I swear these are the most disempowering words in the English Language. Its not your fault. So many of you yearn to hear those words. So many of you use those words when you talk to yourself.
“Its not my fault”
Its not my fault the Law of Attraction doesn’t work. I can manifest small things, but not big things so the LoA must not work. I can manifest some things quickly, but not others. Its not my fault the Law of Attraction only works some of the time. I can manifest bad things almost instantly, but the good things take forever to show up, if they bother to show up at all.
I have some good news and some bad news. The Law of Attraction does work, and if it is not working in the way you would like it to, it is because you have some subconscious beliefs engrained in your energy.
That’s it. That is the good news and the bad news all in one sentence. How good or how bad it is depends on how you look at it.
I was having a discussion with a healer friend of mine last night and we were talking about our own manifestations in our lives. We were talking about all the positive things we were in the process of manifesting. We also talked about the seemingly ‘negative’, or more aptly put challenging things that we were going through.
The only difference between me and her and the rest of you, is that her and I both take 100% responsibility for what happens in our lives. We know we created it, we take credit for the good and the bad. When it is something ‘bad’ (uncomfortable), we both immediately ask ourselves the question, “Why is this happening, why did I create this for myself? What do I need to be aware of? Where in my life does something need to change and why?”
No blame of others, no blaming of ourselves, just questions that brings awareness.
You cannot fix what you don’t acknowledge. The minute you say, this is not my fault, I am doing everything right, I have no limiting subconscious beliefs, the Law of Attraction isn’t real, or something outside of me sucks, is the moment you give your power away and you start down the road of getting the ‘same old same old’. Nothing in your life can change.
This is your choice. But it doesn’t have to be that way. It doesn’t have to stay that way.
How do I start to clear subconscious blocks
Stop blaming energy for acting like energy.
Acknowledge that maybe there is something going on that you are not aware of.
All it takes is a whole bunch of self-awareness (it takes more than ‘a little’ self awareness, most of you reading this have some self awareness). The willingness to acknowledge that maybe your subconscious mind is tricking you and is in fact in control of your life.
If you had no subconscious blocks you would have what you want or at least know exactly why you didn’t have it. You would be able to see with your conscious mind exactly what was holding you back.
There are many modalities that can help you recognize and clear your blocks. Psych-K is one of them, the Millennium Method is another, a psychic reading with me can help you recognize and clear your blocks, Akashic Records readings can sometimes help.
You can get good at meditation and listen to your own Higher Self when it (*you), tells you what subject matter you need to work on. That is how I usually do it, (that or the Millennium Method) but I realize most of you are not interested in spending the time it takes to make this effective (that is why you hire others as mentioned in the previous paragraph to help you).
There are a lot of ways that you can find healing for yourself; but none of them will work if you don’t first acknowledge that you are responsible for your life, and if you want things to work out the way you hope they will, you will have to change something.
Stop saying “its not my fault, I think positive but things just never work out, these people who talk about the Law of Attraction are lying”. Start saying, “Wow, I have studied the Law of Attraction and I think I know how it works but I keep attracting things I don’t want, maybe I have a limiting belief that I need to acknowledge and clear”.
Then get to work and clear it.
If you need someone to help you look at your life from a fresh perspective and help you navigate changes in your life, to see if the changes you are considering are supported by Spirit, a psychic reading can help. You can contact me here.
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What an awesome post. I really like how you said, “When it is something ‘bad’ (uncomfortable), we both immediately ask ourselves the question, “Why is this happening, why did I create this for myself? What do I need to be aware of? Where in my life does something need to change and why?”” It still takes me a while to get to the point where I am questioning myself, but it has made all the difference in my life and in my personal development.
Thanks for sharing!
Keep up the good work Alicia, you will get to the point where you bring awareness into every situation in your life. Its liberating when you get there because you end up realizing that how you are feeling is totally within your control.