How Long is it Going to Take for You to Realize You Are Not Broken

You are not broken, although there are certain aspects of life on earth that are.  You have spent so much time trying to improve, repair, release, and figure out what is wrong with you ~ you have convinced yourself that you need to be ‘fixed’.

What if there is nothing wrong with you?  What if you were to begin to realize that you are a perfect Child of God and that it is the whacked out ‘pretend’ matrix of the earth that has you all messed up?

I get it.  You are sensitive, so am I.  We feel things very deeply and the ails of the people around us and the world can really impact us in a huge way.  You sometimes feel things that don’t belong to you and they feel dense and fearful and like there is something inherently wrong with the planet.

Firstly, the planet is fine.  Second, you are fine.  Some of your discomfort comes from your sensitivity.  What is ‘wrong’, is that you have been programmed to think that what you want is somehow wrong.

You watch TV, you talk to people who watch TV.  You stare at your phone and watch cat (or goat) videos, you play video games, or you zone out on Facebook.  You look at people who are living a ‘certain type’ of life, and think that maybe you should be doing something else.

You are bored.  There is a big part of you that knows there’s more to life than this, but you are a prisoner.  You are stuck in your job, and/or the place you live.  It feels like a prison and that there’s no way out.  The reason for this is because everywhere you turn you are being told you are broken and need to be fixed.

What if you aren’t broken.  What if you are just stuck in a matrix and you don’t know how to get out.

Thoughts are Things; Everything is Energy; Intention is Everything

This is a big one and it can change your life to really ‘get it’.  You need to stop saying “I don’t know what is wrong with me”.  Or, “Something is wrong with me and I don’t know what it is, I need to fix it”.

I have done that; asked that question, and I will tell you now that it will lead to depression if you do not stop yourself from asking.  I have had other people’s energy attached to me and felt a bit ‘off’.  At least it started out that way.  After a while, instead of realizing what I was feeling wasn’t even my own ‘stuff’, I started to question things.  “What’s wrong with me, I’m so sad” or “OMG I am so sad, I don’t feel like I will ever feel good again, this came on so suddenly, there must be something wrong with me ~ I’m broken and I need fixing”.

If this has happened to you before, keep reading because:

Here is your Cure:

• Firstly, do some clearing meditations.  Ask Archangel Michael to help you.  Do a lot of them if need be.  One should do it, but sometimes your mind gets in the way and thinks you need more ~ if your mind & thoughts think you need more, then you need more.  Your thoughts create, so thinking you need more clearing, creates the need for more clearing.  You need to clear and then trust its okay.

• Make a conscious decision to disconnect from that which does not serve you.  Really.  I didn’t know this before, but as an Empath it is much easier to disconnect from the energy of others than I thought.  It mostly just takes practice.  Practicing to not take on others’ stuff, and practicing recognizing it and clearing it when you do.

• Practice awareness.  Be very aware of the words you are using and make sure they are for your “Highest and Best Good”.  Your self-talk is very important.  Don’t say “I take on the energy of others’ and I can’t help it”; instead say “I sometimes take on the energy of others and I am really good at diffusing negative energy, but every day I get better at letting it go”.

• “I don’t need to keep the energy I diffuse for others, I can let it go, and I do, EASILY”.  These are affirmations, and they will help you.  Just as being an empath is energetic, so are the affirmations.  Your thoughts/words to yourself will create your reality.  You can create something different.

• When you are going to talk to someone that you know impacts your energy, make a conscious decision ahead of time to protect your own energy and stay in your own energy.

• See an Energy Worker for help. I often help people with this during psychic readings and psychic coaching when its required.

What If You Don’t Need Healing so much as You Need To Let Go of What No Longer Serves You?

So many energy workers and healers are stuck in a really bizarre place.  They feel differently than most people do, they are in jobs with people who are stuck in unawareness and they feel like the life is being sucked out of them on a daily basis.

The world is waking up but there are still a lot of people on the planet that really don’t have a clue.  If you were to talk to them about ‘energy’ in the way I write they might think you are a bit loopy, or worse yet become afraid of you.

So, you don’t talk about it.  You try to fit in, to conform to what you think is ‘normal’.  To what you see on television, or hear about at work or at family gatherings.  Sometimes as you are listening to other people talk you think “Where am I?  Am I stuck in some weird movie where things that are not important are what seems important; and what I know and feel is really important is ignored?  Are these people crazy?  Am I crazy?  It must be me because they are all in agreement and I am the only one standing here talking to myself.”

I know there are a whole bunch of you that just read that last sentence and thought “OMG, I’m not the only one!!!!”

And nope, you’re not.  There are millions of us.  We just really need to learn to meet each other.  It starts with being your lovely self.  Other people that are like you won’t be able to find you if you hide.

You will need to be discerning though.  Sometimes if you go to a “metaphysical event” you will meet some pretty freaky woo woo people who think they are stuck and broken themselves (they think, therefore they are), and you won’t relate to them any more than I do.  However, you may also meet some people who are a little more down to earth, (like myself), that just like to hang out in decent energy.  I went to just such an event yesterday and most people there had very lovely energy and I made some new friends.

One of the reasons I don’t ‘work’ these events normally is because they attract people who want someone to fix their broken selves, and quickly.  They don’t want to take part in their own healing journey, they want someone to wave a magic wand and ‘bam!’ ~ all fixed, you broken soul.  Even better if they can get it for free!

Which leads me to…

I know a lot of beautiful wonderful energy workers and most of them that do work for others have a ‘day job’ that pays their bills.  They might charge for their services, but they charge very little because they believe (mistakenly), that they should be giving their services away for free.

They know that they cannot ‘heal’ anyone; all healing comes from within, so when someone comes to them essentially they heal themselves.  They have a really hard time getting their head around charging for something that seems so simple.  Or MORE COMMONLY, some of them think they aren’t “good enough” ~ this is a super common occurrence for those of us who are ‘different’ in this way.  After years of being told you are different or worse yet, broken it can take a while to begin to value yourself properly again.

This isn’t really fair to these energy workers, but it is their ‘belief’ that energy work is secondary to the matrix of slavery for money that is what made you feel broken to begin with.  I have done it before myself.  I used to have a day-job and charge less for my readings.  I helped way less people of course and it was harder to get in to see me.  It took me a long time to embrace the belief that I do help people, and that it is okay if I want to work my own hours, and live in a house, and take a trip every now and then.

I must say, that just because you are sensitive and different and feel ‘broken’ doesn’t mean that you have to turn your gifts into a career.  There are many light workers that work in other fields.  It doesn’t matter what you do, or where you work, or if you don’t work ~ just embracing all of your complete, unbroken self can work wonders for those around you and the world in general.

It Is Okay To Ask For Help, You Cannot Always Do It Yourself

As much as I know you are not broken, depending on the spot you are starting from it sure can feel like it sometimes.  I used to feel broken myself, and I have gotten some really good healing energy work from other healers.  I have an entire circle of healers that I consult for different things.  I don’t generally need to consult them very often because I get a lot from my own Spirit Helpers; but on the occasion that I do need help, I most certainly will HIRE one of them to help me.  Most of them are my friends, but they are also business women (just so you know, this is just who I have been led to for myself ~ there are men that do this work as well, just none that I have had the pleasure to work with).

It can take years to clear yourself of your stuff if you do it on your own without help, and it can get rather uncomfortable in the meantime.  So it is perfectly acceptable to work with someone who has been where you are, or at least knows how to help you on the next steps of your journey.

If I can be of assistance to you on your journey, I would love to help.  I do single appointments, Virtual Group Energy Clearing and Healing Sessions, and Psychic Mentoring and Coaching, as well.  You can contact me here to book your Empowering Perspectives coaching session or 12-week package.