Angel Card Reading for the Week November 21 – November 27, 2016

Here is your free Angel Card Reading for this week, November 21 – November 27, 2016

 

For the beginning of the week your Angel Card is:

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Archangel Zadkiel

 

CompassionArchangel Zadkiel: “Soften your heart with respect to this situation, and all the people involved, including yourself.”

“I can help you forgive yourself and others, or to compassionately see everyone’s point of view. You needn’t change your stance or behaviour. It simply means approaching the situation with a loving heart, which empowers you and allows creative solutions to pour forth.”

Your Angel Card for the Middle of this Week is:

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Archangel Raguel

 

Clairsentience Archangel Raguel:  “notice your recurring physical and emotional feelings, as they signify Divine Guidance.”

“Please honor your feelings.  Don’t be afraid of deep emotions or intense feelings.  I can help you distinguish between your own feelings and those of others.  I’ll also help you clear any energies you may absorb.  I’ll guide you toward people, situations and places with clear and loving energy.  Your repetitive emotions and physical feelings provide important information, so pleas notice and follow these feelings.  They’re answers to your prayers.  Ask me to help translate confusing messages to that you’ll clearly know which steps to take.”

For the End of the week your Angel Card is:

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Archangel Jeremiel

 

Overcoming DifficultiesArchangel Jeremiel:  “The worst is now behind you, and you’re surmounting any previous challenges.”

“The challenges you’ve faced have made you stronger and have taught you new lessons.  Instead of becoming bitter, you’ve opened your heart with compassion toward people in similar situations.  You’ve let go of any blame or feelings  of victimhood.  This is why you’re now overcoming your previous challenges.  Your positive outlook is attracting a loving solution and new situations at a higher level of spiritual understanding.  Stay positive!”

 

If you are feeling blocked and think that some energy work will help you, your next group remote energy clearing healing starts on November 29, you can see more details here. 21 Day Energy Clearing/Healing Offering ~ Starts November 29, 2016

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Have you been ‘wrapping things up’? ~ Energy Alert Feb 29-2016

On March 8-9 we have a Solar Eclipse in Pisces ~ this is just the beginning of our eclipse cycle.  This will provide you with new chapters in your life, new opportunities, new ways of being.  I am offering another 21 Day Healing and Clearing session starting on March 9th for those of you that want to be clear for your next steps.

This past week the energy has been all about wrapping things up.  Finishing things that may have been in the works for a long time.  Its a great time to take a look at what you have been creating in your life.  Are you creating consciously, or are you creating with your old subconscious belief systems?  Pay close attention to your dreams at this time, they may be showing you what you need to release and/or where you need to go.

For many of you, you have come to the realization that some of your old ways of being and thinking have not been serving you very well.  The perfect time to make changes is NOW.

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February 29, Leap Year 2016

This is February 29th, this date only comes around every four years.  The energy of this leap day provides an opportunity for love, teaching and healing.  Paying attention to coincidences and synchronicities today can help you by providing clues to your path and purpose.  Today is also a good day for creativity.

2016 is also a 9 year in Numerology

9 is a number of completion.  Numerology is a 9 year cycle, think back to 2008, which was a 1 year.  Where were you in 2008, what were you doing?  What did you start then that may be coming to completion this year?

As we head into March try and keep your focus on what new you would like to see in your life.  As you focus on what it is you would like to have in your life, you will naturally and steadily release the old that is no longer serving you.

The Universe has your back to help you create the life you came here to live.  Keep your focus on what you want, and things you don’t want will naturally fall away.

 

If you are feeling super blocked and think that some energy work will help you, my next group remote energy clearing healing starts on March 9th, you can see more details here. 21 Day Energy Clearing/Healing Offering ~ Starts March 9, 2016

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

 

 

Angel Card Reading for the Week – November 16-22, 2015

Here is your free Angel Card Reading for this week, November 16-22, 2015

 

Overview of the energy for the week:

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Seven of Earth:  Seeds well planted.  A temporary pause in action.  Unnecessary worry.

The fruits of your labors continue to grow, and harvest is imminent.  Patience is essential as you pause to plan your next steps.  You may feel you have far to go, but don’t forget how far you’ve already come.  Review and acknowledge your progress from a broader perspective.

Anxiety regarding the current situation is unfounded.  Any halt in forward movement is temporary.  This is a good time to rest or vacation to recharge your batteries.

Additional meanings of this card:  Perseverance.  Reaching a milestone.  Considering a new approach.  Unnecessary worry.

For the beginning of the week your Angel Card is:

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Archangel Uriel

You Know What to Do ~ Archangel Uriel:  “Trust your inner knowledge, and act upon it without delay.”

“You are far wiser than you realize, and your inner wisdom has already given you the answers that you seek.  Embrace this knowledge, and trust it.  If you’re doubtful, ask me to give you clear signs to validate your thoughts and ideas.  I can also help you put your ideas into action, and make decisions about the next steps to take.  Just ask me.  And then be willing to work with me by taking action.”

Your Angel Card for the Middle of this Week is:

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Archangel Ariel

Spread Your Wings – Archangel Ariel:  “Do not hold back right now.  The timing is perfect, and you are ready to soar!”

“Although you may feel intimidated by the prospect of change, and by the thought of moving past your comfort zone, you’re ready to fly high.  Welcome new opportunities, and know that it’s safe to follow your heart and dreams.  Keep your focus upon love, service, and spirit, and avoid naysayers or skeptics.  Remember that you inspire others with your story of turning challenges into victories.”

For the End of the week (the weekend) your Angel Card is:

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Archangel Metatron

Prioritize ~ Archangel Metatron:  “Focus on your highest priorities.  I will help you get organized and motivated.”

“What’s your calling?  What makes your heart sing?  When you focus on these areas, your joyful energy increases, which benefits everyone.  Take charge of your schedule, and spend more time on projects and activities close to your heart.  Make choices that honor your priorities and support your life’s mission.”

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Who or What Do You Think is Controlling Your Life?

You have ultimate control over your own life you know.  You don’t really have to be controlled by anything or anyone outside of yourself.

I know that a lot of you reading this will have a list of 10 or more things that are external to yourself that you may say have some control over your life.  But it simply isn’t true.

Do you wish your life was different?  What is it you want?  Love, happiness, money, a career, a business, better health, time, freedom?  You can have it ~ really.

You may need to adjust the way you are speaking to yourself but you can have it.  Everything in your life starts with a thought.  The words you use in your internal dialogue is how you are thinking.

Who told you you can’t have what you want?  Was it your parents, your teachers, your bosses, society, the news?

Think about why you believe you can’t have it.  Is it even true?  Who said it?  Why did they say it?  When you look at them what does their life look like?  Are they happy?

You are living your life.  No one else is.

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You may need to do different things to get different results, but you are living your life.  When all the distractions and other people are not around, who are you left with?

Who decides what you are going to do with your time?  Who decides what distractions you are going to let get in your way?  Who decides how you are going to feel?

You are responsible for the choices you make.  If your life doesn’t look the way you want it to, take a good look at the decisions and choices you are making in any given moment.

Practice some awareness of your recurring thoughts; are they helping you or hindering you?

Live in the present moment; are you doing what you want to be doing in that moment?

If you are doing and thinking things that are the opposite of what you want to be doing and thinking, you may need to ask yourself what you are afraid of.

What is stopping you?  Why are you so afraid to live the life you want to live?

Make some decisions.  Think of what you are afraid to do, and then decide to do it.  Once you decide to do it, then the actual doing of it will be easier.

Don’t worry about judgements from others.  Don’t live a life full of regrets for things you did not do.  Make the hard decisions, then take action on them.  Don’t worry about what other people think.  It doesn’t matter.  What matters is what you think and how you feel.

Making decisions and taking action will leave you so exhilarated that you won’t have time to worry about what anyone else is thinking anyway.  You will be living the life you want, you will be happy.

You have one life, and you are the one living it, live it wisely.

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

 

 

What if There is Nothing Left to OVER-COME? Now it is time to BE-COME

For years now we have been in an energy of letting go, overcoming challenges, removing blocks, clearing chakras and energy fields, and trying to get rid of what is no longer serving us.

What if that is all over now?

It is for a lot of you.  You’ve done the work.  You have succeeded in clearing out all the old, now what?

It’s time to BECOME who you want to be.  You can.  And it doesn’t need to be the least bit difficult.

All you need to do is let go of “how things have always been”.  Our world HAS changed, we HAVE changed.  Its already done.  Any discomfort you are feeling now is trying to bring the old world into the new world.

It simply won’t work.  The old paradigms won’t work in the new energy.  This goes for the monetary system, how and where we live, what we eat, the energy of competition vs. the energy of cooperation, how we get our electrical power, the old reliance on oil, being immersed in masculine energy without embracing the divine feminine energy,  the separation from our earth and between different races of people; think you get the meaning, everything has changed.

If you try to bring your past into your present it won’t work.  You have a clean slate now.  What do you want to create?  Who do you want to Become?

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It really can be easy if you let it flow.  The hardest part is making a decision.  Once you make your decision you will find that things fall into place for you quite easily.  The Law of Attraction will bring you people and circumstances that will assist you in moving forward and creating the life you imagine.

You might not have much more to clear.  During September we truly were scraping the bottom of the barrel of what needed to go.  Things we thought were done with may have come up so that you could release the last remnants.

ITS ALL NEW NOW.  Embrace the new energy, allow things to change, imagine the life you want.  Then simply go for it!!!  Don’t worry about what anyone else is doing or what society or the ‘news’ tells you.  YOU are the creator, create what you want, you’ve got this!

 

 

 

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

June 30, 2015 – Planetary Energies

energy alert Our world is getting better and better.  I know a lot of you might argue this point, but if you look at a much bigger picture, it really is.

We have had some very dense energies indeed running our planet.  All you need to do is turn on or read the news and it appears as if the whole world is falling apart.

Thing is, this is not necessarily a bad thing.  For a really long time these dense energies have been keeping you locked in a matrix of disempowerment and slavery.  With the coming of the internet we have been able to see more and more of what has been going on in our world.

You have come to the realization that things cannot go on the way they have been.  You know it needs to change, but you wonder how.   You probably feel quite powerless to do anything about anything you see happening ‘out there’.  After all, many of you feel powerless to do anything about your own life.  You have been programmed to be powerless.

This is what keeps you stuck.  These denser energies have been using religion, politics, money and fear to rule your lives.  Don’t you think its time that stopped?  It can, and it can stop quickly for you.  You simply need to disconnect from the “powerless” program that has been running in your energy field.

Just as I have been blogging a lot over the past while about our personal lives being in somewhat of an upheaval, (but that things will get better), as it will be with the planet.  You simply need to keep focusing on what you want.

Going to war will not stop wars.  A war on drugs will not stop drug abuse.  And continuing to be afraid, and to think you are powerless will not get you any further to finding your own personal power ~ nor will it do one little bit of good for mother earth.

The denser energies (Souls), are BANKING on you feeling powerless.  They are BANKING on you continuing to watch the news, drink the cool aid, and believe that there is nothing you can do.  You are allowing it.

What if you just embrace your own ability to create your life and started to focus on what you want.  What if you ignored the news (most of it you can do nothing about), and started vibrating as the light being you ARE.  What if you spread as much love and light as you can to those around you.

What if you empowered yourself and got happy, and started being able to support yourself (and your family).  What if you were able to afford healthy food, and work at a job you enjoyed.  What if you allowed yourself to take some time to yourself in quiet meditation or contemplation.

Everything starts with one person. EVERYTHING.  You can be of no service to anyone else if you are floundering in your own life.

You need to take care of yourself and your own vibration and those around you WILL BE impacted in a positive way.  You might not have money to give them, or you might not be able to save them from their own poor decisions, but you will have an impact on the whole.

The more people on this planet that are holding a high vibration (and there are many now), the higher the vibration the planet will be.  The higher the vibration of the planet, the less welcome the planet becomes to the denser energies.

That is why it appears that things are falling apart.  The vibration of the planet and the people on it is getting higher.  It no longer supports oppression, and wars and control.  The denser energies cannot flourish in a higher vibrating space.

As these things are ripped away from the planet it can feel uncomfortable, like the whole world is going to hell.  Thing is, the whole world is going to heaven on earth.  Change is almost always uncomfortable.  This is where your planet is right now ~ changing through discomfort.

Please, keep your vibration high by looking after yourself.  Keep yourself happy, take care of yourself.  By taking care of yourself you ARE taking care of others.  You need to be able to see the bigger picture.  (Think of a parent that makes themselves sick and they can no longer take care of their kids ~ if they had taken care of themselves, they would still wholly be there for their children).  It is just like that.  You need to be empowered in order to empower others!

Holding yourself in a low vibration, without money, optimism, or personal responsibility for where you are at in your life does not help you, nor does it give you any opportunity to help anyone else.

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You must hold a vision of what you wish to see, and reading or watching, or focusing on, or talking about negative things doesn’t help.  Talking about what is wrong will not help.  Observing what is wrong won’t help.

You MUST observe what is “right” with this world of ours.  Remember the reason things are ‘falling apart’ is because of the sheer number of lightworkers on the planet at the moment.  Many of us came here for the purpose of helping the planet raise her vibration.  If you are reading this then chances are you came here to help raise the vibration of the planet.  You cannot do this by disempowering yourself.

Change your perspective, change your life, change your world.

With Love

Tamara  

 

If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Six Reasons Why You Aren’t Getting What You Want Out of Life

In my work with clients over the years I have seen many reasons why they cannot seem to manifest what they want in life. Generally, it is because of a Subconscious Limiting Belief system, and the energy it creates in their life.

Do you recognize any of these things in yourself?

You mistakenly believe that if you are happy with what you have, you are being complacent and you won’t get more.

Here is an example of that from my own life. I am happy with what I have. I do want more, but my husband said to me once, “Well, you don’t want anything”. It’s not that I don’t want anything, quite the contrary. I just know how energy works, and I know that if I focus too much on what is not in my life yet, I block it. I do want more, I just refuse to be unhappy while I am waiting for more. An energy of happiness will bring more things to be happy about. The difference is that I KNOW I will have what I want. I do not need to talk about the lack of it all the time. I write down what I want, and I let it go and get patient. It ALWAYS comes.

Just because you are happy with what you have, does not mean that you don’t want more.

You think you don’t deserve more, or worse, that if you want more, you are “greedy”. That you should be ‘happy with what you have’ (you do need to be happy with what you have, but that does not mean you shouldn’t want more). Other people ‘out there’ are suffering, you shouldn’t complain about what is missing. “How dare I ask for more when there are people worse off than me in the world”.

This is simply ‘programming’ from those that want to keep you in the dark and disempowered. From the time we are young we are bombarded with messages that tell us we should not want or ask for more. A lot of it is due to religion (think of all the religions that tell you to give your money to them. Meanwhile the religious leaders are covered in, and surrounded by gold).
You are told stories of people getting money, but bad things happen. Someone had to get hurt or die for them to get insurance money, people win the lottery and then end up penniless and unhappy, your house burned down and now you have insurance money.
These are “programs”. There are tons of ways to have more without doing harm to anyone. I am pretty certain, if you are reading this and are trying to better any aspect of your life, that if you had more money, more people on this planet would be receiving help from you.

You are stuck in one way of thinking, or one way of doing, and don’t allow for things to flow in that may be different than what you imagined.

You think that your work defines you. You think that there is only one way for abundance to come to you, so you don’t even think about other ways that it could come. You cannot imagine how it will come, so you stop trusting that it can.
The trick here is to not try to make things happen. Be in your moment, truly trust that what is yours will come to you, that the Universe is abundant, and then “Let go Let God”. Chances are that there will be some action you need to take, but you need to let yourself feel good, and take “inspired action” to get to where you want to be. No amount of “action” will get you to a good feeling, abundant place if it is not inspired. Doing for the sake of doing is not your goal. Doing because it feels good and inspired is your goal.

You rely on others perceptions of reality, or rely on them to tell you what to do rather than following your own inner guidance and passions.

You read in the news how bad things are, and you “own” that information. “The news told me there was a downturn in the economy, so I won’t make money this year”. This is simply not true. If it were true, there would not be anyone out there doing anything.
You read and believe that “the older you get, the harder it is to meet a new mate”, or, “the older you get the harder it is to lose weight and stay fit”, so you don’t even try. Even if there are grains of truth in these statements, you can either make them true by believing and focusing on them, or you can buck the odds, and be the exception to the rule.

Be careful who you listen to. Don’t let the disempowering words of others’ shape your reality.

You suffer from ‘wishful thinking’ and get into worse situations than before.

You really don’t have faith that money is coming your way but you fake it. Subconsciously you don’t really think it is available to you or you would have it. In your quest to be “positive”, you think, “I know life is abundant, I know the money will come in, therefore, I will prove it by spending money on credit and trust the universe to take care of the rest”.
I won’t work that way. What happens to your energy in this situation is that as you get into more debt your vibration changes. You start to feel more controlled by the debt. As the debt goes up, you start to doubt that you can pay it back because the money is not flowing to pay it back.
If you really trusted and had faith that money was coming your way, you would wait for it to arrive before buying what you want. You would use the money that you have now to pay for what you have already consumed (electricity, rent, credit card bills), and then ‘manifest’ the money for your wants. If you trust that the money is coming, you do not have any reason at all to get yourself into more debt.
Which leads us to…..

You get impatient and frustrated with where you are and stay there.

“I know I can have what I want, but it’s not here yet, and that frustrates me”. It is not here yet because you are frustrated and your frustration leads to impatience. If you really knew and trusted that you could manifest your desires and have the life you want and think you deserve, there really would almost ever be any reason to be impatient.

The more impatient and frustrated you are, the more elusive your desires will be. This is especially true if your frustrations are directed toward others’. If you get frustrated, and then take inspired action, it can help. If you get frustrated and blame others, you will wind up with nothing.

If you ask for something and it has not arrived yet, don’t get frustrated, get patient. Your calmness and patience are what will bring it to you. From my observations, getting frustrated is like 3 steps back after the one step forward of asking for what you want. Frustration with the timing just proves that you do not trust that things will work out for you.

These are not the ONLY limiting belief systems I have seen over the years, but they are by far the most common.

Creating Your Reality When So Much is Out of Control

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I write a lot about creating your own reality, and control; and what we have control over, and what we do not.

It is really easy to get wrapped up in our lives to the point that we end up in a bit of a ‘control spiral’, and we do not even realize we are in it. I meditate or do energy work every day; I practice being very aware of my thoughts and feelings, and do my very best to feel the best that I can in every moment. I don’t always feel terrific, but I always try to feel the best that I possibly can.

Over the years, I have learned to NOT let my thoughts spiral out of control. We do have some control over our thoughts. I am aware of my thoughts and feelings, and when I notice I am having a thought that is on the negative side, I replace it with something more positive. Even if all I can muster is “it will all be okay in the end”, if that is the best feeling thought I can have, I go for it. Sometimes I just go outside into my yard and read, or nap, or do puzzles ~ anything to keep from thinking about stresses. We do create with our thoughts, and thinking about stresses can, and does, create more stressful situations in our lives.

I had what I call an epiphany this morning, Oprah calls them “Light bulb moments”, but really they are usually messages from our Guides or our own higher selves. I have these most mornings. While I am sitting having my coffee, I ask what it is I need to know for the day, and most of the time I get some really good information.

I want to share some personal information with you, and the message I got this morning because I suspect there are a lot of people in this situation and if my personal story can help you or even one person it will be worth it.

Firstly, the world itself is going through massive changes and a lot of people are afraid and worried. Many of us are feeling anxiety out of the blue, for no apparent reason. Sometimes the anxiety is fleeting, and sometimes it hangs around for a while. You may find yourself thinking “Why do I feel so anxious? Everything is fine.” This is part of what the Collective Consciousness is going through right now. There are many people on our planet that are still asleep and are still very attached to the Third Dimensional way of being. If something hits the news or gets ‘out there’ into the Collective Consciousness (the “Ether”), many people get stressed. That can cause many of us empath’s to feel out of balance and like something is wrong, even if we know we are okay.

The second thing is the control/creation aspect of things and this is where my personal life comes into play.

My husband and I have a Concrete Coring & Cutting Company. Business is really good for the company and there is a lot of work at the moment.

I have had a lot of work this year and things have been flowing quite smoothly there. I have had some illness, and some injury, and some stress (partly from the collective anxiety), and I am off work right now (just since this weekend). I had to cancel some appointments this week. I make enough money from my work to pay my bills and travel for training/work; and I love my job. I do not, however, make enough to cover the expenses of the other company. By worrying about our other company, I allowed the stresses from it to interfere with my work. I CREATED more financial stress for myself by focusing on the financial stress of the construction company.

Here is where it gets tricky and where the control comes in. As much as the Construction end of things is doing well, and it has accounts receivable, it is not getting paid in a timely manner. Banks are holding back money from what they used to give developers, so developers are having to pick and choose what bills they are going to pay (and apparently ours is not one of them). We are only getting paid sporadically, so we are having to pick and choose which bills we can pay. Usually we pay our mortgage and expenses so we can do more work.

I found it amusing the other day when my bank called me asking for money and the reason I did not have it is because the same bank was holding back money from the people that owed me. I actually had a good laugh over that. That just seems to be the way things are going these days. This is a good example of something that I cannot control. I cannot control what the bank does, I can only control my thoughts, feelings and vibration around it.

This morning I noticed yet another account for the company was overdrawn because some service charges came out that I forgot came out in September. For a moment I felt horrible. I pride myself on being able to pay my bills and keep on top of everything, even for the construction company and I had forgotten something. How could I do this? What the hell? It’s one thing after another! Is there no end to what “they” are doing to us?!? (the banks/government/economy).

I know we have control over our lives. Why is my life feeling so out of control? Stuff is happening and there’s not much I can do about it. Hmmm. Quite the conundrum. I will tell you what I did and hopefully you can use this in your own life and it will help.

I LET GO!!! For weeks now I have been focusing on the details of who to pay, when to pay, what’s coming in, what is going out, crying out “WHO IS GOING TO PAY THEIR BILL AND WHEN!” This is BS!! All these people owe our company money.

On the one hand, it felt okay because we have money due in. On the other hand it felt awful because I have to keep picking and choosing who is getting paid, and I have to keep phoning people and telling them the money is not here yet.

Another thing I realized this morning, is that I have been trying to micro-manage the details of things. I have been analyzing stuff too much, and trying to figure out “How” to get it done. What I need to do is go back to my “knowing” it WILL be done. There are things I need to manage, after all I am running a company, but there are a lot of things that are simply not manageable. Me trying to manage them is just screwing up my energy.

So this morning, I decided to let go and let God. We are God, we are Creators. By letting go and allowing for the flow it helps me to feel better. No amount of planning, or fretting or worrying will bring me to where I want to be. The only thing that could possibly make me feel better is to let go. To quit thinking, to quit ‘managing’. I will think when it is required, but if there is nothing I can do about a situation except for maybe make a phone call, I will make the call and then I will let it go.

We create through our vibration. Thinking about all these details is lowering my vibration. I have been sick, I have been injured, I have been stressed, I have cancelled appointments with clients. It’s time to leave the details up to God and just do what I can. I CAN, through my thoughts and my intention keep feeling good. If I keep feeling good, I will attract more things into my life that feel good. That’s it. Period.

Getting the best from your psychic readings (even with a little skepticism)

Psychic readings are performed via energy. The best way to shut down a reading is to shut down your energy.

Your energy can be shut down quite easily by you. NO ONE can connect with your energy without your permission. If you show up for a reading and shut down your energy by trying to test the psychic, you will get pretty much what you are looking for. The inability of the psychic to connect with your energy.

When I was younger (like senior high-school younger) and did readings for fun instead of as my full-time job, I tried a reading for someone who said she wanted one, but who really didn’t want me to ‘find out’ anything about her. I got a lot of impressions and pictures in my head, but they were of a closed door, of a large door with a wooden slab across it with a big padlock, a swamp, something like a photo of someone, but it was all fuzzy and blurry, a guard dog blocking a gate. This was my first experience with someone who really didn’t want me to see anything, but pretended she did. It was a great learning experience for me because prior to that I had not experienced someone that was trying to shut me out so drastically.

Another way to shut down your energy is to simply be so skeptical that nothing can flow. A healthy dose of skepticism can be helpful, I am a skeptic myself. As a psychic that is charging for my services, I SHOULD be able to share things with you that there’s no way I could know without being psychic. However, walking into a reading with HUGE a “Test the Psychic”, skeptical attitude/energy is like going to a dentist and refusing to open your mouth! It defeats the whole purpose. A little skepticism is okay, too much and you are wasting your money.

Expecting the psychic (me), to be a mind reader. This NEVER works, it’s silly and a waste of my time, and your money. I am NOT a MIND READER, never have been, never will be. I pick up a LOT of information, but I get it from your energy, not your “mind”. Remember, when I am connecting, I am connecting to Spirit, Guides, Higher Self, Universe. They don’t care about most of the 3D stuff that you and I might care about. The whole idea behind this communication is what you NEED to know. Read that again… What you NEED to know. Not what you WANT to know. It’s not that they won’t share things that you WANT to know about. It’s more that without you coming out and asking the question they won’t bother. I don’t need to know all the circumstances surrounding your life to give you good information, nor do they. But I also can’t read your mind and know what is important TO YOU you if you do not ask.

Usually when I do readings, I START. I share all the impressions/feelings/pictures/words etc. that I am getting. As I am talking I do need to know if what I am saying is making any sense to you. However, if I start to see things, and you say “I know that, what about….”, or “Yeah, I know that, but move on to ……”, it shuts down the energy of further communication for you. Not completely ALL the time, but if there is something that your guides want you to know, or something that you need to know FIRST, before moving on, then shutting that part down will keep the rest from flowing. Imagine sitting down with a friend and the minute they start talking you say “Shut up”, chances are, they will.

As an example (we’ll use work), if there are changes coming up for you, and your Higher Self (You), wants you to know about them so that you can be prepared for them so that things work out for you in the best possible way, and you were to say “I don’t want to change jobs, that’s it period. Don’t tell me any more about that, I want to know about my finances and where I’ll be living”.

Well, your Guides and/or Higher Self were just trying to tell you about changes coming up for you so that you could deal with things in the most productive way. You have just shut them right down. You should realize that by talking about your job they were trying to HELP you to deal with your finances and your home situation? You need to look at a whole big picture. By saying “I don’t want PERIOD” you have shut down any further HELPFUL information.

I have said many times we create our reality. And we do. However, sometimes in trying to create our ideal reality, things around us might shift and change. Maybe not in the way we anticipated, or in the way we would have liked to see them go, but in the end, we do get what we have been creating. When you shut this down, you shut down your ability to create, and you shut down anyone who is trying to communicate with you (either through a psychic or your own intuition). Going with the flow, really helps.

Are You Allowing Yourself to Receive?

Why is it so hard for you to receive or accept what is offered?  The Universe is extremely abundant.  There is so much available to you.  Love, money, food, housing, friends, health, the list is endless.  You all have something that you want more of in your life.  Don’t you think its time to actually let it in?

Yes, often when something is offered there needs to be an exchange of energy.  There are many forms of energy.  Emotions are a form of energy, work you might do for someone is a form of energy, money is a form of energy.  I personally exchange my gifts and my knowledge for money.  I prefer it this way, when I do this, I have more freedom to exchange my money for the gifts and knowledge that I wish to receive from someone else.  Sometimes gifts and knowledge can be exchanged for the gifts and knowledge of someone else directly or exchanged for services.

Love and gratitude are also energy.  Sometimes we might do something for someone and the only energy exchanged is love.  Each situation and each person is unique in this regard.  We all have a currency, and our currencies change day-to-day, circumstance to circumstance, moment to moment.

The remainder of this post, is about money and financial abundance.

First off, if you want more money, you need to ask for it.  So many people think that they should not charge for what they do.  I am not saying to never do something just out of the goodness of your heart, but “Ask and ye shall receive”.  No asking, no receiving.

Another point.  Make sure that you are not ONLY placing value on that which you pay for.  I myself, do have somewhat of a belief that “You get what you pay for”, and will often pay more for what I deem to be ‘quality’ rather than cheap out on something.

HOWEVER, I also work with the Law of Attraction, and I often ask for things that I want in my life.  If I ask for something and someone comes along and gives it to me, (even for free), I have NO PROBLEM whatsoever in receiving it with gratitude.

What I am getting at with this post is that sometimes things will just come to you, out of the blue, with no strings, simply because you asked.  You need to get out of your head, stop thinking “Can’t get something for nothing” and let yourself take it!!!

I know it’s a foreign concept for most people because we have been programmed in a very convoluted way, but you CAN get something for nothing.  A lot of the time.  If you get your vibration to a certain point, and start allowing yourself to hold a higher vibration, stuff will be attracted to you like dog hair on black jeans.

If someone offers you something that you want, or would like to try out, take it.  If they later ask for something in return (a further commitment from you to purchase something perhaps), make a conscious decision if you want or like or need what they are offering, and be okay with what you decide.  If you decide that what they are offering is not for you, that’s fine. Say so!  It’s not a big deal.  So you got something for free.  Be happy.  Don’t beat yourself up and think that you have any obligations to anyone.  You don’t.

If you decide that you want what they are offering, then buy it.  Pretty simple.

We have been programmed with such a lack mentality over the years we no longer even receive things without feeling guilty.  It’s like we have this bizarre notion that if we receive abundance then someone else will be going without something.  Oh, if I am rich then my neighbour will be poor.  Are you kidding me?!?

Right now you are both lacking!  What is you attracting abundance going to do to your neighbour?  Absolutely nothing.  Unless of course your neighbour asks how you are doing so well.  In which case you can teach him what you know and then you will BOTH have more abundance in your life.  You teaching him about abundance will no more make you poor, than you being rich will make him poor.

When we are empowered in ourselves, we actually feel good for other people when they are doing well.  At this point in my life, I genuinely care about you and I get really authentically happy when people around me (or even people I see), are happy.  I LOVE IT!

That is why I love my job so much.  I get huge amounts of happiness from seeing you do well!  There will actually be people who read this and think that I am being selfish.  “You are making people happier, helping them have more fulfilling lives, teaching them and helping them to have or be or do whatever they want and you are getting enjoyment from it!”  How dare you love your job!  How dare you charge money for this (reminder yet again, I have to eat, have a family and a mortgage, hello), how dare you be living your dream life while I suffer.  All I have to say to that is.  ALLOW THE ABUNDANCE TO COME, be truly happy for all you have and be truly happy for those people you see who have what you want.  YOu will create such a big ball of high vibrating positive energy it will have a gravitational pull stronger than the one of the earth, and you will pull and attract everything into your life that you could possibly imagine.

If you would like me to teach you more (yes, for a financial exchange of energy), you can see more on this page of my website.  Psychic Mentoring/Coaching