The Big World-Changing Event 2014

Have you been waiting for “The Big Event”?  Many of you thought that Dec 2012 would be it.  There always seems to be some date floating around where everything will change and we can all be happy and live in peace.  Some think, ‘Armageddon’, some think of ‘Rapture’ and the return of Christ, some think it will be another world war, or the collapse of the financial system.  Or maybe you are waiting for all 13 Crystal Skulls to come together, or for Angels to come down and finally tell us everything we have always wanted to know.

Even when I do readings, many of you just want to know when will I meet someone and be happier?  When will I feel better, when will I get a new job, relief from my suffering, more money, the list of what we are “waiting” for can be endless.

What you need to realize though, is that all of this ~ everything ~ really is happening now (past/present/future).   You have the ability to live whatever reality you want right now.  You do not have to wait for anything.  All of the things in the first paragraph of this post are already happening NOW.  They have been happening for many years now.  Most of you just haven’t allowed yourself to fully feel the changes.  You are staying stuck in your head and the way things have always been.

Because you have put yourself into a state of ‘waiting’ you will continue to have to wait.  What if you actually allowed yourself to live in this moment?  Live in this moment as if everything you ever desired was just waiting for you to let it happen?

What if you made a decision to stop thinking so much, to turn within (to your heart and energy NOT your mind), and really figure out what it is you want, in the innermost part of your being?  Leave the ego and the need to control external things out of it.

The energy is shifting, has shifted.  For those of you who allow yourself to feel with your energy, you can feel it.  If you have not allowed yourself to truly feel with your energy and your heart and with love, things probably feel like ‘same old, same old’, even though NOTHING is the same as it was before.

If you can allow yourself to embrace this new energy that we are living in, you will find that you start to live more freely and a more happy life than ever before.  Not 100% free of challenges, but with an acceptance of what is, and a knowing that you are right where you need to be, and that everything will work out.

I see posts on Social Media all the time saying “Be the change you want to see in the world”, or “Your thoughts create your reality, chose them wisely”.  But when you post these things, do you really embrace what it means?  The statements are true (as far as being backed by our quantum science), but so many of you still cannot trust, and are still waiting for some event to change your circumstances for you.  If you truly believe what you are posting, and if you have any knowledge of the Law of Attraction, you should know that the energy of ‘waiting’, just creates more opportunities to ‘wait’.

Maybe it is time to stop waiting and start living.  How about that.  What if, just what if, you had everything at your disposal right now?  What if you could be happy now?  What if you allowed the knowledge in ~ intuitively?  What if you allowed yourself to realize that everything is possible?

Do you stop yourself from dreaming because you really feel you cannot have what you want?  If you have a circumstance that is uncomfortable for you (job, relationship, finances, health), and you continue to wait for the big event as if it is an external force that will change everything, you could be waiting for a really long time.  Not that big events don’t happen, its just that if you do not allow for the intuitive flow of energy, and you do not take any actions in the direction you want to go, the big event will never come in the form you expect.  Most of your “Big Events” come as a response to the energy you are vibrating.  Look back on all the big events in your life, in hindsight you will see that in some way or other you asked for the change that the big event brought you.  Hence, the big event was created by you and your energy, not by something outside of yourself.

Just as you cannot control other people or things, other people or things cannot control you.

We are living in an amazing time.  Most of the world is in the 5th Dimension where it really is easier to have what you want.  Maybe its time to challenge some of your thoughts, and to allow for this wonderful flow of love and oneness that is enveloping this planet to become more a part of you.

Between the planetary energies, the astrological and numerical influences, and the support we have from other dimensions, now is the perfect time to start living the life you want.  Focus on what you want, not on what is lacking, and you will become more inspired and motivated to take actions in your life that will begin to create the life you want, now and in the future.

If you think you need some additional assistance with your connection, I may be able to help.  If you would like to book an appointment with me, there is more information on my psychic readings here.

The Universe Responds to Your Attention

This is Levi, Calvin & Benny on their usual place on top of me in the recliner.

This is Levi, Calvin & Benny on their usual place on top of me in the recliner.

Just the other evening I was all snuggled up under my electric blanket in my recliner and reading an Abraham/Hicks book.  I have a funny story to share about that moment, that I think may help explain how the Law of Attraction really works.

I have 3 Shih Tzus, Calvin, Levi and Benny; Levi and Benny were fast asleep on the couch.  Normally if I am sitting watching TV or something I will have 1, 2 or 3 of them curled up in my lap.  The book I was reading was quite large, and I had no room for puppies on my lap this evening.

So there I was, all comfy in my recliner sipping tea and reading.  Calvin comes over and jumps up on my legs.  He was trying to crawl up my legs and onto my book.  I told him quite firmly to get down, I said “I don’t want you right now, I’m reading a book!”

No sooner had I said that, and Benny jumps up on me and Levi was preparing to join the other two.

My son says to me, “Mom, you are calling them all”.  I said, no I’m not, I was trying to get Calvin off of me, not the other two on me as well!”

Then my husband pipes in and says “You gave your attention to one, and now they are all coming over”.

So I clear my lap of dogs, and go back to my reading, this is what I read immediately upon commencing my reading:

“Most people believe, or want to believe, that everything in the Universe responds to their words in the same way that other people around them can sometimes be trained to behave.  When you tell someone, “Yes, come to me,” you expect them to come.  When you say, “No, go away from me,” you expect them to go.  But you live in an attraction-based Universe (an inclusion-based Universe), which simply means there is no such thing as no.

When you give your attention to something wanted and you say “Yes, come to me,” you include it in your vibration, and the Law of Attraction begins the process of bringing it.  but when you look at something unwanted and you say “No, I do not want you – go away!” the Universe brings that, also.  Your attention to it and therefore your vibrational alignment with it, is what is causing the response-not your words.”

Excerpt from “The Essential Law of Attraction Collection”, Esther and Jerry Hicks, The Teachings of Abraham

What a perfect example of the Law of Attraction, what we focus on is what we get more of, whether we want it or not.

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Are You Getting Too Woo Woo?

Funny title I know.  But really, I know and am working with a lot of people who are moving into the 5th Dimension with Gaia.  This is wonderful news, it is so nice to see so many of you learning to tap into your own intuition, and to start learning about the Law Of Attraction, and using energy and Chakra Systems etc.

I have been teaching you how to work with energy for a long time now, and will be teaching even more in 2014.  I am excited for all of you who are connecting to your Higher Selves and are realizing that the LOA and consciously creating does work.  It is fun for me to watch the people around me grow.  I must admit, I feel less alone now than I used to when I was younger.  So many more people like me now!

I have been experiencing what you have been experiencing for almost my whole life.  It IS exciting, it still excites me (although, I must admit that I sometimes take it for granted, much like you take your eyes & sight for granted ~ but I try not to).

Back to the main reason for this post.

DO NOT ALIENATE THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE LEARNED SOMETHING REALLY COOL AND NEW.

I feel like shouting this one from the rooftops!  There are many of you, that as you learn and grow, start to expect everyone to be where you are.  You absolutely must remember where you were a few months or years ago.  Learning all you are learning is great.  Sharing what you are learning is great ~ but only if you are sharing it with people who are ready.

A couple of things that I have noticed with “newbies” to this energy is that now that they “get it”, they expect everyone else to, and if people around them don’t, they get impatient.  THAT IS SIMPLY NOT FAIR.  I was born like this, and 40 some odd years ago it was much rarer for someone to be like me.  I learned very early on that if I expected everyone in my circle of friends to understand and to know what I know, I would have very few friends.

Some people just aren’t there yet.  You need to be patient with them.  Especially those people who have been in your life for a while.  YOU may be changing, but they might not be ready yet.  Stop judging them, or ‘calling them’ on the way they are talking or “manifesting” in their life.  YOU WERE ONCE THERE TOO.  Think back to where you came from.  That is where they are now.  NO ONE gets there by force.  You would not have, your loved ones or friends won’t either.  You can be a walking talking EXAMPLE, but do not turn into a preacher.  Don’t talk about things that are so “Out there” to people who are new to this that you turn them off and they start to think you are crazy (trust me, I know about people thinking you are nuts).  Alienation anyone??

Be patient with people, and focus on LOVE … I learned early on in doing readings that patience and love goes a long way to understanding.  I am sure that if I alienated, preached to, or yelled at you on my blog you would have stopped reading years ago.  Have love and compassion for people.  On a soul level they may want what you have, but on the 3rd Dimensional Level they do not understand yet.  If they are meant to stay in your life they will, whether they ever ‘get it’ or not.

This brings me to my second “warning” about being “Too Woo Woo”.  DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT, try and live someone else’s life for them.  Do not become co-dependent, or base your happiness on how many people you can help to ‘get it’.  NO ONE GETS IT UNTIL THEY ARE READY.  You are not responsible for getting them ready.   You need to learn who you can help and who you cannot help.  The people who you CAN help will ASK YOU.  If they do not ask, then stop telling.  It is that simple.  If you are living your life by example (as opposed to preaching), people will ask you for your help or opinion.

Finally… KEEP YOURSELF GROUNDED.  I worked on this for years and years (like 30 before I really got it).  I now have some clients tell me I am the most grounded psychic they know.  It’s because I worked on it.  It takes a LOT of practice.  When you are living your life in the 5th Dimension, and giving a lot of your attention to your higher Chakras and working with energy, it can be easy to forget your lower Chakras.  It can get so exciting to talk to Spirit, or Angels, or to see colours, or to start really seeing synchronicities or manifestations, that you may find that you almost forget that you are living in a reality were the majority of people still don’t operate the way you now do.

It might seem like ‘everyone is getting it’, but that is because now that you have changed your vibration to a ‘higher’ state, you are attracting more people into your life that are like the new you.  The people that are still vibrating in the 3rd Dimension are still there, you just see less of them.

The thing is YOU STILL SEE THEM, and unless and until you move up on a mountaintop and are 100% Self-Sufficient, growing your own food, making your own electricity, and having no need for money at all, you will still need to deal with people that you may JUDGE to be vibrating lower than you.  The sooner you learn to blend the 3rd Dimensional Energies with the 5th Dimensional Energies the more comfortable you will be.

Congratulations for getting to where you are, it is just the beginning for you.  Have fun with it.  Enjoy it.  Be excited by it.  Create the life you want with it.  Just don’t get so Woo Woo.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Are You Asking for Enough? Needs VS. Wants

I am guessing that if you are reading this, then you have what you need.  You have food, you have a computer to look at.  You have a place to live.  This is good.  Of course you want to have what you need.  Most of you have your needs met every day.

It gets tricky when you begin to look at what you want.  Most of you don’t have what you want.  Whether it is the job you want, or the relationship you want, or the things that you want.

This post is about money though, so if you don’t like or want money, then stop reading here.

It can be difficult to navigate the difference between your wants and your needs sometimes.  We are bombarded with images that tell us to consume.  Buy this, buy that, it will make you happy.   You are so bombarded with this you get sick of it.  You begin to think, “I don’t want all this stuff, I just want to be happy!”

Sometimes it gets to the point that you begin to bash consumerism.  You think, “all these people are asking me to buy all of these things, its BS”.  So you swing from being able to visualize yourself having nice things, to making statements that are the exact opposite.  Statements that say vibrationally “I don’t want these things!”

On the one hand, you may feel that there are things you want, but then the little guy on your shoulder, your alter ego, says “It’s wrong to want these things.  So many people have nothing, I should be grateful for what I have, I am being so selfish.”

You are correct that you need to be grateful for what you have.  However, it is not WRONG to want things.  Even nice things, or frivolous things, or money to blow on experiences.  We came to earth to have experiences.  To expand and to grow.  There is nothing wrong with having wants.  There is nothing wrong with getting the things that you want.

In the past, I have had problems with this myself.  Things I was told about money that are just simply wrong.  These are things that were ingrained in my subconscious.  In realizing that they are there, and by consciously releasing them, now I am able to move on from them.  See if you see any of yours in here, maybe with some conscious effort, you can release yours too.

It was ingrained in me from a young age “Money is the root of all evil”.  Say What!?!?!?  Yes, I was told that.  That can be a tough one to get over.  I was raised Roman Catholic and in my humble opinion, I think that most organized religions teach this so that you give all your money to them instead of having things yourself.  Look at the Pope – ‘nuff said.

It is wrong to want things when so many people go without

- Are you kidding me.  If I had a bazillion dollars you know how many people I would share it with!  Most of you are very generous and loving.  If you had more, you would share more.  It is just simply inaccurate to say that you having less will help anyone else have more.  Huh?

Every business owner is out to screw you

- Another huge untruth.  Most business owners do really appreciate their customers.  This is a really BIG one to release from your subconscious if you are thinking about starting your own business.  How are you to run a business if in the back of your head you have a belief that you (a business owner), will be screwing people?  Even if you manage to tell yourself, “I will be different”, you will have it in your vibration and you will attract clients just like yourself ~ ones that constantly challenge you on your prices or your business practices because they are afraid that you are like all the rest.

Paying taxes is bad, the government just wastes the money

- Well, yes and no, but there is no sense in thinking about this or stressing on it.  I personally would LOVE to pay more taxes.  I pay less right now because I make less money.  See how that works?  If I make more money I will be paying more taxes.  I appreciate the roads I drive on, the parks I visit, having running water, electricity, garbage pick-up ~ the list goes on and on.  Yes there are wasteful things in government, but me thinking of them or bitching about them won’t change it, so I’ll just focus on the parts I like and appreciate.

Rich people are assholes

- Again not true.  Just look at Jon Bon Jovi and Oprah, or Warren Buffet.  Yes, a lot of rich people are jerks, a lot of poor people are jerks.  A lot of rich people are nice, a lot of poor people are nice.

People will hate me if I have money (or worse yet, I hate people that have money)

- Some will.  Usually poor people, and they will likely stay poor if they keep that line of thinking.  As will you.

I have a gift, it is wrong to charge money for it

- I’ve gotten this one before, I used to believe it too.  C’est la Vie.  Yes I have a gift, as do many other people on the planet.  Anyone can, with time and energy, learn to do what I can do.  I just happened to be born with it so it’s easier for me.  I can teach others to do it, I charge for this because I like to have my needs met ~ and after releasing some of the things on this list, I’m ready to get some of my WANTS too!  Some people like accountants have a gift with numbers, I could learn it from an accountant.  I would expect to pay my accountant to teach me.  At this point in my life it is MUCH easier to hire the accountant to do it for me so I can do what I love doing.

I could probably go on and make this a list of 100 things, but I’ll keep it here.  Please look deep and see what your recurring thoughts are.  Be aware of them, challenge them.  If you are not getting what you want, chances are it is just your subconscious mind talking you out of them.

 

Who wants to join me in the 5th Dimension?

I have been blogging for close to ten years now. Some of you have been with me the whole time, and I would like to thank you for reading. For those of you that are newer to my blog, thank you for reading and please take a look around my site. There are some really interesting and helpful channels for you.

When I started my website, most of the planet was still mostly in the 3rd dimension. Then around 2008-2010 we moved into the 4th Dimension. The 4th Dimension being time. I blogged about time shifting, and the ability we have to shift our own time in our own world. In 2011 I wrote the book “The Secret of Simple Mediation”. Meditating and being aware of things can really help with time shifting. So many of you say you have no time to meditate or just be still, but I can guarantee that if you just took the time, you would have more of it. It’s kind of like magic. I like being magic. We are all “magic” really, we can and do create our lives, “as if by magic”.

So over the past few years, we have moved into the 5th Dimension. The planet is in the 5th Dimension at least. Many people on the planet are in the 5th Dimension too. I have been blogging about this for a while. If you are reading this, chances are you are not 100% stuck in the 3rd Dimension, but there are many people that have decided to stay there. Life has become very difficult for these people.

There is so much more than just the 3D, I cannot imagine being stuck there. The 3rd Dimension, is where things appear to be more solid or ‘set in stone’. When I first started doing readings, most of them contained information about Third Dimensional energies. For many, it was as if you were on a certain path, and that is where you were headed without some drastic changes in your priorities. Things in your life seemed more ‘set in stone’. It was much easier to see “you are here”, or “this is what WILL happen”, or “this is when it will happen” type of information.

Then in the Fourth Dimension, time started getting a little “screwy”, as far as fitting into a 3D reality. I could still often see time frames, however, they were very adjustable based on your thoughts, actions, and decisions. Sometimes things that, in a 3D reality, were not due to happen for a couple years yet, could be sped right up, and could manifest almost seemingly instantly, just with awareness and focus. (and sometimes mediation/energy work). Or things could actually be put off for a long time, just by ignoring your intuition, messages, and your inattention to what needed to be done.

Now here we are in the 5th. This is the funnest one ever!!! This is where we have infinite possibilities. We can have our Third Dimensional “Toys”. We can shift time and play with energies. AND, this is the coolest EVER! The Fifth Dimension has, or is, unlimited potential. This is where we can create from. We can play. We can do what we want. Using the Law of Attraction to our benefit is much easier than ever.

It’s not that 5D energies weren’t available to us before, they were and always have been, and many of us have been using them for a very long time. There are very old books out there that were written by people who had access to more 5th dimensional energies. A lot of these books are gaining momentum again 100 years after being written. Even a lot of what the bible talks about refers to energy.

The neat part is that the PLANET is now vibrating in the 5th Dimension. What that means for you, is that it does not matter where you started, where you are, or how long you have been there, these energies are more available to you now than they ever have been before.

What Can You Love?

It is so easy to observe and judge things that you do not like. You are so busy, or so tired, or so disillusioned with life that sometimes it just feels like the world is full of unwanted things. And it is. But it is also full of things that you do want.

Our thoughts are things, they are energy. What you think about is what you create more of. This has been proven over and over again.

What do you think would happen if you started to switch your focus onto things that you do want? And I mean really focus on what you want. NOT, think about what you want and then say “but I can’t have that, its just a pipe dream”.

Start small if you have to. If traffic annoys you, can you focus on the fact that at least you have a car to drive? Can you LOVE the fact that you have your car? Or that you had someone in your life to loan you the car you are driving?

If you do not like your body, can you find something about it to love? The fact that it is alive today? That it got out of bed? If you are reading this from bed, can you focus on the fact that you have eyes and can read it? Can you love your eyes? Or the fact that you are breathing? Can you focus on and LOVE your breath?

If money seems to be a problem for you, can you focus on the fact that you have food? Can you love the fact that you are not starving? Can you love the fact that you have clean water to drink? That you have a roof over your head?

On a personal note. In 2011 I got sick. I got in pretty rough shape. Then in 2012 (still not recovered), I had to put my horse down. This gave me very little excuse to get out and move my body other than yard work, or the occasional walk. I gained almost 40 pounds, and my muscles got weaker. It was very easy to judge and dislike my body.

Here it is the end of 2013 and after a couple of years of not feeling physically my best, I decided that it was time to love my body again. Love the fact that I was now much more physically healthy and love the fact that my body, if I let it, could and would get stronger and fitter.

I started to focus on this. I really wanted to start with a personal trainer, but we couldn’t afford it. I had a local gym website up on my phone for 6 months. A few times a week I would look around the website and imagine going to this work out facility to work with these trainers. I did not focus on the fact that I could not afford it, I focused on the fact that I had a reasonably healthy body (although it was not in the greatest shape), and I LOVED my body and focused on LOVING my situation. I focused on the fact that ‘one day’, I would be able to start attending the workout sessions. I was HAPPY about the fact that I would do it (even if it was “one day…”). I never let myself go to a place of thinking “but I can’t afford it”. I kept myself in a place of happy expectation.

Then at the beginning of November, I was finally able to go. I have worked out two weeks in a row now, (3X per week). The workouts are really hard. I am working out with younger people who are in much better shape than I am. I can not yet do what they can do. But I do not focus on what they are doing. I focus on getting better and better and better myself.

Already I am feeling better. I KNOW that if I just keep focusing on showing up for my life, showing up for my workouts, focusing on loving my body, my body will respond to the energy I am giving it. Loving it, working it.

For quite some time it was really easy to focus on how my body was betraying me. It is hard not being well. But I took that first step. I DECIDED. I decided that it was time to focus on something else. So I did. It started in my head and with my thoughts. Once I started projecting that energy, it was only a matter of time before I was able to manifest the physical by taking inspired action. Without the thoughts, I would not have been inspired.

What we focus on is what we create. I guarantee it.

What can you bring yourself to express love and gratitude towards in your life? What is the part of your life that requires the most change? That is probably where you should start.

It doesn’t matter what it is. Find the one thing that you judge the most, sit down with a piece of paper, and write down everything you can find to be grateful for in that situation.

Hate your job? Can you at least maybe try and find some gratitude for having a job? Or is there someone at work that you like? Can you be grateful for that? Can you find anything about your job that you like?

Nothing in your life can change unless and until you change your thinking. If you think negative things about your job, or your situation, or your health, or your relationships then your job, situation, health, relationships will always provide negative experiences for you.

It is never too early or too late to start. Just pick one thing. You can do it, I know you can!

You Were NOT Born to Struggle

Over the years, I have been told by hundreds of people how positive and empowering my readings are.  To see some of the feedback, you can look at the Psychic Testimonials on this page.

I have had clients tell me that they have had readings from others before and they felt lousy afterwards.  As if there was nothing that they could do. The difference between me and SOME other psychics is that I help to EMPOWER YOU.  I know that we create our own reality.  There are many people (psychics, and non-psychics), that will tell you that “stuff happens”.  That it is “fate”.  You are “meant to (fill in the blank)”.   They will tell you we are here to learn lessons and to struggle.  We are not here to struggle.  And the only lesson we really need to learn is that WE ARE CO-CREATORS of our own reality.  We create our reality… all of it.  We do this through our Vibration and the Law of Attraction (LoA).

We are bombarded by messages that disempower us.  Whether it is from the media or religions or schools or parents, governments, society in general, friends; the messages are the same.  You have no control.  It’s not your fault, you have had a bad upbringing, you have gotten a bad break, its karma, its fate, its outside of you and beyond your control; do you recognize any of this?.

As a society we have been brainwashed to believe that we cannot do anything.  I am here to tell you that you can be, have, do anything you want.  Period.

All this brainwashing is meant to create a feeling of disempowerment.  It is meant to keep you under control.  Its meant to keep you from thinking for yourself.  Its meant to keep you from ACTING on your desires.   It is meant to make you feel bad.  You cannot create positive change and a positive life from a place of feeling bad.  There really is no reason to feel bad.

If you KNEW that you are constantly creating your reality and consistently bringing more into your life that is vibrating at the level you are now, you would go out of your way to feel as good as you can as often as you can.  If you feel frustration, the Law of Attraction will bring in more frustration.  If you are feeling sad, the LoA wll bring in more sad circumstances for you.  If you are happy, the LoA will bring in more happiness.

YOU ARE NOT POWERLESS.  You have more power than you could ever imagine.  If you raise your vibration to a more positive state, your life will be more positive.

When I do a reading, I tell you what you are in the process of creating.  Sometimes when we need to make a move, the Universe (or God if you will), will step in and help.  If you are trying really hard to manifest the perfect job and you lose your current job, it does not mean you need to feel badly.  You don’t want to feel bad, it will just create more bad feelings.  Feel good.  Know that you are being assisted to find your perfect job.  Keep your vibration high, look forward positively, ACT on your instincts.  You can and you will create your NEW perfect job.  You have been helped along to make your move.  Run with it, get excited about it, be happy!!  You will create more excitement and happiness ~ it is the LoA ~ it works EVERY TIME.  It is a Universal LAW.

This is not just about ‘your job’ but about many things that can affect your life, relationships included.

Sometimes, through discomfort, growth is promoted.  I can help you see the positive in your situation and help you to move forward and create what you really want.

Removed from The Secret

Those of you that know me, (or read my blog regularly), hear me say all the time “Everything is Energy”. I generally explain it from the perspective of a psychic. Here it is explained by “Experts” and Quantum Physicists.
And Wow, what a great explanation this is!!

You are Powerful

You are powerful.  You create your reality whether you wish to believe it or not.

I have said many times before, everything is energy.  Our brain waves are energy, therefore our thoughts are energy. We are constantly bombarded with messages that tell us we are powerless and that there is nothing we can do about it.   We are told, “That is just the way it is”.  The only way you can get sucked into this is if you believe it. If you were to take a look around, you would see people all over the world, from all walks of life, in all different types of situations that are ‘bucking the odds’.  The ONLY difference between them and you is what you tell yourself. If you tell yourself you are powerless then you are powerless.  It is said that knowledge is power,  well, now you know, you have the knowledge that YOU CREATE YOUR REALITY.  Now you can take that knowledge and CREATE A REALITY THAT YOU WANT.

You may find that you are stuck in a ‘negative loop’ with your thinking.  You think the same negative thoughts over and over again.   As you ALLOW these thoughts to go over and over in your brain, they get stronger.  Every time you think that thought the negative loop gets stronger.  It is just like going to the gym,  as you work out your muscles, they get stronger.  By thinking the same negative thing over and over again, you are making your negative thought energy more powerful.  Imagine if you could do the same thing with positive thoughts, YOU CAN.

It is a Universal Law, the Law of Attraction.  Just because you cannot see it right now doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.  The Law of Attraction is as much of a LAW as the Law of Gravity.  We don’t have to know how it works, we just need to know that it exists.

Stop letting people tell you that you are powerless.  It is the saddest thing that I see on a daily basis, these ingrained programs, “I can’t”, “someone else is…”, “I don’t have…”, “I want”,  if only you knew just how powerful you are!!!  You CAN have it all.

There are a lot of folks out there that will tell you you have an addiction.  Whether its to a substance or to a behaviour.  Addicted to alcohol, drama, sex, exercise, drugs, poverty… the list goes on and on.

What it really is, is a learned behavior and brain pattern.  You do the same thing over and over again, you THINK about it all the time so it has a lot of power, NOT OVER you but FROM you (via your thoughts).  The more you do it, the stronger the synapses in your brain get, the more energy you put out.  The more you tell yourself that you are ‘addicted’ the stronger the synapses (or loops), get.  Your thought forms are now a habit.

You can replace your thoughts and therefore replace your behaviours, replace your addictions, replace your outcomes.  If you tell yourself something often enough it becomes your reality.  If you tell yourself, “I cannot stop messing around on my spouse, I must be addicted to sex” ~ sorry, that’s a bunch of baloney.  What it is is that you are running a tape in your head that reaffirms that you are powerless to control yourself.  You may be running a tape that says “I need variety and excitement in my life”, you may have a tape that says “I can’t have sex with this person he/she is too pure”, or “I don’t really love this person and I shouldn’t have gotten married”.  Whatever you are telling yourself is a habit, it does not need to stay your reality.

There is NO NEED to live with lack, or unhappiness, or without inspiration.  All you need to do is decide.  Decide what you want.  Practice thinking differently.  If you say “I cannot control myself, I can’t stop eating, it’s an addiction”, then that is EXACTLY what you will continue to get.  If you tell yourself over and over again you love vegetables as a snack and practice eating vegetables, you will acquire a taste for them and eating them will become a habit.  If you tell yourself, I can get off my ass for 10 minutes and go for a little walk, I can do something, anything differently.  And keep telling yourself that over and over.  It WILL sink in to your subconscious and things WILL change.

Chances are, whatever you are going through took time to take root.  It may take some time to rebuild/reprogram, but IT CAN BE DONE.  Every time you have ANY thought for the next while, I urge you to look at it and see what its saying to you.  What YOU are saying to you.  Look long and hard if you have to.  If your thought contains a reality that you do not want.  CHANGE YOUR THOUGHT!!!  I guarantee you that if you change that thought often enough your REALITY WILL CHANGE.  It can’t not.  Everything is energy, whatever energy you put out is what you get back.

I could have changed it …. but why?

I was getting ready to go down to see a friend for lunch in the states. While I was blow drying my hair in the morning, I was told by my guides that I’d be stopped at the border and sent inside, which doesn’t happen very often. They did not tell me anything more, just that I would have to go in.

I KNOW that we can all create our own realities and I know that the Law of Attraction works. So, I was thinking about it, and thought, gee, if I put my focus on just going right through, and really put the ‘big desire’ to sail right thorough ‘out there’, then I know I can.

That’s basically how psychic readings/messages work. I get the information, it’s up to the receiver (in this case me), to decide what to do about it. Sometimes when I see things like this ahead of time I do really want to change it (so I manifest the change using the Law of Attraction). This time though, as I was driving down the highway on the way to the border crossing, I was just thinking, “I don’t really care”. I just couldn’t muster up the “burning desire” to create not stopping. Besides, my guides didn’t tell me it would be bad, just that it would happen. Also, I know from experience that sometimes detours are just rerouting opportunities or a way to be shown something new.

So, I get to the border, there wasn’t much of a lineup, cars were pulling forward one at a time, I got in a line and waited my turn. I get up to the border and get asked the usual questions “where are you from, where are you going etc.”. Then the border guard says “can I have your keys please, she takes my keys, checks the trunk, comes around to the passenger side of the car, rifles through my purse and tells me to pull over and go inside.

No biggie really, I’ve got nothing to hide or anything I’m not supposed to have so in I go.

I’m waiting inside the door (it’s a smaller border crossing office) and a really pleasant Border Guard says “I’ll be right with you”. AND YES, I SAID A PLEASANT BORDER GUARD.

So in a minute, he comes back and I walk up to the counter. He’s got amazing energy. He ‘feels’ quite happy and is smiling and just simply pleasant. I’ve never gotten such a warm reception from a border guard. I won’t mention the crossing I was at, or precisely when because I don’t want to get anyone in trouble. I think the guards are trained to be intimidating rather than friendly.

So I told him what I do, psychic readings, and that me and my hubby have a concrete cutting company. Then I sat down for my wait. Partway through my wait, he asked me what I charged. I said “$250 for a full hour, but there are variations”.

After about 35 more minutes he handed me my keys and passport and said I could go. I told him that if he was intrigued by the ‘psychic’ thing that I had a website. He said “I know” and pointed to his computer. He had googled me while I was waiting.

While checking on me he had called the friend I was meeting to confirm that we were just having lunch and that I wasn’t working while in the US. So she knew I would be late. While waiting for me, she had the opportunity to read part of a good book which she doesn’t get to do very often with young children.

So back to my point about, “Why change it”. Being stopped at the border was actually a very pleasant experience for me that day. As a matter of fact, dealing with the fellow I dealt with there was probably the highlight of my day. You know how just interacting with someone who is pleasant and has good energy can be uplifting and help you be in a better mood.

Also, I got the impression he was quite interested in the whole “Psychic Medium” thing. Who knows what he got out of our meeting. Maybe he read parts of my blog and it helped him in some way. Maybe he or someone in his family will end up requiring the services of a medium in the future and I will be able to help them.

The thing is, we don’t always know what the Universe has in store. Everything is a matter of perspective. When I got the message that I would be stopped at the border, if I had had the perspective that it was a negative thing I could have either changed it or turned it into a negative thing.

In my case, I consciously thought “Thanks for letting me know, it’s no big deal, I’ll just arrive at my destination later”. By doing that and just going with the flow, I ended up having a great day, my friend got in some much-needed reading time, I got a good example to share with you in a blog post, and who knows what else changed just because of one little stop.

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