Yes, I am a medium. I can talk to dead people. When I was younger I used to see them right in front of my eyes like I would see you if we were together. When I was about 15 I begged and pleaded that they stop appearing to me like that. It scared me. More in a startling way, but I didn’t like it. I now see them in my mind’s eye. Sometimes I see them better with my eyes closed.
I prefer it that way. There have been times I have been in the shower and someone has come through and said “I am the father”, or “I am the husband”, referring to their relationship with a client I have coming later on. It would be a little disturbing to open up the shower curtain and just see someone standing there. Mind’s eye is fine with me!
I would also like to point out that all Mediums are Psychic. Not all psychic’s are mediums. The title of this Page “Psychic Medium Readings” is a bit of an oxymoron, however that is what most laypeople call us so that is how I have worded it for you.
Since Theresa Caputo the Long Island Medium has been on television I have had a lot of people asking me if me or my readings are like that. Here is the short answer, yes, they are similar. I am not quite so flamboyant, (flamboyance is not a bad thing, it’s just not me).
I do not walk around the city telling people things. I also do not have a television show that needs to see me do that for ratings though.
As mediums we have the ability to turn off our gifts if we need to. At first, it takes practice being able to tune things out, but once you have practiced turning it on and off it gets easier. For myself I compare it to walking through a mall. If you walk through a mall, chances are it is full of people. It is up to you whether you stay to yourself and tune out the crowd, or decide to look up and smile and acknowledge the people you pass by. There are as many Spirits as there are people in any given environment (or usually more).
There have been rare occasions when I have had someone come through that I could not ignore, but for the most part, if I am in the middle of doing something else, I simply “turn off the ringer” of my “spiritual phone”.
I often tell clients that attempting to connect with a loved one is much like making a phone call. Me and my client sit together (in person or on the phone) and make the call. It is up to the loved one whether or not they can answer the phone. We cannot make someone answer. If your loved one is not there, I will let you know, I don’t make guesses.
There are a few things that could potentially block a good connection to a loved one. Desperation is one of the biggest ones. Excessive grief is another. I once had the mother and aunt of a young man come to see me. When talking to the mother, who was extremely grief-stricken, I wasn’t getting anything. When I talked to the aunt, the young man came through loud and clear with a lot of information for her. The mother was too distraught to be able to have a connection.
Sometimes the Spirit is not available to connect. When we pass on to the other side, we will go through almost like a ‘deprogramming’ stage at first. The length of time this takes varies a lot depending on the soul. Sometimes a soul will go into a type of intense training after crossing over and deprogramming, sometimes they simply are not strong enough energetically to connect with our 3D reality.
If you sit with a medium and your loved one does not come through, please do not worry that they aren’t there. I have never known that to be the case. Usually it has more to do with their, or our, availability.
If you would like to book a Psychic Medium Reading you can do so through this page of my website. Psychic Readings
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