What is more important; “Working” at Clearing Limiting Beliefs OR Practicing Awareness?

How important is it to know what your subconscious limiting beliefs are?

I have written about belief systems before.  Your conscious beliefs, and your subconscious beliefs.  We all have them engrained within our minds.

I would like to start by explaining in very simple terms the four main states of consciousness.

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What are the States of Consciousness?

Beta.  When you are in the beta state you are alert and wide awake.  You can concentrate.  Your brain makes connections quickly and can do work that requires attention.  Neurons fire quickly, and it is easier to come up with ideas and solutions to problems.  (Beta training biofeedback is sometimes used to treat ADD).

Alpha.  In alpha state, you are relaxed, can visualize and is the best state for creativity.  Alpha is much more relaxed than Beta.  Brain activity is more like waves than rapid fire.  In this state you can expand your awareness and you may experience feelings of peace.  You are less fearful, and much more relaxed, your heart rate and breathing will slow down.  This is a good place for visualizing what you want to create in your life.   Going into the alpha state ‘on purpose’ will help to alleviate stress.

Theta.  The theta state is the state you are in when you mediate.  It creates memories and it is where intuition comes from.

In theta you are very relaxed.  Your brain activity is almost like that of sleep, but not quite.  Theta can bring up old memories that you had forgotten, it makes you more receptive, you are able to get more inspiration and inner images in your mind’s eye.  In theta state you may feel like you are floating, or like your mind is expanding outside of your body.  The deepest levels of meditation get you in a theta state, as does self hypnosis.

Theta is the best state for re-programming your mind, recalling dreams and learning things quickly.


Delta.  In delta, you are in a state of detached awareness.  This is where healing can occur and is also where sleep is.

Delta is the slowest of all the brain wave frequencies.   It is associated with deep sleep.  Some frequencies in delta release HGH (Human Growth Hormone), so it assists with regeneration and healing.  That is why our bodies need to rest when ill.

Our subconscious resides in delta.  Intuition also rises from the delta state.

Where do most of our belief systems come from?

Children are in theta state for the most part until they are around 7-8 years old.  Theta is the place in which our minds are programmed.  For most of us, the beliefs we hold, (even if subconsciously), were created in a time that we do not even remember.

Your beliefs around personal safety and security, money, health, aging, work, and how the world operates in general were mostly programmed into you before you were 10 years old.  They are often subconscious and you may not even know you are thinking them.  These come from your parents, your family, your tribe, your city, your surroundings and your experiences.

You can also pick up belief systems as you go through life based on your experiences.  If you allow yourself to be bombarded with TV or Radio programs that instill an idea into your mind, you are being programmed.  Think of magazines and television that shows girls unrealistic expectations of what it is ‘normal’ to look like; or of “reality” TV (Survivor, Big Brother) that shows people pitted against one another, or shows that have humans fighting over resources when the ‘modern world’ ceases to be (The Hundred, The Walking Dead etc.).  Or the news that shows how uncontrolled things are and propagates war and distrust against other countries.

You can pick up belief systems from someone in your life that introduces you to a new concept.  They tell you about it and you have no other experience with it.  They essentially tell you their truth, you accept it as your truth, and the Law of Attraction brings it to you.  This can be a positive or negative experience depending on their truth.  Be discerning; are they happy?  Are they miserable?  If they are miserable, do your own research on the subject before their beliefs become your beliefs.

You may have had a relationship where you were not valued, or worse yet were physically or psychologically abused.  You may have been told things over and over that eroded your self-confidence.  This can also shape beliefs of worthiness moving into the future.

All these things help to shape your belief systems.  I do have some good news though.

What is more important; “Working” at Clearing Limiting Beliefs OR Practicing Awareness

Most of you worry about which of your belief systems are ‘holding you back’ in your life.  You practice the Law of Attraction; you have at least a basic knowledge of how energy works; you logically believe that we create your own reality, but you still feel like you are held back.

You may do some energy work to figure out what these belief systems are.  You may work on clearing subconscious negative beliefs with Psych-K, or theta healing, or one of a hundred other healing modalities.

Now for the coolest thing ever.

What if you just practiced awareness instead?

What if you know that thoughts are energy, intention is everything, and energy creates.  What if you wake up one day and realize that by focusing on your upbringing or your life up to this point, and on trying to ‘figure out’ what your subconscious beliefs are you are actually thinking and vibrating your limiting beliefs?  The more you focus your attention on your limiting subconscious beliefs, the more they show up for you.

What if you simply allowed yourself to be aware of what thoughts you are having?  If you are aware of your thoughts, you will know what your beliefs are.  You will know if your beliefs are “limiting” beliefs or beliefs that help you based on how you are feeling when you are ‘talking to yourself’.   If you find yourself feeling a certain way that is uncomfortable (anger, discouragement, ‘I can’t’  etc.), then pay attention to that.  Why is it uncomfortable?  It is a given, 100%, that it is a thought you are having that is causing the discomfort.

Now you need to look at that thought and ask yourself if it is true for you now.

You too often go through your day on auto pilot.  You don’t know what your subconscious beliefs are because you let your subconscious rule your life while you are focusing on a different moment in time.

There is NOTHING more liberating that being in your moment and being AWARE of what thoughts are running through your head.  When you are aware of them, you can challenge them by asking if it is true in this moment.  That will lead you to become aware of what you have been vibrating and attracting more of, and it will also lead you be able to think different thoughts.

Your feelings are your guide.  Your feelings will tell you if your belief is true for you or not.  You can be programmed a certain way, but you can just as easily de-program yourself by being aware of what you are thinking and feeling.  You were programmed because you were told something at some point, you believed it, so it showed up for you that way.  The more it showed up, the more you believed it.  Now it is an ingrained belief.

All you need to do is practice awareness of what you are thinking and change what is not serving you.  Even you that are reading this that are logical thinkers can do this.  You understand the ‘concept’ of energy and the Law of Attraction.  So if you take the next step, this will work for you.


How do I challenge a belief/reoccurring thought/creation pattern


You were raised to parents that had very limiting beliefs around money.  You constantly heard:

  •  the little guy never gets ahead
  • the ‘people at the top’/government are all corrupt and will just screw you over, take your money, you will never get anywhere because the world is just like that.  The people who have lots of money are evil and do harm to others.
  • you may as well spend all your money and run up your credit and have some fun, because you will never get ahead anyway, life won’t be worth living if you don’t
  • just get a union job in the mine (or at the manufacturing plant, or wherever) and work there your whole life, it is the only security you will ever have

Because you have these ‘subconscious’ thoughts in your head, they pop up at the most inopportune moments.  When you are thinking of saving up for something, your beliefs keep you from doing it, you spend instead.   You were never exposed to the concept of having money work for you.

When you are thinking of doing work that is ‘outside the box’ your subconscious tells you that you shouldn’t do that, its not safe unless you have a ‘good job’ that will provide money for you.

Even if you manage to get a job outside the box or start your own business, if you have been programmed with negative beliefs you will sabotage yourself.  If you have a belief that successful people with money at the top of their field are evil, you will constantly do things subconsciously that hold you back from success.

At every turn your subconscious is running your life.  But if you were to practice being aware of these thoughts, you could challenge them, and make them disappear.  Essentially, clearing them out.

So you think of following your heart and intuition and getting a job you love.  Your subconscious plays all these programs for you, its not safe, if you do well you are evil, you will never get ahead etc.  What if you were to say to yourself “is this true?”  Then what if you could look online and find dozens (or thousands or millions) of examples that prove to you that its not true.  Then what if you could practice having different thoughts?

Now that you know what they are they do not need to have power over you anymore.  If thinking differently causes you anxiety, you could do some EFT Tapping to relieve the anxiety so you can forge ahead with your plans.

Remember you have had years, or a lifetime of proof that your beliefs are true ~ simply because the Law of Attraction works and you have attracted examples for yourself that support your beliefs.

The trick is to replace the beliefs with new ones, NOT to keep looking for more limiting beliefs, and NOT fighting the ones you have.  Its all about creating new belief systems for yourself.

Give it a try and see just how easily it can work once you go with it.


If you are very confused about where you are vibrating, or would like some additional help with clearing your energy, or figuring things out, please feel free to contact me for a psychic reading, or life/energy coaching.





Will I Win The Lottery?

I know many people that are absolutely convinced that they are going to win the lottery.  That is their entire life plan.  Win the lottery and then everything will be okay.

They have watched The Secret, and they think they have learned all there is to know about the law of attraction.  They study, they read, they watch videos, read my blog, and they think that if they put it on a vision board the lotto win is pretty much theirs.

The thing is, I am pretty sure that the odds of the 5 people closest to me ALL winning the lotto are pretty slim.  They all feel it coming though.  Every one of them says “I feel it, I am going to win the lottery”.

This is a feeling.  What if it’s not that they are going to win the lottery, but that they truly believe they will feel better – later.  They think winning the lottery will make them feel better.  What if it’s not the lottery, but that our financial system is going to go to crap and everything will melt down and all this financial stuff won’t matter later?  Same feeling as winning the lottery.

What is in the energy field of people who think they will win the lottery

They know the “Law of Attraction” is what gets them what they want.  They think that if they just keep focusing on the lottery and buying tickets they will win eventually.

The reason they are less likely to win the lottery is because they limit themselves to thinking that that is the ONLY way they can get ahead, get what they want, or dig out of debt, or out of their current situation.  In thinking about the lotto every day, they totally limit every other source of abundance from coming to them. They shut down inspiration, that connection with their higher self, their ability to create.

There could be a lot of money just waiting to come to them, but they won’t take action towards it because they are so depressed about their current situation they talk themselves into the fact that only a lotto can get them out of this mess (this mess that they created).  When they have an inspired idea, they push it aside because they ‘can’t afford it’ ~ at least not until they win the lottery.

If you spend $10 a week on lotto because that is the only way you can see yourself succeeding in life you are essentially taking $520 per year out of your pocket (savings, investments, debt reduction), and blowing it.

You will not win the lottery if you keep thinking that that is the ONLY way.  It is the energy behind it.  What if there is an investment, job or business opportunity that is staring you right in the face and you decide that you cannot do it unless you win the lotto.  You really want it, but you’ve convinced yourself that you will win the lotto; you are well versed on the LoA and just know that if you win the lotto THEN you can do what you are thinking of.  If you don’t win the lotto, you won’t ever be able to fulfill your dreams.

This is the most limiting thought anyone can have, and it is sad.

I swear that “the people at the top”, put the movie “The Secret” out there just to keep people from taking any action in their lives.  “Hey, let’s tell them that all they have to do is create a vision board and they will have everything they want.  They don’t have to work, they don’t have to strive or try, just imagine.  Most people will buy into this in a heartbeat, no one wants to think they have to work.   Our world is changing and energy and creating is getting easier for all of us.  They intuitively know that energy can help them, let’s put it out (in a movie) in such a way that they actually get this new earth energy working AGAINST them.  Then they will stay disempowered, say energy doesn’t work, it’s all BS, and be even more screwed up then they were before.”

What a perfect plan.  That will keep them (you) in line.


How to let the Law of Attraction work in your favour:

Don’t limit yourself to ‘winning the lottery’ to get where you want to be.  Do be open to the fact that there are bazillions of ways for money to come to you.  Most of them aren’t even on your radar.  Focusing only on the lottery creates an energy of lack and of not believing there could be another way.

When you have an idea of what you want your life to look like later, what you are striving to have, DON’T tell yourself, “I can’t do that until I have the money, I will need to win the lottery to make this happen”.

When you are inspired to do something positive, do it.  If you need to wait for funds before you do it, then feel good about what you want to do, and say something like “I don’t know how, but this is a really good idea, so I will do what I can to start getting it going”.  This may involve researching what it is, or completing something else, or just cleaning up some aspect of your life as it is now (see below).  Or even working with someone like me, or an energy healer that can help you move past your limiting beliefs.

If you are overrun with debt, don’t say “I know I owe money, it’s too much, it’s always there, I’ll never pay it off unless I win the lottery anyway so screw it, there’s no sense in trying.  I may as well have something for myself now.”  Instead of saying that, say.  “I have a lot of debt, I lived beyond my means (if you didn’t you wouldn’t owe anything).  I am going to pay this off no matter what.  I don’t know how, but I WILL pay it back”.  And then DO IT.  Even if it is $10 at a time, PAY IT BACK.  You borrowed, you spent, pay it back.  If your debt is what is holding you back from being able to invest in other things (like yourself), you need to make paying back your debt a priority.

The Law of Attraction WILL bring you what you feel.  If you truly feel that winning the lotto is the only way to go, you will shut down any road to money that is NOT the lottery.  If your energy is on “I don’t know how, but I will do it”, then what you want can flow to you because you are not dictating EXACTLY what it is supposed to look like, you are not shutting down the other avenues that could potentially be available to you.

How to Get What You Want

  • Celebrate the little things.  The more you celebrate the little things and realize how little things can add up, the more flow you allow in your energy.  It is called gratitude.  Gratitude will get you a LOT more than entitlement ever will.
  • If you buy coffee at Starbucks you could say, its only $5 per day.  Well that is $1800 per year.  If you want/need money, have dreams, want to “Manifest” better things;  then saving $1800 per year will get you closer.  The energy of saving (or paying back) $1800 is much different than the energy of “I work hard, I’m entitled to nice coffee every day”.
  • You think you need to win the lotto, but what if you had an idea, job, investment, or whatever that paid you $300/day.  Even if it only paid you $300 day on weekdays for 10 months of the year, that would be $90,000.
  • I see a lot of you that make $300 (over any timeframe, day, week, fortnight) and say “that’s not enough, I need to win the lottery”.  Right there BAM, you shut down any opportunity you have to make your next $300.  “It’s only $300, I want/need more, its not enough.”  Are you grateful for the $300 (enabling more flow to you), or are you entitled to more?
  • The LoA works.  If you use it to your ADVANTAGE, you would say “Wow, I just made $300!  That’s fantastic, lets do it again!”  Then you would let go of any expectations you have and feel really good about the $300 you made.  LoA would bring you more of that feeling ~ whether it comes in $2, $20, $200, or $2million, increments.  It won’t even matter to you, because you will know there’s always more and it’s on its way.   You will have that feeling no matter the amount.
  • Don’t mistake this with “Oh, I will spend my rent money on a nice dinner date, there’s more on the way”.  That will NOT create the energy you are looking for.  It will do the exact opposite if you have been the least bit worried about your rent or debt.  What it does in that case, is you get the money, you spend it on a want instead of a need (because you have a subconscious belief that you never get what you want anyway), and your needs still aren’t met.  You have just “proven” to yourself that the Law of Attraction DOESN’T work, because you are still worried about paying rent ~ and that worry energy will shut down more flow.

If you truly believed that the Law of Attraction could work FOR you instead of AGAINST you all the time, you would take care of what you NEED to take care of, KNOWING that your wants will come.  It’s just that most of you spend on your wants instead of needs and it perpetuates this never ending circle of ‘I can’t get ahead unless I win the lottery”.

Its Not Your Fault

I swear these are the most disempowering words in the English Language.  Its not your fault.  So many of you yearn to hear those words.  So many of you use those words when you talk to yourself.

“Its not my fault”

Its not my fault the Law of Attraction doesn’t work.  I can manifest small things, but not big things so the LoA must not work.  I can manifest some things quickly, but not others.  Its not my fault the Law of Attraction only works some of the time.  I can manifest bad things almost instantly, but the good things take forever to show up, if they bother to show up at all.

I have some good news and some bad news.  The Law of Attraction does work, and if it is not working in the way you would like it to, it is because you have some subconscious beliefs engrained in your energy.

That’s it.  That is the good news and the bad news all in one sentence.  How good or how bad it is depends on how you look at it.

I was having a discussion with a healer friend of mine last night and we were talking about our own manifestations in our lives.  We were talking about all the positive things we were in the process of manifesting.  We also talked about the seemingly ‘negative’, or more aptly put challenging things that we were going through.

The only difference between me and her and the rest of you, is that her and I both take 100% responsibility for what happens in our lives.  We know we created it, we take credit for the good and the bad.  When it is something ‘bad’ (uncomfortable), we both immediately ask ourselves the question, “Why is this happening, why did I create this for myself?  What do I need to be aware of?  Where in my life does something need to change and why?”

No blame of others, no blaming of ourselves, just questions that brings awareness.

You cannot fix what you don’t acknowledge.  The minute you say, this is not my fault, I am doing everything right, I have no limiting subconscious beliefs, the Law of Attraction isn’t real, or something outside of me sucks, is the moment you give your power away and you start down the road of getting the ‘same old same old’.  Nothing in your life can change.

This is your choice.  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  It doesn’t have to stay that way.


How do I start to clear subconscious blocks

Stop blaming energy for acting like energy.

Acknowledge that maybe there is something going on that you are not aware of.

All it takes is a whole bunch of self-awareness (it takes more than ‘a little’ self awareness, most of you reading this have some self awareness).  The willingness to acknowledge that maybe your subconscious mind is tricking you and is in fact in control of your life.

If you had no subconscious blocks you would have what you want or at least know exactly why you didn’t have it.  You would be able to see with your conscious mind exactly what was holding you back.

There are many modalities that can help you recognize and clear your blocks.  Psych-K is one of them, the Millennium Method is another, a psychic reading with me can help you recognize and clear your blocks, Akashic Records readings can sometimes help.

You can get good at meditation and listen to your own Higher Self when it (*you), tells you what subject matter you need to work on.  That is how I usually do it, (that or the Millennium Method) but I realize most of you are not interested in spending the time it takes to make this effective (that is why you hire others as mentioned in the previous paragraph to help you).

There are a lot of ways that you can find healing for yourself; but none of them will work if you don’t first acknowledge that you are responsible for your life, and if you want things to work out the way you hope they will, you will have to change something.

Stop saying “its not my fault, I think positive but things just never work out, these people who talk about the Law of Attraction are lying”.  Start saying, “Wow, I have studied the Law of Attraction and I think I know how it works but I keep attracting things I don’t want, maybe I have a limiting belief that I need to acknowledge and clear”.

Then get to work and clear it.


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Do You Do What You Say You Are Going to Do?

Do you make commitments?  Do you keep your commitments?

Vibrationally speaking, it is important that you do what you say you are going to do.

When you break your commitments, you are energetically connecting with a specific morphic energy field.  It is not one of the morphic fields you want to connect your energy to if you want to be successful.  Once you start breaking commitments and connect to that energy, it gets way too easy to continue breaking commitments.  Then one after another after another get broken.  The Law of Attraction will work perfectly for you in this instance, to your detriment, but it will work.

On February 2nd, I committed to write a blog post a day for 21 days ~ again.  I committed to write a blog post a day for 21 Days at the end of December as well.   Just for kicks, I ended up writing a blog post each day in between those two commitments too, so I am on day 43 now. I wasn’t sure I could do it.  After all, if you look back at my blog over the years my blogging was pretty sporadic.


Originally the main reason I kept it up is because I do what I say I am going do.  I had a pretty busy work day today.  I wasn’t sure if I would even have time to do this blog post.  I’ve got other things on my mind, my son needs to use my computer for his schoolwork (don’t know what’s wrong with his, he prefers to use mine though).  BUT, I said I would do it, I made the commitment to do a post every day and so I am.

I suppose that something ‘big’ could happen and I might not be able to write a post, but it would have to be something pretty big for me to break a commitment.  I don’t want to get sucked into that morphic field (basically of breaking promises).  That field exists and that is the other “main reason” I won’t break my commitments.

Another reason I am keeping up with my writing though is that The Law of Attraction does work and I am using it to my advantage.  I am finding that the more I write and share, the more I have to write and share about.  It works that way.  Thoughts are things and thoughts create.  And as I think about writing, teaching, sharing, channeling, I attract more things to write about.

If I had thought “I don’t think I have time to write today, I don’t know what to write about, I might have to skip today, I don’t want to do a lame blog post…”  etc. etc.  then I probably would have come up with an excuse not to do it.  Excuses are great for getting you sucked into an unproductive morphic field.

Instead, my repetitive thoughts go something like this, “I said I would do it, I have to do it, I will do it, if I sit at my computer something will start flowing through me that I can share, I will just do it.  I think I will get started and do it now, then it will be done.”

Voila!  Here we are.

Do What You Say You Are Going to Do

Do What You Say You Are Going to Do

Something else I have to share…….

I wrote this whole blog post out, even with my time constraints, and LOST IT.  The whole thing except for the very beginning of it!   This is my second time writing this post.  The first time, even though I save my posts every minute or two, it freakin disappeared on me!

I cannot remember exactly what the original of the post said verbatim, but I did have a paragraph in there saying that perhaps being in the hospital, or my computer breaking or some other emergency might keep me from writing today could come up, but that I have a thing about the energy of keeping my commitments so it would take something HUGE to keep me from writing a blog post and sharing with you.

Then BAM!!!  The whole thing was gone!  All that time and me being strapped for time, and IT WAS GONE!  I had to re-write!

Good thing I made that commitment and that I know how energy works, or I’d have given up after that.

Now that you also know how the energy works, are you going to be doing anything differently in your life to ensure that you stay ‘on a roll’ in the direction that you would like to see your life go?


Are You Successful Yet?

This could be a pretty loaded question.  Everyone seems to have different definitions of success and some people feel successful while others look at them and think they aren’t the least bit successful.  Then you have the people who feel like a failure, when someone might look at them and think they are successful.

The dictionary defines success as:  the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

Why do some people appear more successful than others?  It totally depends on what type of ‘glasses’ you are looking through.

If you value money and you see someone with a lot of money, you will automatically label them as ‘successful’.  Even if the rest of their life is falling apart.

If you value relationships and are not in a relationship you may see yourself as ‘unsuccessful’, even if you are financially ‘rich’.

If you think the only people that are successful are ones that have careers that were bought and paid for with years of University training, then anything less than a PHD will scream ‘unsuccessful’ at you.

Every single one of you that is reading this is successful at something.  But that begs the question…


How do you become MORE successful in your life?

1.  You need to define what is really important to you in your life.

2.  You need to do something every single day that takes you in the direction of what you deem to be success.

3.  You need to make some rules that you set up so that you are consistently winning ~ you win at something every day.

4.  You need to build on previous successes (if you do step #3, this will be easier).

5.  You will need to come to the realization that no matter how ‘successful’ you get, you will ALWAYS want something more, and this is okay.


Celebrate your success every day!

Even if you are not feeling particularly successful today, find something that you did well.  Are you a good parent?  Did you hug your dog?  Did you listen to a friend and help them feel better?  If you are unemployed and want a job, did you look for work?  If you want to be healthier, did you go for a little walk, or eat healthy?  If its a relationship you are after, did you do something to help you feel better about YOU?

No matter what your day looks like, there will be at least one thing you did that you could call a ‘success’.  You may have to look for it, but its there.  The more you think about it the more likely you are to do something you can call ‘successful’.

Law of Attraction works.  The more successes you can count in your day the more you will do to bring more success.  If you are constantly telling yourself you are a failure, you will continually be doing things that re-affirm that for you.  If you set it up so you are a success in something every day, you will feel and be successful.

Are Your ‘Hopes and Dreams’ Congruent with Your Actions?

We are creators and we are attractors.  The Law of Attraction is real.  What we think about and focus on is what we create.  These are FACTS.

So what do I mean when I ask you if your hopes and dreams are congruent?  Is what you intend to happen really going to happen?

I have a few examples that I would like to give you, and you can decide for yourself if what you think you want is actually what you working towards, or if you are blocking yourself with actions or belief systems that will get you exactly what you don’t want.

Manifest your Dreams

Special Relationships, with Spouse or BF/GF

So, you want a good relationship.  One where you have someone who is respectable like you are.  Has similar values, even if they like different activities than you.  Someone who you can talk to, that respects you and that has as much love to give you as you have to give them.

At the moment you are trying to ‘manifest’ that your current relationship improve.  You live with a drug addict, but just know that if you treat them right and you keep working on ‘manifesting’ the perfect relationship, they will get help and stop using.

You cannot change or ‘manifest’ for other people.  What is likely to happen in this situation is that your current relationship will get worse and worse until one of you can’t take it anymore and the relationship ends.

This will free you up to have the type of relationship that you were imagining (see the first paragraph of this section).

If you pine over the lost relationship you are essentially blocking anything new coming in.  If you do not allow yourself to heal from the lost relationship, you are blocking anything new.

The harder you try to hang onto the current (unhappy) relationship, the less congruent your thoughts and actions are and the longer it will take to finally manifest the relationship of your dreams.


So you would like to ‘manifest’ having your debt paid off and having money in the bank.  Seems doable enough, just work hard.

Yes, that can work and often does.  But your actions need to be congruent with what you want.  If you keep spending money on ‘wants’ you will most likely never get your debt paid off.  Especially if it is credit card debt.  If you have credit card debt, pretty much every single penny you spend is spent on credit.  Every penny!

So, when you go out shopping, or start to focus on things you want and then spend money on them, your thoughts are not congruent with paying off your debt.

This isn’t to say that you NEVER spend anything ever on a want.  It means to be AWARE that if you spend that $5 on coffee, or that $100 on an outing, it is ADDING TO YOUR DEBT.  Anything that keeps you paying interest on a credit card, and not paying off the balance of what you owe, is the opposite of what you say you want to manifest.

It is not ‘what you want’ that isn’t manifesting here.  It is that your actions are different than what you say you want.



There are a couple of different scenarios here depending on whether you are working for someone else, or self employed so I will cover them both.

You are working for someone and you hate your job or want more money.  Or you really want to move up or do more, use more skills, but haven’t been able to.  You keep thinking about it, every day, but you don’t seem to ever make the time to look for more or apply for something else.  You just keep imagining what it would be like to be doing something else.  You are hoping for a head-hunter to find you or for the “job-fairy” to tap you with his magic wand and put you into your dream job.

Then you lose your job.  You think you have been trying to manifest a better job and suddenly you don’t even have one!  WTH!  Well, you manifested that.  Now you have to go out and look for a different job.  What you make of the situation will be up to you.

At this point many people will just feel sorry for themselves, feel desperate and only look at the same type of job they just left.  It is okay to take a job at this point to take care of your immediate needs, IF you ALSO (at the same time) apply for the type of job you would really want to do ~ your dream job.

You will fare much better if you just take responsibility for your creation, realize you must be a pretty powerful manifester to have done that for yourself, and keep focusing on the type of job you want.  Apply for the types of job you want.  You have already proven you can manifest in a big way, ride that wave and apply for jobs out of your comfort zone.

Self Employed

Okay, so you are self employed and are doing ‘okay’.  There are a couple of scenarios here.

1.  You start to feel successful and you are pretty busy so you STOP doing all the things that got you to that point.  Advertising, visualizing, schmoozing, talking to people; the list goes on ~ just think of what you did to get busy.

Then you stop it.  Work gets slower and slower and you wonder why.  It is because you STOPPED doing all the things that made you a success to begin with!  You ‘manifested’ your success with your actions, now you’ve stopped your actions, what do you expect to ‘manifest’ next?

2.  You get tired of what you are doing and decide that maybe you want to do something new.  You put all of your focus on being done with what you were doing and work slows down immediately and just to your liking.  You think, “Hey, I’m a powerful manifester and my work dried up, I don’t have to do that crap anymore unless I feel like it”.

Then you run out of money and realize that maybe you need to keep doing what you were doing before and come up with an exit strategy for your business instead.

Its not that you hated your job, you just needed a break.  Most of your clients were nice, and the cheques when they came were pretty awesome after all.

You have proven to yourself that you are a great manifester and you know that 90% of manifesting is your thoughts, feelings and attitude, so even though you are kind of broke you start reading inspiring books (or even my blog) to learn how to manifest even better.  You know you can do it, if you just focus and feel good, your phone will start ringing again.  You have your client base and some work will come.

Here’s the thing with that;  your ACTIONS are not congruent with what you want.  When you first started your business, you did all kinds of things to build it (see #1 above).  If you are not DOING, something, then nothing can happen for you.  Visualizing and ‘trying to manifest’ won’t work if you are not taking inspired action.

So, are your actions congruent with what you want?  Take a good look at what you want and then take a good look at your life.  If they don’t match up then it may be time to take a really close look at what you are doing or not doing.  Are you making conscious decisions or are you just ‘hoping’ that things will be better one day if you think about it long enough.

If you would like some help with moving in any direction in your life a psychic reading can help.  You can contact me here.

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Conciously Create Through Awareness

You are the Creator of your life experiences.  Create Consciously.

You are the Creator of your life experiences. Create Consciously.

Look within to create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction is real.  It isn’t often taught in the right way, but it does exist.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.  What we think about is what we attract and create.  What we focus on we create.  We ARE creators, we are creating our lives every minute of every day.  No exceptions.

The big difference between those of you who get what you want, and those of you that don’t, is all in how conscious you are of your creations.  You can choose to create consciously, or unconsciously.  And YES, it is a choice.

It is actually very simple, but most of you cannot be bothered to consciously create.  You think it is easier to blame fate, or the economy, or any person or circumstance other than yourself.   I am NOT suggesting you blame yourself.  I am suggesting you take responsibility for what you have created thus far.  The minute you take responsibility for your creations is the minute you take back your power.

By blaming you are essentially saying to yourself “I cannot create my life, everything that has happened or is happening, is the result of something outside of me”.

Did you know that over 90% of the thoughts you will have today are the same thoughts you had yesterday, and the same thoughts you will have tomorrow?   That is a LOT of thoughts, and a lot of creation.  The problem occurs when you are thinking these thoughts and going through your day on auto-pilot.  You may wake up to your alarm and think “I don’t feel like getting out of bed, I’m so tired, I wish I could go back to sleep”.  That is a thought that is beginning to create your day for you.

You may start getting ready to go to work and think “I hate my job, my boss is such an ass.  These customers all think that the whole world revolves around them and they can be so unkind”.  More creation on your part.

You are driving along, and traffic is bad, or you see someone speeding or cutting someone off (or you are the one speeding through traffic and are thinking about how slow everyone else is), as you are having those thoughts, you are creating.  Creating more of the same traffic woes.

You get off work, think of the day you had and wonder “Will I ever get rid of this debt that I am working to pay off?  I work and work and still have debt, this is BS, I want to be debt free”.  You think you are focusing on being debt free, but really, you are still focusing on your debt, and, you guessed it, CREATING MORE DEBT!

If you want your life to be different, you have to do something different.  In order to do something different, you have to start thinking something different.


Is to start being aware!!!  Get yourself off of Auto Pilot!!
As long as you keep allowing your brain to rehash the same thoughts, to allow your subconscious mind to create for you, your life will just stay the same.  I guarantee it.

You must live in your present moment.  You must become aware of your thoughts.  When you find yourself on auto-pilot, bring your energy back into your body and your present moment.  Remind yourself that you are creating your life with your thoughts.

The first day you try this, you will probably do it for a couple of minutes, then wind up back on auto-pilot.  Then a few hours later, you might remember that you were supposed to be aware and you might be able to live in your moment for a few more minutes.

Here is the good news.  If you can manage to do this even for a part of your day, or for a few minutes a few times a day, you will find that it will get easier as time goes on.  Just as most of the thoughts you have today, you will have tomorrow, as you practice awareness today it will be easier to do tomorrow.  If you are diligent with it, you will find that within a month, you will be much more aware of most of your thoughts.

Then as things happen in your life, you will be able to see exactly how they were created.  How YOU created them.  Take credit for the good you start to see in your life.  As you become more aware, you will find that synchronicities and coincidences happen more and more.  You will find yourself saying “I was just thinking of that, and there it is!”  Good, bad or indifferent, you will see how your present moment was created with a thought.  Thoughts are things, they are energy, energy creates.

You Can Feel It – Energy Alert – August 2014

It’s time to move.  So many of you feel the urge, the pull, the desire to change something.  Anything.  The NEED to change your life or move forward, and you are terrified!

The energies of the moment are pushing you to start moving.  Sometimes the energy feels like a power surge, and you MUST DO SOMETHING!  Sometimes it is a little more subtle and you just feel an inkling that maybe you should expand in some area of your life.

Get used to this feeling, it is going to prevail for the next little while.  Some days it will be stronger than others.  The thing is YOU HAVE TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO HAVE MOVEMENT.

You will never get what you want if you don’t go for it.  You are being pulled to get out of your comfort zones.  Change will not happen gracefully if you try to stay where you are.  I am talking to so many people right now that feel disempowered.  Are you kidding me!  We are in one of the most POWERFUL times that we will see in our lifetimes!
The reason you are feeling so disempowered is because you are relying on people and things outside of yourself.

You are afraid to move on and out of your comfort zone.  Even if you are in a relationship that is uncomfortable (personal or professional), you are not letting yourself move out of your comfort zone.  THAT IS WHERE YOUR DISCOMFORT IS COMING FROM.  Your Soul is trying so hard to grow and to move forward and you are not letting it happen.  You have to move out of your comfort zone.

No one else has control over you or any aspect of your life unless you let them – NO EXCEPTIONS.  I have talked to 3 people just this week who have had relationships either come to an end or change drastically.  Some of them are terrified.  How can I do it on my own?  Or worse yet, “I can’t do it on my own”.  Yes you can.
Sometimes you even think “But they have all the control”.  No they don’t.  They may have control over themselves, but they do not have control over you unless you flat out give it to them.

When you tell yourself you cannot do something, you cannot do it.  When you tell yourself “I can do this, I don’t know how, but I can do it,  I can do it by and for myself”, then you can do it.  When you say those words to yourself, you take back some of your power.  You start to feel a little bit better.  Your intuition starts to come back.  Your guides are better able to talk to you.  You begin to realize that all those recurring thoughts are really insights into what your next step should be.  You stop talking yourself out of stuff and start to get inspired to take little actions.  Sometimes you take big actions.  Either way, you MUST get out of your comfort zone.  ESPECIALLY if your “Comfort Zone” is “Uncomfortable”.

Say to yourself, I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.

The energies of the Universe are pushing you to go!  Don’t let yourself stay stuck in whatever space you feel you are stuck in.  You have a lifeline from the Universe – grab hold and take it!

Even if you cannot change everything right this minute, you MUST change something.  Remember, the Law of Attraction brings you more of what you are experiencing now.  The subject does not matter so much as the feeling.

If you are feeling powerless in a relationship or a job, you will create more opportunities to feel powerless.  It could show up as a car accident, illness, something going wrong with your home and you needing to put out money you do not have to fix it… the subject is not as important as the feeling …. All these things make you feel powerless, it is not an accident that they showed up in your life.  Like energy attracts like energy.

It works the other way too.  Let’s say you are in a relationship or a work situation that you feel powerless in.  If you can say to yourself what I wrote above, (and I will write it again here because it is important)  “I will trust the process, I will get out of my comfort zone, I will let go and let God, and trust that any movement I make will work out for my Highest and Best Good.”  You will feel empowered.  If you can say that, and FEEL it, you will feel more empowered than you do now.  As soon as you take back a little bit of your power, and start to allow yourself to feel that power things will begin to improve.  IT IS LAW.

You may not be able to quit your job right now, but you could start looking for something else.  Or more likely, once you allow yourself to feel that powerfulness that is in you, you will be INSPIRED to take an action. It will actually FEEL GOOD.  You will be hard pressed to NOT take it because it feels so good.  All you did was allow yourself to feel a little bit more power and you felt immediately better.  Things and people will show up for you that make you start to think “I can do this”.  The Law of Attraction will bring more things to you that have that same feeling.  Maybe someone at work will surprise you and change their attitude, maybe someone that you feel has never valued you will say some words of appreciation, maybe you will come across a job posting that looks just perfect for you (you may not get that job, but it may inspire you to realize that there are other things out there).  No matter the circumstance, or what it looks like ‘exactly’, the feelings will be the same, and empowered feelings will assist you in moving forward and will via LoA attract more of the same feelings.

If it’s a relationship, you need to remember you cannot control other people, but you can change your thoughts and your actions.  Instead of thinking “I am stuck in this house, with this person, in this state”, replace it with “What can I do right now to feel more empowered and feel better?”.  The answer might be to pull your energy back from that person a little bit and put the focus back on yourself.  The answer might be to get a job so that you will have money.  Once you bring it back to you, and realize that you have power over yourself and your feelings, you will feel better.
Sometimes people are afraid to feel powerful in a relationship if they are unhappy in it because they think if they were to have their own money, or power, then they would leave their spouse and that would certainly bring them out of their comfort zone.  Sometimes that does happen, BUT sometimes the relationship just changes.  The thing is, you will not know unless and until you focus on yourself.

If you are uncomfortable or worse yet, miserable, now, what have you got to lose?


If You are Feeling Financial Pressure You HAVE to Read This!

I know way too many of you that are feeling financial pressure and are “trying” to work with the Law of Attraction and you keep telling me “It doesn’t work”. It is hard for me to see and feel things so clearly and know that you don’t get it. I am going to write this post and try to help to make it more clear for you so that you can begin to see it work in your life.

Things that you do when you are trying to use the Law of Attraction and you think it’s not working for you.

• You talk all about spending money ALL THE TIME.
• You don’t talk about or dream about NOT spending. You don’t talk and dream about SAVING money, or paying back the people or institutions you owe.
• You constantly and consistently talk about spending and what you want but don’t have.
• You don’t say “I have DEBT and I need to work my ass off to pay it off BEFORE I spend anything else”
• You say “I have to be able to have SOMETHING for myself for all this hard work I do”. (Chances are if you are reading this you do have some things for yourself, either a computer or smart phone for one).
• You chase opportunities with your money. Whether it’s an MLM, or a training program, or a “work at home” scheme, you are always looking for the “next big money maker”, without picking one thing at a time and putting your focus on it. You waste hundreds, or thousands per year that you do not have, to “chase” money. If you do this, you are doing it from a place of knowing you don’t have money and vibrating in a place of lack. I am involved in a couple of MLMs but it is because I like the product and think it may help other people too. I rarely make money on MLMs because I do not join them to make money. I just have my FOCUS on doing readings and helping you that way. If I make money on an MLM it is because I have an abundant mindset, not because I am chasing anything. (There are many people in the same MLMs as me that ARE making money. They are making money that way though, because they put their FOCUS into it, and that is one of their main sources of income).
• You are always complaining about the prices of things, (food, gas, services, pretty much anything and everything).
• You spend money before you earn it and say “I will just manifest more for my bills (rent, food, mortgage, car payment) later”. This is a killer.
• You spend money on your wants before you take care of your needs. This leaves you feeling very stressed about having your needs met. Stress like this is pretty much “ANTI” manifesting what you want, and just manifests more of the stressful feelings of not having your needs met.
• You have read something that tells you that you have to be always thinking about what you want. This only works if you truly believe you can have what you are thinking about and if it makes you feel good to think about it 100% of the time. Here’s a tip. If you really believed you could have it, you would be able to write a list of what you want and put it away KNOWING that now that you have written it down, it will show up (even if it takes a long time and even if you NEVER think about it again).

The problem when you are “trying” to manifest is that you think about what you want, you think that you have to think about it day in and day out, see it on a vision board 10 times a day, and that will bring it. That will NOT bring it to you, and that will not make it come any quicker if you are not feeling happy. You need to be happy and grateful and loving before anything positive can come to you.

You think that you can just “manifest” money without getting off your ass and doing something. Yes, you need to do things that feel good, but I know very few people who feel good without some type of work to do. Sitting around day in and day out doing nothing does not feel good, and just creates through the Law of Attraction, more feelings of not feeling good.

You can say “I have to visualize what I want”, well yes, but if you visualize it KNOWING you have debt to pay off, that you cannot afford it, and feel like its a pipe-dream, you don’t feel good visualizing it.

Now that we have covered what may be some of your habits, let’s look at a things a new way.

Think of your debt as being similar to KARMA. Many of you reading this seem to understand karmic debt. Well 3D financial debt is pretty much the same thing. You need to pay for all the ‘stuff’ you have received (or used, or done) already.

With Karmic Debt, you said, did, spent something, either now or in a past life, and you need to ‘pay back’ before you can move forward.

What about paying for all the stuff you have already received? What about all the times you spent money on gifts for yourself or others? They (and you) don’t even remember what you bought them for Christmas last year, but you still have to pay for it. That vacation you took last month, last year, 5 years ago? Some of you have still not paid for it. You put it on credit, and never did pay it off. Just paying interest every month for years. You need to take responsibility for that. No one forced you to do it. YOU DID IT. YOU need to pay for it. Not grudgingly, but with happiness and gratitude for the trip (or the gifts or whatever you spent). Don’t spend so much time griping about the interest payments, no one held a gun to your head and MADE you spend that money. Every time you make a payment on that card, be HAPPY about it. You received something, now you are paying it back.

Of course the way to avoid this is to be patient and SAVE UP for what you want. If you REALLY TRULY believed in the Law of Attraction, Manifesting, and an Abundant Universe, you would NEVER spend money on credit again. You would simply write down what you wanted and KNOW that if it was for your Highest and Best Good, that it would arrive, and in the perfect time for you.

Do you have a vehicle? Did you finance it? Have you been paying for the same vehicle for the past 5 years, and still have two years (or more) on your loan? If this is the case, then you have likely bought more vehicle than you could afford. After the initial “high” of a nice new vehicle has worn off, do you find yourself complaining about the payments? Or that your car is now getting old and you might need a new one? Or worse yet, that you owe three times more on your loan than your vehicle is now worth? If you TRULY believed in the LoA, you would have bought what you could afford at the time and MANIFESTED more money for a better vehicle ~ or if you are a really good manifester, maybe you would have even won a car.

SMARTEN UP! Stop doing this to yourself. Stop making excuses. YOU ARE CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY. Financial and otherwise. Be grateful that it’s you. The SECOND that you take responsibility for YOUR OWN STUFF you empower yourself. You ENABLE yourself to begin to do things differently. If you find yourself complaining more than once a year (we all get ‘moods’) that the Law of Attraction does not work you don’t “believe” it. Those that really believe it, that live by the motto “I will see it when I believe it”, RARELY or NEVER question it. They go within, they pay attention to THEIR thoughts and feelings, they look for examples of how things are working or not in their life, they change, they work on becoming very aware of where their thoughts and feelings are going ALL THE TIME. They see and feel the similarities of the energy between seemingly unrelated events in their life. They KNOW it’s up to them, they do not BLAME (others, the economy, their spouse, their parents, kids….).

IT IS A FEELING. The “facts” have NOTHING to do with it. Nothing at all. If you cannot feel good about money, money cannot come to you. Stop complaining about how things “ARE”, take responsibility for your life, and start taking steps (no matter how small), to make the life you want.

The Big World-Changing Event 2014

Have you been waiting for “The Big Event”?  Many of you thought that Dec 2012 would be it.  There always seems to be some date floating around where everything will change and we can all be happy and live in peace.  Some think, ‘Armageddon’, some think of ‘Rapture’ and the return of Christ, some think it will be another world war, or the collapse of the financial system.  Or maybe you are waiting for all 13 Crystal Skulls to come together, or for Angels to come down and finally tell us everything we have always wanted to know.

Even when I do readings, many of you just want to know when will I meet someone and be happier?  When will I feel better, when will I get a new job, relief from my suffering, more money, the list of what we are “waiting” for can be endless.

What you need to realize though, is that all of this ~ everything ~ really is happening now (past/present/future).   You have the ability to live whatever reality you want right now.  You do not have to wait for anything.  All of the things in the first paragraph of this post are already happening NOW.  They have been happening for many years now.  Most of you just haven’t allowed yourself to fully feel the changes.  You are staying stuck in your head and the way things have always been.

Because you have put yourself into a state of ‘waiting’ you will continue to have to wait.  What if you actually allowed yourself to live in this moment?  Live in this moment as if everything you ever desired was just waiting for you to let it happen?

What if you made a decision to stop thinking so much, to turn within (to your heart and energy NOT your mind), and really figure out what it is you want, in the innermost part of your being?  Leave the ego and the need to control external things out of it.

The energy is shifting, has shifted.  For those of you who allow yourself to feel with your energy, you can feel it.  If you have not allowed yourself to truly feel with your energy and your heart and with love, things probably feel like ‘same old, same old’, even though NOTHING is the same as it was before.

If you can allow yourself to embrace this new energy that we are living in, you will find that you start to live more freely and a more happy life than ever before.  Not 100% free of challenges, but with an acceptance of what is, and a knowing that you are right where you need to be, and that everything will work out.

I see posts on Social Media all the time saying “Be the change you want to see in the world”, or “Your thoughts create your reality, chose them wisely”.  But when you post these things, do you really embrace what it means?  The statements are true (as far as being backed by our quantum science), but so many of you still cannot trust, and are still waiting for some event to change your circumstances for you.  If you truly believe what you are posting, and if you have any knowledge of the Law of Attraction, you should know that the energy of ‘waiting’, just creates more opportunities to ‘wait’.

Maybe it is time to stop waiting and start living.  How about that.  What if, just what if, you had everything at your disposal right now?  What if you could be happy now?  What if you allowed the knowledge in ~ intuitively?  What if you allowed yourself to realize that everything is possible?

Do you stop yourself from dreaming because you really feel you cannot have what you want?  If you have a circumstance that is uncomfortable for you (job, relationship, finances, health), and you continue to wait for the big event as if it is an external force that will change everything, you could be waiting for a really long time.  Not that big events don’t happen, its just that if you do not allow for the intuitive flow of energy, and you do not take any actions in the direction you want to go, the big event will never come in the form you expect.  Most of your “Big Events” come as a response to the energy you are vibrating.  Look back on all the big events in your life, in hindsight you will see that in some way or other you asked for the change that the big event brought you.  Hence, the big event was created by you and your energy, not by something outside of yourself.

Just as you cannot control other people or things, other people or things cannot control you.

We are living in an amazing time.  Most of the world is in the 5th Dimension where it really is easier to have what you want.  Maybe its time to challenge some of your thoughts, and to allow for this wonderful flow of love and oneness that is enveloping this planet to become more a part of you.

Between the planetary energies, the astrological and numerical influences, and the support we have from other dimensions, now is the perfect time to start living the life you want.  Focus on what you want, not on what is lacking, and you will become more inspired and motivated to take actions in your life that will begin to create the life you want, now and in the future.

If you think you need some additional assistance with your connection, I may be able to help.  If you would like to book an appointment with me, there is more information on my psychic readings here.