It’s time to move. So many of you feel the urge, the pull, the desire to change something. Anything. The NEED to change your life or move forward, and you are terrified!
The energies of the moment are pushing you to start moving. Sometimes the energy feels like a power surge, and you MUST DO SOMETHING! Sometimes it is a little more subtle and you just feel an inkling that maybe you should expand in some area of your life.
Get used to this feeling, it is going to prevail for the next little while. Some days it will be stronger than others. The thing is YOU HAVE TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO HAVE MOVEMENT.
You will never get what you want if you don’t go for it. You are being pulled to get out of your comfort zones. Change will not happen gracefully if you try to stay where you are. I am talking to so many people right now that feel disempowered. Are you kidding me! We are in one of the most POWERFUL times that we will see in our lifetimes!
The reason you are feeling so disempowered is because you are relying on people and things outside of yourself.
You are afraid to move on and out of your comfort zone. Even if you are in a relationship that is uncomfortable (personal or professional), you are not letting yourself move out of your comfort zone. THAT IS WHERE YOUR DISCOMFORT IS COMING FROM. Your Soul is trying so hard to grow and to move forward and you are not letting it happen. You have to move out of your comfort zone.
No one else has control over you or any aspect of your life unless you let them – NO EXCEPTIONS. I have talked to 3 people just this week who have had relationships either come to an end or change drastically. Some of them are terrified. How can I do it on my own? Or worse yet, “I can’t do it on my own”. Yes you can.
Sometimes you even think “But they have all the control”. No they don’t. They may have control over themselves, but they do not have control over you unless you flat out give it to them.
When you tell yourself you cannot do something, you cannot do it. When you tell yourself “I can do this, I don’t know how, but I can do it, I can do it by and for myself”, then you can do it. When you say those words to yourself, you take back some of your power. You start to feel a little bit better. Your intuition starts to come back. Your guides are better able to talk to you. You begin to realize that all those recurring thoughts are really insights into what your next step should be. You stop talking yourself out of stuff and start to get inspired to take little actions. Sometimes you take big actions. Either way, you MUST get out of your comfort zone. ESPECIALLY if your “Comfort Zone” is “Uncomfortable”.
Say to yourself, I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.
The energies of the Universe are pushing you to go! Don’t let yourself stay stuck in whatever space you feel you are stuck in. You have a lifeline from the Universe – grab hold and take it!
Even if you cannot change everything right this minute, you MUST change something. Remember, the Law of Attraction brings you more of what you are experiencing now. The subject does not matter so much as the feeling.
If you are feeling powerless in a relationship or a job, you will create more opportunities to feel powerless. It could show up as a car accident, illness, something going wrong with your home and you needing to put out money you do not have to fix it… the subject is not as important as the feeling …. All these things make you feel powerless, it is not an accident that they showed up in your life. Like energy attracts like energy.
It works the other way too. Let’s say you are in a relationship or a work situation that you feel powerless in. If you can say to yourself what I wrote above, (and I will write it again here because it is important) “I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.” You will feel empowered. If you can say that, and FEEL it, you will feel more empowered than you do now. As soon as you take back a little bit of your power, and start to allow yourself to feel that power things will begin to improve. IT IS LAW.
You may not be able to quit your job right now, but you could start looking for something else. Or more likely, once you allow yourself to feel that powerfulness that is in you, you will be INSPIRED to take an action. It will actually FEEL GOOD. You will be hard pressed to NOT take it because it feels so good. All you did was allow yourself to feel a little bit more power and you felt immediately better. Things and people will show up for you that make you start to think “I can do this”. The Law of Attraction will bring more things to you that have that same feeling. Maybe someone at work will surprise you and change their attitude, maybe someone that you feel has never valued you will say some words of appreciation, maybe you will come across a job posting that looks just perfect for you (you may not get that job, but it may inspire you to realize that there are other things out there). No matter the circumstance, or what it looks like ‘exactly’, the feelings will be the same, and empowered feelings will assist you in moving forward and will via LoA attract more of the same feelings.
If it’s a relationship, you need to remember you cannot control other people, but you can change your thoughts and your actions. Instead of thinking “I am stuck in this house, with this person, in this state”, replace it with “What can I do right now to feel more empowered and feel better?”. The answer might be to pull your energy back from that person a little bit and put the focus back on yourself. The answer might be to get a job so that you will have money. Once you bring it back to you, and realize that you have power over yourself and your feelings, you will feel better.
Sometimes people are afraid to feel powerful in a relationship if they are unhappy in it because they think if they were to have their own money, or power, then they would leave their spouse and that would certainly bring them out of their comfort zone. Sometimes that does happen, BUT sometimes the relationship just changes. The thing is, you will not know unless and until you focus on yourself.
If you are uncomfortable or worse yet, miserable, now, what have you got to lose?