Mid January 2016 Check In

Hi Everyone!!  Hope your 2016 is going fantastically so far!

I wanted to publish a quick note to update you all on what is going on with me.  I have not posted many blog posts lately however I have been doing tons of work in the background to help you all better and be more efficient in the process!!!

Firstly, I did a 21 Day Energy Healing/Clearing for some of you in December.  I got such an overwhelming positive response that I have decided I will be doing them 4 times per year!  I have not yet posted the new page for the Sessions that start March 9, 2016 but hopefully will have one up soon.  If you want to make sure you get in now before the Canadian dollar gets any lower you can still use the links that are in this post and get on the list for the next 21 Day session.  (At the bottom of this post is an email I received after the session.  It is 100% as was written.)

On another note, my website was hacked.  For those of you who could not get in to look at it, its good now.  It took me over a week to get it fixed but its done now finally ~ all clear and free of any issues.  I ended up doing it myself (thank goodness I’m reasonably technical), because I reached out to 4 different people/companies and not one was able to help me quickly.  I probably saved myself about $400+, but it took a lot of time.

Now that my website is all clear, I can get back to work.  That brings me to the next update.  I am really busy right this minute.  I got way behind in a lot of things and am working on catching up.  If you have sent me an email in the past week or so, or if you are waiting for me to send you information, or for an email reading, please be patient with me, I will do my best to get back to everyone as soon as I can.

I am going to have someone do up a new website for me.  It will take some time, but I should have a new amazing site up in the next few months.

Which brings me to my next thing.  I am going to hire someone for administrative support.  If you are looking for some part time work, this is what I need:

Must be extremely computer literate.  Once my new website is done, I will need someone who can transfer content, one page at a time without changing any code on the page (except what needs to be changed).  Experience with Aweber, Social Media (Facebook, Google +, Twitter), Windows, Word, Outlook, making memes, etc.  And of course anything else I that comes up.  I’m not sure if I will need someone physically in my space ~ probably not, although if you are local, help with filing would be awesome, I’m way behind in that as well.

I will wrap this post up for now, hope you are doing amazingly well!

With Love (and some excitement for all of us for the 2016 year thrown in!!)




Here is an email I received after the Energy Healing/Clearing in December.  Yes, things can shift this much, and in this many areas:

Hi Tamara! And Happy New Year!

The last 3 weeks has been a real game changer for me, to say the least. I have learned how effective this energy work and healing really is. The biggest reason why I joined the 21 Day Energetic Healing and Clearing was to get help with grounding my energy in general; or my lack of energy and over abundant energy (at the same time) to be exact. LOL! I have discovered that attitude & gratitude are my key components to having my energy grounded, healed & “realigned”. I can literally feel the change, the shift, and the healing. Thank you for working through it with us.

Each day as I did my gratitude work & contemplation time (yes I discovered I do my best meditation lying down & I am OK with that) the things that I had been holding onto for such a long time just lifted and released. Especially the relationships that were not serving me and the negative thoughts I have had for years around them. My mantra through the last 3 weeks when I got any kind of stinking thinking as I call it, is to tell myself, “IT”S NOT MY MONKEY!” then let it go and change my thought: like I would change the subject if I didn’t want to talk about something. And it works. I have had to let go at least in my own mind some family relationships that became one sided on my side. And I have come to the understanding that if they are to be rekindled it will have to be from their side. I can’t give out to them anymore, but I will most certainly if they want to breathe some life into them. And although it is not the norm for me I am OK with it. I have accepted that reality. For me that’s pretty much my whole battle is to get out of my own way and leave things be.

Since about the first week or so I have not had the exhausted – energy serge in my body; I still lay down a lot but I do my meditating instead of sleeping. I don’t feel depressed like I did, that has almost totally lifted. I have also realized that because I am empathic I need to cleanse my aura, my chakras etc. more. I live in a 55+ condo (we are actually a registered village in Abby) that has 500+ people residing and I think Ron & I are the youngest ones here. The average age is like 80 and I feel there is a lot of negative, depressed vibes that maybe get passed to me, psychically. We have only been here like 2 years and all of this really bad depressed, negative energy etc. stuff for me started really bad when we moved in here. So I am going to start smudging a lot and really soul cleansing often during the day to get rid of any residual crap from others in our little village here. I always feel better after doing a reading because I release any energy that I have tapped into. So that’s something huge & wonderful I have learned in the last 21 days.

Prior to these 21 days the feeling was one of real indescribable urgency. Like if something didn’t shift I would literally explode. Around mid-December I had a really bad surge of energy and it physically hurt, like crazy. I even went for a drive and ended up at my sons place and he could notice I was really in pain. So I explained the feeling, like restless leg x a million through my whole body. So I went home, went to bed and woke up the next day at a normal time (7am) with a completely different feeling, a real calmness. I knew whatever was pent up for so long was gone, done and finished with. And I did my gratitude work that day with a whole different exuberance! Pretty much every day since I have been able to go to bed early (by midnight LOL!) and get up at a decent time, by 8am with a whole different mindset. That’s the key for me to change my mindset. My circadian rhythm is actually starting to get in sync. I have decided I need to make life about me first, then bring it out to my surroundings. If I am not centered and balanced I can’t help anyone. I am a helper & a nurturer. I am a healer. Man that makes my soul feel good to say that. I have always said it like I was ashamed of it or afraid of what people would say about it. I have always questioned it but after these 21 days it is as clear as crystal for me. I have been a healer all my life. That is my soul purpose for this life and the ones gone past. But I have to be OK first, and then I can bring it to others. I think maybe this is why I have been learning how to effectively deal with my own energy so I can help others to learn to deal with theirs or be able to clear theirs for them so they can take the next steps?? There is always a reason why we have experiences right?? Oh man I am so grateful beyond belief for this light bulb moment and your help!!

I have always been a vivid, in color, full on dreamer and it has magnified during the 21 days. Going forward I will record them nightly. I get a lot of my visions and answers about life & healing from my dreams, both waking and asleep. I can literally ” awake daydream” something into existence. Weird but true. I will be doing more studies on this because it is such a HUGE part of my life. I always said if I had a nickel for every novel I could have written just from the story lines I’ve dreamed I would be rich. Well maybe there is something more to it. Since I started the 21 days the dreams are even more vivid (didn’t know they could get any more real & vivid) and quite prophetic but I don’t know the relevance of them yet. Maybe it can aide me more in my Tarot readings??? We shall see; but my mind is clearer and it feels so, so, soooooo different. Pinch me please!
I am really looking forward to the next 6 months or so rather than dreading even stepping foot out of bed. That right there alone has been worth the 21 days.

I will continue to do the chakra cleaning once a month at least if not daily and release shit from my life as it comes up. No more holding onto stuff, people, things, thoughts, patterns, beliefs, habits, and food etc. that does not serve me to my highest good. Even my hubby Ron said he notices a big change in me. He said my step seems lighter and I don’t seem so depressed. Don’t get me wrong it is a daily struggle but I don’t feel the same dread & urgency that I did. Ron is even OK with making some positive changes in himself in the next while. WTF!!!! That fricken blew me away. He came home on Thursday, the day after the earthquake and I told him how scary it was for me. About an hour or so later, we were both lying down because I didn’t sleep well after the quake and he said sorry for the first time EVER. His words exactly were, “he was soooooo very sorry I had to go through feeling so overwhelmed and scared and he was sorry I had to be alone through it.” He’s never said sorry to anyone especially me for anything ever since I’ve known him. His whole negative attitude is changing because he sees a positive change in me maybe??? Don’t know but I am for sure going to keep this on a roll; maybe negative and depressed causes negative and depressed?? If I change myself for me maybe this will spark a change for him and those who see the change in me?? Maybe I will be a ripple effect out to all in my world?? Maybe that’s all the focus & purpose I have needed all this time to save my life and my marriage?? These 21 days was my last resort. And by golly it is working. Thank you so much!!

There are so many more things to say but you get the picture. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing the stand in work for us and doing the energy healing. It was so worth the time and effort! I have learned so fricken much!! I will do it again in the future. It would be good for me to do at least twice a year.

With much love and blessings to you . . . Star*

(link to Star’s website:  www.Readingsbystar.com)

Meditation: Clearing The Past From The Emotional & Mental Bodies

clearing the past meditation


I looked up this meditation for myself last night and gave it a listen and I liked it so I’m sharing it with you.  We cleared out all summer long, and the energy of September is helping us clear out even more now.  Mercury being retrograde also brings up things (people) from our past at times and this can bring to our attention things that we thought we were “over” but aren’t.

For some of us its like we had a dirty bucket full of water.  We have thrown out all the murky water over the last three years and now we are scrubbing out the bottom of the bucket.  The good news is, its almost clean of anything that is holding us back.

Anyway, this meditation from Ellaeenah JadeFire just might assist with some residual energy that might be ready to go.

Its okay if you want to turn it on before bed and you end up falling asleep to it, it will still help.

Meditation: Clearing The Past From The Emotional & Mental Bodies



If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.

Empaths and Psychic Vampires ~ It isn’t always what it seems

Okay, so this post is for all of you that can relate to being an empath.  You can see what an empath is here.

I am a HUGE empath.  I feel things from friends, family, emails and phone calls.  I am constantly having to ground my energy and consciously disconnect from other people.

Some mornings I am really not myself and I kind of know it.  I have feelings and thoughts that are not ‘normal’ for me.  Or I will have a physical feeling or ailment that I have never had before.  On the one hand, I know its not my ‘normal’, but on the other hand I feel it as if it is mine.  Emotional, physical, spiritual, doesn’t matter what the subject, sometimes I just don’t feel like myself.

Chances are, on mornings like this, I have a client coming later that I am picking up on.  A lot of the time I can recognize it for what it is, but other times my husband has to say “is it you?” because he can recognize that I am not myself.

If you ever find yourself saying “I’m not my normal self today”, chances are you have picked up on someone else’s energy.

psychic vampire

So Why the Post about Empaths and Psychic Vampires?

Because not all the people we label a ‘psychic vampire’ is really a psychic vampire.  I myself am still a work in progress as far as recognizing this goes.

Thing is, I have had people in my life that I thought were psychic vampires, but then I realized it wasn’t them it was me!

I am a healer and a helper.  That is how I was born and that is how I am choosing to live my life.  It is my path and my job and it is how I support myself.

What sometimes happens to people like me, and you if you are an empath, is that we care so much that when we get together with a friend (or client, family), that is going through a rough time we take on a part of their pain.  WE TAKE IT.  They don’t ‘suck the life out of us’ ~ we take it!

For the average person, they can sit with someone and listen to their woes and be compassionate and be a good ear.  This is helpful.

For empaths, we tend to sit and listen, feel their pain, and then we take it and transmute it for them.  Without them asking, without them taking, without them even knowing.  Sometimes they may recognize that they feel way better after they talk to you; what they don’t know though is that you can sometimes feel horrible afterwards.

You are now walking around in someone else’s energy.  You may find you are sad, or have physical ailments come up, or just not ‘feel like your normal self’.

You love the people in your life, but sometimes you really need to be alone ~ sometimes you find you even need to be alone for days or weeks!

If you think you are an empath, and you think that there are psychic vampires around you, maybe it is time to empower yourself and learn to be compassionate and caring without taking negative energy, problems or ailments from others all the time.

I understand how hard this can be ~ I still take on other peoples crap all the time and don’t even recognize it until later; but perhaps if you recognize this in yourself you will be better able to cope with being an empath.

I suggest that before you go to certain places or hang out with certain people, you do a psychic protection for yourself.

Then, if you don’t feel 100% well afterwards, do a clearing meditation.  Whether it is to cut etheric cords, or to just generally clear out your aura, you may find it helps.

Or you could take the advice that I got from my peeps and just stop it!


If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.

If you want to hear what others have said about their readings you can check that out on my Psychic Reading Testimonial/Review page.