatever reality you want right now.  You do not have to wait for anything.  All of the things in the first paragraph of this post are already happening NOW.  They have been happening for many years now.  Most of you just haven’t allowed yourself to fully feel the changes.  You are staying stuck in your head and the way things have always been.

Because you have put yourself into a state of ‘waiting’ you will continue to have to wait.  What if you actually allowed yourself to live in this moment?  Live in this moment as if everything you ever desired was just waiting for you to let it happen?

What if you made a decision to stop thinking so much, to turn within (to your heart and energy NOT your mind), and really figure out what it is you want, in the innermost part of your being?  Leave the ego and the need to control external things out of it.

The energy is shifting, has shifted.  For those of you who allow yourself to feel with your energy, you can feel it.  If you have not allowed yourself to truly feel with your energy and your heart and with love, things probably feel like ‘same old, same old’, even though NOTHING is the same as it was before.

If you can allow yourself to embrace this new energy that we are living in, you will find that you start to live more freely and a more happy life than ever before.  Not 100% free of challenges, but with an acceptance of what is, and a knowing that you are right where you need to be, and that everything will work out.

I see posts on Social Media all the time saying “Be the change you want to see in the world”, or “Your thoughts create your reality, chose them wisely”.  But when you post these things, do you really embrace what it means?  The statements are true (as far as being backed by our quantum science), but so many of you still cannot trust, and are still waiting for some event to change your circumstances for you.  If you truly believe what you are posting, and if you have any knowledge of the Law of Attraction, you should know that the energy of ‘waiting’, just creates more opportunities to ‘wait’.

Maybe it is time to stop waiting and start living.  How about that.  What if, just what if, you had everything at your disposal right now?  What if you could be happy now?  What if you allowed the knowledge in ~ intuitively?  What if you allowed yourself to realize that everything is possible?

Do you stop yourself from dreaming because you really feel you cannot have what you want?  If you have a circumstance that is uncomfortable for you (job, relationship, finances, health), and you continue to wait for the big event as if it is an external force that will change everything, you could be waiting for a really long time.  Not that big events don’t happen, its just that if you do not allow for the intuitive flow of energy, and you do not take any actions in the direction you want to go, the big event will never come in the form you expect.  Most of your “Big Events” come as a response to the energy you are vibrating.  Look back on all the big events in your life, in hindsight you will see that in some way or other you asked for the change that the big event brought you.  Hence, the big event was created by you and your energy, not by something outside of yourself.

Just as you cannot control other people or things, other people or things cannot control you.

We are living in an amazing time.  Most of the world is in the 5th Dimension where it really is easier to have what you want.  Maybe its time to challenge some of your thoughts, and to allow for this wonderful flow of love and oneness that is enveloping this planet to become more a part of you.

Between the planetary energies, the astrological and numerical influences, and the support we have from other dimensions, now is the perfect time to start living the life you want.  Focus on what you want, not on what is lacking, and you will become more inspired and motivated to take actions in your life that will begin to create the life you want, now and in the future.

If you think you need some additional assistance with your connection, I may be able to help.  If you would like to book an appointment with me, there is more information on my psychic readings here.

The Universe Responds to Your Attention

This is Levi, Calvin & Benny on their usual place on top of me in the recliner.

This is Levi, Calvin & Benny on their usual place on top of me in the recliner.

Just the other evening I was all snuggled up under my electric blanket in my recliner and reading an Abraham/Hicks book.  I have a funny story to share about that moment, that I think may help explain how the Law of Attraction really works.

I have 3 Shih Tzus, Calvin, Levi and Benny; Levi and Benny were fast asleep on the couch.  Normally if I am sitting watching TV or something I will have 1, 2 or 3 of them curled up in my lap.  The book I was reading was quite large, and I had no room for puppies on my lap this evening.

So there I was, all comfy in my recliner sipping tea and reading.  Calvin comes over and jumps up on my legs.  He was trying to crawl up my legs and onto my book.  I told him quite firmly to get down, I said “I don’t want you right now, I’m reading a book!”

No sooner had I said that, and Benny jumps up on me and Levi was preparing to join the other two.

My son says to me, “Mom, you are calling them all”.  I said, no I’m not, I was trying to get Calvin off of me, not the other two on me as well!”

Then my husband pipes in and says “You gave your attention to one, and now they are all coming over”.

So I clear my lap of dogs, and go back to my reading, this is what I read immediately upon commencing my reading:

“Most people believe, or want to believe, that everything in the Universe responds to their words in the same way that other people around them can sometimes be trained to behave.  When you tell someone, “Yes, come to me,” you expect them to come.  When you say, “No, go away from me,” you expect them to go.  But you live in an attraction-based Universe (an inclusion-based Universe), which simply means there is no such thing as no.

When you give your attention to something wanted and you say “Yes, come to me,” you include it in your vibration, and the Law of Attraction begins the process of bringing it.  but when you look at something unwanted and you say “No, I do not want you – go away!” the Universe brings that, also.  Your attention to it and therefore your vibrational alignment with it, is what is causing the response-not your words.”

Excerpt from “The Essential Law of Attraction Collection”, Esther and Jerry Hicks, The Teachings of Abraham

What a perfect example of the Law of Attraction, what we focus on is what we get more of, whether we want it or not.

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Are You Getting Too Woo Woo?

Funny title I know.  But really, I know and am working with a lot of people who are moving into the 5th Dimension with Gaia.  This is wonderful news, it is so nice to see so many of you learning to tap into your own intuition, and to start learning about the Law Of Attraction, and using energy and Chakra Systems etc.

I have been teaching you how to work with energy for a long time now, and will be teaching even more in 2014.  I am excited for all of you who are connecting to your Higher Selves and are realizing that the LOA and consciously creating does work.  It is fun for me to watch the people around me grow.  I must admit, I feel less alone now than I used to when I was younger.  So many more people like me now!

I have been experiencing what you have been experiencing for almost my whole life.  It IS exciting, it still excites me (although, I must admit that I sometimes take it for granted, much like you take your eyes & sight for granted ~ but I try not to).

Back to the main reason for this post.

DO NOT ALIENATE THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE LEARNED SOMETHING REALLY COOL AND NEW.

I feel like shouting this one from the rooftops!  There are many of you, that as you learn and grow, start to expect everyone to be where you are.  You absolutely must remember where you were a few months or years ago.  Learning all you are learning is great.  Sharing what you are learning is great ~ but only if you are sharing it with people who are ready.

A couple of things that I have noticed with “newbies” to this energy is that now that they “get it”, they expect everyone else to, and if people around them don’t, they get impatient.  THAT IS SIMPLY NOT FAIR.  I was born like this, and 40 some odd years ago it was much rarer for someone to be like me.  I learned very early on that if I expected everyone in my circle of friends to understand and to know what I know, I would have very few friends.

Some people just aren’t there yet.  You need to be patient with them.  Especially those people who have been in your life for a while.  YOU may be changing, but they might not be ready yet.  Stop judging them, or ‘calling them’ on the way they are talking or “manifesting” in their life.  YOU WERE ONCE THERE TOO.  Think back to where you came from.  That is where they are now.  NO ONE gets there by force.  You would not have, your loved ones or friends won’t either.  You can be a walking talking EXAMPLE, but do not turn into a preacher.  Don’t talk about things that are so “Out there” to people who are new to this that you turn them off and they start to think you are crazy (trust me, I know about people thinking you are nuts).  Alienation anyone??

Be patient with people, and focus on LOVE … I learned early on in doing readings that patience and love goes a long way to understanding.  I am sure that if I alienated, preached to, or yelled at you on my blog you would have stopped reading years ago.  Have love and compassion for people.  On a soul level they may want what you have, but on the 3rd Dimensional Level they do not understand yet.  If they are meant to stay in your life they will, whether they ever ‘get it’ or not.

This brings me to my second “warning” about being “Too Woo Woo”.  DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT, try and live someone else’s life for them.  Do not become co-dependent, or base your happiness on how many people you can help to ‘get it’.  NO ONE GETS IT UNTIL THEY ARE READY.  You are not responsible for getting them ready.   You need to learn who you can help and who you cannot help.  The people who you CAN help will ASK YOU.  If they do not ask, then stop telling.  It is that simple.  If you are living your life by example (as opposed to preaching), people will ask you for your help or opinion.

Finally… KEEP YOURSELF GROUNDED.  I worked on this for years and years (like 30 before I really got it).  I now have some clients tell me I am the most grounded psychic they know.  It’s because I worked on it.  It takes a LOT of practice.  When you are living your life in the 5th Dimension, and giving a lot of your attention to your higher Chakras and working with energy, it can be easy to forget your lower Chakras.  It can get so exciting to talk to Spirit, or Angels, or to see colours, or to start really seeing synchronicities or manifestations, that you may find that you almost forget that you are living in a reality were the majority of people still don’t operate the way you now do.

It might seem like ‘everyone is getting it’, but that is because now that you have changed your vibration to a ‘higher’ state, you are attracting more people into your life that are like the new you.  The people that are still vibrating in the 3rd Dimension are still there, you just see less of them.

The thing is YOU STILL SEE THEM, and unless and until you move up on a mountaintop and are 100% Self-Sufficient, growing your own food, making your own electricity, and having no need for money at all, you will still need to deal with people that you may JUDGE to be vibrating lower than you.  The sooner you learn to blend the 3rd Dimensional Energies with the 5th Dimensional Energies the more comfortable you will be.

Congratulations for getting to where you are, it is just the beginning for you.  Have fun with it.  Enjoy it.  Be excited by it.  Create the life you want with it.  Just don’t get so Woo Woo.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are You Asking for Enough? Needs VS. Wants

I am guessing that if you are reading this, then you have what you need.  You have food, you have a computer to look at.  You have a place to live.  This is good.  Of course you want to have what you need.  Most of you have your needs met every day.

It gets tricky when you begin to look at what you want.  Most of you don’t have what you want.  Whether it is the job you want, or the relationship you want, or the things that you want.

This post is about money though, so if you don’t like or want money, then stop reading here.

It can be difficult to navigate the difference between your wants and your needs sometimes.  We are bombarded with images that tell us to consume.  Buy this, buy that, it will make you happy.   You are so bombarded with this you get sick of it.  You begin to think, “I don’t want all this stuff, I just want to be happy!”

Sometimes it gets to the point that you begin to bash consumerism.  You think, “all these people are asking me to buy all of these things, its BS”.  So you swing from being able to visualize yourself having nice things, to making statements that are the exact opposite.  Statements that say vibrationally “I don’t want these things!”

On the one hand, you may feel that there are things you want, but then the little guy on your shoulder, your alter ego, says “It’s wrong to want these things.  So many people have nothing, I should be grateful for what I have, I am being so selfish.”

You are correct that you need to be grateful for what you have.  However, it is not WRONG to want things.  Even nice things, or frivolous things, or money to blow on experiences.  We came to earth to have experiences.  To expand and to grow.  There is nothing wrong with having wants.  There is nothing wrong with getting the things that you want.

In the past, I have had problems with this myself.  Things I was told about money that are just simply wrong.  These are things that were ingrained in my subconscious.  In realizing that they are there, and by consciously releasing them, now I am able to move on from them.  See if you see any of yours in here, maybe with some conscious effort, you can release yours too.

It was ingrained in me from a young age “Money is the root of all evil”.  Say What!?!?!?  Yes, I was told that.  That can be a tough one to get over.  I was raised Roman Catholic and in my humble opinion, I think that most organized religions teach this so that you give all your money to them instead of having things yourself.  Look at the Pope – ‘nuff said.

It is wrong to want things when so many people go without

– Are you kidding me.  If I had a bazillion dollars you know how many people I would share it with!  Most of you are very generous and loving.  If you had more, you would share more.  It is just simply inaccurate to say that you having less will help anyone else have more.  Huh?

Every business owner is out to screw you

– Another huge untruth.  Most business owners do really appreciate their customers.  This is a really BIG one to release from your subconscious if you are thinking about starting your own business.  How are you to run a business if in the back of your head you have a belief that you (a business owner), will be screwing people?  Even if you manage to tell yourself, “I will be different”, you will have it in your vibration and you will attract clients just like yourself ~ ones that constantly challenge you on your prices or your business practices because they are afraid that you are like all the rest.

Paying taxes is bad, the government just wastes the money

– Well, yes and no, but there is no sense in thinking about this or stressing on it.  I personally would LOVE to pay more taxes.  I pay less right now because I make less money.  See how that works?  If I make more money I will be paying more taxes.  I appreciate the roads I drive on, the parks I visit, having running water, electricity, garbage pick-up ~ the list goes on and on.  Yes there are wasteful things in government, but me thinking of them or bitching about them won’t change it, so I’ll just focus on the parts I like and appreciate.

Rich people are assholes

– Again not true.  Just look at Jon Bon Jovi and Oprah, or Warren Buffet.  Yes, a lot of rich people are jerks, a lot of poor people are jerks.  A lot of rich people are nice, a lot of poor people are nice.

People will hate me if I have money (or worse yet, I hate people that have money)

– Some will.  Usually poor people, and they will likely stay poor if they keep that line of thinking.  As will you.

I have a gift, it is wrong to charge money for it

– I’ve gotten this one before, I used to believe it too.  C’est la Vie.  Yes I have a gift, as do many other people on the planet.  Anyone can, with time and energy, learn to do what I can do.  I just happened to be born with it so it’s easier for me.  I can teach others to do it, I charge for this because I like to have my needs met ~ and after releasing some of the things on this list, I’m ready to get some of my WANTS too!  Some people like accountants have a gift with numbers, I could learn it from an accountant.  I would expect to pay my accountant to teach me.  At this point in my life it is MUCH easier to hire the accountant to do it for me so I can do what I love doing.

I could probably go on and make this a list of 100 things, but I’ll keep it here.  Please look deep and see what your recurring thoughts are.  Be aware of them, challenge them.  If you are not getting what you want, chances are it is just your subconscious mind talking you out of them.

 

Have you forgotten how to dream?

The ONLY time we forget how to dream, is if we do not think our dreams can come true.

There is nothing that we can have in this life that did not start with a thought, a Dream. Our thoughts are energy, and are very powerful. Whatever you think about you create.

It is very important to Dream, to imagine what you want in your life. The sad thing is, many of you have forgotten HOW to dream. So many things have happened over the course of your life that you think have happened TO you. If you can see how you helped to create them, then you will see that you are very powerful indeed. You will realize that you have what it takes to allow yourself to dream differently.

If your Dreams have turned into Nightmares, the following steps can help turn your life around.

Forget everything that has happened up to this point
There is no sense re-hashing all that happened to get you to where you are. Acknowledge that you are where you are because in some way you created it. You got here based on decisions that you made, and actions that you did or did not take. Once you take 100% responsibility for being where you are, you can begin to look forward instead of back.
An affirmation of “I created where I am, I can create where I want to be” may help.

Stop saying you can’t change
This is your ego talking. Of course you can change. You are never too old, too sick, or too stuck. You may not be able to change people or things around you, but you can change YOU. “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”

Forget everything you have been taught
Often, our parents didn’t know how to consciously create their lives, they lived in a different dimension than we are living in now. In the past there was not the awareness that we have available to us now. They may have told us that dreaming was a bad thing, we had to “live in reality”. Things are different now, and “Reality” is whatever you want it to be. Living someone else’s “reality” can keep you very stuck.
School doesn’t teach this stuff either. Many of us learned the opposite in school. Go to school, get a job, have a family, be stuck in the cycle. It doesn’t have to be this way.

Stop making excuses
We could all come up with excuses why something won’t work. No matter what the situation, you can create an excuse for anything. If you cannot give up your excuses, you cannot allow yourself to Dream. If you are in the habit of making excuses, every time you start to dream, you will automatically, from habit, come up with an excuse why it won’t work. This will stop you before you even get started.

Stop blaming other people
Yes, it can be really hard to stay positive and look forward if you are living with someone who is very negative. BUT, you are responsible for where you are, and you and only you are responsible for who you let into your life. If you say you can’t get out of your situation, then you are making excuses. Take all of these steps together and use them to remove negative people from your life. Or remove your life from negative people. You are a powerful creator, if you can dream it, you can do it. Start imagining a life without them, instead of always thinking about your life with them.

Be willing to give up what you have
This can be the hardest one. Change is change. If you want things in your life to change, you have to change things in your life. If you are unwilling to give up your home, you cannot have a new home.
If you are unwilling to give up your relationship, you cannot have a new relationship. Sometimes you MUST give something up. Too often, you think “I worked so hard to get this, I can’t let it go now”. Unless you are 100% happy where you are, there will be something you have to give up to get what you want.
I guarantee you, that if you are stuck with trying to hang on to what you have, you will never be able to create new. All of your focus and energy will go to hanging on to what you have.
This does not always mean that you HAVE to give something up. However, you must be 100% WILLING to give it up. A closed fist cannot receive.

If you are so hell bent on hanging on to what you have, and are unwilling to let go, that is where your thoughts, and therefore your energy will go. You will continue to get even MORE of what you already have. In order to dream, you need to be able to look forward. To trust the universe will give you what you need. When your whole focus is on WHAT IS, you cannot possibly be dreaming about what COULD BE.

Stop focusing on the HOW of what will happen
You need to be able to see your dream, trust that it can/will manifest for your highest and best good, and then LET IT GO. Too often, you have a dream, and then you start to wonder “How can that happen? I’d have to win the lottery or something.” This thinking will get you nowhere. It is NOT up to you to know HOW it will happen. It is just up to you to Dream about it happening. To believe it CAN happen. You created what you have. You CAN create what you want.

Take some ACTION
This is the most important step. If you allow for the things already discussed this will be easy, you will feel inspired and your energy will flow in the direction you want to go. If you haven’t allowed yourself to do the above, it will feel down right impossible to do.
If you say “I can’t”, or “It’s not my fault”, or “I’m not giving that up” you are speaking from your ego, and there is no way to create a better situation from there.
If you say those things to yourself, you will never take any action. Why would you? After all, you have convinced yourself that ‘you can’t’.
Action doesn’t always need to be big action either. No matter where you are, spiritually, physically, emotionally, if you allow yourself to dream, where you want to be is always somewhere else. Taking action, simply means taking a step in the direction that you want to go. Even just reading this blog post over and over, and being willing to think differently can be a first step. Praying for help can be a first step. In the past I myself have prayed “help me be willing to change or see things in a new way”.
YOU WILL NOT GET FROM HERE TO THERE WITHOUT TAKING A STEP.

You cannot just meditate and affirm your way to a new life. It can help for sure, but it won’t magically create something for you if you won’t change anything or take a single step. There is not one successful person on the planet that got that way by ONLY meditating, dreaming or thinking. Every single one of them took some form of action to get them where they are.

With dreams it is important to realize that they happen over time. You are not going to just wake up one day and be living a different life if you have not allowed yourself to have a different thought first.

Ask for what you REALLY want

So many of us are afraid to ask for what we want, thinking that we won’t get it anyway.

The Universe is an amazing place and you really can have what you want. You just need to ASK. If you do not ASK, you will NOT get. We don’t always know WHERE it will come from, but I guarantee that if you start asking for what you want, and start expecting that you will get it, it will come.

We are living a 5D reality now, and creating what we want is getting easier and easier. Stop thinking small, start thinking big!

What you want does not need to be a THING, it can be a state of mind, or love, or happiness, ANYTHING!

This video shows just how some things can come in an unexpected way. These are ‘things’ but it is still a wonderful video – I just had to share.

Who wants to join me in the 5th Dimension?

I have been blogging for close to ten years now. Some of you have been with me the whole time, and I would like to thank you for reading. For those of you that are newer to my blog, thank you for reading and please take a look around my site. There are some really interesting and helpful channels for you.

When I started my website, most of the planet was still mostly in the 3rd dimension. Then around 2008-2010 we moved into the 4th Dimension. The 4th Dimension being time. I blogged about time shifting, and the ability we have to shift our own time in our own world. In 2011 I wrote the book “The Secret of Simple Mediation”. Meditating and being aware of things can really help with time shifting. So many of you say you have no time to meditate or just be still, but I can guarantee that if you just took the time, you would have more of it. It’s kind of like magic. I like being magic. We are all “magic” really, we can and do create our lives, “as if by magic”.

So over the past few years, we have moved into the 5th Dimension. The planet is in the 5th Dimension at least. Many people on the planet are in the 5th Dimension too. I have been blogging about this for a while. If you are reading this, chances are you are not 100% stuck in the 3rd Dimension, but there are many people that have decided to stay there. Life has become very difficult for these people.

There is so much more than just the 3D, I cannot imagine being stuck there. The 3rd Dimension, is where things appear to be more solid or ‘set in stone’. When I first started doing readings, most of them contained information about Third Dimensional energies. For many, it was as if you were on a certain path, and that is where you were headed without some drastic changes in your priorities. Things in your life seemed more ‘set in stone’. It was much easier to see “you are here”, or “this is what WILL happen”, or “this is when it will happen” type of information.

Then in the Fourth Dimension, time started getting a little “screwy”, as far as fitting into a 3D reality. I could still often see time frames, however, they were very adjustable based on your thoughts, actions, and decisions. Sometimes things that, in a 3D reality, were not due to happen for a couple years yet, could be sped right up, and could manifest almost seemingly instantly, just with awareness and focus. (and sometimes mediation/energy work). Or things could actually be put off for a long time, just by ignoring your intuition, messages, and your inattention to what needed to be done.

Now here we are in the 5th. This is the funnest one ever!!! This is where we have infinite possibilities. We can have our Third Dimensional “Toys”. We can shift time and play with energies. AND, this is the coolest EVER! The Fifth Dimension has, or is, unlimited potential. This is where we can create from. We can play. We can do what we want. Using the Law of Attraction to our benefit is much easier than ever.

It’s not that 5D energies weren’t available to us before, they were and always have been, and many of us have been using them for a very long time. There are very old books out there that were written by people who had access to more 5th dimensional energies. A lot of these books are gaining momentum again 100 years after being written. Even a lot of what the bible talks about refers to energy.

The neat part is that the PLANET is now vibrating in the 5th Dimension. What that means for you, is that it does not matter where you started, where you are, or how long you have been there, these energies are more available to you now than they ever have been before.

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