Sometimes I just don’t get anything.
Every so often, maybe once or twice a year, I have a client that for some reason, I can’t get correct information for. Sometimes its like I take a look and ‘nothing’. Other times, I feel like I might be connecting (and I am connecting to something), but it makes no sense to my client whatsoever.
It doesn’t happen very often and I almost never know why it happened, but I have learned to live with it. Generally if I have a client booked, I will sit and focus on their energy for a few minutes ahead of time and stuff starts flowing in.
Every time I meet with a client I start the talking part, I don’t want to have my mind engaged in someone’s life story before I allow information to flow. I sit and focus and feel. Then I will share what I am getting. Sometimes what I get is feelings, or a picture or words in my head, or a dead loved one pops in (or any other number of ways information comes in for me).
After I share the first feelings I look to my client to let me know if what I said makes sense to them, at least in some way. Most of the time it does. However, sometimes, I share what I get and the person just says, nope, makes no sense I don’t know what you are talking about.
At this point I will sometimes ‘look’ a little deeper, or see if there is any clarifying information that might help. When I do this deeper look, there is one of two things that I will ‘get’ or feelings, or words from my own peeps, whatever you want to call it; I either get clarifying information, or I get told, this won’t work.
I don’t get told why it won’t work, if I was going to be privy to that information, then I would likely be getting more for my client.
Thing is, I used to try. I would try and connect with/for someone. We would sit while I struggled to get information that was not going to be forthcoming in a helpful way anyway. (If it was, it would have already). I would try; my client was probably thinking “she sucks”, and then I would be so tired afterwards I would have to sleep for 4 hours.
So now, if I sit with someone and I share what I get and it makes no sense to them, I ask Spirit for more clarity and information. If that additional information makes no sense, I just ‘call it’. I say “I’m obviously not connecting, today is not the day”.
“Trying” to connect once it is clear to me via the energy I am getting is not correct, is useless. My client might get a little bit of helpful information, but after they leave, I would think to myself, “Wow, that was a lousy reading”.
My client would walk away thinking, “Wow, that was pretty expensive for the lousy reading I just got”.
Why couldn’t that Psychic Read Me?
So here is the thing. There are a million reasons why a psychic might not be connecting with you.
- There could be something a little ‘off’ with the psychic’s energy that day.
- Someone else’s energy is interfering (your friend, my friend, some other client of mine…etc.)
- There could be something a little ‘off’ with your energy that day.
- There could be too much fear or desperation energy coming from you.
- For some reason Spirit thinks the timing is bad.
- Maybe I refund your money and then two days later you find you need it desperately for something else (like a car repair), and end up being thankful that the reading didn’t work out and you now have that money to meet your other need.
See, it really can be a lot of different reasons, and I’ve only given you a list of 6 out of potentially millions.
Just know, that sometimes you are not meant to get a psychic reading from the person you are sitting across from. You can always try at a different time, with the same or a different psychic and if the timing is right then you will likely get a decent reading.
I have had clients come to me saying, “I’ve been to other psychics before and they couldn’t read me”. Just because one or two or three other people on one or two days couldn’t connect with you doesn’t make you ‘hard to read’. It means that on those days you were not meant to get a reading. Don’t talk your energy into being ‘hard to read’ because no one is really hard to read unless they are trying to hide things (either from themselves or others).
Psychic readings are energy, and you cannot push energy any more than you can push a river. It just flows (or it doesn’t).
Just know, that if you come to see me for a psychic reading, and its not flowing for me we will both know it in the first 5 minutes and I’m going to send you away rather than trying to make something happen that isn’t meant to happen.