Which Path Should I Take?

Sometimes it really does not matter all that much which direction you decide to head in.  No matter what happens through your lifetime, you CANNOT FAIL on your journey here.  We are here to have experiences, to live life to the fullest, to enjoy ourselves, and to love.

In these photos, as much as they all look very different, each of these paths will all take you to the same place.  Every one of them.  The path you go down, and the direction you take will alter your experience for sure.  However, if you want to head up-river and make it to the Bridge (as in these pictures), you will get there no matter which of these paths you take.

You can see clearly from the pictures that the scenery is quite different; some appear easier, some appear prettier, or harder, or muckier, or more boring.

From this vantage point, the choice really is yours.  Which path do you want to follow?  Which would make your life the most interesting to you?  Or the most comfortable if comfort is what you prefer?  The shortest?  The direction is in your hands…

If you need some help deciding which path will give you the experience you want in your life, maybe I can help. Visit this page to see more about Psychic Readings.


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There is Nothing “Wrong” With You

We are going through some interesting times indeed.  There are so many energetic changes going on.  They have been happening for quite a few years now and every time the energy shifts, our lives change.  With every shift in planetary energies, I get new clients contacting me to find out what is wrong with them.  Things feel so different and uncomfortable.

I am here to tell you, that there is nothing wrong with you.  You, along with everyone else here, made a choice to be born into this body, at this time.  The world is Ascending, and we came here to help her with the Ascension process.

This is no easy task sometimes.  You have Ascended into a new Dimension, your DNA has changed and is changing still.  Many of the systems that have been set up by man that are not sustainable are changing, and YOU are a part of that.  There is nothing wrong with you, except that you are thinking that something is wrong with you.

Now I know first hand what it is like to feel as if something is wrong with me.  Being born with the ability to connect with Source Energy in a way that not many people could can make one feel like an outsider.  Especially when those around you think that you are ‘different’, or odd, or strange ~ or worse yet, lying.

If you are reading this, chances are, you ARE different than a lot of the people on the planet right now.  This is a GOOD thing.  You are here to help.  You might not know it, or you might know it and not know how, but just by being open to reading this, you are different.  You have now consciously become a part of the change.

Different is NOT a bad thing.  Especially now.  “Different”, is becoming the new normal.  The more you embrace what you know and feel, and trust that you are right where you need to be, the more people will come into your life that are just like you.  There are so many people on earth that are like me now.  It is exciting.  It makes me less “different”.  I am working with a lot of people who are just now coming into their ‘abilities’, and learning how they are connected to Source, and I am teaching them to listen to their connections, and it is wonderful.

Sometimes though, when you start to listen to Source, you realize just what is not working in your life.  You can have some things happen that feel disturbing when you start to embrace the new energies.  This has happened to me a few times over the past two decades.  I understand how much discomfort it can bring.  Every time though, I have come out the other side with more knowledge, less baggage, and a feeling of having ‘finally made it’.

Last year was no different.  There were astrological influences, and the Chinese “Year of the Snake” (shedding old ‘skins’), and the changes in the frequencies of the planet.  For many of you it was very challenging.  We are coming into a new time this month though and things will start calming down a bit if you just stop worrying that there’s something wrong with you.

You cannot get where you are going, by staying where you are.  That’s it, in a nutshell.  If you have some ‘baggage’, or belief systems, or people in your life that are holding you in the same old pattern, they MUST BE RELEASED before you can move on.  Just as you cannot throw your entire house onto the roof of your car when you move across the country, you cannot take all your old patterns and systems with you when you decide to energetically move somewhere else.

It seems like every time I am ready to take things to a new level, or a different place, I get thrust into illness, or depression, or just a feeling of being lost.  This has happened to me enough times over the years that I can now recognize it for what it is.  It is Ascension.

When you think about what you want to change in your life, the first thing that needs to change is your vibration.  As your vibration raises, anything that is not serving your highest and best good has to go.  Sometimes your vibration changes so much that you feel physically ill, or unable to sleep, or unable to wake up and function normally.  The easiest way through this is to support yourself.  You do not ever support yourself by asking yourself what is wrong with you.

Would it not be easier to say to yourself, “I am changing, this will pass, I release all resistance, the Universe will take care of me, I will be fine”, rather than “What the hell is wrong with me, why can’t I feel better!”

I guarantee that if you focus on the fact that you will indeed get better if you are just patient with the process of releasing what is no longer serving you, the shift will happen that much quicker.

Asking “What is wrong with me?” will just keep you in a vibrational space of creating more things going wrong.

It is not always easy to just go with the flow.  We are so programmed to be like everyone else.  Programmed to be busy, work hard, look good, be everything to everyone, put everyone else first, not be greedy, the list could go on forever.  No wonder we are constantly asking “What is wrong with me?”

You need to take care of YOU.  (this one was hard for me too, but I think I’m getting it more and more all the time).  If you take care of you, then you will be better able to ‘be there’ for those around you.  If you do nothing else for yourself this year, at the very least take “What is wrong with me?”, out of your vocabulary.

We are all in this together.  None of us are alone.  We are all one, Ascending together with this planet.  Please treat yourself how you would treat others.  Support yourself, allow yourself to release things, get rest if that is what you need.

We are in a New Year with new astrological and energetic frequencies.  Allow yourself to gallop forward with this New Year of the Wood Horse if that is what you are feeling now.

I am doing a lot of psychic coaching/mentoring and “Personal Training for the Soul” now, much more than just plain old Psychic Readings.  Helping YOU to get where you need to be rather than just dictating what will be happening in your life.  You are a Creator, YOU create what you want.  A Psychic can help to get you there, but it is no longer necessary to submit and surrender to what you have created so far in your life.  If you aren’t liking it, change it.

If you would like my help to move forward with your plans, hopes and dreams, to learn how to connect to Source for yourself, contact me and I will be happy to help.

Be Careful Who You Listen To

I have come across an awful lot of people lately that are calling themselves “psychic” that simply ARE NOT!

Some are offering “intuitive readings” and charging a heck of a lot of money for them.  Not all of these people are operating from the LIGHT.  The majority that I have come across (some I have met in person, some just online), are not psychics, and they are operating from a place of their EGO.

They have learned to listen to their intuition ~ good for them.  YOU also have an intuition, whether you know it or not.  I could easily teach you how to listen to it.  Heck, you could just decide to start listening to it and voila!  You are now “an intuitive” (everyone is).

This DOES NOT mean that you would be qualified to charge people money.  NOT if you are telling them you are ‘psychic’, and doing it to pad your own ego, rather than because you truly LOVE people.

It takes a LOT MORE than intuition to claim to be “psychic”.  If these people saw HALF what I see it would blow their freaking minds!

“Psychic readings”, do NOT start with “tell me all your problems and your questions, and I will “intuitively” tell you what to do.  THIS IS NOT A REAL READING/HEALING SESSION!!  PERIOD!!

I do not ever claim to know everything.  None of us do.  Our guides, loved ones, etc. do not want to tell us what to do.  Once someone crosses over, they really don’t care what colour you paint your kitchen, or what you do for work for the rest of your life.  It is your life.  LIVE IT!!

If someone starts to dictate your life for you, stop listening.  Stop the “reading”, stop everything.  I see all kinds of things.  Future things, past things, present things, potential things.  WHAT YOU DO WITH THE INFORMATION AND HOW YOU LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE IS UP TO YOU!

Readings are meant to empower you.  They are not meant to live your life for you.  They are not meant to pad the ego of the supposed “reader”.  They are for you, and when you are involved in one you should feel the love.

Not saying my readings are NEVER uncomfortable.  Sometimes confronting something that you haven’t wanted to confront can be difficult.  BUT, I really don’t remember the last time I told someone something that was uncomfortable for them that they didn’t already know (relationship over, job ending etc.).

I don’t get information that is going to screw up your life.  Why would LOVE do that to you?  It makes no sense at all.  Every being that I connect with comes from love ~ I ask for that and I intend that ~ no information that comes from love will ever hurt you (aside from the occasional bruised ego, but that’s easy to manage).

YOU ARE THE CREATOR.  Remember that.  Its important.  Don’t let some “intuitive”, tell you that you have no control over things.

When you get a reading, the person you are sitting with should be able to tell you at least a little bit about you from an energy perspective before asking you more than your name.  Not that your name is important, its just polite.

If you want a decent reading, there most certainly does need to be give and take.  I expect some questions, and I do want to know if what I am saying makes sense to you.  As stated earlier though, I do NOT need your birthdate, whole life story, the names of all your family members, every problem you ever had, etc. in order to help you.  They should be able to TELL YOU what kind of a life you had at home growing up, not the other way around.

Please don’t bother with ego ridden people that just want to prove ~ who knows what they want to prove  ~ most of them just parrot your own words back to you anyway.  They can do a lot of damage to you.  They parrot your words back, you think they are ‘psychic’ and then you begin to listen to everything their HUGE EGO tells you.

Okay, end of rant for now.

Much Love


Here is a great video by Carolyn Myss I came across today… (its part of what got me started….)

Notice when she mentions how many people are coming from a place of POWER, rather than EM-POWERING others.

What, How, When – Tell Me My Future

I would really like to clarify something about the future, “fortune telling”, psychic readings, talking to, or hearing from your guides, loved ones, angels etc.

You are a co-creator. To ask a psychic or clairvoyant what is going to happen in the future, without being willing to hear what you are in the midst of creating is a waste of your time. I, like most other psychics can accurately tell you what you are in the middle of creating. When we see what you are in the midst of creating, we can pretty accurately tell you what will happen in the future.
The problem with this mentality, and some psychic readings, is that when you focus on what the psychic has said is “Your Future”, and you refuse to listen to what a psychic might tell you about what you need to do IN THE PRESENT, you are robbing yourself of actually having a life of your own.

I won’t do this – tell a person that this is “your future” – anymore. I haven’t done this for quite some time. I always start off readings with what you are in the middle of RIGHT NOW. Of course I can accurately see what’s on the horizon, I’m clairvoyant. However, I don’t want to take control of, or try to create your life for you. Neither do your guides or your loved ones on the other side.

For those of us psychics who have managed to keep our ego’s in check, we focus on wanting to help EMPOWER you. Not live your life for you. There is nothing more disempowering than to say “HERE’S YOUR FUTURE, SUCK IT UP”, and then leave you hanging if it’s something you deem to be uncomfortable.

Do I sometimes see things that are in the works, on a roll and seemingly unstoppable? Yes, I do. But if I do, I also get information that will help you to make it through to the other side with the least possible problems or resistance.

Some of my clients are so focused on the HOW or WHAT of things that they miss an awful lot of good messages from their guides. A great example is concerning relationships. I get many questions every month about relationships. When will I meet them, who are they, where will I meet them, how will I meet them? More often than not, when I get these kinds of questions, the first place your guides will go with me is to tell me where you are RIGHT NOW. They may share some of your past relationship information with me, or your upbringing, or where you are now, where you are vibrating with your energy, what you are attracting. But most importantly, what they share with me is WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF, WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR ENERGY, RIGHT NOW to enable you to find your perfect match.

So many of you don’t want to hear this. You throw your entire life into the hands of a psychic and say “Tell me what will happen”. Your guides, and me, would much rather tell you how you can find your soul mate than telling you that you are going to have another relationship exactly like the last one, or that it will take you 10 years to find them. Wouldn’t you much rather hear how to heal yourself, and change your energy vibration than to put your future in someone else’s hands?

Now I KNOW there’s a lot of people who will say, NO to that question, “tell me what will happen”. And all I can say is, go and find another psychic. This one WILL NOT take control of your life away from you.

All that being said, can I see the future? Yes, as I stated before I am a clairvoyant. Can I see who your mate is, what they look like, do for work, when you will meet them etc.? Yes, a LOT of the time. But often the information comes WITH OTHER INFORMATION about where you are now and what steps you need to take to get yourself ready for this relationship. If you do not take care of what needs to be taken care of with your own stuff, then you could meet your absolute soul mate, not be ready for them, and send them packing. Who knows how long it would take you to either re-connect with them or connect with someone else that you agreed to meet up with while living this life. Or, you could actually change your own future by changing what you are thinking, feeling and doing in your life.

The more healing that you need on a soul level, the more your reading will focus on you, your past, the present, and what you can do to heal yourself. Your guides want you to be able to move forward with a clean slate, and the only way to do that is to know where you are at and what you need to let go of.

I have used ‘significant other’ relationships as an example in this blog post, but truly the message is the same for all ‘issues’ I get in psychic readings. Career, family/friend relationships, money, everything. YOU are co-creating your reality every moment of every day whether you realize it or not. Sometimes we need to create from the most basic space … where we are now.

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Prophecies and Religious Views

I’ve been thinking of writing a blog post for a while about fear and religion and how it fits in with what I do.  Those of you who have been clients for a long time, know the difference between a Fortune Teller and a Psychic and Medium and what I do.  When I connect with your energy, I can usually see where you have been, where you are and where you are headed.  I tell you what direction you are headed in and I assist you to make your own choices based on the path you are on.  You are either happy with the path and continue on, or you are not happy with it and make adjustments to change things.  It is so very rare when I see something for someone that seems like it cannot be adjusted.

I often have discussions with people about this.  Or maybe I should say, I often have people tell me that what I do is an “evil” thing that must be messages from Satan.  When I had my computer fixed in the fall, the fellow that fixed it deduced what I did based on the things that were on my computer.  He shared a scripture with me that included phraseology that said “our loved ones do not prophesize and they do not know what will happen in our future, if you get these messages then it is coming from Satan”.  I put this in quotes, but I am sure I haven’t quoted the scripture exactly, this is just what I got out of what he said.

I thought about what he said for a moment, and I agree with him except the part about coming from Satan.  I guess I’d never given it a lot of thought, but when loved ones come in to a reading to speak to you, they don’t tell you what is going to happen to you, they don’t come across as fortune tellers or try to tell you what to do.  For the most part they come to say hi and let you know that they are okay.  Your guides do the same thing ~ they guide you, they don’t tell you what you must do.  Your own intuition works this way too.  Ever have a feeling you shouldn’t go to a certain place, or take a certain route home, and then later found out that there was an accident on the road you avoided.  You weren’t told “you are going to be in an accident”, you were told, “take a different road”.  That is how a reading with me works.  You get signs and guideposts and an idea of where you are headed, what the road might look like and a ballpark idea of how long it might take you to get there ~ what you do with the information is up to you.

I just got an the following email last Friday:

From: Brad Daley [mailto:gcanuck2@gmail.com]
Sent: Friday, January 20, 2012 10:41 AM
To: tamaraha@telus.net
Subject: Witchcraft 

Deu 18:10  There shall not be found among you any one that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, or that useth divination, or an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch,

Deu 18:11  Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer.

Deu 18:12  For all that do these things are an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee.

You are bringing your followers under a curse. Expect judgement.

Wow.  Believe it or not, I get this a lot.   There is a TON of fear in this email and I think it’s a shame.  I can pretty much say for certain that I don’t do “witchcraft”.  I do however work with energy.  Working with energy is more science and quantum physics than witchcraft.  Not that I have an opinion on witchcraft either way ~ I just don’t know much about it, and I do know that energetically speaking ‘what comes around goes around’ so I leave it up to you to decide for yourself what this means.

I am kind of getting off topic as far as my first sentence above was written, but I guess one of the (many) points I want to make is that a lot of what is written in religious scripture is written in a way to disempower people.   Just as a psychic that is inexperienced or not working with the light may disempower you, so may certain religious words.  There is as much in the religious scriptures about positive, uplifting prophecy and people speaking and listening to God, as there is about negative “prophets”.

If you ask certain highly religious people they will tell you that the bible was written by God.  When you ask, “did God take human form and pick up a quill and ink, and pen it himself”, they say, “well, no, he channeled it through his prophets”.  Then they will continue on to tell you that prophecy is negative (see above email).  Only my opinion, but this seems pretty contradictory to me.   We can all work with Divine Love and Light, or we can chose to work with the darker or more negative energies that are out there.


Working with/as a Psychic Advisor

Is your psychic working with the light, or do they have their own agenda?

There are some psychics out there who try to control your life.  They will tell you what is going to happen and then tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, that it is preordained.  Some of these people thrive on control;  some just don’t know any better.  They get so caught up in the fact that they can see things, they don’t realize that a part of having this gift and working with the light is to empower people.  When they tell people that things are beyond their control, it is a form of disempowerment.

Most of us who were born with this gift have a deeper understanding of how it works.  We have a true desire to help people, not to control them.  Most of us work with the light.  Some work with darker forces though.  Most of us psychics working with the light, know that there are many paths one can take throughout their lifetimes and that it is up to you to decide what experiences you wish to have.  I believe I was given this gift to empower you to make your own choices, I have no desire to live your life for you.

There are a lot of online courses and exercises that teach you how to develop your own psychic abilities.  A lot of them are very good, here’s an example. Developing your psychic abilities.  The thing that most of them do not teach you is that you need to think of why you might want to develop these abilities.  Do you want to help others, or do you want to control others?  Psychic abilities are great, however, they are also a huge responsibility.  There are many people that have readings with me and base life decisions on what comes through for them.  It is important that if you do decide to do readings for others, you always keep in your heart that it is for the highest and best good of all.  When this is new to you and you realize that your own gifts are coming through, it can be easy to get caught up in the fact that you can see things for people and want to blow their minds with your ability to prophesize their futures for them.

The thing is, you also need to realize that people need to go their own way.  Just like you, they are here to have experiences.  We all are.  It is not always a good thing to try and see so much for someone that you take away the experience of living.  As psychics, we are here to guide and to help.  We work with your teachers, guides and higher selves to help you along.  Your guides do not tell you what to do, they put things in your path that might assist you if you decide for yourself to look into it further.   That is what psychics are for also.  To guide you.

As a medium I can often also connect with loved ones that have crossed on.  Your loved ones won’t tell you what to do either.  When they come through in a reading, they come through to let you know that they are there for you, they are safe and they are still with you.  They do not desire to live your life for you, they just want to support you.

Just remember that when working with the light, you are doing things for a person’s highest and best good.  It is never in someone’s highest and best good to disempower them by telling them that there is nothing they can do.  Encourage them to follow their inner light to make the right choices.

Happy 2012 Everyone

Just a quick update on my status because its been so long since I have done a post.

As of yesterday, I am snowed in.  What that means is I have a little extra time on my hands to do some phone psychic readings.

The majority of my plans have been changed for the week to include a lot of time at home.  Most of the places I would go around here involve using my car and its hard to drive a sunfire safely in a foot and a half of snow.

So, if you’ve been holding off because you know January is one of my busy times, you don’t need to.  I’ve got more time for you in the next few days.

Love Tamara




Do I NEED a Psychic?

The answer to this question is no. You don’t need me.

I probably don’t need my accountant either. I chose to use an accountant because it is much easier for me to hand my books over to a professional.  I have no desire to study for years so that I can do it myself.  I have no interest in looking at numbers and doing tax returns and all that comes with bookwork for hours on end.  It’s just not my thing.

I like to have a person that I can rely on, that is an expert in their field, that has taken the time to learn and continues to do so all the time, and that can help me.

Do I myself need a psychic? Not normally. However, before my Aunt passed away I’d call her occasionally to get a second opinion on something. Usually it was if I saw something for myself that was a little unclear, or more likely if I was just too close to the situation to be unbiased.

Many of my clients, and many of you reading this are intuitive, and just want a second opinion before moving ahead with something. Not everyone has the desire to study for years on how to listen to their intuition or their Higher Self. Life gets in the way, and developing intuition just might not be your thing.

So do you NEED me? No. Can I help? Yes. I am here to help with something if you don’t have time to meditate on it, or when you need a second opinion. Or if being intuitive just isn’t on your list of things to do.

Psychic Readings – Rate Adjustment

After getting some feedback from my clients, I have decided to change my rates again.   

I have had quite a bit of feedback over the past month, and there are a lot of people out there who would like my help but can’t quite afford a reading at this time.

So, effective today, my new lower rates will be reflected on the “psychic readings” page of my website.  These rates are for phone and in-person readings.

It was not my intention to make myself unavailable to you, as I truly do enjoy helping.

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